Well, a straight guy might have hidden gay part of him waiting for the chance to reveal. LOL
do you think all gays were born gays? Some of them just tried things out and liked it and decided to remain that way. I know some friends in The States who were normaly straight then suddenly turned into gays.
wmhizon: According to Wikipedia and the World Factbook of the C.I.A...
"Qatar has the most heavily skewed sex ratio in the world, with 1.8528 males per female."
So I think women won't have that problem in Qatar. (Unless they're married then this fact is useless.)
Anyway, back to the topic:
If the guy's just my boyfriend, I'd break up with him and make him my bestfriend. I love gay guys. They always tell you what to wear and make sure you look hot when you're with them.
If he's already my husband... well... it would suck because I don't believe in divorce. But we can still be bestfriends. I'm sure it's not his fault he found out too late. :P At least someone can help me pick clothes, do my make up, teach the kids how to flashdance and give me a nice hairdo on special occassions.
Well,i have no problems with them,sometimes they are the best friend a woman could have.They are not intrested in anything else then friendship and they understand more of woman feelings as many hetero.
Yes... scarlet, it will hurt so much and maybe take long time to forget him but by time we will find our own happiness if we believe we can and keep searching. after all, is good that we have gay friends right??? good for gossiping and talk about fashion. LOL
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
If I found out my husband gay, I would divorce him and move on with my life. Because doesn't matter how we love each other, we never get total happiness inside. So why bother???
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
That's a bit extreme, don't you think? If he was hitting on your son's friends, then he'd be a pedophile..and just because he's gay, doesn't make him a pedophile ...Besides if you used logic like that..then spouses in every marriage, gay or straight, would be hitting on the children's friends...
Some men really don't realize they are gay until one day the attraction just gets too strong for other men. They'd been told all their lives that you should only be attracted to the opposite sex..so they played the part...then when they grow up enough to be strong enough to admit they are gay..they admit it to their families and society. I've seen it happen.
I truly believe that some people are born with homosexual or lesbian tendencies..its not an illness and can't be "cured" by brain washing. So why not let these folks live their lives as they choose?
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)
wake uP!!! U CAN NEVER MAKE A DOG'S CURLY TAIL STRAIT!!! IF U BE WITH DIS MAN, GET MARRIED , EVEN PRODUCE A KID, A BOY PERHAPS.........HELLO !!!!sOONER OR LATER HE'S GONNA START HITTIN ON UR SON'S FRIENDS>I SAY dUMP HIM AND gET A life!
I'd be mad at him for pursuing a relationship with me, and for not telling me the truth earlier; however, I would understand his circumstances. So I would definitely leave him, but in a diplomatic way (no hating or name calling or anything) but I would be very hurt.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
or in this case...LIVE A LIE. Closet queen *(as we fondly call them) faces a hard life, whether to suppress it or give in. It's PURE TORMENT...
The (gay) men that got married , had kids and family tries their best to live a normal life...be the MAN they knew they are.
But sometimes, they could not help it if they were born or inclined to be effeminate. We can always say everything we wanna say about "THEM" but in the end... think about this...
Aside from the sexual orientation...do they differ from us?
I'm a vocal PRO-GAY...why? because I AM.
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
Why don't you save us and save yourself the trouble and take a survey with you and go down to the streets or go directly to Dairy Queen and ask those GAYs .. may I know please how did you end up being like that? Sorry ... I mean, Gay, Bading ... or whatever ...
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
This is not about being in a closet, I feel that it is more about cheating, betraying the wife and the family. They should have enough courage before they get married to accept and admit that they are gays.
Don't think that anything would be a good excuse for any of them to do that later, life free or die gaaaayyyy ...
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
go to FFC Al Nasr branch. check the medics shelves. Get good quality rubber and lube. Ask the cashier to give you the "instructions book" on how to become gay. Good luck
environment as I can't believe that someone would be born gay or lesbian. Some guys were married, having even kids and then will leave everything behind to become gays ...
Please don't tell me that this is natural or got nothing wrong with it ... just one example that shows it is not natural in most [if not all] of the cases ...
One more thing, how can a woman reach that level in her relation with a guy without realizing that he is a gay? Just a thought ....
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
I was watching Oprah a few years back and there was this case of this married guy who had surgery to have his sex changed and, guess what, she did not divorce him, they carried on being married.
I have a close friend who was forced to go to one of these "camps." It was more like mental torture and even 20 years later she suffers from the horrible things they told her.
Some said its inborn... Meaning u cant changed them as in NEVER... They are women who trapped in the mens body!
Some said its depend on their enviroment... Social factor? depends on who & what kind of surroundings they will grow...
Some said its a kind of illness... Incurable!
Their population getting bigger & bigger even though gays dont have the ability to give birth! Maybe they are like Gremlins! Once the get wet they multiply! JOKE! =p Hahahaha!
But no matter what or kind they are...
Gays are still a human being that have the right to live & to be love... (by same sex???=))
Am i still want to be his GF or wife after i found out the truth? Well depends on the situation & the intensity of my love for him & if his still willing to changed for me...
If he cant?
Well.....GOOD BYE!!!
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
wow. what a shaitan (satan) . he is getting powerful by the day.
and what software does he use PM.
i would love to get hold of that and try to put a lot of sence to the nonsensical people around. Of course i will have to debug the older version of shaitan's software.
depend the circumtances, if you have small childrens and can't afford live alone taking care of them, better stick with him till the appropriate time is coming.
If you have no children and you are fine living without him, diched him in the minutes you found out he is going the other way. why bother living a lie. you deserved to be loved completely.
If you think he get treatment and back to normal then you should support him.
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
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its one thing if he is not sure what woman he wants but if he want men give up! guy dont like to be changed neways, were way too stubborn for that
Mitch
At least ur gay husband or bf will able now to help you in fixing or choosing ur clothes, curling your hair and putting ur make ups!
He will not ask you anymore why it takes u so long in preparing your self... because he also doing it too! lol!
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
kellysHeroes, LOL, I cannot answer for that since I am far away from being a lesbo. LOL
Me, Myself, & I
What happens if you husband discover that you are lesbian
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Hoplessly: U never know... like mila says its a messed up world out there.
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"Be Like a Flower, Which gives off it's fragrance
even to the hand that crushes it."
thexonic, LOL yeah yeah that would make life easier huh?
Me, Myself, & I
Or the girl should become a shemale... that would help spicing up a messed up relationship.
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"Be Like a Flower, Which gives off it's fragrance
even to the hand that crushes it."
Well, a straight guy might have hidden gay part of him waiting for the chance to reveal. LOL
do you think all gays were born gays? Some of them just tried things out and liked it and decided to remain that way. I know some friends in The States who were normaly straight then suddenly turned into gays.
Me, Myself, & I
can a straight guy turn to a gay any time in his life?
I would leave him for whatever makes him happy...
I would break up with him but remain friends. He will need the support, Coming out of the closet isn't easy.
Wmhizon, only an estimated 11% of the male AND female population is gay.
Visit www.qatarhappening.com
a nice way to think about it hopelessly...
If I find out my BF is gay? mmmmmmm. I will introduce him to my male friends. LOL
Well, at least it is better than finding out he is cheating on me with another girl.LOL
Me, Myself, & I
i wud say if u love the person and he can change.. stay wid him.. if not just say bye bye.. its time u find a guy for urself.. lol
whoa.. dis is one hell of a thread...
hmmmm.....
gay pole dancer
"Everything in life is destiny."
I want to break free...I feell like a well paid slave here...
oww...
you can put nail polish together...
do lil make up
and dress up.
"Everything in life is destiny."
if he prefer to choose a man more than a woman..
then what could be the reason to stay?
"Everything in life is destiny."
wmhizon: According to Wikipedia and the World Factbook of the C.I.A...
"Qatar has the most heavily skewed sex ratio in the world, with 1.8528 males per female."
So I think women won't have that problem in Qatar. (Unless they're married then this fact is useless.)
Anyway, back to the topic:
If the guy's just my boyfriend, I'd break up with him and make him my bestfriend. I love gay guys. They always tell you what to wear and make sure you look hot when you're with them.
If he's already my husband... well... it would suck because I don't believe in divorce. But we can still be bestfriends. I'm sure it's not his fault he found out too late. :P At least someone can help me pick clothes, do my make up, teach the kids how to flashdance and give me a nice hairdo on special occassions.
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www.GAMERGIRL.tk
According to the latest survey...
The ratio of men to women at present is
1:3 (1 men = 3 women)
Do u think gals that its too unfair for us because they (gays) also like men.
To think that we have a shortage of men on earth... Thinking that 20% of mens population are gays and they continue increasing...
Maybe the ratios will soon be
1:3:2 (1 men = 3 women = 2 gays)
Hahahahaha!
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
wow....wht a joke
which movie you refer to wmhizon? Brokeback Mountain????
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
Guys correction...
I didnt asked this question because im suspecting my hubby... and i am not in that situation...OK? hahahahaha!
Im 100% so sure that my husband is a REAL STRONG MEN... lol! =p
It just came out in my mind yesterday after i watched a movie similar to this...
I just want to get QL reactions re this issue...
Thanks for the response...=)
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
What will u do if u find out that ur BF or husband is a gay???
Will keep your mouth shut unless there is no other way.....
Well,i have no problems with them,sometimes they are the best friend a woman could have.They are not intrested in anything else then friendship and they understand more of woman feelings as many hetero.
Thats my point of view.
:-)
Yes... scarlet, it will hurt so much and maybe take long time to forget him but by time we will find our own happiness if we believe we can and keep searching. after all, is good that we have gay friends right??? good for gossiping and talk about fashion. LOL
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
If the husband is gay. Then ity will be one of 2 cases. If not both of them:
1. He is having an affair with a boyfriend
2. He is not up to the expectations on all if not most levels
If (1) is true then the wife should be very cautious while making love. Let aside having to use condom all the time to avoid STDs
If (2) is true, then it is up to the wife if she wants to enjoy having a human statue
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that'd be exactly what I'd do too...but, still would hurt immensely...
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)
If I found out my husband gay, I would divorce him and move on with my life. Because doesn't matter how we love each other, we never get total happiness inside. So why bother???
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
That's a bit extreme, don't you think? If he was hitting on your son's friends, then he'd be a pedophile..and just because he's gay, doesn't make him a pedophile ...Besides if you used logic like that..then spouses in every marriage, gay or straight, would be hitting on the children's friends...
Some men really don't realize they are gay until one day the attraction just gets too strong for other men. They'd been told all their lives that you should only be attracted to the opposite sex..so they played the part...then when they grow up enough to be strong enough to admit they are gay..they admit it to their families and society. I've seen it happen.
I truly believe that some people are born with homosexual or lesbian tendencies..its not an illness and can't be "cured" by brain washing. So why not let these folks live their lives as they choose?
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)
Guys. are u again goin to do bickkering or help guide wmhizon for the solution.
do read the purpose of thread and if u guys still have to talk about morality of homos... y not a seperate thread
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wake uP!!! U CAN NEVER MAKE A DOG'S CURLY TAIL STRAIT!!! IF U BE WITH DIS MAN, GET MARRIED , EVEN PRODUCE A KID, A BOY PERHAPS.........HELLO !!!!sOONER OR LATER HE'S GONNA START HITTIN ON UR SON'S FRIENDS>I SAY dUMP HIM AND gET A life!
I could easily say i'll STAY with him and support him...kinda unrealistic. I could say that because it's a hypothetical question.
in reality, I won't know until i would face that situation. With emotions brimming, words and actions are spontaneous...
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
I'd be mad at him for pursuing a relationship with me, and for not telling me the truth earlier; however, I would understand his circumstances. So I would definitely leave him, but in a diplomatic way (no hating or name calling or anything) but I would be very hurt.
I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield
or in this case...LIVE A LIE. Closet queen *(as we fondly call them) faces a hard life, whether to suppress it or give in. It's PURE TORMENT...
The (gay) men that got married , had kids and family tries their best to live a normal life...be the MAN they knew they are.
But sometimes, they could not help it if they were born or inclined to be effeminate. We can always say everything we wanna say about "THEM" but in the end... think about this...
Aside from the sexual orientation...do they differ from us?
I'm a vocal PRO-GAY...why? because I AM.
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
Why don't you save us and save yourself the trouble and take a survey with you and go down to the streets or go directly to Dairy Queen and ask those GAYs .. may I know please how did you end up being like that? Sorry ... I mean, Gay, Bading ... or whatever ...
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
what about u ?
do u know how a person becomes gay ?
This is not about being in a closet, I feel that it is more about cheating, betraying the wife and the family. They should have enough courage before they get married to accept and admit that they are gays.
Don't think that anything would be a good excuse for any of them to do that later, life free or die gaaaayyyy ...
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
Dont we girls need real men?
really nobody knows ? and what about u spice?
go to FFC Al Nasr branch. check the medics shelves. Get good quality rubber and lube. Ask the cashier to give you the "instructions book" on how to become gay. Good luck
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environment as I can't believe that someone would be born gay or lesbian. Some guys were married, having even kids and then will leave everything behind to become gays ...
Please don't tell me that this is natural or got nothing wrong with it ... just one example that shows it is not natural in most [if not all] of the cases ...
One more thing, how can a woman reach that level in her relation with a guy without realizing that he is a gay? Just a thought ....
------------------------------------ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
I was watching Oprah a few years back and there was this case of this married guy who had surgery to have his sex changed and, guess what, she did not divorce him, they carried on being married.
is this a trick question?
life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......
hey!
anybody know how a person becomes guy ?
how actually it happens ?
thank u
fembot's opinion: gays are fun to be with. they have a wild imagination
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One of the hardest things for us to do in our human nature is to just stop what we are doing to allow God to produce in us what only He can produce.
s-m-i-l-e
i used to have gay-friend before, i kicked him off because he start using my designer shoes.
bad joke....
lots of comments when u hav a lesbian or a gay topic..
marriage in the first place would be because he/her was afraid of society's view on his/her sexuality.
If it wasn't a problem within his/her society, then the marriage would never have happened and so no-one would be hurt.
Profound or what.
you are spot on!
why live a lie? and yes my partner would have lied to me - my life is worth more than someone else's lies.
PM,
I have a close friend who was forced to go to one of these "camps." It was more like mental torture and even 20 years later she suffers from the horrible things they told her.
tra la la
smack him soo much that he comes to his senses.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Some said its inborn... Meaning u cant changed them as in NEVER... They are women who trapped in the mens body!
Some said its depend on their enviroment... Social factor? depends on who & what kind of surroundings they will grow...
Some said its a kind of illness... Incurable!
Their population getting bigger & bigger even though gays dont have the ability to give birth! Maybe they are like Gremlins! Once the get wet they multiply! JOKE! =p Hahahaha!
But no matter what or kind they are...
Gays are still a human being that have the right to live & to be love... (by same sex???=))
Am i still want to be his GF or wife after i found out the truth? Well depends on the situation & the intensity of my love for him & if his still willing to changed for me...
If he cant?
Well.....GOOD BYE!!!
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
wow. what a shaitan (satan) . he is getting powerful by the day.
and what software does he use PM.
i would love to get hold of that and try to put a lot of sence to the nonsensical people around. Of course i will have to debug the older version of shaitan's software.
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whoah I didn't know that ....
is crazy world outhere PM
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
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u mean, there's a place to deprogram human brains?
please post the exact location here, alot would benefit from that, for sure
I will hate him, for sure!
NOT because he is a gay, but for cheating me and wasting my precious time and effort with him
Thanks God! mine is straight all the way
gays will always be gays...whatever u will do, you can never change them...
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
depend the circumtances, if you have small childrens and can't afford live alone taking care of them, better stick with him till the appropriate time is coming.
If you have no children and you are fine living without him, diched him in the minutes you found out he is going the other way. why bother living a lie. you deserved to be loved completely.
If you think he get treatment and back to normal then you should support him.
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
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