HOW?

so how can i say i am the best?

na,thats not me.

wont be selfish.

:-(

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Learn to love & respect ur self more...

Tell you self

"If others can do it, you can do it much better!"

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

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There are some great self help books on self confidence you can read which will help identify the reasons why your self esteem is low, its only when you know the reasons why that you can move forward in achieving self confidence...Im sure there are a lot of articles on the net too if you google it..

p.s i dont really know you but your posts reflect a very sweet, caring, selfess individual...you just need to work on believing that yourself....good luck

wow,never looked at it on that way.

Will keep it in my mind.Thank you.

:-)

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Lol...darude.... gr8 idea ther...

Who dares,wins!

Lol...swiss girl....y the word 'special' seems to be occupying ur mind a lot... forget abt 'special' qualities n stuff ....

think abt the  people hu r special to u....they r not special to u coz they won awards, r especially talented or  wealthy, not evn because they r confident.....(they might b confident n all, but u dont like them for these qualities) right?

They r special bcos they make u feel special...they care abt u n genuinely...

Focus on urself n u'll b miserable....so stop judgin urself on whtevr u do...

(btw, if evryone in the world was confident, confidence wudnt really b an attractive quality.no? :-p)

So jus chill n hav fun...

Who dares,winns!

the usage brings me selfconfindence?

hmmm

ok thanks for the tip

;)

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get the red hot iron and grab it in ur hands

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Self confidence is a positive mental state reflecting how

you feel about yourself and how you perceive other people see you. If you feel confident

about your self then project that image. Decide how you wish to be seen, and

then project that image. Life is not easy; the university

of hard knocks gives the opportunity to fight back. Work on it.

well Swiss, I dont know you, but I am sure you have many wonderful qualities. Dont get down on yourself, and dont let how someone acted towards you ruin your self image. 

Be strong! 

tra la la

i cant see or find something special in myself

wish i can see me for a moment like others sees me

maybe that would help

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Why shouldnt you have a high self confidence? Who cares what others think of you, if you think you are great, it will show in how you carry yourself. Respect and love yourself!!

Fake you confidence until the feelings stick :D 

tra la la

i will try to do it

:-)

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well'id understand if they were proven to be liars when they told u that, but if not, i dont see any reason why you shouldnt believe them. you have to be rational and logical about their intentions, and you dont just have to hear their praises, you should feel it.

if it was a fake, you will also feel it, and see it on their faces. you have to open your heart and mind. then you will realize that they are right about their praises.

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but how can i manage to trust again and to believe in compliments?

duno how.

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well you have to believe.... also, if u cant trust urself, how can u trust others? same with how could u believe others if u cant believe in urself. its chicken and egg if thats the case. you must start by believing in their praises, and thats the first step :) 

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and i cant believe in their words

it just makes me smile because i know i am nothing special

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Imagine that you are getting appreciation from you colleagues etc

Live and let live...

because i see myself not as great or cool or sweet or whatever

so it is hard to trust in compliments for me

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Drink a bit of alcohol, before going into situations where you need to be confident ;) 

Other than that, think of accomplishments, achievements and any praises you got from people. That will make u feel confident when needed ;)

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:-)

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10 ways to build self confidence. Check this blog, it may helphttp://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/10-ways-to-instantly-build-self-confidence/ 

sometimes i wish to be a very small grey mouse so i can hide me in the darkest hole.

life is not easy.sometimes.

:-/

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Listen this is a very vast topic, First you have to identify when you feel that you have no or lack confidence. You see you have to work out on these areas. If possible discuss I can help you as I was in a similar situation couple of years back my fears were:

I could not face audiance

I cant say anything in a forum or group of people even I knew that i have the answere

Fear of unkown

I use to surrender with bargain

etc etc

Please discuss

Live and let live...

Via "Yoga'.

Nd think positive thinks... 

Have A Great Day.....

 just be yourself.. =)

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