How to have a Positive Attitude..
• When you wake up, before you get out of bed, take a moment to settle your thoughts and get into the right frame of mind. Don’t let the worry clock stock start ticking but instead take slow, even breaths and control the pace of your day. You are in charge. Do not start to fret about the past which you cannot change. And do not become overly concerned with the future which will show itself in due time. Focus on right now, this moment, and get off to a good start.
• Realize that this day is yours to live only one time. Whatever happens good or bad, at the end of 24 hours, it is done. You cannot change what happened during that time and you cannot have it back. So live each moment and appreciate the world and people around you. Be a positive influence on those you meet. It may be through your charity that they are able to overcome personal challenges they are dealing with. Sometimes it can be as simple as a smile and a friendly “hello, how is your day?”
• Make the assumption that others you come in contact with during the day are good people. Try to stay away from being judgmental and remember that everyone wants to be liked. Sometimes our lives throw us a curve ball that causes us to temporarily become someone other than who we really are. But inside, we are all good people. And an amazing side effect of treating others as good people is they tend to act as if they ARE good.
• Smile because you are happy, because you are alive, because it is a beautiful day, or for no reason at all. With a smile on your face, things just do not seem to be that bad. It is easy to do so smile whenever you have the opportunity. And just like that jolly laugh you cannot resist joining in, a smile can be contagious and you as the spreader become instrumental in not only your own happiness but that of others as well.
• Don’t sweat the small stuff. Distractions and annoyances are plentiful but don’t let the minor things get under your skin. Ask yourself if it will matter in 100 years. Turn the other cheek. If it just doesn’t matter, don’t let it undermine your resolve or distract you from staying positive.
• Be thankful for what you have, the person you are and the people that are part of your life. Nothing is forever so take time to be thankful today.
I am thankful for what I have and appreciate those who share my life. It is a wonderful day – I am positive of it!
Source: PICK THE BRAIN Grow yourself
To have a positive attitude,,,, We should make our mind clean from all the dirts.
um...????? so this is all about positive attitude...darn
Snessy :) Yes.
The topic is about Gypsy as a personality development teacher. :))
QL is like "The Firm"...you can never leave LLR ;-)
so wat was the topic about ? :(
Yes Snessy I was not so active like these days. After Sanity was blocked I had no plan to come back, for the same reason I have an unusal username which I created to get review from QL car experts :) but I really dont remember what dragged me here again.
Oh! I don't remember those IDs, they ring a bell but that is all.
Yes it was Sanity :) yeah may be :)
then it was sanity..lol
No... I told you I never had a Prado or never borrowed from anyone it should be either LC or a Pilot . I remember I bring LC for Iftar drive as I can store more stuff in it.. Or you saw someone else...lol
insanity was never my ID. I think it was LC prado. :)
sness..his other id was insanity and meet1234
NOT AGAIN !!!!!!!
Ohh I should be careful now...:P anti IP tracker activated...LOL
LLR..ohhh then it was LC...there was nothing to hide ..moreover khanan..brit...etc always calls both names...
LOL FS, he's a naughty lad, getting around.
LLR: What was your previous ID? Care to share?
Oh I c. I think I did not see you then or you borrowed Parado on QL iftar Drive 2010. :) anyway I spotted it long before that you are FS.
Cheers.
OK...activating my IP adress tracker ...it always keeps me informed...:)
looks like 3rd ID has been created... Happy be careful...ROFL
Snessyyy...no way...
he already donated himself to someone who he dont want to disclose here....lol
Awww! BB's secret crush is out in the open ;-)
Ok Guys :)
Let us vote now :)
You like Formatted Soul or Gypsy Gal ?
One has to be compromised as per guidelines it is not allowed to have two Id. :))
May FS soul rest in peace...:)
LLR I nevver had a Prado...:)
BB...LOL now dont tell anyone that am a fugitive...:(
BB..shying ......hhmmm... Chho cute :):)
No... I just said she was not posting...
BB has a crush on FS??
painther ,, She should have said
Make me fly ,, :O)
QL's FS...yaar
'our FS' ..ahem ahem!! :):)
OMG...you are FS.... no I dont belive you...
you murdered our FS and posting as her... no wonder she is not posting... :-(
Cant be cant be cant be
FS Hope Your Prado is doing well. :) Saw you once two years ago.
100$ for Titanic painting is worth on rakshabandan day :)
(i just clubbed all 3 together ...lol)
BB.. we stopped long back...:)
Good to see this thread taking a positive turn towards a positive end despite the negative hiccups.
LOL...100 Dollars for cleaning a house is bit high though...:)
Raksha Bandhan was yesterday ;-) ... now both of you can you please stop it...
1 more-
A woman was sitting at a bar with her g'friends when an extremely sexy young man entered. He was so striking that the woman could not take her eyes away from him. The young man noticed her overly attentive stare & walked directly toward her and said to her, 'I'll do anything that you want me to do, no matter how kinky, for $100, on one condition.' Flabbergasted, woman asked what the condition was. Young man replied, 'You have to tell me what you want me to do in just three words.'
The woman considered his proposition for a moment, withdrew $100 bills, pressed into young man's hand along with her address. She looked deeply into his eyes & slowly, meaningfully said, "Clean my house"
snessy... I dont have any clue either..lol hope we didnt miss much..
lol @ the joke...thought it was about Titanic painting ...:)
Am I missing out on done PM gossip?? So unfair...
Now you know that and lot more...lolz
I never knew FS & GG connection,
how QL-novice I am....:(
LOL Yes I am one among them..:)
painther Lols
'we women' ??
are you lieutenant governor of country called woman-land??
:):)
LLR thats no secret... those who know me know that I am formatted soul...:)
Painther..we women are evil...:)
I believe i can fly,
I believe i can touch the sky......la la la...lolz...
a negative Joke when you feel up---
A woman decided to have her portrait painted. She told the artist, "Paint me with diamond rings, a diamond necklace, emerald bracelets, a ruby broach, and gold Rolex."
"But you are not wearing any of those things," he replied.
"I know," she said. "It's in case I should die before my husband. I'm sure he will remarry right away, and I want his new wife to go crazy looking for the jewelry."
Positive song when you feel down
I believe for every drop of rain that falls
A flower grows,
I believe that somewhere in the darkest night
A candle glows.
I believe for everyone who goes astray
Someone will come to show the way.
I believe,
Oh, I believe.
I believe above the storm
The smallest prayer, will still be heard.
I believe that someone in that great somewhere
Hears every word
Every time I hear a newborn baby cry,
Or touch a leaf
Or see the sky,
Then I know why I believe.
Every time I hear a newborn baby cry,
Or touch a leaf
Or see the sky,
Then I know why I believe
LEANN RIMES - I Believe
Woww Rizks, you also spotted the same soul. :) Sure Painter :)
'positive soul'...i thought you would say 'formatted soul'...:)
Ok stopped..:) you know I am a positive soul..lol
Can i join too paint-her ?
I will bring 4 liters of Karak chai in thermos along with me...:)
Thanks HGL & GG, for refraining from making further comments here!!!
LLR, while they settle things.....i can meet you, we hav to discuss a few things, u recall once you said we need to discuss Indian constitution :):)
Ok, now like good boy n gal, please STOP it here :):)
dont forget to join my coffee invite :):)
.......
khallas!!!
LOl Painther You will sponsor, does it mean you need 51%??? :))
Painther...because HGL is always indirectly saying it..
Thats why I said we are not KG kids to understand what a person is trying to say...I can only talk for MYSELF...:)
Otherwise... I don’t see any other reason for a person to act indifferently when I have not done any of the things he mentioned above...Once upon a time it was not like this…
How I wish I didn't know what goes behind these pink pages on pm's. Who likes to stir sh*t, who gossips and who is interested in every post that I write here and why I write what I write, where I go, what I do, where I live, what do I do to spend my time etc etc etc.... sometimes I wish I wasn't this smart, life would have been so easy...:)
LLR, agree on coffee meet...
I propose-a coffee meet for GG HGL & LLR..I'll sponsor!!
Ok guys???
I think everyone here either need a coffee meet to give free hugs or at least need some Spa vouchers. :)
btw GG, HGL writes a simple Q, wholly general asking something....and you are responding in first person term....quote "If you are saying that I have done it"
??
you guyz know how to use fire-extinguisher??
Gypsy Gal Very nice post :)
I am a very positive person, I am smiling the most of the time, and I am always trying to fine that positive bit even in the absolute negative things, I don't like to show weaknesses or sadness. (Or at least I try)
But being very positive means that when you fed up, you collapse and find yourself in a damn depressing day, but the good news that you can wake up the other day positive again.
Nothing worth being sad for. :O)
A positive person would at least think..why would he/she do that? Is she gaining anything out of it?
Do I have anything personal with her/him?
By backstabbing...defaming...gossiping behind someone’s back...nobody will get anything even mental satisfaction if he is just an acquaintance...
:) well said..now thats a point...
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No …that’s not at all a positive attitude... If you are saying that I have done it ..its just your misunderstanding..and I don’t have any reason to do it with you or anyone else for that matter... But probably that is why you are always on a defensive attitude... unless you are not 100% sure ...you can always assume and be negative!!
You might now say that you didn’t tell that I did it.. but we are not KG kids not to understand simple English and what you are trying to say…
not really HGL
Can back biting, gossiping behind ones back, creating spurious ID's to belittle someone etc. be considered as positive attitude of an individual???
Be optimistic.Even heaven has a rainy day
Remember "past is past".Theres nothing you can do to change what has happened but you have a present that rely on your work and a future which depends on your present acts.
make sure to stop getting tensed.don't override your problems to cause you depression
Apologize if you have made a mistake.a simple apology wont change anything in you.
If you cant smile at someone at least don't make faces to make yourself look bad.
Be confident in what you do. Your the best teacher to judge where you stand.
And most important Thank God for what you are? always remember where you come from and what is the purpose of being here.
surely things will work out
POSITIVE... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Risk stop visiting DJ else alongwith B+ you may become H+ too :)
Ooops my mistake, then i think he already visited DJ ! :)
Risks...he said he is Happy...then why he need to visit Doha Jadeed..lol
paint-her, sad to know tat u r so lonely with no friends...:( why not visit doha jadeed area soon ?
:-(
I'm a lone negative person, so lonely in this SO positive world, no blessings...no friends (every1 hellbent proving to b positive).......I'm so happy:)
I am oh Positive, i mean O+ blood group !
But plz dont contact me for any blood donations plz...:(
So true strom...:) Postiviity attracts Blessings and positive people towards us... that makes life worth living..:)
BB....ok when we need B+ blood I know whom to contact..:)
Be Positive thats in ma blood... thats ma blood group... B+...lol
well i WAS not a very positive person for sure or may be a positive teenager ... but i guess aging helps me in every aspect ... and i m more positive now ... or may be its that NOW i have many blessings in life to be thankful about and that is y i m positive ...
dont know blessings makes me positive
or positivity attracted the blessings
I sure needed the lil "think positive" mental jog..and this post quite fits the bill. TFS dear GG! Yes contentment and gratefulness go a long way when it comes to achieving and maintaining a positive outlook.
Snessy Doll Technically that half empty is also full. :)
Great post! I do sometimes need to remind myself that my glass is half full and NOT half empty...
but that sarcastic reply for "How are you?". face palm.
We already met... RMS... lol
Now onam is coming time for you to organise some Onam meetup...lol
Its been more than a year and 18 weeks .. I'm sure i never come across you before. Glad you know me ;-)
Painther then you just have to find another negative guy... and you both will end up doing something positive...
two negative makes a positive...lol
look who is here... RMS...
Welcome back where were you?
I have a negative attitude and I don't want to change it, any problem ?
:P
Just live and let live.. Simple! :)
Nice thought gypsy gal.. its a matter of how you perceived the situation.. each day is an opportunity for everyone to do better. Just learned how to appreciate simple things surely it will make you happy..
MN...just pulling leg...
The art is to edit the copy past so that it looks genuine...lol
nad...had you done my fried roaches you would have been saved of negative/ pessimistic thoughts...but it is never too late you know...:)
MN...lol...:)
nad.. you need to take a break girl..:)
I was born Postive but turning Negative. Everything I do now is filled with lots of pessimistic thoughts :(
But we are seeing positive people turning Negative so the confused look o_O
HGL: amen to that LOL'z
People are born with that trait...either they are positive or negative and whoever was born negative and laters turned positive must have been in my company for a while...:)
BB: He/she who never copy-pasted something off the internet, let them cast the first stone (:
BB.. source mentioned!!
Thanks for sharing Gypsy.
Woww Marco I wish I could do that as well. I just read read read and listen. I like to use Pen as well. I always used to read your posts and comments. :) and you are good in it.
Yes, being thankful covers most of the things and leads for the positive attitude
Nice copy paste...lol
Recently I have found great peace and happiness in penning my thoughts down on paper.
It relieves the stress out and keeps me in a positive mode.
As far as controlling/hiding emotions goes, pff I’m the worst lol
I get tensed /upset for the smallest reasons and can’t hide it from others cuz I have a face that shows everything
Agree with you Marco...no one can he happy and smiling 24/7 356 days...we can always try and be positive and not to show our negative attitude to others when we are in bad/low mood...
I think the first step towards being positive person is to acknowledge we are all humans and we are prone to error and do wrong.
Life is a B**ch, and definitely not a bed of roses.
Its up’s and downs, and even the happiest person out there is not happy/positive every minute of the day.
As I human being who has read on dynamics of the brain and its psychology, I’m pretty much comfortable in having a dark moment and feeling weak, vulnerable or sad.
Because life is all about experiences and that includes some negativity as well.