How well do you know your housemaid?

This keep happening everywhere.....no one can change so long as there is devil in the heart.....so just take care in future ....... or be sure it will happen.

That's why she(maid) need somebody to support her to have those material things she never had and of course she don't have to spend her own money so at the at same time she can save.I don't think that her employer is not that bad.

As mentioned earlier get male maid or ugly one!

Your not being very fair to phillipinos this happens all around the world, many celebrity sleep with the nanny/maid etc.

You can't teach experience...

But sad to say the maid is already married with a child back home.What kind of upbringing really.

if you did not get pay for 3 months and your lover give you QR 1000, you wont be spending it on buying a laptop and USB. YOu will buy the necessities and send the money home to your family.

DohaSteve are you trying to say is to tolerate these kind of affair and one way to have a better life for their families?

Yes indeed he likes to f...k her.To have a new menu.

So you see it came from your mouth that people here don't pay their maid for 2-3months,maybe that's why this maid find a way to fill her needs by having an illicit affair that will support her.Her lover gave her QR1000 as an additional so she buy a computer.And you can see here how kind and open the employer to her that they even allow her to connect to internet.

hmm its not the maids fault i guess.

i think the man likes her that's why he allows things to happen.

"yeah i was tempted" BULLFROG (am not allowed to say bad words right??)!!! pointing finger to the maid.

see, a woman can manipulate a man and basically its true, BUT a man can control situation if he is determine to do it.

For sure he loves her wife now more than before that's why he left the maid cause it is not really a serious relationship.He confessed already all to his wife and that it is out of curiosity that many of married man here had an illicit affair.And he realized that is a bunch of hell to have one,really destroyed ones life.My friend is very much happy now.

Hello Qlers you misunderstood what is in the story.It's not the husband of the female employer who is involved here,it's another guy from outside of the compound.You see why will the maid introduced the guy to be her relative if he the male employer?

askme, the wife might get it on with the male maid. lol..

mo lang!

if she has a laptop, is she a QL member?

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Someone is working VERY hard to seed suspicion and lack of trust between families (especially wives) and house maids.

It seems that same person had a similiar post recently except it was a hypethetical question about what you would do if you caught your husband with your maid.

Sorry if your husband was getting it on with your maid; punish him - punish her, but don't take it out on all the loyal hard working housemaids by convincing wives not to trust them. This can lead to family break ups as well.

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"A Wise Man knows what he does not know!"

hahahaha.. Laptop?? She is so much smart that she can use laptop and you are so generous that you give laptop? Sound something wrong in this story. People here don't pay their maid for 2-3 months.

By the way why don't you employ male maid, all problem will be solved. No more ROMANCE and AFFAIRS!

I completely agree with marycatherine. When U talk about phills, 50% they come here (or go any ware else) with a strong moral of earning money buy huck or cruck and make their lives sweet & ruine other once lives. U should no how to tackle…..

This is called "Technology Transfer"

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DOHASTEVE agreed with you there but taking someone,s husband away breaking someone,s house while poor wife is away do you think is fair?husband is not innocent here he is the one who should be blamed realy but again men always get away with it was that momment or simply let them go oh men are week but maids should look some single men and they will find plenty i,m sure

Hire an unattractive maid so husbands will not be tempted lol....

KH pass to get a gate pass hmm. You know all the tricks in the book.. You dirty old bugger.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

Do not rely on the security guy. If cornered, she would give the security guy a "pass" to get a gate-pass:)

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so what is the husband's alibi for having an affair with the maid?

mo lang!

..... although they may range in age, one thing to remember is that maids are adults who deserve a life outside of work.

Consider for a moment your own situation: you are offered a job in Qatar, which you accept. However, when you arrive here, your employer tells you that although you only have to work a certain number of hours in a day, you are not permitted to leave your accommodation outside of those hours. Then your employer tells you that you are not permitted to socialise with anyone else, and that you must report all of your movements to them.

Does that sound attractive?

These women often leave their own families behind to come here and work simply because the alternative is grinding poverty.

Give them a break.

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"I told the doctor I broke my leg in two places. He told me to quit going to those places". - Henny Youngman

I agree for what u said!

for me it takes two to tango, no matter how flirt ur maid is if your husband's really loves you, or none of this will happen! or you don't need one

Can you share to us your bad experience regarding your housemaid for those who are concern, so it may not happen again.What action did you do to your maid?Is it fair for these housemaids who are trusted by there employers not to renew there contract anymore?If they did it the first time, they might do it again or maybe worst.Especially this particular maid I've mentioned whom the employer entrusted their daughter to her(maid).What kind of morality she will impart to there daughter?What do you think?

We had an bad experience with the maid too..

Sorry, couldn't this also be looked at from a second perspective - that is, can the husband be trusted to keep his pants zipped when the wife is not around to watch him?

Sure what the maid did was wrong - but she didn't hold a gun to his head, he made a very poor choice and now it's up to his wife (the only innocent in this "affair" from the information provided) to decide if she is willing to forgive - because I'm pretty sure she won't forget.

Signature line > "You can't fix stupid"

This is how the lover of the Filipina housemaid got to her room.It was planted by the housemaid,she informed the Nepali security guard of one of the Compound in Dafna where she is employed that he(lover) is her relative.And this irresponsible guard allowed them to go inside the compound leaving the car of the lover outside the compound.So, you can see that this housemaid can manipulate the guard of this compound.Hope that this story awaken those employers or residence of those compound that are so confident and trust their maid and security guards,they may in a way can be dangerous to your security.

For your information as what my friend told me the maid ask her lover for an additional QR1000 so she can buy a laptop,1usb, and groceries everytime she need.

How sure that those security guards really follow the instructions?What if this maid is so friendly and flirt those guards,give them sweet smile and then let them enter the compound or building?

Circumstances leads to sin. All shuld try to avoid such circumstances becoz whenever a man and woman come alone the third force will be satan.

its their life anyway, 1 day they will be caught and they will pay the price of it.

katas ng qatar

If you are living in building or compound with a security guard, we can alert them not to let anyone to their house when they are at work.. Otherwise it’s not really possible to stop this. Some people do lock the door when they are at work, which I personally don’t think is safe. In case of any emergency she will not be able to get out of the house.

laptop,usb,groceries hav u given