Husband and Wife

wouldn't it be nice if WE get to decide when they are to be considered as the daddy and when as the baby?that sure would be fun!tee hee! :-P

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

to svelte and brit. hahaha, they want to be both the daddy and the baby..in alternate times. :P

"throw a stone at me, ill throw a bread back atcha!

....hmm, easier said than done."

wow!u r looking at it from a totally unique angle.....

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

Nope! the guy seems to have got the confidence that he is actually producing kids ...hence feels he deserves a more beutiful one...

how so very non-manly!humph!

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

Do all me like being treated like a baby ??

I think most me would prefer it..I won't go into the diapers and spanking issues, but if a man can get away with doing nothing , he'll definitely go for it..

treating a guy like a king and treating him like a baby are different,no?i could put up with treating my guy like a king......like letting him 'pretend' he's the boss :-P

but treating him like a baby...."honey,you wouldn't know where the cereal is kept.I'll go get it" or "sweetheart,don't bother changing the light bulbs....u'll hurt urself....I'll do it instead"

NO WAY!

if he wants to remain as the MAN in my life,he has to behave like a MAN!

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

hi

every one

maybe he is aving any othere connections please keep looking

well i dont know this couple. but i know that in life. ALL MEN LOVE TO BE KINGS. i am one of them. when i find something new and special from my gf i feel so happy. may be i am stupid because i know it will never remain. i am sure this way i refered to by treat him as a child will work. lets see may be he will have a good reaction.

but seriously.....do all men like being treated liked babies?like smothering them and getting overtly protective(read possessive) over them???

i wonder.....

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

El Zohiry.."she need to treat her husband as a second child" good piece of advice

" Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated"

....G.B. Shaw

divorce is not an option to solve. it is an option to break so many thing first to be effected the kid. so this is the hard way. the easy way is. now she already gave birth and I think she have 1 hour of free time every day no one dose not have this hour. so a nice music CD and some unknown dance it is very good way to lose weight and be fit in short time. she need to do some efforts to keep her husband as long as she is in love she will have the power. and sexy dress with NINA RICHE this apple shape perfume will bring him in a min :) she need to treat her husband as a second child.

let your friend breath.... at least for once avoid thinking of her husband, tell your friend to find time for herself to go to the gym, it might help her loose weight, and sometimes thinking too much will cause her to look a bit old, just tell her to be a happy woman, and having a child should be her inspiration.

Too much depress tends you to become looking old.

Good idea that your friend is working to get back in shape, my advise is that, use it as a motivator for herself, and her child is the main reason to get her back in shape.

well,ur friend's hubby shud've known that relationships/people don't come with warranty cards....you accept to marry a person and spend the rest of ur life with him/her on chance.....it's a big risk.but once you're into it,moving out for silly reasons is not right.....

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

Not enough beef to meet the demand of gold....

"It does me no injury for my neighbor to say there are twenty gods or no God. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg."

— Tho

Canadian peso? What did I miss here? But whatever the currency, Gypsy would be worth her weight in gold.

Mandi

Briteexpat said:

When you marry, you accept the other person for life..Richer or poorer, in fitness and in illness..

LOL

Yall SOUND alike A RIDDLE full OF NEGATIVE FATS!!! LOL

But in the other hand:

I would like to marry Gypsy!!!!! so I could live my life richer, fit and in harmony, specially know that the Canadian peso is stronger than the dollar in Canada.

"It does me no injury for my neighbor to say there are twenty gods or no God. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg."

— Tho

Funny how some men, love their wives more after the birth of a child, especially considering what shes been through and the bond they share with a new child. This man is very shallow and hes probably no "Brad Pitt" and out of shape.

my friend is well educated, wealthy back home, but this is love marriage and she doesnt want to go back to her parents complaining abt him.because they are sick too.She is working now and trying her very best to get back into shape and spends most of the time with her kid...I called her and told her to take a look at this thread ..hopefully she will see the replies from u guys.. its all upto her to decide what she has to do..

FS I agree with you it is the most unfortunate thing, to be in a relationship wer there is no love left. She is a mother her primary concern will be her kid's well being. Thats y I talked abt financial security..

Iam sick of these a**holes, after few years of marriage all of a sudden they realise that their wives are not looking like the Victoria secret girls or behave like any Pron Actress.

So are you suggesting she should just wait it out razz77? Sounds like a pretty miserable life to me.

its normal in life.. once he gets old.. slowly.. he starts again loving u

But is it worth living with such a person just for the financial benifit/security?

What if he got someoneelse in his life and not intersted in his wife anymore?

cannot agree more with andrew,seek help,see if her husband is over stressed,sometimes the things are difrent than what it seems.

we are not in her position thats why it is easy to say to just divorce the husband. this is marriage, people. u don't just give up on something when things get rough. they have a kid. well im not saying that i think its best that she rots in that marriage because they have a kid who needs both the mom and the dad. im just saying, divorce is not always the solution in a rough patched marriage.

para mi amor esta loca

Pavithra .. that guy needs professional help. Tell your friend to ask her husband about his problems. There are simple solutions for complicated issues. If possible get the help from counsellors (I dont know its available in Qatar)

FS.. divorce is not an easy solution for Indian Ladies miseries unless they are not dependant on others financialy.

First of all they should discuss their family problem in between to find a solution. If they are not able to sort it out they should involve their best friends, family members or relatives to find out a suitable and reasonable solution for it. Divorce is not a good solution. She has got a child now and he is the father of that child. What is wrong with her physical appearance after giving birth to a baby? It is normal to have some physical changes in women after delivery.

u said it

I have seen many women.... when they have a baby... their priorities change..they stop taking care of themselves or their husband... that will ruin their life. We should know to manage our family. Maybe she is not giving him what he wants...

I hate it when someone woman take the Sh*** and forgive their husband ....they say they love him..

how can someone love a person who don’t love her or give her any importance.... Love is a mutual feeling...It won’t work one way. Its not easy live life long with someone like him....I don’t think he will change..he may have someone else in his life. Ask her to leave him.

tell your friend to maybe, she can still dress nicely even if she gained weight due to the baby or have a facial or have her hair done once in a while. :)

ssshh, buy lingerie, for her husband..perhaps.

but the important thing is the inner glow. maybe she just feels miserable inside thats why it shows on her face and the way she affects the people around her.

if u feel pretty inside, if u have the inner peace..then itll show on the outside. :D

para mi amor esta loca

I agree with what Brit has to say about accepting the person you love with all his/her short comings ...to an extent.But guys, dont you think it is human nature to want your partner to be physically attractive also? Maybe the lady in question should also work on getting back in shape (assuming that is what is causing her husband to be put off) or whatever it was that must've made him fall in love with her at the time of their courtship/marriage.

I disagree that marriage is a license to throw away your gym shoes and deodorants.

I am sorry if my reply has not made your lady friend "feel good" but I think this is a time for her to introspect too.And if she is unwilling to put in the effort needed or the reasons for her husbands lack of affection is something else she should walk away from the relationship.

Men don't change. And if he's being this much of an a$$hole, he's not worth her or their childs time.

the thing is even after all these she loves him more than ever and she says he will change one day and understand her

Pl. don't talk about my wife here :)))))))))))))))))))

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

When you marry, you accept the other person for life..Richer or poorer, in fitness and in illness..

So, if your friend's husband has gone off her because she may have lost shape after the birth of a child, then he is a moron and needs counselling.

However, there could be many other factors. Perhaps he didn't want a child or he wanted a boy and a girl was born or perhaps she is suffereing from post natal depression..

Hope it works out for them..

if she is not feeling good with him. let her leave him. what is the use of staying with a man who loves u when u are hot and dislikes you when you arent. this is stu*id.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

She can feel good again by divorcing his sorry butt.