a colleague of mine and also a friend i can trust its not a big deal if i will lend him some money as long as it will not be part of my budget (extra).
After giving ideas on how to get around the problem, if someone really needed the money, I have lent before to people who cannot repay, even though I didn't have much. But I only do it once or twice at the most. Because any more than that and the person is simply taking advantage of your kindness. And there are many who will come up with really innovative sob stories.
Never let someone borrow from you if you are not sure if this person has the capacity to repay it. If you really want to lend your money, get something from him with the same or higher value, and return to him once he repay you. Be wise, you can help someone without sacrificing yourself too much.
Or if you are rich, maybe you can give him some money
The simple answer is NO because its pretty obvious he will not be able to repay in the timeframe required.
However, if you can afford it and he has "actual" problems which may be resolved with your help, then perhaps you can consider it as a "goodwill" gesture.
could aford it, but I dont see how he can ever pay me back...his salary is QR1,000/month, he wants QR4.5k...I think the best policy is to say "no"...just wanted a few valued opinions..
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
...he is on my door at work....nice guy, but always yelling me he has problems back in Nepal..I did not want to seem want to seem callous towards him but really, we all have our own problems too....
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
...it echoes my own thoughts, I was thinking that was I being inhumane....I suppose that if that person does not feel bad about asking, then I should not feel bad about declining...
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
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a colleague of mine and also a friend i can trust its not a big deal if i will lend him some money as long as it will not be part of my budget (extra).
If u Trust him give him , r l else dont give ..Good deeds are done not to show people............
After giving ideas on how to get around the problem, if someone really needed the money, I have lent before to people who cannot repay, even though I didn't have much. But I only do it once or twice at the most. Because any more than that and the person is simply taking advantage of your kindness. And there are many who will come up with really innovative sob stories.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
idea...I will...but I think I already know the answer!
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
Hi Malley! :)
Daiwai
Check first the problem, maybe there are other ways to solve it
..I have lent many times before and never got back anything...
....QR10K attached to this post..that is unless those peeps at QL have swiped it!!
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
...I would just give it to him...but I'm not...
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
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.hi shane23,
he is rich....
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.he is sending ma check, lol.......
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but then... i agree with brit, if ur fortunate enough, help unconditionally,
but.. since you're disturbed, i dont think youll accept the idea.
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call me ONE.
Never let someone borrow from you if you are not sure if this person has the capacity to repay it. If you really want to lend your money, get something from him with the same or higher value, and return to him once he repay you. Be wise, you can help someone without sacrificing yourself too much.
Or if you are rich, maybe you can give him some money
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.daiwai, i love you........
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.prada here i come, lol.......
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...is in the post...!
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
The simple answer is NO because its pretty obvious he will not be able to repay in the timeframe required.
However, if you can afford it and he has "actual" problems which may be resolved with your help, then perhaps you can consider it as a "goodwill" gesture.
daiwai, i was foolin around...
just say "no and sorry", or when your conversation leads to that... escape! :)
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call me ONE.
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.daiwai, if i shout at you? you will be thinkin of leanding me 4times m salary?
.DAIWAI, (NOW IM SHOUTING, LOL)
.I HAVE BIG PROBS, I WANT PRADA......DA,, DA,,DA,,,AAHHH(echoing)
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could aford it, but I dont see how he can ever pay me back...his salary is QR1,000/month, he wants QR4.5k...I think the best policy is to say "no"...just wanted a few valued opinions..
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
if you dont want to hurt his feelings, say it in a nice way that you dont have money that big.
how much is my(your) salary?, (do you even have the money to lend?)...
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call me ONE.
...he is on my door at work....nice guy, but always yelling me he has problems back in Nepal..I did not want to seem want to seem callous towards him but really, we all have our own problems too....
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
if i owe him my life and he is nice and if i have that money, why not.
that you are that "security Man"!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
...it echoes my own thoughts, I was thinking that was I being inhumane....I suppose that if that person does not feel bad about asking, then I should not feel bad about declining...
If you're living life on the edge, you've got too much room.
Def not too unless that colleague is my bestestest friend. (:
cheers,
paul
NEVER.
Also No.
Did you Google it first?
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.no.