LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
By swissgirl39 •
How do you think about it?Could it work?Are there some QL members which went through it or are in this situation right now?
I want to know how you came clear with it and how you managed it.
How do you think about it?Could it work?Are there some QL members which went through it or are in this situation right now?
I want to know how you came clear with it and how you managed it.
SG, for a while it will make you believe that it does work...but eventually, sigh...i know what you are asking here..communication and instinct should work for both parties...:) you know where im gettin at right? ;P
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Senti - We managed it with a Thai and Swiss combination way. Swiss Chocolate and PUD Thai style.
LOL charan give me some idea from your experience.how can we managed it?.
"Drink Beer Save Water"
Sweissgirl- you know how we both managed it. If we can everybody can :)
You can check out "Long Distance Relationships, does it really work?"
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/11226
Good luck...SG!
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.-Bertrand Russell
Long distance relationship does work but it all depends on what you really feel for each other. It can be really hard too. It happened to me and my partner. Those days...I had to finished my Uni and he has to work in a country were it is not safe for women. Now no one can separate us ;-)
if there is trust in the relationship. Without trust, you have nothing !!
Believe me, i should know !
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Been there, done that and still on it, the previous one lasted for 4 years, geographically, he works in Far East and I’m working here in Qatar. We managed to kept those 4 years with constant communication, (emails, sms, chatting, phone calls) and strong trust with each other though during those 4 years I’d seen him physically for jus4 times. I must admit it’s very hard to sustain especially him being a jealous type of guy and I was like just okay with everything, him being so far away. We ended up the relationship in a good way. We still emailing each other and he’s getting married now and plan to settle in Philippines.
Although, we never end up being together, I treasure those times and I guess we became much better person out of it
The only thing I can say is, “I survived and managed (faithfully) to kept those 4 years because I believed in him and I gave my complete trust and I never doubted him, he did!
Good luck!
Have a mighty day to everybody!
Cheers!
*** I don't like to commit myself about heaven and hell - you see, I have friends in both places. M. Twain***
point of view...
its about how you look at it. Either the glass is half empty, or half full. I am a believer in the latter, and it has stood me in good stead.
I tend to believe that everything will work out in the end. LDR's, if both are committed enough, will have to work too.
When it does not, either you were wrong, or you choice was. Either way, you gain, coz you learn. And thats what life is about...falling down and learning from the fall!
{I think i got the philosophers stone up my you-know-where this morning. Apologies, ladies}
it wasn't baba ghanush.(like that too tho...)..i know what that tastes like..this was almost sweet..guess i'm going to have to break down and ask the Ritz folks...but thanks jauntie!
Muttabal is also known as 'Baba Ghanush'
Ha!
Shortly after I got married and was living in Jeddah, hub received a letter from a 'recent' girlfriend who probably didn't know he was now 'taken'. He showed me the letter, but wouldn't respond to it - so I did!
It was a nice chatty letter, but she never replied. How rude of her!
*this is jauntie speaking from the apartment of the great unwashed, waiting for the plumber to arrive*
bubba...
and...the flip to the distance makes the heart grow fonder...
distance makes the heart go wander...
but its all in how strong the relationship is to begin with and how you deal with it!!!
Distance IS said to make the heart grow fonder, however for every positive saying, there is always a negative other side of the coin, as in 'out of sight - out of mind' :o(
It's not humus, it's Muttabal (aubergine - or egg plant to you!)
Sorry to interrupt topic - had this burning urge to straighten out a Southern Bubba :P
that distance makes the heart grow fonder.
LDR's are not the best. But they are certainly good for the people who believe they are.
Believe!
i lost my girl bec i came here!
but its ok i found others:p
i know and i believe that god does the best for us.i dont know his plans with our lives but i trust in a good end.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
:-D
he is the one.So no wasted time.
:-D
but in a way i will agree.
if you see no succsess then better to finish it.
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
LDRs are a total waste of time...
One can be friends LDR but thats it...
Only if there is a target date to be together...
Get back together if you can be together one day.
But don't waste your life...
Thx.Inshallah it will have an end soon.There is a verry bright light to see at the horizont.
:-D
I want nothing more as to be with him.And soon i am.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
(like a camel whip on his backside, like the camel riders do!) to get things moving for you, just let me know! ohhhhhh and there is this one hoummus that had pomegrante seeds on it..its my favorite but I have no idea what its called..they serve it for breakfast sometimes and the Ritz had a great one...Help with the name of it, anyone???
:-D
for sure.
looking forward for a happy end
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
lol red pope...calling collect...now that's another story...
He is working on everything from his end and sometimes men are slower at it than we are. I am very sad about it, but hopefully all will be good again and we can be together. Miss talking on QL, been quite busy trying to get things together in US. Oh, I love hummus, but not the green kind. Lol
Know that the end is in sight and soon it will be over. Let the doubts go away. That is so hard to do though. I wonder what he is doing and I am sure he does the same for me.
how's your part of the world??? And when are you getting yourself over here...I'm saving you some hoummus...might be a bit green and fuzzy by then tho..
Hello? will you accept the long distance charges Sir? Hell no, get off your hight chair you fool!
Calling me collect for what? Get a life and move on!
The Red Pope of Qatar Living
Abba, Abba, Padre!
same for me.hope it will have an end verry soon now.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
imagine a hyped up elephant on red bull???? whewwwwwww..
Caryllon
or that could cause a lot of problems. I am in a LDR now with someone in Qatar. When he is awake I am asleep and vice versa. That makes it hard also. But I try to keep goig knowing that one day we will be together and that everything will be okay again.
OSLA?
LOL
better not to think about it.
OSLA is baaaaaaddd and saaaaadddd.
Huuuhhhh.
;-)
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
LOL.
My love for him is not to kill.We went through many bad moments but now is the way up.
:-D
Makes me feel verry good.And happy.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
Sg you know ? some times LDH makes a member of OSLA (one sided love assosiation);SO be careful.Qtel wont return back your money.lol
.Scarlet,expensive chocolrte from swiss to elephant ? i prefer red bull.lol
"Drink Beer Save Water"
make a difference...was no threat, only a suggestion...its a southern thing...manners first, you know...
Well done.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
"Manila I'm coming home!"
and we'll add peanuts to the chocolate, but no chocolate for the elephants..makes their skin wrinkle...
jealousy is really normal in a relationship but do not feel that way too much.
it can kill the love inside your heart.
"Manila I'm coming home!"
jealousy is really normal in a relationship but do not feel that way too much.
it can kill the love inside your heart.
"Manila I'm coming home!"
went through that when I was engaged and had to live away from my fiance for a year...and there was this girl that had her eye on him where he lived...and went after him...until....I went to visit...and we'd all gone out as a group and she kept him out on the dancefloor for a couple of songs and I told one of her friends that if she didn't come back after the next song..she better be looking for a very good wig...cause she'd need it... :) needless to say..she left well enough alone after that..
im on an LDR right now...and things are running smoothly so far... communication is the key for it to work out...added by trust and a lot of phone bills ofcourse...
:-D
Will not forget it.
Lot of Swiss Chocolat
LOL.
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
Dont forget to bring chocolet.we have to go zoo with scarlet mo.lol
Its not time to love.lol
"Drink Beer Save Water"
i know.But sometimes it is so hard to not feel jealous.
Thanks god my sweetheart knows me good enough to take it with a smile.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
just get here and work from this end of the relationship!!! Youknow you got folks to stay with...ME!!! but, you have to bring chocolate...hehe
and the main one...do NOT let jealous thoughts cloud your mind...those can kill a relationship faster than anything else..whether close by relationship or a long distance one...
my phone bill is sooooo high.lol.
the one and only way is to trust each others and to keep yourself busy.The time goes by faster so and yes,to visit each others is like to be born again because you are the happiest person alive then.Almost you feel like that.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
Yes it works! As long as you really love each other LDR or Long Distance Relationship works.
Regular communication is advised, there are a lot of ways to do that net chatting,phone calls (3G/video call),e-mails,sending love letters thru mails and lastly put God in the center of your relationship.
Meet or visit his or her family if you have time.
"Manila I'm coming home!"
it works but it is haaarrrrdddddd.
how are you Buddy?
Everything under control?
;-)
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
will try to find it.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
Hello Cuty :)Sorry I had no time to se what's going on on Ql. Just finished work :( How're u doing ?
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