marry to a married filipina

make your marriage certificate, print in A4 and sign ;) thats it!!! Holla.

Interesting ........ OP is responding to himself after 4 years ............ Good entertainment ..............

Love & marriage are two different things ......... emotions can't be mixed with intellegence ............

Bro,

Marriage is not fun. It is serious relationship.

First of all if she wants to marry you. She must get divorce from her previous husband .

What if the husband loves her more than u and says he will convert to Islam yes if he says no then she is free to marry somebody else but no cheating or manoeuvring of situations. Everything to be crystal clear

If u Can u or she speak to his husband and request to him to divorce her.the situation will be easy n peaceful.

It is possible in real love.

The best advise

Get yourself into other activities and forget it it is temporary phase

Oops, double post. Sorry.

In my opinion, I think you should first uncomplicate things. Meaning, ask the girl to file first a legal separation petition. You will never know when her supposed ex-husband may file a case contesting both of your married status (if you and her get married without clearing this out).If things get settled, you can go forward and marry her in Muslim/Islamic rites.Just my 2 cents. 

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s_isale...... bullseye homey.....

hypocrasy at its peak! rashid babu....... hah!!!

hello my friend, i want to seek for advised , on my case regarding muslim marriage, i am engaged now with filipino muslim and on my part , i converted in islam 2 weeks ago but i am separated in the philippines for 5 years now. Is there a possibility that i can marry my filipino  muslim beau? pls advised and what are the requirements also in Shariah Court regarding muslim marriages. Shukran, Peace be with you

first off - go learn about Islam. To put it simply - your actions on this case has been unislamic from the beginning. So dont bring Islam into the picture to somehow justify your deeds.

first of all i would say thank to all.. who responded to me.. .i have received mix replies..some of them i like and some i don't like.. but thank to all bcz they spend time for me...

Still i just waiting for the correct solution for my situation..

I m not perfect, not so religious, not to intelligent.. but i know that she is a LIFE to me.. so please help me..

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I wonder if she accepts Islam to marry you, her husband comes to know of it and also accepts Islam, what are you gonna do rashidbabu.

Positive thinking is like. U r standing on the middle of the road & suddenly a crow beats on your head But you remain calm and thanks to God that cows dont fly:)

s_isale, yeah exactly, I was thinking so :)

t00 mUch hAssle t0 gEt aNulmeNt fInd aN0ther 1

s_isale: TOUCHEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!

i have 2 filipino friends. both were roman catholic. the guy was married once under civil rights. in able to marry the other girl, both converted to muslims. :) and they live happily ever after...

to the OP, he wants an islamic opinion when he wants to marry but an Islamic opinion was not taken when he started dating the lady. Hypocrisy.

Oh ruby that is great, so we can get married now?? :-P

why like this yani

Why don't you go to Fanar and ask them there?

ooohhhh...too much complicated!

as much as i understand your feelings, i really have no idea...

im just wondering if whats your gf's plan...

LOL Flexicode

I know my advice would be totally against what you wanna hear.... But..... Marriage is not just about the union of two lovers .... It is the union of 2 families.... you were in qatar, far away from India, u felt lonely out here, nd wen u found her, u felt she is the only 1 who loves u, who understands u..... Trust me, u will have a tough time after marring her coz of huge culture shock.... and then u will see and realise, tat there were sooo much priety indian gals around whom you could have got married to.... I respect ur love for her, and also all the philipini gals, but just want both of you to think if it was love or just lust.

britexpat that are lota more responsibilities of a converted wife's husband than just being a wife's husband

so the free advice :D

thanks for the clarifiation ghazal

well, if you love the filipina..then go..

actually nowadays, it can be..you are a muslim ryt..

the filipina lady as you told me has been seperated with his husband for a long time right..all she has to do is get a : no objection letter" from the husband stating that he allows his wife to live a new life with someone...then she can convert to be a muslim and then you can both get married...as simple as that nowadays...actually, you can chk with elder muslims as well..THAT IS IF YOU REALLY CAN PROVE TO HER THAT YOU LOVE HER AND SHE LOVES YOU...IF YOU REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER THEN GO...THERE IS ALWAYS A EASY WHEN YOU LOVE EACH OTHER...

Arien, :)))

it's for males, not goes and suits to females :D

Muslims can marry more than one in India, wher as other religions will need a legal divorce from the previous spouse.

WK it's not laughing matter in Phils we do have a singleness certificate or called CENOMAR (certificate of no marriage) lol in fact i do have one now with me

Why do people go off at a tangent.

The guy has just asked for simple advice. Instead of discouraging him, why not help him?

Good luck!

Why do people go off at a tangent.

The guy has just asked for simple advice. Instead of discouraging him, why not help him?

Good luck!

And rashidbabu, now you have a basic knowledge to help your further decision, so this is the high time for you to check some reliable religious websites or consult with a mufti(scholar).

shanawazk, I converted 3 periods into 3 months, as most of the books and the scholars narrated...

Ghazal iddat is for 4 months n 3 or 13 days

Y is she required to follow iddat when she is not a Muslim right now

Rashid pls take my sincere advice brother pls marry a Muslim girl

Y Filipina? No more Indian Women out there?

you said that you love her. what about her?? maybe she do not feel love for you

lol

why you are putting yourself in danger?

she has to Divorce from her husband. if CID will came to know about your issue, sure they will help you.

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thnk u so much .. but i wanna be sure that is it possible bcz i m told that even she become muslim she cant marry me.. after iddat wat is the procedure and wat document i will require and where i need to contact..

After accepting Islam wholeheartedly she has to wait for three months that is called 'Iddat'

and now I'm afraid...Mods would refer the thread to the religious teaching section :D

my prend, ask her to take divorce from her husband. Then marry her, here, there or anywhere. So here are the step...

Step 1- Divorce from her husband.

Step 2- Marriage (Converting to Islam is optional)

Step 3- Enjoy

Step 4- Separation

Step 5- Another thread with the same question by someone else.

kidding..

Boy: Make a 'C' with your right hand .

Girl: Ok .*makes a C.*

Boy: *smiles and makes 'C'

with his left hand, placing it near hers.*

Girl: A heart?

Boy: No . My stomach. & its empty, make me a

Sandwich... :P

anyone is here to help me... ?

wat is the way? ..

u dont have any chance for to marry with her. First of all she should to annulment and its very expensive in phils. or for to cheap way u should to wait at least 6 months or 1 year for it. India or other countries asking singleness paper for women but for men islam countries doesnt ask anything. Even if she convert to muslim there is no way. but if u really wants to marry with her there is only one way. just contact me u can send message to me ;)

i m very thankful to you all.. but i m really serious.. not kidding.. i love her soo much. I need a solution, a way, your advice... plz.. i dont know wat to do? my brain stop working so i m asking your help.. plz just help me..

So my prend rashidbabu! ghazalz has offered you the easiest solution.

Step 1- Let her accept Islam.

Step 2- Marry her.

Step 3- Enjoy life

Step 4- ....

No kidding...;)

Yes!

Never heard of anything like that before. Pardon my ignorance of the matter but if a lady out of a non-muslim marriage converts to Islam, her non-muslim husband will no longer remain her husband?

oh i see, i just answered in behalf of the Philippines' issue regarding the marriage or the poster's desire to marry a Filipina with every other details he mentioned.

and that's why i did ask if it's required in India because i have no idea.

maybe the poster knew already that such certificate is not required in India, but since he aint marrying an Indian girl, but a complicated marital status of a Filipina, that's why this query was raised.

i just hoped i was able to help the poster.

Thanks WK for that piece of info regarding marrying in India.

If a Muslim lady previously married to a non Muslim, her relationship becomes null and void after accepting Islam.

Well I haven't seen anybody getting married in India produce a singleness certificate or any other certificate for that matter before getting married.

You want to get married, you just go ahead and do it.

Unless there is a complaint by someone, nobody will bother to check anything.

yeah it may sound weird, even me was amazed how it's called in dubai, it has a different name here in doha, though, but to describe it, it's just about a piece of paper stating that you were not married before, or you remain single in the NSO.

does it answer your question WK? or you meant another thing?

Singleness certificate??

Hahaha..

who's kidding and why?

but to just answer the question, divorce is not allowed in Philippines. and Philippines is one of the only 2 nations that does not allow divorce.

legal separation and annulment though can be done. better take Good old joe's advise, everything will only be settled from where she's married.

if you marry her in india, her husband can file charges against her, and doesnt india ask for the singleness certificate as a proof she isnt married? just a thought

I agree !!!

Dear Qlers Don't be serious he is just kidding it seems...

you must be kidding !!!!

.. Would it not be more advisable following her to the philippines and then you could get anything and everything changed and sorted out there. It will not get any easiser then this.

You are a Muslim and you should know that married women is not allowed to marry another man until he divorce her. If she is christian, you still don't have problem to marry her once she get her divorce officially.