Men ooohhh Men
By anaana12321 •
*Why do men are only good at the beginning of the relationship?
*Why can’t they be consistent?
*Why can’t they keep their words and promises?
*Why can they trash everything in a snap?
*Why is it hard for them to hold on?
*Why can’t they sacrifice?
*Why do they leave so easily?
*Why do they move on so fast?
Finding a man without those qualities is like looking for a pin in a haystack!
Do u think the world is losing good men? or are we just having high expectation of what good men should be nowadays?
No, we are not impossible to please... it just takes a bit of more effort that the one most men are willing to do...
Women complains to offer more opportunities to men to make continuous improvements ;D
:P ya rite, i thought it was the facial
That's Women's beauty..........
women are impossible to please
why do women keep complaining???
Dont suffercate him or you will loose him.
Amen to that!
Just because you are together, doesnt mean he has to stop going out with his friends. Im sure you the same thing. Its always nice to have a balance of time with friends and partner. Dont suffercate him or you will loose him.
Hmmm. Hi young lady, its been awhile. Ill take a crack at this. Commenting on behalf on the men out there.
Why do men are only good at the beginning of the relationship?
Response: Why are women only good at the beggining of the relationship? Works boths way.
*Why can’t they be consistent?
Response: Stop fronting and be yourself.
*Why can’t they keep their words and promises?
Response: Most men are telling you what you wanna hear. Promises is a joke.
*Why can they trash everything in a snap?
Response: Because its a man's world. Hehe. Because We take what we want and trash it whens it time to be taken out.
*Why is it hard for them to hold on?
Response: Why is it hard for you to keep us interested for us to hold on.
*Why can’t they sacrifice?
Response: Maybe your not the one to sacrifice for.
*Why do they leave so easily?
Response: So easily because as easily he picked you up, as easily he can dump you off.
*Why do they move on so fast?
Response: Moving on very fast=you outta my head and more girls. Another notch on my headboard.
Finding a man without those qualities is like looking for a pin in a haystack!
Response: Yes your right. But that applies to ladies also.
Do u think the world is losing good men? or are we just having high expectation of what good men should be nowadays?
Response: In Qatar, yes your expectations are high.
Conclusion: Look for someone with a good heart. Someone who makes you laugh and smile. Someone who you can wake up to and can say this is the person I truly can be with. Its not always about looks, money or what he/she has. It takes time and patience. Dont find him. Let your paths cross naturally and then you will know that is your prince charming.
Yes,some women say men are all the same but who told them to try every man who comes along anyway? If you are not happy in a relationship you're obviously dating the wrong guy. Good men are not hard to find but you have to be right for them too.
and i hve AB+
lol!
becca - My blood group is B Positive you see :0
of course!
BB ur just positive ha?
Whoop whoop! TB has a new toaster, let's celebrate ;-)
Becca - Yes I'am. Positive.
My Question is ... any of you ladies know how to dance in rain in a slow motion??
Snexy.. I'll make one white saree for you - Problem solved :D
are you sure???
Tinku - Thanks for the recognition. Where's my trophy now?? Loooolz
Tinks for President!!
Becca - I'am not a kid. I have proof.
Right all of you... there you go all men are not pigs.
Hands up all women with a man who is not described by the OP.
women are impossible to please
Now whats all this twaddle about all men being pigs?
hey...!!! u just told me ur not a kid??
now ur asking for a candy..
hhmmm....
i will think about it again !!
hahahahahaha
I haven't taken it out of the box yet Tinks, but as soon as I have, and read the instructions, your sandwich will I am sure, be suitably toasted.
White saree...not bad...it has to have gold embroidery though. And you have to break into song and dance at many times!
hmmmm... u made me think..!!
Thank you becca - Now where's my candy? :))
I just bought a sandwich toaster
QL is not a dating site. It is a family website ;))
very well said BB....
Men are highly committed to too many people....so obvious other person feels what you said (OP)
OMG Senssy! Oooh La La!, :P !!
Slight problem CL, I don't own any white sarees!
Whooaa.. snexy.. call me whenever you plan to do that .. :D
That joke makes me giggle everytime CL :-)
That's my ultimate fantasy nomerci...dancing in the rain in a white saree and my Prince Charming joining me :-P
ROFL... Marco..that was a good one :D
Tinker.. Awwww.. No, I am Mr. Puuurrrrrrfectoo !! :D
anaana12321: Was having a tough day and had stretched herself out on the couch to do a bit of what she thought to be well-deserved complaining and self- pitying.
She moaned to her mom and brother, "Nobody loves me ... the whole world hates me!"
Her brother, busily occupied playing a game, hardly looked up at her and passed on this encouraging word: "That's not true, Nanna. Some people don't even know you."
:P
This is why we Men cannot satisfy you !!
A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:- 'You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. You may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back d own except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband.
On the 1st floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs..
The 2nd floor sign reads:Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.
The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely good looking.
'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.
She goes to the 4th floor and the sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework.
'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!'
Still, she goes to the 5th floor and sign reads: Floor 5- These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have A Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store .
To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opens a six-story New Wives Store just across the street.
The1st floor has wives that love sex.
The 2nd through 6th floors have never been visited.
Well, depends on how you interpret love.
Sadly a lot of women think that "Bollywood" and Disneyland are the the leads to look upon...:P
Ana - You have asked 8 difrerent questions but most of them seem to be highly correlated. Below are a few tips if you like to make things simpler for all women to understand. This is not meant as a ' Must Do' list rather a ' Good to-Do' list verified by my own experiences.
1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you. Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He
does not love you and does not value having
you.Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not willing to
tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the
relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your
relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste
your time thinking of reasons or what you should have
done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love
you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past. Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just
because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough ;)
4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found
out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on
images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not
fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules. Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to
give and do everything as long as it’s worth it..And
it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage.Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy all the time. It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s
the guy who’s calling, not the girl.He will get tired
of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest
and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s
a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy
until you dial his number. But avoid as much as
possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if
your suspicions are reasonable)
8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated,
and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few
weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a
man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also,
do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he
really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks together? Where
has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into
you anymore.
The above is not entirely original but I'am sure it's a good thing to keep those points in mind. We guys are also human beings (unfortunately) and tend to react to things like normal human beings :)
I don't really mean it though Tink, I'm just trying to make the OP feel better, LOL :-)
Love is so overrated!
But our love is G-rated! ^_^ foxy face on!
CL: "Too Much Love Will Kill You" ^_*
How opportunistic!@OP: Now you know how guys move on so easily :). Take it easy guys ;)
Yes, Puurrrfecto (with the spanish accent) :D
Tinkerbell10.. didnt you announce me as Mr. Perfecto for girls?? :P
OK, your search is over now.. Be happy .. I am the pin in a haystack = Real Man :P
Man has some nature, so Women, but the relationship means some new nature that is a combination of both, meaning "understanding".....................but unfortunately in the beginning man accept everything women have with the hope that she will understand what is rite and what is wrong soon, whereas women start thinking that,"oh he is great, he is my prince, he is the one and only just". because he is accepting everything in you. but in a long run when man start realizing, she is not changing not understanding then a communication gap develops which eventually cause breakups or leaving each other and something like that.
i am so busy these days otherwise i would have explain above in more detail ..............i would like to ask women to draw three columns and see all the good things that he has done write it in one column in front of it write the cost(Time and Money) of all those things, and in third column write it if you were him would you do that or not, just write yes or no there in end you will see the result,
Dont do this exercise for your self ladies.......it will be biased then :-)
in my case..well am not expecting too much..we passed 1 year now and hopefully more years...but the problem is.. hes always busy.b4 am always nagging when he dnt hve time but i get tired so now...am not saying anything.so were not fighting but if am alone..sumtyms am thinking at nyt...why he cnt find time for me?we met once twice a month and just for a hour or two??...and hes going out thursday and friday with his frends.. :( i know hes busy but don't 4get we also need u on our side guys :(
at Ana, we, women must think as a man. and get a lot of spare just in case, and one thing, dont let urself to be so in depth with the relationship, unless he puts a ring on ur finger, thats the only time, u will know, a guy is serious. and for the mean time, just let things flow, and never believe something that he says, unless he proves himself. if ur guy ignores u, drop him, lots of fish in the sea.
Quit being so much whinny and grumpy all the time and your man will never leave .
ok, next topic please! :) Such talks bore men! Anyways, just to enlighten you:
*Why do men are only good at the beginning of the relationship? - They do not realise that the woman he is in relation with will turn into an emotional nagger! This takes a toll on the interest of men.
*Why can’t they be consistent? - They are very consistent. All men stare at a particular anatomy of women, irrespective of the situation, any given time. That's consistency!
*Why can’t they keep their words and promises? - Promises are meant to be broken, else how will things become easier for them. Example: Honey, i promise i will quit smoking will save me from further nagging from the woman.
*Why can they trash everything in a snap? - Ah, coz they are emotionally unstable and weak!
*Why is it hard for them to hold on? - Ditto as above
*Why can’t they sacrifice? - They do sacrifice the relation for the sake of well being!
*Why do they leave so easily? - -Coz they cannot sacrifice
*Why do they move on so fast? - Nature of men; they tend to accept changes faster!
To summarize, you need to get over this attitude and you will find best of the breed. Good luck!
To all confused women:
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Does your BF rather be with his guy friends instead of being with you? .. (The one time a week he leaves all to see you is not counted)
If yes, then you need to get the msg, He likes to see you once a week and you need to pay the dues.
If no, then you have done a good job taming his little monster.
High Expectations will Blow you away...
Women are like fruits. Every woman has her own unique taste and color, The problem is with men, they seeem to love FRUIT SALAD :D
helps when you keep your mouth shut
There's a lot of fish in the sea or shall i say bananas on the tree:) I'm sure you will find your match but don't be too picky dear.
*Why do WOMEN are only good at the beginning of the relationship?
*Why can’t they be consistent?
*Why can’t they keep their words and promises?
*Why can they trash everything in a snap?
*Why is it hard for them to hold on?
*Why can’t they sacrifice?
*Why do they leave so easily?
*Why do they move on so fast?
Finding a WOMEN without those qualities is like looking for a pin in a haystack!
Do u think the world is losing good WOMEN? or are we just having high expectation of what good WOMEN should be nowadays?
No WOMEN without(WO)MEN!!
There are plenty of good men, but they want a good woman ;)
Perhaps you're looking in the wrong place.
it's a simple answer: coz they need a woman to teach them how to do that so if u r a good teacher any student will listen to u and do what u want him to do.
u have the proper tools, don't u? ;)
Why do they expect so much from us ?
you expectations are too high!
release him and find another one who can give you love that you are longing for...
If you have 7 auras for men, used 1 every day tell 7th day and repeat the operation again. So relation will not get bore.
the ratio between a woman losing a man is a lot higher than a man losing a woman in a relationship...now who's fault at it?
And I bet he has wife and kids back home and you wouldn’t be getting married.
no the world is losing fun girls who happen to be blond and double D'd and willing to entertain without complaining!
Because we can ......................
66 and over , you seriously don't need a banana , Accept my apologies , Try searching for a right man
nah...i don't think i dated a wrong man! it's just a thought and i seriously don't need a banana, im fine without it! haha.
Anaana is eagerly waiting for a banana?
Obviously you're dating the wrong men.
Anaana you seriously need Banana
i dunno..yeah they are very good in the beginning after how many months they changed..tsk tsk..i dunno i will get crazy if i think about it..!!my bf also is a headache!always BUSY.. :(