Post- Break up Blues
For all you girls who just broke up with their boyfriends or considering breaking up with their boyfriends, expect to experience the following melancholies:
Ø the endless and undying questioning yourself, your friends and your ex-boyfriend “why?why?why?”
Ø the minute per minute bout with your tear ducts and until your ducts run dry and give up!
Ø The desire to call him in the wee hour just to hear his voice (awww)
Ø The ever famous “anorexic diet” when you can’t eat anything and Mr. Appetite doesn’t even bother to visit you (sigh). As a consequence, you feel like having zero-energy. And all you want to do is stay in your bed while listening to break-up songs.
Ø The urge to call him names! Cheater, loser, a**hole, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. Whatever suits your mood! But you don’t actually mean it.
Ø The “change-my-number” drama just to get rid of him but in reality, you know his number by heart. And days later, you’ll text him and asking “how are you?”
Ø The constant checking of his friendster account just to have a glimpse of his gorgeous face, to see if he already changed his status, if he added new girl friends in his friends list, to check his recent uploaded pictures, and to just simply see his face (haay)
Ø The absolute loss of self-esteem when you begin to think that he stopped loving you or cheated on you or changed his mind being with you. And you absolutely have no idea why.
Ø The act of posting blogs like this hoping your ex-boyfriend will read and later will realize that you’re still in deep pain. In short, you’ll do ways to make him grasp the fact that you’re still in love with him!
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BIG Thanks to Jaxs's buddy JAYDEE for this wonderful article.
Actually it's taken from her blog...quite interesting, don't you think so?
What you are is what you have been, and what you will be is what you do now. - Buddha
- the endless questioning “why?why?why?”
- crying time is limited to bedtime...before sleeping; help me fall asleep
- The ever famous “anorexic diet” when you can’t eat anything and Appetite seemed to be a new word...no mushy/sad songs for me...to tired to listen, anyway...
- calling the ëx" names...I call MYSELF names like stupid, pathetic...wallowing in self-pity...NOT ANYMORE
BOTTOMLINE - with friends around me...it's bearable then...
Actually, this topic was lifted from a blog...it's just so happens that some special people in my life and some close (to my heart)friends has been/is now in this phase.
Shall I say I am once in that phase....I think I was...maybe not :-)
all I know is that I'm ok (for now)
guys ... the thread was talking about break-up blues. So how can you enlighten this thread? It would go away from it's purpose and meaning and it would be kinda of Hidden-Hijack to this thread.
Stay in the subject please, it starts to turn into Men-Women fight :) Why do women blame men and men blam women? The start came from an honest sit with yourself, see what you did wrong because you know what you did good and bad, right or wrong. Even if you know that that person did something wrong, do you expect him/her to admit it? Not always ... it requires a lot of courage soemtimes to admit the it and say: Yes .. I was wrong ...
it can be:)
nib, correct me if im getting this wrong..you refer to relationship as playing?..:)
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what the hell:p
yea. u all wanna win. and when u cant it is sad. i dont wanna win. i dont wanna play.
not now but soon:p
nib!!!!! come back..don't listen to maria.m...we want someone to talk to..:P
maria.m..we lost our chance there having a good discussion bout this whole heartbreak, trust, commitment, men suck (this phrase is still right?),issues...:D
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Save your breath Owen. I saw him crawling out like a cock-roach.
ROFL..maria.m...
nib?..what do you mean by "play"...:)
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Ohhhh enters a male KILL HIM !!!! KILL HIM !!!!! *Bam Bam Shooting all over Bam Bam*
hmmmmm...actually mariam.m im thinking of some comments to lighten this thread..but i think i will be ban afterwards..:D
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well.. all u guys tried to play with other but u failed with it so u r suffering hahaha:)
Yeah Owen, who needs them anyways. (* Muttering in her head* I do, I do, I am just keeping up the spirit of boredom).
maria, they do??? :D ok some of them *dang on my head*
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Well rightly put Corne...it goes back in circles...
Well then from my recent past experience...i have learnt to never get too involved in a relation ...unless that thing is taking u where U WANT IT TO...so since there is nothing on the cards...i can surely show ppl who r dull out here...the pleasant things...to cheer up...i mean life with a few good friends is much pleasurable than a Gf/ Bf...
Anyways who wanna sit dull...pls carry on...its a decent day...today...so no cry-baby thoughts...
Owen: i will give u a better deal...dont throw stones...pass by the house and i will make u a good tea...
Let me know...
Alright ppl...gotto go...stay safe...take care...and have fun...
Corne..did i loose ur number...can i have that back pls LOL...
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" Live Life To The Fullest ! Enjoy Yourself "
Yeah Men Suck !!!
will not cornellian..that 20 ways to maintain sanity thread helped me..lol..
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You're just jealous of all us heart broken people Corne. :P
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Dont try sarat, they'll still come back to talking about how u cant trust anyone, how u'll never be able to commit, how u'll be hurt for life, bla bla BLA!
wanted to go out from my room now (imagining how breezy outside is)..might drop by your house ksa and throw stones in there, just to let you know that i pass by..:D
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First of all...how r u all doin on a lovely Friday evening...its a good breezy evening out in Doha...
Anyways whats with the serious issues here...somebody takes it off track and makes it cooler...and then u get back to serious issues...Gypsy u too...o yea...u aint feeling well...sad girl...get well soon buddy...u want any assistance...paramedics...
Breakups...makes u think how stupid u were to get into a relation in the first place...but then u gotto take it as u go...i m sure life has a lot more to offer...out of every 3 new-borns 1 is a girl(i dont know whether these statistics still apply)...so yea...see many opportunities...
All the while...a buffet of options...
So whats happenin ppl...
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ok corne..got the message...:D as i was saying...what was that again????...refresh refresh..will be back again here..just gathering all the positive thoughts..just a sec..:D
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I don't feel well so I'm staying home tonight and complaining. :P
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
What a hopeless bunch u are! I tried to lighten up the mood but nooooooo u all had to go back to being miserable and talking about trust and commitment issues on a FRIDAY night when ur supposed to be having fun. God help me with u lot! Grrrrr....
It pains a lot more than dying ... you die so many times everyday, you die thousands of times while the time is passing by .. does not care about you ... because it has to pass .. no matter if you were happy, sad .. in pain or in need .. it just pass ... and you are the only one who got the choice, either to continue dying everyday again and again waiting for none coming death or look for a change and a better life ...
exactly gypsy...exactly...
giving trust to someone after a heartbreak is really an effort..and would be totally unfair for the person trying to break free that trust issue...coz its like doing a balancing act..testing the water if possible or not (too afraid to again try)...
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Heartbreak is just so interesting. By all rights anything that hurts that much should kill you, but it doesn't.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
trusting someone again is really so hard, trusting the same person again is impossible, trusting people around you again would be hard, and ... see ... only under the Trust issue, we got a lot of issues ... that is why ... from the beginning ... I don't give my trust so easily ..
Wiser, tougher more paranoid, less trusting, commitment phobic...the list of what heartbreak can do for you just goes on and on.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
A father asked his 10-year old son if he knew about the birds and the bees.
"I don't want to know," the child said, bursting into tears. "Promise me you won't tell me."
Confused, the father asked what was wrong.
The boy sobbed, "When I was six, I got the 'There's no Easter Bunny' speech.
At seven, I got the 'There's no Tooth Fairy' speech.
When I was eight, you hit me with the 'There's no Santa' speech.
If you're going to tell me that grown-ups don't really get laid, I'll have nothing left to live for."
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
Azzy, IMHO, You can't beat destiny. Heartbreak is accompanied by heartache.
So break ups make u lose weight AND travel...woohoo! I'm out to find me a boyfriend :D
so am i qualified for the RIP thing?..:P hmmmm...are we using the same meaning of RIP btw?..lol
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After a heartbreak...you become wiser to avoid making the same mistake you did. It makes you tougher so you won't easily break down when you happeb to be in the same situation again...
Owen, than you'll be in the nowhere land.
you did not learn any thing from your prevuious relations ...
wiser and tougher?..and if i did not became that person?....what then?
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Yes Azzy. But is it really worth it. I would rather be a little less wise.
are right ... but I don't think that I would have the time or let myself live that experience again ... I'm used to pain, but not that kind of pain ...
One heartbreak will not be the end of the world....
It just makes a person wiser and tougher...
will send me to a fancy place with R.I.P sign there ...
azzy lol....a broom named qatar airways..:P
gypsy, you beat me on that...just this once only..still wondering why i chose qatar..:D
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Aha Whats this bf thing all about? I thought u were dng some medical papers rite?
Hey Owen, I did that to! Twice...no wait...Three times! lol.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
a broom or a flying carpet?
I would rather gorge on chocolates.
heartbreak made me flew all the way to another country...:D
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I think I lost 10 pounds already...whehehehehe
What break up you talking about...
The article came from a friend's friend's blog and I thought to share it.
Why? interested?
I need to get a boyfriend, and then make him dump me in such a heartbreaking and miserable way so I can lose weight :D
And guys like that are the easiest to find! lol
Chill out Its Ramadan & i thnk azzi has gone thru a break up
Nothing beats the heartbreak diet. I once lost 6 kilos. :D
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
need more time to re-organize my schedules and everything...
hru whats happening lomg time no see
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
what ever the next meeting is u better make it okay :)
You too...miss you guys a lot...take care...
As long as ur happy thts all tht matters ... u tk care ok :)
yeah was reminding me of my x :P
I'm very happy nowadays...can't tell you why but I AM.
The articles way too cool and way so TRUE...so just wanna share it...
Cheers!
Awww Come on Azzi Cheer up .... dont b so low ... give us tht sweet smile of ur's
Time is the biggest healer.