Profound words of wisdom...
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. It is real. But...only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life.
......This came to me in an email...but the last line, I truly mean...Thank you....
enjoy it, if you were in UK today, its only 18 degrees and raining, and its supposed to be summer!!!! not like 54 and 90% humidity!
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stop talking crazy and go get me some coffee... we're always happy, can't you see.. :-D
Its weird to see every 1 so happy n smiley today ... its not even Thursday .... Scary !!!!
Ha ha You guys are great. :D
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
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really greattttttt so where are we goin for lunch then at 11pm :D
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A pig for you carve up for Ham. (you want to borrow my chainsaw?)
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I'm in a great mood. SO I guess just a really happy smiley. :D Come on Darude, you're a big Ham lol.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
hmmm ok should i make that out of Mr. Paul but he is too salty hmmm tell me whose???
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I can get any you want if you can think of a smiley that would cheer you up or make you laugh,cry or sing.
Dont forget, I am the smiley daddy of QL.
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I;m bored at work as well. Where are you getting those smileys?
Ya DaRude, I would like a big ham for my last meal. ;D
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
you wana kick will fulfill ur last wish then b4 kill you :D
what else wish you got plz tell me :D
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As Im sat bored at work again.
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Bring it on Wolfie! I kick yo Azz.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
they all are sweet to you today coz they know am going to kill you in few days :/
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ROFL! I will Mr. Paul, no worries.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Im feeling in a generous mood and am very happy today.
(Plus, as i dont have a wife anymore, i didnt want these flowers to die, so make sure you put them in a vase of water wont you!) Thanks.
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AWWWWWW. Why is everyone being so sweet to me today. :D
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I'm great, and No I didn't get any Canada smiley? :(
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
easier to read for you, but i have no idea how to.
How are you and did you get the canada smiley i sent you??
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I can't be bothered to read all these posts. Nice topic Scarlett, I've been thinking the same thing recently as well.
:D
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I m doing fine guys - busy but boring day at work - but hey being a lady i can multitask LOL.
Bit hungry though so need food .........
Not sure about u now MR D. mite have to remove u from my buddylist!! LOL
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That was great!!! Very well said :P
tra la la
hope October comes here quickly.
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hey...i dont talk rude or dirty...if thats already rude and dirty...wait until u actually hear me talk that way ;-P anyways, got lots to tell u..but i'll save it up until i see u ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
long time no see how u doin missed you alot :D
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why the hell are you in love with a donkey man where the hell did ur maid go. or wait dont tell me she rides u like a donkey at home while alone hmmm hmmm
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I love a woman who can talk rude and dirty! maybe Im just a perv!!!
Morning Zyga, what u up to today?
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Darude
Before I depart to my diurnal rest in my private chambers.
I intended to share some thoughts and words that are spilling with confessions from the Donkey to your persona.
The Donkey allowed me to negotiate a level of words he will like to share with you in public sort of encrypted.
1- The Donkey intends to have a second trial of humping madness, since he declared you are his favorite under rider.
2- The intentions and suggestions of whipping the Donkey yesterday, shows just your chevalier attitude of frustration of not being content with the Donkey posture.
3- The Donkey stated that your words towards him "Where of proportional discontent and climatic despair"
4- The Donkey mention that "Old memories of Happy faces are still fresh in his thoughts", when you was rode by the Donkey.
5- The Donkey wants you to choose a good candidate to ride the Donkey tonight.
Have a Beautiful Donkey morning.
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..
we are not flirting mr paul ;-P this is just us having a normal conversation like before ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
you re a foxy lady.......and before Mr pAUL or RUDY Darudy gets excited i am not a Lesbo....
OOhhh check us out, flirting on QL!
We will be in lots of trouble.....Lol
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mr paul thats definitely an exaggeration ;-P my legs arent that deadly!!! ;-P maybe i should just wear jeans for a change, i dont want anyone having a heart attack because of me ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
sorry owen, sweetie..
ok NOW I'm off to bed before I get owen and myself in trouble...I think I said that about an hour ago...but I now can get only 5 hours sleep and at my age, every minute counts when its beauty sleep! Night hon...
You can use my hammer on Darude. Go for both knees!
tra la la
you are...personal opinion and not a bit prejudiced either...what's the old saying..."pretty is as pretty does"...so knock the ever loving out of his knees and remove all doubt.. ;)
a random fillapino girl???
Very pretty whichever.
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smile, get all those young Bahraini guys moist !!
They will probably have a heart attack when they clap eyes on you...LOL!!
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Those aren't lesbo pics that what you will look like after Owen and I throw you to your wolfie friends.
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what pinch? i will crack his knee, so he would not move ever again..lol and errr, mom not too much, some might believe you and will be disappointed later on..:P
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we'll have to see about that ;-P cant wait to see u in bahrain ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
then he had a back ache, tail ache and got a mouthfull of sand..
am going to close my hmm inbox for good now :/
hmm wait i got some serious issues here with some one
so cant.
Jass and Owen stop sending me those lesbo pics
or am goin to report you both now understand :/
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i will send the "Boys" round to sort him out!! LOL
Hey darling, what issues???
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that is nasty, poor scorp must've had to bear you weight before he stung ya... lol!!
So i hope you know you havta get me some good 'ol country music... ;-)
No sour lemon here, only make that face when I see you.
Please stop sending me romantic PM's, besides you forgot to change the name from Red-Pope to Jass when you cut and pasted it.
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don't take that stuff off Da....just pinch his knee, hon...you can reach that far...and Da..she's not blue...but she'd be pretty good looking if she was cause she's gorgeous already
issues?
tho...needless to say..he's now in scorpion heaven...but I will be wearing closed toed shoes for a bit...
And...I love willien waylon and the boys...Luckenbach is a great place too by the way...just like you imagine it
oh yeah right stallion...lol, course i am short for you! you tall stick...denying it? i will forward it to you mom, all of them..:D :D...
nobody likes you darude, get it?..:P
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why is it that everytime i read your posts i am reminded of "Let's go to Luchenback Texas, with Waylon, Wille and the boys...."
Hows the farm doing scarlett? ;-P
I am in touch with my femenine side LOL !!!
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No i was sending the romantic PMs to Gypsy but she never replied.
what makes you think that am interested in u owen. u aint my type too.
too short for me too short for me you smurfy :DDDD
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Da's ordering me around...owen is having issues with him..sighhhhhhh...dang its enough to drive me nuts...
DA...quite harrassing poor owen...send those romantic PMs to the newbies so they can name and shame you...besides, you need to get some new material and stop using the same stuff on us... (ducking out before Da throws something all the way from Qatar!)
NIGHT!!
here we go again with the drinking thing ;-P i would probably need hangover cures coz i havent been drinking much lately so im a bit rusty ;-P mr paul i cry my heart out when im drunk so u better be prepared for that ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
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can you please tell darude to stop sending me romantic PM's..:D he's harassing me for months now..im close to tellin it to Qatari also..;D
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my salty self is off to bed..so NIGHT NITE everyone!!
Ill show u how to put the beer into your body, so bring some hangover cures!!
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No the Doc told me u are better like this stay like this :D
Jass hmmm she is new have to drag her around every where
owen no need she just slips around lil smurfy :D
Jauntie oh maaaaaaan that divine funny attitude she go just punch her tiny toon nose :D
and you salty babe scarlettttttt dont tell me in the morning u are feeling restless coz of the shoulder so better move,
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scaredy cat ;-P no worries...im not going to be nagging u to do it when i get there...lets just go out and get crazy ;-P u have about a month to prepare ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
and rest...dang it...now he's bossing me around...and yes you've been trying sweetie...I'll write you a note and get you excused from the principal's office...
And Da, owen is sweet and spicy...rare combination but good!!
Jass isn't a pucker face...she's funny...
Jauntie...she's trouble...could be the main reason we get along...its nice having a cohort to always blame things on... ;)
Now, you Da, on the other hand, are....hellaciously funny with a bite to it...speaking of which..have you had your rabies shot this year?
i dont really fancy getting frisked (ooer!) by some mad Saudi copper for aledged people trafficking!
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just always hate to see things like that happen. I can tell you are one to always bounce back...re read what I said...don't abuse it..might fall off...lmao
Life goes on,and if you knew me, you would know i wont stay down for long, life is far too short!!
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wehehehehe...and who told you? :D ..Qler's are not supporting me now, tellin on you huh?..hows the shoulder(s)?
im trying mom, hell you know im trying..
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na na na she is spicy king told me that. just like a red chilli :D
and that Jass she is sour or soar what do u call thats lemon
and Jauntie damn she is way bitter yuuuuuuuuukh :D
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and as far as the post...take it to heart..it works..
I hear you are in dire need of a good ear pinching...shame....
I've been like a mushroom...kept in the dark and fed sh&&t.lol
but...you'll be alright with time. Just take your own time and get to know yourself again...we always end up changing as we grow older and experience life (no you're not old!). You've got one of those personalities that lends itself to people wanting to be around you. Just don't abuse it... I don't want to hear you saying..."so many women, so little time"
Seriously though...my thoughts are with you...sorry things didn't work out like they should have.
"LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life."
--->nice reading early in the morning..:D thanks mom..
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u live in bahrain but u work in saudi right??? maybe u could sneak me past the border so i could see my parents...saudi isnt issuing me a visit visa there even under my dad's sponsorship coz i dont have my iqama here yet...argh!!!
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
i'm trying to scarlett, but its no working lately ;-P lol
u can say ive been bad since u left ;-P but still enjoying thursday nights...;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
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When i got to Bahrain, my wife has met someone else so its over between us.
However, Im starting to bounce back after all the soul searching and post mortems you do when your marriage breaks down.
That said, Bahrain is brill.You can party every night, drink beer in restaurants, feed your face with pork, and buy most magazines that would be banned in Qatar!!!
Plus, the driving is 100% better than Qatar and the Bahrainis are very friendly, again, something that cant be said for Qataris.
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you keeping everyone smiling whilst I'm gone?
I miss Thursday nights.....
scarlett: true, true, true..hard but there's no other way...and i am learning ;-P miss u...cant wait til u get back ;-P
mr paul: hey, i'll be in bahrain fro a few days on the first week of october...see u then ;-P and im all good ok, never been better ;-P
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
I'm free and got new wings along time ago.
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..
I'm happy as a pig in a mud wallar and as if I had good sense!!!
Ya just have to figure out what you want to do in life and go get it!
Haven't heard from you in ages..how goes Bahrain???
all this talk about divorce and releationships!! come on, lets all cheer up.
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voice of experience?
but I got this in an email a long time ago, but it made so much sense to me that I saved it in a folder and just found it this evening. Thought I'd share it with y'all. Those people that are in your life for a REASON can be the hardest to let go of...even if they have hurt you in the most unimaginable way, but in the long run, its for the best and you'll have grown from the experience.
Being Divorce is a "GOOD BRIDGE TO BURN"!
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..
if you keep crossing and recrossing them and you are getting pulled down at both ends...
There is no reason to . . .Thats my credo
first thing i read this morning...its a good way to wake up ;-P gives me something to really think about for the rest of the day and to help get through some things ;-P
"When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are."
"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."
I get so dang impatient with the internet...I end up posting twice...
The hardest thing in life to learn is which bridge to cross and which bridge to burn.
Scarlett quote:
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
I could relate to that.....
Red_Pope quote:
You establish your friends and you let go of your friends. Only good or bad memories remains and them you move on to the next level of life.
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..