Question for the Ladies

Sadiq
By Sadiq

I am thinking of having an affair... if you were my wife would you rather I had an affair with a woman better looking than you or uglier than you? Older than you or younger than you? Same gender as you? Same species?

One of these questions is serious.

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.

By Sadiq• 9 Feb 2008 15:49
Sadiq

I am 6' 5" and have the body of a god (albeit Budda), I'm not scared of anything that isn't a woman.

 

 

'Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt Abraham Lincoln

By adey• 2 Feb 2008 22:54
Rating: 4/5
adey

Been there, done that. Why are you asking for advice? It's not a game, do it or don't - but YOU live with the consequences, no one here could care less really so their opinion is worthless. You must be scared or just having a laugh.

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.

-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.

By qd06• 2 Feb 2008 21:10
qd06

Back to the topic PM, please relate he just wants a little "FREE LOVE"

In the words of Rodney King, cant we all just get along? I guess he felt slighted as an American Muslim. I guess maybe also being a convert.

You American muslims are soooo sensitive. Relax, go smoke a joint,drop a stamp, free love and burn a bra.....

Act your age not your shoe size

By qd06• 2 Feb 2008 20:53
Rating: 3/5
qd06

PM ,

I think it was an expression meaning to relax. A crack addict is usually hyperactive and makes crazy comments or statements.

Act your age not your shoe size

By anonymous• 2 Feb 2008 20:36
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

Not even a beer or a glass of wine?

Just keep confessing PM, you are doing alright. If you need confidialidty, you are most welcome to visit my Confession Booth. any time.

:)

The Red Pope of Qatar Living

I have seen a twelve toe stripper, I have seen one breasted stripper, I have seen a brainless stripper, but never in my life a one legged stripper! Quentin tarantino-Planet Terror--

By princess habibah• 2 Feb 2008 20:20
Rating: 4/5
princess habibah

very funny indeed.

It takes alot more than money to have a second wife though. It takes islamic knowledge and being able to teach all your wives that knowledge the children and providing an islamic enviroment as well. And respecting the feelings of your wives. I.E if one of them would like to leave that you do are able to provide her with comfort because in modern times many women do not have the financial support to get on with their lives after leaving a marriage. specially where she doesn't work.

pretty difficult for alot of sexxxxxxxy men out there. and perhaps when marrying.. we should not stay away from our wives so that we don't think about cheating on them.. to the poster. pay for a ticket so she can come and visit you ...

as for me.. I'm not against polygamy.. I see alot of women who would benefit from my husband.. having said that he is so gullible I would be worried about the repercussions.. Its a hard decision..

By mariam-mar• 2 Feb 2008 19:57
mariam-mar

Poor Salax... you will be 100% loyal to your wife, after thinking something to someone you don't really know? Who the heck will believe you?

By mariam-mar• 2 Feb 2008 19:55
Rating: 4/5
mariam-mar

Salax better careful, this thread is not shopping mall for girls, hhhmmmppp!!!!

By anonymous• 2 Feb 2008 19:50
anonymous

My ex wife left me for another man after having an affair. How would YOU feel if she said this to you or hurt you this badly !!

Cos believe you me, when i found out, and when she finds out, which she will one day, it completely destroys your life.

So just be happy and enjoy your marriage and wife.Because you wouldnt want to be in my situation.

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By lcj1128• 2 Feb 2008 19:49
Rating: 3/5
lcj1128

**** be proud pinoy ****

Ha ha Sadiq got all of your nice comments and reactions>>>

He was just trying to heat up this topic in this forum to see

how decent married women would react.....given the above situation..

and some guys commented too...just like i did....

By mariam-mar• 2 Feb 2008 19:48
mariam-mar

Salax, whatever you are thinking, if you are not sure who you are talking , better not say or else you will eat your words...

Who the hell are you ???????

By mariam-mar• 2 Feb 2008 19:44
mariam-mar

Salax who are you behind the mask? What do you mean i am doing? Spell it out..

By mariam-mar• 2 Feb 2008 19:32
mariam-mar

Alexa is right Sadiq, because a husband like you doesn't deserve a good wife at all...

By azilana7037• 2 Feb 2008 19:12
azilana7037

he'll be a fag after i'm finished with him (just kidding).

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!" - UNKNOWN

By anonymous• 2 Feb 2008 17:53
anonymous

Scarlett _ Cutting of that thing by wife of the unfaithful husbands is a common practice in Thailand:) Smore they chopped in to small pieces and feed to Chicken.

How about that?

By Scarlett• 2 Feb 2008 16:16
Rating: 5/5
Scarlett

You said you weren't going to have sex with an ape, but with your question, its pretty obvious that whatever woman you have sex with, just had sex with a male ape...certainly someone with the brain power of one...

and just one for the record...I hope if you ask your wife this question, her answer would be to hand you back you cut off manhood as she smiles and walks off.

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.

--Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:31
Rating: 4/5
Sadiq

actually it is not a trick question. If my wife were to go shopping I think my reactions would be different as to what she bought e.g. older, younger, wealthier, poorer, hmmm more shall we say options, uglier etc.

One thing I've learned in all these years is not to make love when you really don't feel like it; there's probably nothing worse you can do to yourself than that.

Norman Mailer

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:26
Sadiq

charansoi11r.... that also some sound advice but although it may sound strange I don't believe in buying it, I find that very demeaning.

Sexually,we are all competing for the same seat on the bus and the thing that holds it together is the tightly held conceit that we are all sexual gods. How can I believe in my own uniqueness when there's a cat out there exactly the same as me?

Jeff Melvoin

By spicemom• 2 Feb 2008 10:25
spicemom

i feel its either a trick question or this chap is getting a kick outta all the reactions and responses posted here......prolly isnt a good idea to keep feeding him aint gonna get nobody anywhere

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By dragonfly212• 2 Feb 2008 10:23
dragonfly212

i guess before you make this post you already got all the best quotes to support your theory. but tell you what, life is not perfect and fair. only the stupids are moaning about it. are you into this group???

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand

By jassKat• 2 Feb 2008 10:23
Rating: 2/5
jassKat

You are stupid. You do not have to have an affair. You are choosing it, and in fact planning it. You know it will hurt your wife, and yet you try to ease your own guilt by finding the most painless way to do it?

Why dont you save your wife the pain and just divorce her so she can find a decent man and you can go fulfill you needs as you call them.

You pretty much suck as a person for even posting this.

tra la la

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:21
Rating: 5/5
Sadiq

some wise advice but I am not real sure about two of anything being better than one.

It is with our passions, as it is with fire and water, they are good servants but bad masters.

Aesop (620 BC - 560 BC)

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:16
Sadiq

Yes, I have wife but she is not here in Qatar and it has been a long time so I am trying to find out what would cause the least pain. (to both if us). In my case it is how much will she beat me.

Instead of fulfilling the promise of infinite orgasmic bliss, sex in the America of the feminine mystique is becoming a strangely joyless national compulsion, if not a contemptuous mockery.

Betty Friedan

By anonymous• 2 Feb 2008 10:15
anonymous

Why don't you buy a plane tickest to BKK or Pattaya fullfill all your dreams:)

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:11
Rating: 4/5
Sadiq

so much that I want to, it's more like I need to experiment. Ape? Yikes I'm not Tarzan.

A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes she's a tramp.

Joan Rivers

'Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt

Abraham Lincoln

By mlsk123• 2 Feb 2008 10:11
Rating: 5/5
mlsk123

if you have a wife, why do you want another lady to have sex with? you can fulfill your desire with your wife...if she dosen't gives you what you want instead of having casual wife you better divorce your wife & marry that lady who gives you what you want....

do you agree with your wife if she has an affair with some other guy? i dont think you will....

if both of you love each other, sex won't be matter any more...having casual wife will gives you pleasure, but it's Consequences are bitter...

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:08
Rating: 4/5
Sadiq

I have always wondered who started that description...

I know nothing about sex because I was always married.

Zsa Zsa Gabor

'Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt

Abraham Lincoln

By Cornellian• 2 Feb 2008 10:06
Rating: 4/5
Cornellian

Hmmm I don't understand why u want to cheat on ur wife, if u have sexual desires and needs then fulfill them with ur wife!

But I love the "same species" question haha, no I'm much prefer u had sex with an ape than a woman haha. Idiot!

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:05
Sadiq

kind of like a training session or "show and tell".

I can remember when the air was clean and sex was dirty.

George Burns

'Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt

Abraham Lincoln

By anonymous• 2 Feb 2008 10:05
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

If I were your better half, I would have asked the same question back to you and then you will feel the effect of your question.

Why don't you have some good subject in QL??

By dragonfly212• 2 Feb 2008 10:03
Rating: 5/5
dragonfly212

If I were his wife I will make him watch what I do with other men and if he is okay with it then I might allowed him to go with other woman. period.

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand

By Sadiq• 2 Feb 2008 10:01
Rating: 5/5
Sadiq

obviously my wife would be angry and rightly so, but if the woman was very beautiful would it hurt less than if it was just some bar-fly?

It's just human. We all have the jungle inside of us. We all have wants and needs and desires, strange as they may seem. If you stop to think about it, we're all pretty creative, cooking up all these fantasies. it's like a kind of poetry.

Diane Frolov and Andrew Schneider,

'Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt

Abraham Lincoln

By Cornellian• 2 Feb 2008 09:57
Rating: 5/5
Cornellian

Hmmm...if I were wife, I would expect u not to have an affair period!

I'm not always right, but I'm never wrong -Garfield

By dragonfly212• 2 Feb 2008 09:52
dragonfly212

I suggest you have an affair with camel instead.. less headache. hihihih... sorry just mean for joke

why early morning like this you want to start with something racy post???

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand

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