we already talked and he promised to change all his mistake, u right guys he have a big problem about his family and me coz hi's family ask him to leave me but he said he can't do it and his family said u have to choose. that's y his acting like that, but he said god will help him and he said i will explain to his family that he can't choose coz he love me, our baby and his family who raised him up and take care of him for so long. I hope it's going to be fine... and sorry to publish it to public like working mom said, i just want some advice or help that's y i publish my personal problem into public. Hope u guys understand me. and thanks to all.
You don't know I am under high stress due my workload ;)
Charansoi, what help do you need from Techdoctor? Why don't you just tell him directly?
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."
Mariam- mar can you ask techdoctor to help me as well?
Techdoctor
I agree with you because it leads to confusion for her and if the negati
side prevails then that she might follow
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."
Hi Mariam-mar,
For a short period I was working for a self-help group in India that had a lifeline for people in distress. If I learned one thing there about life and happiness, that was it - to decide to be right or to be happy. What Maricel needs right now is someone to talk to in times of distress whom her husband also trusts.
By discussing too much about the problem on public forums we may also unknowingly lead to more problems.
:)
Techdoctor, you have your point there, if to be right or to be happy, Maricel, think about this words..Goodluck and let him promise you not to physically hurt you...take care
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."
and i told him, if he will hit me again and he can't see me and his daughter anymore and he swear that to Quran.
Thank you all. I'm happy that u treat me guys as your sister or friends. I love QL who support me anytime and give me good advice. Thanks. Hope i gonna met you all.
Hi Maricel,
Be careful yet. These problems keep cropping up again and again. Both of you need to really talk. Professional help would really help. If you need to change yourself for him to reasonable extent, please do. Usually it's a question of 'do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?'
:)
Better sense prevails!
We can win every one with love!!!
Peace for all...
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happy to help but please dont let him hit you ever again. you are worth then anything else in the world. take care sister
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
So Now you want a New Job :)
at last you did understand him.
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