Shoeb Malik and his affairs
Pakistani Cricketer Shoeb Malik is in news these days. His marriage with Indian Tennis star Sania Mirza is fixed on 15th April. He is trapped in controversy over his alleged marriage with his ex girl friend Ayesha, also from Hyderabad. Ayesha has filed a complaint yesterday that malik is married to her legally and spent time with her. All Malik has to say is that he was cheated by her.
Here is what he said to media:
I want to clarify a few wrongly reported facts about me in some sections of the media, newspapers and television channels in India and Pakistan.
I want to make my position clear especially because I am to wed Sania Mirza in the near future.
Ayesha first started calling me on the telephone when I was in Sharjah with the Pakistan cricket team in 2001. On the phone, she introduced herself as my fan. She said, she was living in Saudi Arabia.
Gradually, we started speaking every day. Naturally, I wanted to meet her. Every time I brought up the topic of meeting she would send me a bunch of photographs. I was made to believe the girl in the photograph was the one I was speaking to.
The truth is, I haven’t, to this day, met the girl in the photographs Ayesha sent me.
We had become close, thanks to the telephone conversations. In 2002, I came to Hyderabad specifically to meet Ayesha. Just before I left Pakistan, she told me she had to rush to Saudi Arabia on urgent work and her cousins -- Reema and Maha apa (meaning older sister) -- would take me around. I waited in Hyderabad for five days, hoping she would return. I finally asked her family where she was and they said, that in the last year she had put on a lot of weight, because of which she didn’t want to meet me until she could shed some of that. I told them I had photographs of her and that she wasn’t fat, but they told me those were older photographs.
Ayesha wanted us to get married. She had been talking about it for some time, saying we would only meet at our shaadi. In 2002, she told me that people in Hyderabad were talking about our relationship, and it was putting her parents in an embarrassing position. She also told me she was feeling insecure. She wanted us to have a telephone Nikah to stop the talk. I knew that my parents wouldn’t agree to a telephone Nikah. They wanted to celebrate my wedding, and so did I.
I wanted to marry Ayesha, but I was too young, I was only 20 years then. There was a lot of pressure on me from Ayesha. I called her from a friend’s shop in June 2002. I got a nikahnama, signed it, thinking the girl I was marrying was the one in the photographs. I wasn’t happy doing this, because I hadn’t told my parents, and was emotionally forced to do it.
A year or so later, I travelled to Hyderabad in the hope of meeting her, but once again it was the same story. Ayesha told me on the phone that she still hadn’t lost the weight she put on so didn’t want to meet me. I was met by Maha apa and Reema, who took me around again.
In 2004, my brother-in-law travelled to Hyderabad to meet Ayesha and her family, and again the same story was repeated, so he returned without meeting Ayesha. At that point, I was a little flustered, because none of us were able to meet her. It was I who had requested my brother-in-law to travel to India and meet Ayesha and her family as I was keen to take the relationship forward, formally.
Later that year, I was here in Hyderabad with the Pakistan cricket team. Mr M.A. Siddiqui invited the team to his house for dinner. I was hoping to meet Ayesha there, but the girl in the photographs wasn’t at the dinner. The same story was told to me again. I just couldn’t understand what was happening.
In a practice game, the next day, I won the man-of-the-match award. Later, I said that I was happy this was happening in my wife’s city. Even though I hadn’t met her even once, we were constantly talking to each other over the telephone. I always wanted to support her. That was how I felt, despite everything.
We accidentally ran into the truth about who Ayesha was. It was the worst moment of my life. No one enjoys being made a fool of, and that was exactly how I was made to look. It happened in August 2005. My brother-in-law got a photograph of a teacher in Saudi Arabia, who was telling people around her that she was married to me. His nephews were studying in that school. I was aghast when he showed me the photograph of the teacher; the woman in it was the person I called Maha apa. I immediately confronted Maha apa. It was she who had been making a fool of me all these years, pretending to be the person whose pictures she had been sending me. I told her I didn’t ever want to speak to her again. At that point I wondered if I could ever trust anyone again.
I told Ayesha I was going to release the photographs she had been mailing me to the media. She apologised and told me that the other girl was married and that I would ruin her life if I released those pictures. I thought about it, whosoever is in that photograph, probably doesn’t even know about all this, and it wouldn’t be fair to release those pictures.
In 2008 my lawyer sent a legal notice to Mr M.A. Siddiqui, who had been feeding the media with false and fabricated stories about me. After that he stopped making false allegations against me, until of course, news of my marriage to Sania Mirza became public.
Now, they’re asking for a divorce. To begin with there was no nikah because they pressurised me into it, with the intention to cheat. In Islam, there can only be a divorce, if the nikah is valid. I was wrongly made to believe that the pictures Ayesha had sent me were of the girl I was marrying. I feel terrible about the mess, created by a family, that has caused great grief to my own people and the family of my bride to be.
I’m confident, however, that the truth will prevail.
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My question is that should such marriages, over phone and without seeing each other face to face, be allowed or made legal? whose fault it is? Boy's or girl's?
Nana Patekar, will definitely packing his luggage from Bollywood ;)
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
Why do we waste a quarter of our lives brooding over celebrity marriages? Maybe Ayesha is innocent, maybe she's not. By showing interest we're just tempting both parties to frustration and lying. Have you seen how the paparazzi are keeping close tabs on Sania and Shoaib? We should worry about the quality of entertainment services they provide us; not their private lives.
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yup...A FULTOO TIME PASS ..lolzzz
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
writes what I like rather than the person behind the ID. It's a bit complex situation but thats how I like it. Real to Real and Virtual to Virtual. The reaason why I dont meet anyone on QL is because I want to continue my interaction with everyone VIRTUALLY. Let my virtual love be virtual. ;)
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
Shoiab was having problem with the weight of AYESHA and so he was bit ashamed to call her his wife in public..now what he wld say abt sania?? lolzzzz
she has all the qualities, u described for sania ;)
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
I'am sure she would have stopped displaying her bad tennis anyways even if she had not got married :)
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
she's much better then ur virtual love, do let me know, if u need her pics :P
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
FU, urs must be an exceptional case then..its ok if u don't like her..well i too have a pblm with her excessive weight and weak forehand and backhand services..I have seen her played in DUBAI and QATAR and on both the occassions she was facing with her fitness problem..
drmana,to hell with her personal life..u shld see some of the INDIAN NEWS CHANNELS..All youngsters and kids used to admire her..I m not against of falling in love with any nationality..Its not my concern..when sania was knowing that youngs and kids follow her in INDIA, she shld've gone for much better option for her rather then for SHOIAB..right??
and my entire group of friends always looked at her as an overhyped-overweight-beefthighed-highnuisance value sports person. I never liked either her sport or her interviews. Nothing substantial in her to get guys like me attracted. :)
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
soniya, she hasn't ditched anyone. It's just that she fell in love. It's issue of her life not of your country. Let the girl enjoy being a girl in love. It's not fair for anyone to deprive her of her rights to choose the person she wants to spend her life with.
"It is better to be hated for what you are than being loved for what you are not."
FU, the only WOMAN GEM from INDIA in the field of tennis..So shez a pride for our country..Don't u guys go ga-ga behind her?? lolzzz.
It Is Sania's Choice, Even Though Sania Won't Play For Pakistan, She Will Play For India, And Shoaib Malik Will Also Not Play For Pakistan, For A Year.
Aviate, Navigate, Communicate
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
drmana, but sania is our pride..i can't think my own business..lolzz
she has ditched INDIA and INDIANS..
and agreed
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
It's their life, it's their choice...let them decide what they want in life. Let us mind our own business....
"It is better to be hated for what you are than being loved for what you are not."
nomad, really...even i don't leave the people who troubles me and my life..lolzz..
hmmmmm seems similarity between us...hahhaa
FU,i can't even think my surname to be a MIRZA in my weirdest dream..lol
dot.com, lucky?? how?? man,ur digs towards my every post makes me to think a lot which i hate..lolzz..can u plzz clarify ur stand??
You are cool ,Soniya. I usually go after the troublemaker types.
The girls like SANIA loves to be in limelight so they go for all kind of stunts in their life..Be it putting their personal life in public..SHAMELESS PEOPLE, SHAMELESS DEEDS..
Soniya --- i know, how lucky i am :P
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Sorry but seriously got confused seeing so many posts here.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
hey nomad, tell us about me then..not here, send me a PM..
If atall he is married why sania going for a second hand husband ??
@ dot.com, for me??? how??? i m blissfully married for last 7yrs..lolzzz
Dot.com, hagha khaza zamung gawand mulk na wa. Hagha way che taso khalaq zamung pashan torr walay nai.
It is a big drama on media and all channels diplying only this as if some thing very big event hapenig fr welfare of a country.
Hyderabad police have seized Maliks mobile and passport, alerted the airport that with out police approval he can't leave Hyderabad
Well Lets See, But Recent Pool In Pakistan Said 60 Percent Voted That It Is Shoaib's Fault. It Is A Disgrace To Pur Nation And Our People, :(
Aviate, Navigate, Communicate
Soniya, I am a professional linguist and I can really identify people by their writing style, peculier spellings and genral point of view. Yes, you can call me a style detective.
soniya --- even the offer will be valid for you too :D
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Dot.com, can't comment on their KABUL trip..lol
nomad, u really did a lot of detective work to find out the culprit and hidden IDs..lol
torr makhe der ma waya.tha toll torr mukhey ba offend shee. yo zal amrika ke yo khaza ma sara jagara kare oh. hagha way, taso zamung pashan torr makhe walle nai.. sorry for my bad pushto typing.
and soon we will see this war maniac gurl in doha ;)
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
hey soniya, so what's the update?
"It is better to be hated for what you are than being loved for what you are not."
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Dot.com
Bond really is
Life is Beautiful AKA Singhania
Take my word for it. I am damn sure by reading and comparing many of their posts.
wrakk ye ka, ab jaane b do
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Mittee dalo everyone. Tang agaey is qisse se.
take it easy, he's not feeling comfort being an Indian, look at his profile. :P
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Bond always makes me laugh...he is really funny :-)
------------------------------------------------------ Whenever I find the Key to Success, Someone Steals it.
i'll offer them a honey moon trip to the Kabul, when we will have peace back in home country.
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
Both the LOVEBIRDS have come out in open to keep their side of view..I just hate SANIA now..nothing more to say..I hope u all must have watched the recent development in SANIA-SHOAIB-AYESHA case..
HAHAHAHA ...
Bond why do you keep on obsessing about Shoaib and Sania? They are two adults. Let them live their life however they want, moral or immoral. If you have some deep seated hatred that you want to spread between Indians and Pakistanis go and spread it on some extremist forums. Leave QL alone.
Former Pakistan cricketer Sarfaraz Nawaz tore into Shoaib, alleging he is a dubious character. "He was involved in match-fixing even in domestic cricket." He quoted a Pakistani TV channel and alleged Shoaib spent $1.8 million on Sania. "And, so far, neither Shoaib nor any of his family members has denied the report aired on Samaa News."
He alleged this was going to be a business marriage. "A lot of money is involved and people will soon know that Shoaib will be fixing tennis matches for Sania," Sarfaraz said
(source : http://www.pakpassion.net/ppforum/printthread.php?t=94377 )
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
FU as if I care!! lol
Who cares?
The whole story looks FAKE ( I mean Both sides) and it is silly if he says he married her over phone and then realised he is CHEATED. I feel how can Pakistan have a FOOLISH player like him in their National team. Any way SANIYA dont put on WEIGHT you may be yet another AYSHA .
i am with Soniya....its all fake so as to get back his fans back....& ofcourse its 'his' 4 being so foolish
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
FU, i've come bk..lol..
ok,so u send me the PM with ur secrets for FS..lol
Soniya I told my answer.. FU will PM his answer I guess..I dunno what his answer is..lol
FS, i m waiting for ur PM...lol
And yes, i m really signing off now..ahahaa
FU I can answer myself, if I need your help I will ask...lol
FU, u can shoot man...FS never minds nething..lol
behenji, ohh la laaa...i never got this kinda comment.lol
Truth is out from both the sides..I m not here to support ne one of them..I really wish SANIA to take wise decision..THATS IT..
prefer to keep quite lol.
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
Soniya I was around..just reading mode..:)
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
Truth is all out in media bahenji. I really hate the way Ayesha's family is reacting to the issue and making a fun of marriage.
FS, where were u buddy?? didn't see u online in last two days?
I think there is some truth in his story..no guy in the right mind will like her...and he is a celebrety.....probably he fell for her sweet voice...
blabla, i was abt to sign off but u didn't allow me to do so..lolzzzz
bhaisahab,y don't u keep ur patience to know the truth in coming days?? lol
As far as her (Ayesha)soft voice and english are concerned, i really admire the girls with these qualities..i didn't say newhere that shoaib married her coz of her voice..FOR GOD SAKE, i m not a fool here..
Nomad, I don't think he cares anything for english. I don't even think they communicated in english while falling in love. Soniya has comman over english and I think that makes her smart!
i m signing off, will give some updates later..
I would say this case is
brainless Stupid + plotting Stupid= Big Mess
They have messed up their lives forever.
nomad, yah thats what i wanna say that noone seems to be a foolish here..V don't know who played with whom..Just wait to see the result..
I detest this man for the shame he has brought upon the whole nation through his sheer stupidity. But Ayesha is not innocent either.
blablabla, i m a 21st century woman so atleast i don't believe in VOICE or no SHOW UP marriages..As i told u before, my heart goes out to both..Both looks cheater + innocent..We didn't invade their personal life so deeply so better wait for some more days and let the truth to come out in open..
Whoever will be the culprit will be punished..
Soniya, her lovely voice and her command of English topped with someone's lovely pictures can sure dupe any one.
A man of Shoab's mentality(his taste for model like figures) would not fall head over heals for a woman with good English only.
Soinya, is falling in love with voice is enough? You don't need to show up? I think Shoeb is really a fool as he too looks too innocent to cheat. Otherwise why should have he announced his marriage with her without even seeing her in person?
I belive so FU.
Trust me cricketers are least of my interest, I would have believed Ayesha if I had seen a single photo of her with Shoab.
I am sorry to say that her looks and appearnce don't support her story.
nomad,being overweight isn't a sin..have u heard AYESHA's soft voice on channels?? she has too much command over english..shez really soft spoken..
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Resident Attention Seeker"
After seeing Ayesha's photos I kind of believe Shuaib's side of the story. Weird things are happening now a days, thanks to the abuse of modern technology. One of my friends has been a victim of cyber love.
All I understand is that Shuaib was young and stupid and very much in love with the idea of love.
Both the sides r having valid reasons to prove each other wrong..My heart is going out for both where a girl is shouting from the top of the roof about her marriage with SHOAIB while on the other hand he(shoaib)is claiming that he married AYESHA assuming somebody else which is not at all believable..
so plzz, our discussions r not gonna to stop or letting them ahead with their(sania n shoiab) marriage plans..I just want to see justice if AYESHA was married to shoaib..
Nothing is fake in it Soniya. If so in what way?
Frankly, v don't know much about islamic way of marriages..so better v shld shut our mouth..
I can only say from the videos aired on channels that AYESHA and her family don't look like a FRAUDS..Her voice is too mature n soft..I don't think she can play such a dirty game with her life..So let the truth come out in open first.
This kinda custom where boys n girls used to get married without seeing each other prevailed long back..its a modern society now..we can't blame a girl or a boy in these kind of cases..we shld listen the story from both the sides and then come to ne conclusions..
Its all a fake story...
its communications Fault.
Telephones fault
Mobile Fault.....
The service providers fault ! :(