Skin and bone or Meat on the Bone??
So I was having this debate with a fellow colleague and id like to put it out to QL!
What weight makes you as a woman feel comfortable and happy?? Skin and bone or meat on the bone? Personally I feel comfortable when i am 'skinny'. If I have 'meat on the bone' I feel uncomfortable and unattractive.
What weight to do men prefer? I know this will vary with personal taste but in general do men prefer their women with a lot of meat or skinny?
Lastly, I would like to know from the women who wear abayas; do you feel that you dont have to worry as much about your weight as no one can see your body? Or is it still as big an issue for you as Western women/women without abaya?
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Zero size bodies make me feel sick in my stomach!
The issue with gals today is that they don't have a problem starving to death just so they look like Angelina Julie or Julia Roberts.
Gals gals! Those females you see on TV they ain't real ppl because they are media driven body shapes! Would they be average and normal shapes if they weren't well known? alot of those are driven by the desire to succeed with plastic surgery lifts and personal trainers!
Us normal guys like shapes in girls that are normal in the sense the way they would be if they were doing it for themselves and not a media circus!
i'll reply to all of you in a song .....
- I
--- like
-------- big butts and I can not lie
You other brothers can't deny
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
And a round thing in your face
You get sprung, wanna pull out your tough
'Cause you notice that butt was stuffed
Deep in the jeans she's wearing
I'm hooked and I can't stop staring
Oh baby, I wanna get with you
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lol
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WRT to abaya females their face need to be more charming and attractive than body.
Even a fat lady with fine features with big smile on the face, deserves admire.
You don't need to post ladies in swimming suits at QL to get gentlemen opinions (among a few who saw the picture, deleted by mod)
Agreed Bachus. The older a woman gets the more meat she needs on her bones, otherwise she ends up looking like Madonna or Angelina Jolie, all veiny and boney. Blech!
IMO as a happily married man--there are few things less attractive than a woman in her 30s or 40s who has emaciated herself in the delusion that fitting into her clothes from her teens will make her attractive. Regardless of their size, women are more attractive if they look comfortable with their own bodies, look like they are in good health and shape, and have chosen clothes that are appropriate to their own shape, size, and taste.
No not really MT if u excercise and eat right u will b in good shape
However if theres meat on the bone theres always excess fat somewhere :(
meat doesn't have to be flab. I had going to the gym but a love how it makes me feel after going for awhile.
Meat on the bone but not saggy kind.
Not too skinny as you will feel the kick of the bone but more fluffy in some areas.
I like "meat on the bone" in fact I like the phrase only a dog wants a bone!
Songs have been written as an ode to curvy women:
I like Big Butts - Sir Mixalot
Fat Bottomed Girls - Queen
Big Girls - Mika
I can't think of one written for skinny girls, certainly not a good one. ;-)
Well said ..
By the way, curves are always better :o)
Uk size 10 ...would like to be an 8 though!
don't like girls at all, no homo tho ! MILF baby MILF, like Stifler's Mom, if you know what i mean!
NM, I'd say you're more of a UK 8, maybe even a 6...
i like girls from skinny to average your body shape doesnt matter that much.
Are we talking American or UK 10's?
Missteacer, ya, pretty much the same size..between 8 and 10.
i like one with curves, not skinny. So i can still feel that I'm hugging someone and not hugging a stick and I don't want the chubby one because I have a lot of big pillow to hug at night.
not skinny or fat...women looks nice just the moderate
size 10 ....dont know what that is in your sizes???
Just read back at the comments...OMG people, what is wrong with you? Wearing an abaya doesn't make a difference, they are still women underneath they still have the same feelings, fears and insecurities as non-wearing abaya women.
Thanks FS :-) xXx
Brit... I dont know...why dont you ask her..:)
Sness...I agree that you looked more bootiful..:P before loosing weight..:)
u seem more sound and clear :D
How about you Missteacher?
Haha...did actually expect u to answer that, how honest of you! :)
shisha202- Yeah you have a point...just most western women also can worry about what society has got to say, not so much their family. But yeah if you go to a party and its all women that are not your family then I guess it would just be same.
They are size 27, sometimes 28, depending on the style.
I am working on getting into a 26 again :)
As long as all the lady lumps are in proportion, size isn't a huge deal. As for men preferring skinny girls, I'm not convinced...I definitely attract more male attention when I'm curvier.
People wearing abaya are also are concerned about weight gain...we wear abaya when we are going out....inside our own house n r reltive's house n for in house parties we dont wear abaya....
Yeah but what size are your jeans NM? lol
Umm...wat about T-shirts ? :)
Simple, I feel good when my jeans are not too tight, lol
Is that why Sveltesaggy has her name ?
FS, agree with you !
oh by the way, tat comment of urs was for ladies -if i am right ? :)
ah ...now there are some diversity in opinion!
Agree mohdata, I think the abaya does take away a lot of body issues women have. I wore one on UAE National Day, when I was 8 months pregnant. I felt the most attractive I had in a long time.
Yeah and I dont know why this thread has been deemed religious...abaya is a culture thing not religious.
anyway...so far men like skinnies??!
i like chubby.. they are cute and huggable like teddy bears :P
If the meat is on the right places.. you will look sexy.. if not you will look saggy and out of shape..:)
to the folks offended at the abaya bit; there's no need to be. the bashers will bash regardless but her question doesn't provoke it..I personally and most men prefer curvy filled out women..skinny makes women look just like us men lol..and curvy isn't the same as overweight..big difference..as for abayas, I do feel it can help (if only a bit) women who have body image/self esteem issues..in our judgmental society where there's more pressure than ever on women to look good; I feel the abaya can be a protective veil for those who won't have any of the judging and critiquing. Just my humble opinion though:-)
of the topic that are related to religion is a big deal here in QL.... i will prefer,a skinny proportion body. :D
i prefer my women to be slim,trim with moderate Meat on her bones and not SKINNY which will fly in this sandstorm kinda climate....:)
Thanks MM....
I asked because its something I am curious about and would like to know!
Why is it such a bad thing?????
definetly skinny, but not malnourish skinny
Well Fathima...I do think that someone can be too thin and it looks rather disturbing! but the rich part....we can agree on that ;)
Jeez Louise people, all she asked is whether women who were abayas feel more attractive or more confident about their weight!
whn u wnt to knw sumthng abt the weight stick to it, y u have to mention abaya and all
and den whn people like babu will comment dey will be named as troll.... strange
Roughly 6 months pregnant was nice. :) I felt absolutely gorgeous than. However a month later I felt like a beached whale. LOL.
"can anyone be too rich or too thin?" lol pretty much sums up how I feel!
Why DC? :S
bashing only starts when you come on the thread BG...AKA Troll.
sorry....I have mentioned nothing religious here....we live in Qatar, this is Qatar living.....some women in Qatar wear abayas. Its to do with what weight we feel comfortable in???
The picture gave an example but has been removed...
I vote 3- looks more like the average gal on the street but definitely if given the choice’d go for No.2 while keeping a string on No.1: D
Oh btw this post won’t last for long lol soon the mods will find it and delete it: P
yes she does this on purpose so the bashing can start n name other ppl as trolls
no need to bring abaya using females in this context.....
calling for big debate from religion to culture.....QL will never improve
An average combination of bone and meat :)