What is the hardest thing about Love???????

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By red_etuc

In many views the hardest thing about love is when youre taking a fall or the hurting part. What about you?

By Andrews• 14 Jul 2008 10:54
Andrews

kiiiiiiiidddiiiingggggggg

By marhabtain• 14 Jul 2008 09:27
marhabtain

What? Nudge nudge wink wink!?

By Andrews• 14 Jul 2008 09:26
Andrews

If it is not hard ...... there is no love

By SPEED• 13 Jul 2008 23:17
SPEED

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By yammar08• 13 Jul 2008 22:24
yammar08

the hardest part is when you love someone but you don't know where you stand in his/her life.

By GodFather.• 13 Jul 2008 21:56
Rating: 4/5
GodFather.

Yes when you try to make up, try even harder then before and become even more invloved.. That the best bit of breaking up.. The hard labour and pain you have to endure to patch up.. What a feeling I am dancing on the Ceiling...

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By joey_1380• 13 Jul 2008 21:51
joey_1380

for me the hardest thing about love is realizing that you've hurt your partner so bad..A guilty feeling which is very regretful, that makes you wish that "if you could turned back the time"..

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 21:51
anonymous

when you sleep with a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part....=(

and falling in love with someone who's inlove with your friend...ouch!!

live and love life!!!

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 21:50
anonymous

Hardest thing about love is AFTER BREAKUP forget each ohter...each hard than dying.

I think so lol

By haashim• 13 Jul 2008 21:46
haashim

nothin is hard ,,,, its always good to be in luv with someone who luvs u more, than you luv.

By GodFather.• 13 Jul 2008 21:39
GodFather.

Loving someone truly means is to loose ur self..I would say if you love someone more than yourself your in love..

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By tryangle• 13 Jul 2008 21:31
tryangle

lOVE HAS HAS HAS A LOTS OF WIRES COMING FROM NOWHERE ,TRING TO LOOK FOR A PLACE TO RECHARGE ITS soul..

When its done it goes in many unknown places until charge is dead.

yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy it does not hav a property to describe,

who is the owner of love,,,,,

We loose our ways when we loose our loved ones

if v want the luv back start to luv u r self , then those wires going to come to u to recharge.

+++++++++++++++++++++ * +++++++++++++ = +

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 15:52
anonymous

i second the motion... just have them all make it sure don't fall in love...:) :)

"To defeat your opponent, observe his style, copy & apply towards him"

By King Edshel• 13 Jul 2008 15:39
King Edshel

trying to believe later that no such a thing exists ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By thexonic• 13 Jul 2008 15:37
thexonic

lol dont fall in love.

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By debeers• 13 Jul 2008 15:32
debeers

It's hard when you need to fall out of love, but just can't. No matter what you do, you're still in love.

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Everything happens for a

reason.

By djkiller• 13 Jul 2008 15:25
Rating: 5/5
djkiller

in love hardest thing is that u dnt not when u it last...

Time Changes Everything

By WitchStix• 13 Jul 2008 13:45
Rating: 4/5
WitchStix

da... yes, im sure.. the thing is, yes, obviously there are some sitiuations that can hurt/upset/break you, but what is love if its all honey and roses?? you cant really expect everything to be all hunky dory... but its love... love is beautiful.. but my opinion is bias ;)

"And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course" -Khalil Gibran

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 13:33
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

you want to share it with someone who is longing for it. The hardest part is when you come to senses that you need to go separate ways because you find out that you are just borrowing time and you need to let go each other to the real ones to each you both belong.

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

By DaRuDe• 13 Jul 2008 13:33
DaRuDe

you sure?? :D

 

 

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By WitchStix• 13 Jul 2008 13:32
Rating: 3/5
WitchStix

there's nothing hard about love :)

"And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course" -Khalil Gibran

By avishai• 13 Jul 2008 13:32
avishai

Its the "L" part, it's kinda confusing.

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"Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're

By fahmik• 13 Jul 2008 13:20
fahmik

they said that love is that thing that can be contained by the smallest heart ,,, but cannot be contained by the biggest brain like einsteins brain ...

By King Edshel• 13 Jul 2008 13:17
King Edshel

and up to now ... I just don't understand what happen, when someone seems to be fine with everyone but not you ... Cracking jokes and having fun with everyone, but not you ... That is really one big confusing issue, that I have no answer to it yet ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 13:16
anonymous

Is your posts and KE's post in relevant? i'm smiling reading both of your posts. The tip of my nose is dancing. Is it because of "so so so hard to love someone?" :) :) :)

"To defeat your opponent, observe his style, copy & apply towards him"

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 13:13
anonymous

i was not posting but i always give time to scroll down evryones thread and post/comment.

and the reason i was not posting because of "so so so hard to love some one" (nyahahaha)

tell me why ur life not good at all at present..yalla jaldi, sura..what happen?

"To defeat your opponent, observe his style, copy & apply towards him"

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 13:03
anonymous

hey kiddos - don't love anyone. problem solved :)

By King Edshel• 13 Jul 2008 12:59
King Edshel

make solutions always ... it creates more trouble and issues ... you call it sacrifice, the others see it something different ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By DohaSteve• 13 Jul 2008 12:57
Rating: 2/5
DohaSteve

... and there's yet another pun/double-entendre .... going to stop now before I get in bother ... the opportuinities are just too numerous to mention.

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"I told the doctor I broke my leg in two places. He told me to quit going to those places". - Henny Youngman

By dragonfly212• 13 Jul 2008 12:55
dragonfly212

is to love to somebody but you know you cannot be with them and also to let go the person you love to be more happier in life.

I DO WHAT I LIKE, I LIKE WHAT I DO

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 12:54
anonymous

-fullfilling the promises you make with the heart when the mind was totally uninvolved in the process;

-Compromising for the greater good "love";

-forgetting/losing yourself in the process of pleasing your loved ones and not knowing it;

By owen• 13 Jul 2008 12:47
owen

another one.. letting go for the common good of everyone.. call it sacrificing your love for everyone to be happy and let you live in peace..

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By King Edshel• 13 Jul 2008 12:44
King Edshel

It's been a while since the last time I saw you posting there ... how is life treating you these days? If you would ask about me .. not good at all ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By anonymous• 13 Jul 2008 12:41
anonymous

Hardest thing about love is loving someone.So so so hard.

"To defeat your opponent, observe his style, copy & apply towards him"

By King Edshel• 13 Jul 2008 10:49
King Edshel

when you find that the other party is not appreciating anything of what you are doing, no will go far and make assumptions based on nothing ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By owen• 13 Jul 2008 10:44
owen

hardest thing about love.. letting go and moving on..

[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

By toyoangel• 13 Jul 2008 02:06
toyoangel

One more ...

It's learning to entrust your once shattered heart to

someone...

you can only hope..

you can only trust..

you can only pray..

that he deserves it

and would take good care of it.

Never to let it be broken again.

By SouthLand• 13 Jul 2008 02:05
SouthLand

and losing it/letting it go

well said spicemum

By toyoangel• 13 Jul 2008 01:57
toyoangel

Hardest thing for me.. Trying to stop my feeling for

someone the moment i found out that he's already

comitted and a responsibility.

When i was asked to join him in his journey through life... I said "yes" and that's what holds me..

I have taken that as a vow, to love him with nothing

less than all of me...Accepting him for what and who

he is...

Despite all the odds..

Despite all the pains..

Despite the distance..

It's so freaking hurting that i wanted to get the

hell out of the kitchen but i can't...

Coz when it hits you.. it hits you.. and you can't

seem to do anything about it.

Coz when you finally found the one..

You just knew. you just feel. and leaving..

is not an option.

By King Edshel• 9 May 2008 11:07
King Edshel

you on that ... one sided relationship is the worst ever ... the thing is .. how can you let yourself go that far and be alone working on it?

 

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By anonymous• 9 May 2008 09:22
anonymous

one more...the hardest thing about love is when you alone is working the relationship and one day you are left alone with nobody....

By anonymous• 9 May 2008 09:21
anonymous

the hardest thing about love is that when one of you is blind..lol

As the saying goes"love is blind" ..you really never care about the past and the real him/her if you are really in love...

By spicemom• 9 May 2008 08:09
spicemom

the hardest thing abt love for me is 'finding the right love'

 

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

By JAVI• 9 May 2008 07:32
Rating: 4/5
JAVI

I'm sitting here looking at dreamandsmile.  When you are in love, there are more things to be greatful for than the alternate.  I think about her all the time--truly is wonderful to feel successful even with just a morsel of proof; when somebody is always proud of you.  At the end of the day, nobody else is there to say how significant I am than my hot dreamandsmile, my honeybunny. 

 

So then, the hardest part for me truly is when your mind sometimes surrounds your soundless head while being far way.  Are all my gunz in the house going to protect my family while I am away protecting everyone elses family--how good is all this training then?  So..............

By princess habibah• 9 May 2008 00:56
princess habibah

lol thanks she enjoyed writing her feelings lol..

 

It is amazing the differences between boys and girls. My daughter needs to give us at least 20 hugs and kisses a day followed by an "I love you"

 

Where as my boy is perfectly happy not allowing any kisses at all. And will often say "stop"  when I smother him.

 

 

 

 

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi

By britexpat• 7 May 2008 11:07
britexpat

Giving more than receiving.

By manditojr• 7 May 2008 08:13
manditojr

the hardest thing about falling is love is someone taking advantage of the things you do for them and they remain cold hearted people.

By oabazeed• 7 May 2008 05:15
oabazeed

AAAAHHHHHHHHHH, YEA

By OrangKedah• 6 May 2008 22:58
OrangKedah

It wasn't incomprehensible to me.  I understood it loud and clear.

By Bridge• 6 May 2008 22:43
Bridge

I think the four-year-old hit it on the spot! Isn't one of the hardest things that everyone expresses love in a different way, and that it's often incomprehensible for anyone else? ;)

By OrangKedah• 6 May 2008 22:18
OrangKedah

Such lovely words from your 4-year old.

By princess habibah• 6 May 2008 13:06
princess habibah

I love that song from Bette midler. My aunt dedicated to " The wind beneath ?? wings" to me and these words strike my heart as well.

 

I think what Owen and IOU said about feeling vulnerable rings some truth for me. Sometimes it is easier to become hurt when we let down our guards which is part and parcel of love. Even if the other person is doing so with no ill intentions or even sees how his/her actions affect us.

 

And now some words from my 4 year old:

 

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Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi

By anonymous• 6 May 2008 12:51
anonymous

its that u r not suppose to argue or fight coz u cant really survive alone  lol

By fieryangelinthesky• 6 May 2008 12:47
fieryangelinthesky

is not to hurt the one you love.

By jesus• 6 May 2008 10:18
jesus

hardest thing about love????mmmm falling for a lady who calls herself diamondgirl when you dont have a job.

By diamond• 6 May 2008 07:39
Rating: 3/5
diamond

Here's a song about the hardship of love that I find a lot of truth in:

 

The Rose by Bette Midler

 

Some say love it is a river

that drowns the tender reed

Some say love it is a razor

that leaves your soul to bleed

Some say love it is a hunger

an endless aching need

I say love it is a flower

and you it's only seed

It's the heart afraid of breaking

that never learns to dance

It's the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance

It's the one who won't be taken

who cannot seem to give

and the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live

When the night has been too lonely

and the road has been too long

and you think that love is only

for the lucky and the strong

Just remember in the winter far beneath the bitter snows

lies the seed

that with the sun's love

in the spring

becomes the rose

 

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By shinning_star• 6 May 2008 07:27
shinning_star

love is like one can live with it in pain and be happy 

but cannot live without love.... 

all happiness and peace of the world is worthless without love....

 

 

Life is a mystery..... you never know whats next.....

By shinning_star• 6 May 2008 07:24
Rating: 4/5
shinning_star

i say love is the hardest there is no one perticular thing.....

love is hardest and painful no matter how sweet it may be but keeping the love alive is the most hardest the fear of loosing a loved one by a misunderstanding that is hardest....trying to keep the trust between eachother that is hardest,love is the most difficult.....but indeed very sweet 

 

 

 

Life is a mystery..... you never know whats next.....

By JAVI• 6 May 2008 07:06
JAVI

1 of many hardest thing about love is to keep the flame alive. 

By casanova• 4 May 2008 13:03
Rating: 2/5
casanova

The Hardest thing about love is to keep it always as fresh and new as it is in your early days....

 

“Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.”

 

Martin Luther King.

By Vegas• 4 May 2008 08:36
Vegas

Forgiveness is life...:)

By Cool_Dude• 4 May 2008 08:26
Cool_Dude

Might be your hard-disk...

By lovinni• 4 May 2008 08:16
Rating: 5/5
lovinni

hardest thing is acceptance...you must learn to support each other in every way even sacrificing yourself of the things you dont normally do...

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

By kathylie• 4 May 2008 05:33
kathylie

When you expect,,,,,,  coz thats where  dissappointment begins,,,  

By blacklady• 1 May 2008 21:56
blacklady

very well said :-)

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By OrangKedah• 1 May 2008 21:03
OrangKedah

For me, the hardest thing about love is taking it for granted.

By smoke• 28 Apr 2008 06:42
Rating: 4/5
smoke

The hardest part of being in love, is being in love with someone who doesnt love u back, or who is being loved by someone else. You know deep down in ur heart that she and u will never be together, you know that u can love her more than any other man, but u just cant make her see that. The hardest part of love is trying to forget u love her so much and move on...when everything feels so right, but everythings just wrong.

 

 

 

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By paul• 28 Apr 2008 06:36
paul

 

seperation for silly reasons 

By glecs• 28 Apr 2008 02:43
glecs

the hardest part is breaking up. worst is finding yourself at night thinking that you'll wake up beside him and waking up in the morning realizing its just a wishful thinking.

By Ducks• 27 Apr 2008 21:24
Rating: 5/5
Ducks

the hardest thing about love is that you can't be sure that it's gonna last forever. You can work as hard as possible for your relationship, but if the feelings are gone from one side, it's over...

 

 

Doha, I'm coming! Ducks in Doha from 12th - 18th of May :)

By ICU• 27 Apr 2008 21:21
ICU

just being in love is the hardest part.

By wmhizon• 27 Apr 2008 19:45
Rating: 4/5
wmhizon

 

sometimes love is ironic...

its hard to find...

but easy to lose...

makes u feel good...

but hurts u so bad...

opens ur eyes...

but makes u blind...

fills up ur heart...

then tears it apart!

 

 

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By wmhizon• 27 Apr 2008 19:40
wmhizon

 

Hhhhmmmm....

 

maybe FLOWERS that can only be seen in DOHA during winter season... 

 

U can check all the A/B... lol!

 

 

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By chiefsittingbull• 27 Apr 2008 19:31
chiefsittingbull

errrrrrrcare to elaborate flower????

By BF• 27 Apr 2008 19:30
BF

When one become too possessive.

 

Stay REAL

By wmhizon• 27 Apr 2008 19:29
wmhizon

 

hey chief maybe ur not looking for a rose but for a different flower! =p

 

You want thorns? Look for a cactus! lol!

 

 

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By wmhizon• 27 Apr 2008 19:25
Rating: 2/5
wmhizon

 

Sometimes loving could be so painful, but its amazing to know that no matter how hard it is...

 

Loving someone is still the simpliest reason why you'll find ur self smiling....

 

 

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By chiefsittingbull• 27 Apr 2008 19:24
chiefsittingbull

hehehehehheh I cant even find the thorns.....

By blacklady• 27 Apr 2008 19:24
Rating: 2/5
blacklady

lovely!

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By wmhizon• 27 Apr 2008 19:21
Rating: 3/5
wmhizon

 

 

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

By anonymous• 27 Apr 2008 19:01
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Not another Titanic love affair....

By mghozlan• 27 Apr 2008 18:59
mghozlan

the hardest thing about love, for me is to find the right person to love, and to make sure that he\she will share the same idea about love,

By blacklady• 27 Apr 2008 18:53
blacklady

is when time has come for you to finally say " I LOVE U GOODBYE "

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By owen• 22 Aug 2007 10:07
Rating: 4/5
owen

being vunerable, the thought of GIVING UP and being deeply hurt in the end..being in-love without any future (this is broad to discuss)..

hurting the one you love like being not able to keep up with his thoughts, expectations...(geez, love alone is complicated!) :P

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By angel_eyes• 22 Aug 2007 09:48
Rating: 5/5
angel_eyes

is to admit that you have fallen in love

with someone you didn't mean to love from the start.

Letting go of someone dear to you is hard

but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder.

Giving up doesn't mean you're weak.

It only means that you're strong enough to let go.

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By anonymous• 22 Aug 2007 08:17
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

yourself becomes vulnerable of trusting and let people you love have the power to hurt you!

Cheers!

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"I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone, I never find a companionable solitude"

By ifhamr• 22 Aug 2007 07:48
Rating: 5/5
ifhamr

The worst thing about falling in Love is, being apart after falling in love.

For instance me..!!

(¯`·._.•~*Ifham*~•._.·´¯)

TO ВË ØŘ ŇŏŢ ŦŐ Вè

By aratchhb• 22 Aug 2007 02:06
aratchhb

spically when u beside whom u care and u dont want them to hurt bocz they are not for u .

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