but what i see here in doha boggles my mind. i have my own circle of friends and aquaintances, and there are only a few of us who don't cheat. maybe it's best to go with the flow. why fight it, right??
In this modern world, internet is the great equalizer.
Hey Concious.... Liked your story of guyz following you n then leaving when found you where married....
Have been on the other side very often....
Its fun... I mean... Even a Girl would like when her beauty is appreciated...
"Yeh banne savarne mein kyon ho mazza ... agar koi chahne wala ashique na ho..."
But to defend men's side in tht story... it is not necessary we always follow the sexy n revealing females.... Sometimes.. its about the beauty also... you know... pleasant n good looking gals... its fun... to make them realize how beautiful they are....
and hope.. in a very optimistic way.. tht she likes us for liking her... and start goin out with her.....
And men shall be men....
Hard Work Doesn't Kill Anyone... But Why take Chances.
VB & FS, if what I wrote wasnt relevant why would I bother to write in here :) When I am talking about those guyz, definitely they too are cheating either on their fiancees or wives.
Same Rice can be prepared in different style and flavour and served beautifully with extra care ...then it will be tasty everyday and you wont loose your health by eating junk..lol
discussing about sick & hungry men around following weak/lone females to assault physically.
BTF- first I said haraam then when we talk in general men are weak, believe me we talk a lot about self control and discipline, but this will all have no value if provoked/seduced by lady and I am very sure men will fail..(psychology and biology)
VB, being provoked from other women is just a lame excuse believe me. From my stories, you can easily figure out that I am not the kind who attract ppl physically. Doha is unsafe for women only when they show they are weak, once you show them your shoe these kind of ppl's wagging tongue woule automatically go into their mouth :) We can have a beautifully long but decent debate on this that where women are lacking or not but question here is why do men cheat so I am trying to stick to the question only :)
Generally speaking, if provoked (as BRIT said above) then men really find difficult to resist..(sex urge is natural)
Blame those WOMEN, who provoked POOR men for cheating!
You ladies very well aware of those women! I have seen many comments talking of eating same everyday.....here females have to ensure that their husbands get enough food at home regularly.
CE, from your stories you scared me I neven know that Doha is so unsafe for females....
because you women force them to go out looking for someone else.I dont think anyone would go around risking his family just for fun.Men have needs and i'm not just talking about sex...every man has his limits.
This topic is quite interesting, as simple as it sounds.
I do like Jame's message and Azalina, you hit the nail on the head by saying they want and crave for variety!
Men are naturally born cheaters! It depends in the hands of his woman to hold him down or set him astray!
I often ask men this question, both single and married. Their (men) answer, which is very true, is that it is quite boring if all they had to be eating was Burgers all the time; variety is the spice of life!
I want to belive this phrase was created by some expert cheater! I see no reason why a married man has to cheat on a his wife. Love is a beautiful thing if only you understand but unfortunately, a lot of married people do not understand the intricasies behind real love!
Men cheat cause they are men.... and just for the record there should be NO reasons for him to cheat...when you marry you marry for good or bad... if you wanna cheat then get out of the marriage... if you wanna cheat on your girlfriend then let her go...
Guys will come up with all sorts of pathetic reasons but at they end of the day it all boils down to one thing....they cannot keep it in their pants....sorry guys.. you know its the truth....
I was going to Muntaza Supermarket & was driving. My dress was simply a very loose Pakistani dress. I noticed a car following me from long time & two men were sitting into it. At first, I thought maybe they too want to go to buy something from muntaza that's why same route, so I convinced myself & then parked outside supermarket. Those two heartthrobs also parked near me & started following me. I just wanted to see if after the entrance also they would follow me or they genuinely are here for their own shopping but I noticed them coming to me. All of a sudden like Casper an idea came to my mind. I, very slowly, went to children's section & started putting Jhonson's baby shampoo, oil, food etc etc. I acted as if I am unaware of their presence. All of a sudden I heard in Punjabi language that 'Oh! She is married. We wasted our time following her'. hahahhahahaha .... this was the most funny incident in my life :) Now again this is again another set of men, where there wasnt any short skirt or revealing stuff, but men kept on following :). What would you say now :)
AH.........men cheating, of course woman dont, we had this a couple of years ago...outcome, both sexes cheat for the same reason....something is missing in their ongoing relationship....or they lost it on the way somehow.
For those who say that ladies who wear mini skirts etc etc I would like to share my own experience :)
Once I was wearing abaya it fully covered me from head to toe, with black gloves & face totally covered. I went to Nabina to buy something & from there I wanted to have a brisk walk in Corniche. There an arabic man started following me inside Nabina, I was very young & naive at that time, & tried to take help of two sales men that he is following me pls either you report to authorities or you talk to him to not do that. They simply said that we cannot do anything in this regard which surprised me but then I took what I wanted & then left outside. That guy was literally running behind me & I understood if he gets a hint that I am scared of his following up with me he might harm me so I started to stay calm & went to my car & immediately locked the doors & did not try to show him that I noticed him following me up. When I turned to the main road he was still standing there & was seeing me off till I crossed the roundabout :)
Now can you tell me what was there for him to get distracted :) There wasnt any skin show, there wasnt any fitting or revealing dress ...... so this is where my experience speaks :) I'll tell about one more incident but before that I'll just eat a bit :P
i dont understand why men would want to risk all their hard work(family you built, wife who love and trust you, your kids...) for just 10sec. of pleasure
I remember when I was in 5th standard, a boy came running to the teacher & said Ma'am this boy has called me dog. He expected that teacher would start shouting or will hit that other boy. Surprisingly, she was in a good mood & she gave that boy a positive note of it & said my dear dog is not an abuse, it is just an animal who is the most faithful on this earth to any human being :) So, here I didnt insult anyone rather gave out my personal opinion, which is right according to me but maybe wrong according to you, since all the fingers in one person's hand are also not of the same size. So instead of commenting on my comment I think its much better that we all 'brothers & sisters' stick to the question of the Thread. The thread requires an answer to question & everyone has the right to answer as per their experience or belief :)
Generally I do not generalize stuff or ppl. As I said based on mine & my friends' (which means lots of friends) experiences I gave an example which perfectly fits for these kind of men.
My comment should not be offensive to you FS, as I was not talking about ur family member. This is a public forum & everyone is expressing their point of view based on what's happening in their lives.
I am surprised my opinion is offensive but most of the time I see the image of middle finger being swayed & no one finds it offensive :)
there would be a lot of glossy mags that would go under if it wasnt for men cheating, its everywhere including the celebs and us normal people. its never going to stop and its something that is part to our society.
i just wish to every women that you dont find your partner doing it becuase it can really break your heart
smoke >..hmmmmmmmmmmm dont know what to tell you!!!!!!!
i agree with scarlett
we all should be able to control our selves no matter what the temptation may be.
by the way if your boss make you angray at work, why dont just throw all the papers in his face and walk out? why do you keep your self under control? because you know there will be high price to pay by losing your job. so if a women walk bye, and you feel tempted, why dont you think of controlling ur selve?
i dont understand why men would want to risk all their hard work(family you built, wife who love and trust you, your kids...) for just 10sec. of pleasure.
There are several reason why men cheat, it all depends on the relationship. And not only the the relationship but it also depends on the man, he might be sick-minded, or what so. And there might be sick-minded actions from the woman's sides, which pushs the man toward cheating on her.
I hate these long topics that says to keep your man you have to do "blah blah blah...take care of him and blah blah bla..." Couples in a relationship DO NOT need to hear that, when you love someone you unconciously do what it takes to make him/her happy. As for those that don't care, they're simply not in love.
So for those men who keep on cheating, why don't you just don't involve yourself in a relationship, and keep doing what you're doing with whatever a hooker or so; instead of being called cheater. Men stop being greedy, you want someone to love you and a sexy attractive bump. Why don't you get enough with one? Or tell you what find a sexy bump and get involved with her, ALERT! Wrong advise!! That wouldn't be a successful relationship!
Just get enough with one! Cheater!! :P :D haha! Feels good!
"In most cases, they cheat when their physical or emotional needs are not fulfilled by their partner!"
It's the same for men and women. Women are not more emotional than men, they merely express their emotions more readily than men because it is more socially acceptable to do so.
coming from the opposite sex! A good cheater do it without knowing it! A good cheater do it fast and forget it afterwards! A good cheater is one who got caught but not punished!
and lastly, a good cheater doesn't exist! Lol!!!!
Good afternoon, Scary Lady! I'm fine!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.
So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about physical intimacy: Only 8 percent of men said that physical dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is to have physical intimacy with someone," Neuman says. "But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right." The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. "Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked," Neuman says. "But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness -- and once you set the tone, he's likely to match it."
66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.
The implications are a little scary: It isn't just uncaring jerks who cheat. In fact, 68 percent of cheaters never dreamed they'd be unfaithful, and almost all of them wished they hadn't done it, Neuman says. Clearly, guilt isn't enough to stop a man from cheating. "Men are good at compartmentalizing feelings," Neuman explains. "They can hold on to their emotions and deal with them later." So even if your partner swears he would never cheat, don't assume it can't happen. It's important for both of you to take steps toward creating the relationship you want.
77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheated
Hanging around friends who stray makes cheating seem normal and legitimizes it as a possibility. The message he's subconsciously telling himself: "My friend is a good guy who happens to be cheating on his wife. I guess even the best of us do it." You can't simply ban your husband from hanging out with Mr. Wandering Eyes, Neuman says, but you can request that they spend their time together in an environment that offers less temptation, like at a sporting event or a restaurant for lunch rather than at a bar or club. Another strategy: Build your social circle around happily married couples that share your values -- it'll create an environment that supports marriage.
40% of cheating men met the other woman at work.
"Oftentimes the woman he cheats with at the office is someone who praises him, looks up to him, and compliments his efforts," Neuman says. "That's another reason why it's so critical that he feel valued at home." Luckily, there's a clear warning sign that your husband is getting a little too cozy with a colleague: If he praises or mentions the name of a female coworker more than he would a male counterpart, your antennae should go up -- and it's time for the two of you to set boundaries about what is and isn't okay at work, Neuman says. Is it acceptable for him to work late if it's only him and her? Can they travel together to conferences? Have dinners out to discuss a project? Ask him what he'd feel comfortable with you doing with a male colleague.
Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.
In other words, a man doesn't stray because he thinks he'll get lucky with a better-looking body. "In most cases, he's cheating to fill an emotional void," Neuman says. "He feels a connection with the other woman, and physical intimacy comes along for the ride." If you're worried about infidelity, focus on making your relationship more loving and connected, not on getting your body just right or mastering how to please him physically. (But know that physical intimacy does matter -- it's one of the key ways your guy expresses his love and feels close to you, so be sure to keep it a priority.)
Only 6% of cheating men had physical intimacy with a woman after meeting her that same day or night.
Actually, 73 percent of men got to know the other woman for more than a month before they cheated. This means that you may have time to see the warning signs before infidelity occurs -- you might even see it coming before he does. Keep an eye out for these common signals: He spends more time away from home, stops asking for physical intimacy, picks fights more frequently, or avoids your calls. Your gut reaction may be to confront him, but most men will deny even thinking about cheating, especially if nothing physical has occurred yet. Instead, Neuman suggests, take charge of what you can control -- your own behavior -- and take the lead in bringing your relationship to a better place. Don't hesitate to show your appreciation for him, prioritize time together, and initiate affection more. Give him a reason to keep you at the front of his mind, Neuman says. And be open about how you feel about what's going on between the two of you (again, without mentioning any third parties). Try "I think we've started to lose something important in our relationship, and I don't want it to disappear." In the meantime, commit to keeping tabs on your relationship and doing what it takes to keep it working for you.
I dont think men cheat coz of nagging wives its just basically coz we want to have sex with someone new coz we are bored with the wife/gf :p Then you'd all say, not all husbands are bored with their wifes, then i'd say, then those husbands just think about cheating but dont have the balls to do it but fact is he isnt have sex with you either, then you will agree and say "Yeah! your right, i have been noticing how he keeps making excuses every time i wear a sexy night gown, and then i'd say "ah HA.."
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
ahh newkidontheblock...don't fall for that BS....its even worse to see that man who only goes..."yes dear" and never pays attention to what is being said. A doorstop could do that and cost less upkeep.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
Avoiding Queen control foremost, from relationship to household economy. Men like counting numbers and one is certaintly not enough. Sometimes we tell that the lady in the picture is our office secretary, back at home. Problem solved.
If all women were perfect, there would be no cheating, hence if all MEn were also perfect, there would be no cheating. Men need to take responsibility for their actions as well as women do. They need to make sure all aspects and requirements of the relationship are met. Takes TWO to tango, as you can't dance it by yourself.
Why you guys seem to think that marriage sucks the sex drive out of women is totally ridiculous. The female sex drive is just as strong as a males but its been falsely reported that males can't control theirs so its just been blindly accepted as fact.
Men who cheat are just as wrong as women who cheat...doesn't matter what the excuse is..its wrong and they know it.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
10 is too late, u know that, i have "appointments" later so maybe a little early... put your wife to bed, sing her a lullaby (coz u are sooooo good at that) and come over...
dont aZZume anything from my profile... dont Stix to it. what about UZ???! LOLLING!
Well then who said i was a man? i could actually be a pussy.....cat :p but you will never know for sure. So i will stick to what your profile says and we'll meet up tonight at say 10 O'smoke?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
Lack of communication...where the women ALWAYS want to talk and NEVER listens...Ratio is ONE WORD from the MAN is equivalent to 1 PAGE from the WOMAN. Imagine a whole sentence, that would make it a WHOLE DAY of NAGGING.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
Generally speaking, if provoked (as BRIT said above) then men find difficult to resist....(sex urge is natural)
Blame those WOMEN, who provoked POOR men for cheating!
You ladies very well aware of those women! I have seen many comments talking of eating same everyday.....here females have to ensure that their husbands get enough food at HOME regularly.
My Wife ensures and send me to an office where there are no female colleagues and ensures that I reach home after office...she is smart and knows Men very well....
WitchStix how dare u even think of casting the 1st stone! i told you OUR affair must be kept a secret!! I'll meet you tonight after my wife's gone to bed ok?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
Well i for one am not a stray dog...i'm a stray KAT. That being said one of the main reasons men cheat is coz men are NOT emotional creatures, we think about sex like every 6 seconds...look i'm thinking about it as i type...we dont want to "talk" about our feelings we want to express them like MEN!
In order to cheat, we can visit "special women" doesn't always have to be another woman willing to cheat. Honestly speaking you really cant be satisfied with the same woman and man forever! Its going to get boring, its going to be routine, once you open a gift wrapped present the excitement of knowing what was gift wrapped is gone. When kids are born, parents dont really have intimate time as much as they used to have before. women then tend to focus all their time and energy on the children, thus neglecting men's primary urges to have SEX. Not to mention the physical changes a women goes through after pregnancy :p
Yeah so men cheat mostly coz they want the excitement back or as someone said coz we can get away with it most of the time :P Ok now i'm ready to be stoned but let me just say "She who has not sinned before may cast the first stone" :p
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
That is really inappropriate and not ethical to resemble men as dogs.After all men and women are God's creature.So,do u mean when you get married or if you are married,you will marry a dog??
Based on my & my friends' experiences, I can clearly say that men are like stray dogs & they would try to bark or bite wherever they find something +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Every man has heard that the best way to get a woman to stop having sex with him is by marrying her. Apparently, long-term relationships seem to suck the sex drive out of many women, leaving men gasping for fulfillment. With the need for more sex, some men will start "working late" more often.
Or it could just be that the sex has become boring. She doesn't want to try new things in bed. Some men may cheat because they don't want their girlfriends or wives to perform certain sex acts that would ruin their "good girl" image.
When two mature people are passionately and deeply in love with one another to a high degree and that they respect each other very much, then, it is spiritually and morally acceptable to the society that they both engage themselves in the act of physical sex with one another dosen't matter if they are married or not.....thats how i see it and its does make me feel better everytime i cheat.
Its because we feel unloved and lonely and also some ladies of the opposite sex parade their bumpy bits in front of us causing our hormones to override our brains.
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If you have the thought of cheating your wife.... Half haram is already committed...
Try not to indulge in the remaining half
Hard Work Doesn't Kill Anyone... But Why take Chances.
:)
but what i see here in doha boggles my mind. i have my own circle of friends and aquaintances, and there are only a few of us who don't cheat. maybe it's best to go with the flow. why fight it, right??
In this modern world, internet is the great equalizer.
The reason that men cheat is the male ego.
The male ego is the root of all evil. ...
chen ...
Dare you call us Dogs...
Dogs are loyal... are we??????
Men use love for sex and women use sex for love....
the day you understand this difference... the world is yours..
98% Men shall agree to it.. remaining 2% are lairs... trust me
Hard Work Doesn't Kill Anyone... But Why take Chances.
Hey Concious.... Liked your story of guyz following you n then leaving when found you where married....
Have been on the other side very often....
Its fun... I mean... Even a Girl would like when her beauty is appreciated...
"Yeh banne savarne mein kyon ho mazza ... agar koi chahne wala ashique na ho..."
But to defend men's side in tht story... it is not necessary we always follow the sexy n revealing females.... Sometimes.. its about the beauty also... you know... pleasant n good looking gals... its fun... to make them realize how beautiful they are....
and hope.. in a very optimistic way.. tht she likes us for liking her... and start goin out with her.....
And men shall be men....
Hard Work Doesn't Kill Anyone... But Why take Chances.
cheating man.. ops, no, in this case rather a cheating woman.. :)
For the same reason a fish gets hooked to a bait
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VB & FS, if what I wrote wasnt relevant why would I bother to write in here :) When I am talking about those guyz, definitely they too are cheating either on their fiancees or wives.
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
So, both men & women cheat and as usual we are little ahead of women...lol! Come on girls, the gap of 6% is not too much, try to beat us!
Nice stats....Deepb.
Because they cant help it when the memebr opposite sex dangles their bits and intimidates them.
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HE WHO DARES WINS
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article77126.ece
Summary - Forty per cent of females cheat on lovers, compared with 34 per cent of males.
Ok agreed...lol
over 85-90% of men will fail;
obviously, you knew rest 10-15%..
Same Rice can be prepared in different style and flavour and served beautifully with extra care ...then it will be tasty everyday and you wont loose your health by eating junk..lol
Victor yea right ..what conscious is referring has got nothing to do with cheating..
but don’t be so sure... I know men who just don’t give a damn.... even if they try to seduce them...I call them REAL MEN...
Do you really think ALL men are that weak?? I know at least one man who is not like that...
Few women tried really hard to prove your point…they failed miserably!
discussing about sick & hungry men around following weak/lone females to assault physically.
BTF- first I said haraam then when we talk in general men are weak, believe me we talk a lot about self control and discipline, but this will all have no value if provoked/seduced by lady and I am very sure men will fail..(psychology and biology)
everyday rice!! sometimes a cheeseburger is good also!
because they are preverts, no excuse in cheating
VB, being provoked from other women is just a lame excuse believe me. From my stories, you can easily figure out that I am not the kind who attract ppl physically. Doha is unsafe for women only when they show they are weak, once you show them your shoe these kind of ppl's wagging tongue woule automatically go into their mouth :) We can have a beautifully long but decent debate on this that where women are lacking or not but question here is why do men cheat so I am trying to stick to the question only :)
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
Why should I cheat, it is HARAAM.......
We have options, said before also
Generally speaking, if provoked (as BRIT said above) then men really find difficult to resist..(sex urge is natural)
Blame those WOMEN, who provoked POOR men for cheating!
You ladies very well aware of those women! I have seen many comments talking of eating same everyday.....here females have to ensure that their husbands get enough food at home regularly.
CE, from your stories you scared me I neven know that Doha is so unsafe for females....
all you want but cheating on your partner is WRONG.
because you women force them to go out looking for someone else.I dont think anyone would go around risking his family just for fun.Men have needs and i'm not just talking about sex...every man has his limits.
cheating just tells you that the relationship was wrong in the first place.
that's why
In this modern world, internet is the great equalizer.
So, what's REASON # 1???
Originator, your mid-way conclusion/s please
Who says men cheat? They don't!
men are like dogs
This topic is quite interesting, as simple as it sounds.
I do like Jame's message and Azalina, you hit the nail on the head by saying they want and crave for variety!
Men are naturally born cheaters! It depends in the hands of his woman to hold him down or set him astray!
I often ask men this question, both single and married. Their (men) answer, which is very true, is that it is quite boring if all they had to be eating was Burgers all the time; variety is the spice of life!
I want to belive this phrase was created by some expert cheater! I see no reason why a married man has to cheat on a his wife. Love is a beautiful thing if only you understand but unfortunately, a lot of married people do not understand the intricasies behind real love!
Because they think with the wrong organ!
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"Every adult of sound mind, should be able to choose to do whatever they want, as long as they cause no harm to others".
i had a Punani once..it was, half beef burger, half chicken, a bit of salsa and onion rings on a bed of nut bread.....nice it was
Cos the call of the Punani is bigger and better than anytin we knw abt !!
I just believe that if you really love and respect the person you are with in a relationship..you'll never do things that will hurt them..
Men cheat cause they are men.... and just for the record there should be NO reasons for him to cheat...when you marry you marry for good or bad... if you wanna cheat then get out of the marriage... if you wanna cheat on your girlfriend then let her go...
Guys will come up with all sorts of pathetic reasons but at they end of the day it all boils down to one thing....they cannot keep it in their pants....sorry guys.. you know its the truth....
We dont know the answer to the test paper so cheat!
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Life is short, so try to make it long!
there's a few reason. normally it's because they stop;
offering sex on tap,
cooking meals,
cleanign the house,
offering sex on tap,
cleaning the clothes,
cleaning the bathrooms,
offering sex on tap
driving the men to work
picking them up from the bar
offering sex on tap
only kidding.....
hey how was the food? hope you ate only a lil biit as you said and not more lol??
just kidding
action speaks louder than words
At least they are not after married woman...
"Jack Frost VS Jack Cool"
Another real life story:-
I was going to Muntaza Supermarket & was driving. My dress was simply a very loose Pakistani dress. I noticed a car following me from long time & two men were sitting into it. At first, I thought maybe they too want to go to buy something from muntaza that's why same route, so I convinced myself & then parked outside supermarket. Those two heartthrobs also parked near me & started following me. I just wanted to see if after the entrance also they would follow me or they genuinely are here for their own shopping but I noticed them coming to me. All of a sudden like Casper an idea came to my mind. I, very slowly, went to children's section & started putting Jhonson's baby shampoo, oil, food etc etc. I acted as if I am unaware of their presence. All of a sudden I heard in Punjabi language that 'Oh! She is married. We wasted our time following her'. hahahhahahaha .... this was the most funny incident in my life :) Now again this is again another set of men, where there wasnt any short skirt or revealing stuff, but men kept on following :). What would you say now :)
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
hahahhahahahhahaha fefee thats much better lol
ops gtg time to go home see you all later
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no comment!!!!!!lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!hahahhahahaahahha
action speaks louder than words
lol I dont have to do the chasing lol
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I know you not a man ..... but you not a virgin either so how come you said it's only 10 sec. of pleasure lol
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still chasing the girls tcom.........bad boy
hey tcom please correct me if iam wrong!!!!!!!lololol! sorry but i just cant stop laughing. hahahah
well iam not a man, so tcom just correct the number. its you who ask about who said it only 10 sec.
action speaks louder than words
AH.........men cheating, of course woman dont, we had this a couple of years ago...outcome, both sexes cheat for the same reason....something is missing in their ongoing relationship....or they lost it on the way somehow.
That was mentioned by FEFEFEFE not me read her last comment lol
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is that NASA counting before the BIG TAKE OFF?...lmao
LOL HMMMMMMMMMMM writing this short episode made you hungry
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For those who say that ladies who wear mini skirts etc etc I would like to share my own experience :)
Once I was wearing abaya it fully covered me from head to toe, with black gloves & face totally covered. I went to Nabina to buy something & from there I wanted to have a brisk walk in Corniche. There an arabic man started following me inside Nabina, I was very young & naive at that time, & tried to take help of two sales men that he is following me pls either you report to authorities or you talk to him to not do that. They simply said that we cannot do anything in this regard which surprised me but then I took what I wanted & then left outside. That guy was literally running behind me & I understood if he gets a hint that I am scared of his following up with me he might harm me so I started to stay calm & went to my car & immediately locked the doors & did not try to show him that I noticed him following me up. When I turned to the main road he was still standing there & was seeing me off till I crossed the roundabout :)
Now can you tell me what was there for him to get distracted :) There wasnt any skin show, there wasnt any fitting or revealing dress ...... so this is where my experience speaks :) I'll tell about one more incident but before that I'll just eat a bit :P
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
You said it I just copied and pasted what you wrote lol
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tcom ...
is it less than 10sec.???
lol....oh my god iam out of here
action speaks louder than words
well men are born poligamists. its a fact. if you want a relationship. tie them with the string of marriage. or they will slip away.
i dont understand why men would want to risk all their hard work(family you built, wife who love and trust you, your kids...) for just 10sec. of pleasure
Who says it's just 10 Sec. of pleasure
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I am proud to say that MEN I KNOW don’t Stray... they are much better than the men you mentioned here! I commented based on my experience...
Not offensive to me...but offensive to all men who don’t fall in that category!
No need to be personal Darude :) Lets stick to the thread's question.
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DaRuDe said Xray ...
guess consciouseffort husband is not a man then.
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Why is it so dear :) It was just a personal opinion.
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Xray said surprised to see ...
surprised to see consciouseffort comments...
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you must have a few stray dogs in your house then!!
you must let them know what you think of them.
I remember when I was in 5th standard, a boy came running to the teacher & said Ma'am this boy has called me dog. He expected that teacher would start shouting or will hit that other boy. Surprisingly, she was in a good mood & she gave that boy a positive note of it & said my dear dog is not an abuse, it is just an animal who is the most faithful on this earth to any human being :) So, here I didnt insult anyone rather gave out my personal opinion, which is right according to me but maybe wrong according to you, since all the fingers in one person's hand are also not of the same size. So instead of commenting on my comment I think its much better that we all 'brothers & sisters' stick to the question of the Thread. The thread requires an answer to question & everyone has the right to answer as per their experience or belief :)
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if you wear mini skirts and show off ur sexy bums our testosterone overrides our logic. Self control is something men are unaware of.
thanks for the support da!
action speaks louder than words
Generally I do not generalize stuff or ppl. As I said based on mine & my friends' (which means lots of friends) experiences I gave an example which perfectly fits for these kind of men.
My comment should not be offensive to you FS, as I was not talking about ur family member. This is a public forum & everyone is expressing their point of view based on what's happening in their lives.
I am surprised my opinion is offensive but most of the time I see the image of middle finger being swayed & no one finds it offensive :)
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Formatted Soul said consious... ...
I strongly disagree with your statement...
Not all men stray...There are some REAL MEN who know to stay away from such stray females who try to tempt someone else’s husband or bf...
please don’t generalize men with your personal experience...
If all women were perfect then there wont be any cheating in this world!
Your comment was really offensive…
there would be a lot of glossy mags that would go under if it wasnt for men cheating, its everywhere including the celebs and us normal people. its never going to stop and its something that is part to our society.
i just wish to every women that you dont find your partner doing it becuase it can really break your heart
james x
weeeehehehe!! round and round weeeee!!
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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you really dont need to say anything to smokey
all you need to get is a baseball bat and whack that kitty butt. or grab that tail of its and smack it around
hmmm M.S do you feel better now?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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smoke >..hmmmmmmmmmmm dont know what to tell you!!!!!!!
i agree with scarlett
we all should be able to control our selves no matter what the temptation may be.
by the way if your boss make you angray at work, why dont just throw all the papers in his face and walk out? why do you keep your self under control? because you know there will be high price to pay by losing your job. so if a women walk bye, and you feel tempted, why dont you think of controlling ur selve?
i dont understand why men would want to risk all their hard work(family you built, wife who love and trust you, your kids...) for just 10sec. of pleasure.
action speaks louder than words
Men cheat cause they're CHEATERS! :P hehe!
There are several reason why men cheat, it all depends on the relationship. And not only the the relationship but it also depends on the man, he might be sick-minded, or what so. And there might be sick-minded actions from the woman's sides, which pushs the man toward cheating on her.
I hate these long topics that says to keep your man you have to do "blah blah blah...take care of him and blah blah bla..." Couples in a relationship DO NOT need to hear that, when you love someone you unconciously do what it takes to make him/her happy. As for those that don't care, they're simply not in love.
So for those men who keep on cheating, why don't you just don't involve yourself in a relationship, and keep doing what you're doing with whatever a hooker or so; instead of being called cheater. Men stop being greedy, you want someone to love you and a sexy attractive bump. Why don't you get enough with one? Or tell you what find a sexy bump and get involved with her, ALERT! Wrong advise!! That wouldn't be a successful relationship!
Just get enough with one! Cheater!! :P :D haha! Feels good!
"Better in time...down just like that"
Formatted Soul said it best
"In most cases, they cheat when their physical or emotional needs are not fulfilled by their partner!"
It's the same for men and women. Women are not more emotional than men, they merely express their emotions more readily than men because it is more socially acceptable to do so.
Those (cheating)men knows very well the consequences but they still gto ahead with it for (many) reasons only known to them.
maybe they're not satisfied?
maybe they're bored?
maybe they want variety?
Only (cheating) men knows why...hehehehehe
coming from the opposite sex! A good cheater do it without knowing it! A good cheater do it fast and forget it afterwards! A good cheater is one who got caught but not punished!
and lastly, a good cheater doesn't exist! Lol!!!!
Good afternoon, Scary Lady! I'm fine!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
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Everybody wishes they could go to heaven but no one wants to die.
48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.
So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about physical intimacy: Only 8 percent of men said that physical dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is to have physical intimacy with someone," Neuman says. "But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right." The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. "Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked," Neuman says. "But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness -- and once you set the tone, he's likely to match it."
66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.
The implications are a little scary: It isn't just uncaring jerks who cheat. In fact, 68 percent of cheaters never dreamed they'd be unfaithful, and almost all of them wished they hadn't done it, Neuman says. Clearly, guilt isn't enough to stop a man from cheating. "Men are good at compartmentalizing feelings," Neuman explains. "They can hold on to their emotions and deal with them later." So even if your partner swears he would never cheat, don't assume it can't happen. It's important for both of you to take steps toward creating the relationship you want.
77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheated
Hanging around friends who stray makes cheating seem normal and legitimizes it as a possibility. The message he's subconsciously telling himself: "My friend is a good guy who happens to be cheating on his wife. I guess even the best of us do it." You can't simply ban your husband from hanging out with Mr. Wandering Eyes, Neuman says, but you can request that they spend their time together in an environment that offers less temptation, like at a sporting event or a restaurant for lunch rather than at a bar or club. Another strategy: Build your social circle around happily married couples that share your values -- it'll create an environment that supports marriage.
40% of cheating men met the other woman at work.
"Oftentimes the woman he cheats with at the office is someone who praises him, looks up to him, and compliments his efforts," Neuman says. "That's another reason why it's so critical that he feel valued at home." Luckily, there's a clear warning sign that your husband is getting a little too cozy with a colleague: If he praises or mentions the name of a female coworker more than he would a male counterpart, your antennae should go up -- and it's time for the two of you to set boundaries about what is and isn't okay at work, Neuman says. Is it acceptable for him to work late if it's only him and her? Can they travel together to conferences? Have dinners out to discuss a project? Ask him what he'd feel comfortable with you doing with a male colleague.
Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.
In other words, a man doesn't stray because he thinks he'll get lucky with a better-looking body. "In most cases, he's cheating to fill an emotional void," Neuman says. "He feels a connection with the other woman, and physical intimacy comes along for the ride." If you're worried about infidelity, focus on making your relationship more loving and connected, not on getting your body just right or mastering how to please him physically. (But know that physical intimacy does matter -- it's one of the key ways your guy expresses his love and feels close to you, so be sure to keep it a priority.)
Only 6% of cheating men had physical intimacy with a woman after meeting her that same day or night.
Actually, 73 percent of men got to know the other woman for more than a month before they cheated. This means that you may have time to see the warning signs before infidelity occurs -- you might even see it coming before he does. Keep an eye out for these common signals: He spends more time away from home, stops asking for physical intimacy, picks fights more frequently, or avoids your calls. Your gut reaction may be to confront him, but most men will deny even thinking about cheating, especially if nothing physical has occurred yet. Instead, Neuman suggests, take charge of what you can control -- your own behavior -- and take the lead in bringing your relationship to a better place. Don't hesitate to show your appreciation for him, prioritize time together, and initiate affection more. Give him a reason to keep you at the front of his mind, Neuman says. And be open about how you feel about what's going on between the two of you (again, without mentioning any third parties). Try "I think we've started to lose something important in our relationship, and I don't want it to disappear." In the meantime, commit to keeping tabs on your relationship and doing what it takes to keep it working for you.
I dont think men cheat coz of nagging wives its just basically coz we want to have sex with someone new coz we are bored with the wife/gf :p Then you'd all say, not all husbands are bored with their wifes, then i'd say, then those husbands just think about cheating but dont have the balls to do it but fact is he isnt have sex with you either, then you will agree and say "Yeah! your right, i have been noticing how he keeps making excuses every time i wear a sexy night gown, and then i'd say "ah HA.."
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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hey there..how are you?
ahh newkidontheblock...don't fall for that BS....its even worse to see that man who only goes..."yes dear" and never pays attention to what is being said. A doorstop could do that and cost less upkeep.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
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Avoiding Queen control foremost, from relationship to household economy. Men like counting numbers and one is certaintly not enough. Sometimes we tell that the lady in the picture is our office secretary, back at home. Problem solved.
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
we, men cheat because the women are naggers and has big mouth and unstoppable :D
you left the other part of the equation off...
If all women were perfect, there would be no cheating, hence if all MEn were also perfect, there would be no cheating. Men need to take responsibility for their actions as well as women do. They need to make sure all aspects and requirements of the relationship are met. Takes TWO to tango, as you can't dance it by yourself.
Why you guys seem to think that marriage sucks the sex drive out of women is totally ridiculous. The female sex drive is just as strong as a males but its been falsely reported that males can't control theirs so its just been blindly accepted as fact.
Men who cheat are just as wrong as women who cheat...doesn't matter what the excuse is..its wrong and they know it.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
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WitchStix dont be rediculickulus now, if i sing to her she will never fall asleep! I just might have to hit her over the head with the bed side lamp.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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than Cheating DARUDE....
10 is too late, u know that, i have "appointments" later so maybe a little early... put your wife to bed, sing her a lullaby (coz u are sooooo good at that) and come over...
dont aZZume anything from my profile... dont Stix to it. what about UZ???! LOLLING!
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Cheating is good for Health, Doctors Recommend !! :)
Cheat a day, keeps the doctors away...:)
I remember school days when i use to cheat during my Exams, so i am still a proud cheater.....lol
Well then who said i was a man? i could actually be a pussy.....cat :p but you will never know for sure. So i will stick to what your profile says and we'll meet up tonight at say 10 O'smoke?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Do they?
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look at this cheating thread, nice to discussed! Lol!!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
you mentioned having an affair with me... who sed i was a woman... maybe im actually wizardstix? with a "wand" !! LOL!
WitchStix just sit on your broom and fly back to the hole you came from! Which part of what i said made u think i was interested in MEN?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Lack of communication...where the women ALWAYS want to talk and NEVER listens...Ratio is ONE WORD from the MAN is equivalent to 1 PAGE from the WOMAN. Imagine a whole sentence, that would make it a WHOLE DAY of NAGGING.
It's not because things are difficult that we don't dare, it's because we don't dare that makes things difficult!
I cheat, it is HARAAM.......
We have options, said before as well.
Generally speaking, if provoked (as BRIT said above) then men find difficult to resist....(sex urge is natural)
Blame those WOMEN, who provoked POOR men for cheating!
You ladies very well aware of those women! I have seen many comments talking of eating same everyday.....here females have to ensure that their husbands get enough food at HOME regularly.
My Wife ensures and send me to an office where there are no female colleagues and ensures that I reach home after office...she is smart and knows Men very well....
guess consciouseffort husband is not a man then.
smoke.. i didnt know you were into men...
surprised to see consciouseffort comments...
second stone...
And the the speciial gift (STD)you get from these Special women are more exciting than the unwrapped gift...yuck.....
LoL Smoke ....
WitchStix how dare u even think of casting the 1st stone! i told you OUR affair must be kept a secret!! I'll meet you tonight after my wife's gone to bed ok?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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sometimes we cheat because you get a thrill/buzz for trying and succeeding! its like skydiving or bungii jumping " a quick fix"
or we are drawn in by lust, when what we actually have waiting at home is love but its our animal instincts!!
temptation is everywhere and it up to the each of us to control it.
The same reason that makes Wife's cheat
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well, i was wondering how long it was gonna take you to put your two cents here...
you do seem to be such an expert on the topic....
FS .. i have read a quote somewhere and can't recall it literally but its kind of:
Getting married is like going to a restaurant and oredering food .. a guy feels so happy with his food until his friend's food arrive
LOL
1st stone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well i for one am not a stray dog...i'm a stray KAT. That being said one of the main reasons men cheat is coz men are NOT emotional creatures, we think about sex like every 6 seconds...look i'm thinking about it as i type...we dont want to "talk" about our feelings we want to express them like MEN!
In order to cheat, we can visit "special women" doesn't always have to be another woman willing to cheat. Honestly speaking you really cant be satisfied with the same woman and man forever! Its going to get boring, its going to be routine, once you open a gift wrapped present the excitement of knowing what was gift wrapped is gone. When kids are born, parents dont really have intimate time as much as they used to have before. women then tend to focus all their time and energy on the children, thus neglecting men's primary urges to have SEX. Not to mention the physical changes a women goes through after pregnancy :p
Yeah so men cheat mostly coz they want the excitement back or as someone said coz we can get away with it most of the time :P Ok now i'm ready to be stoned but let me just say "She who has not sinned before may cast the first stone" :p
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Bahrani...why cant they taste all different food to their hearts content before making any commitment..lol
Bcos eventually they will get only that food...wihtout any fail till their last day..lol
Not all men fall for temptations and lust...
Its all about Morals...
for a change ... won't u feel bored if u eat the same food every single day
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cheating only in sex...!!!!
That is really inappropriate and not ethical to resemble men as dogs.After all men and women are God's creature.So,do u mean when you get married or if you are married,you will marry a dog??
I strongly disagree with your statement...
Not all men stray...There are some REAL MEN who know to stay away from such stray females who try to tempt someone else’s husband or bf...
please don’t generalize men with your personal experience...
If all women were perfect then there wont be any cheating in this world!
Your comment was really offensive…
PARTNERS cheated each other because of Insecurities!!!!
" Successful people are not Gifted, they just worked hard and Succeed on Purpose...."
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
.. because they always find someone to cheat with!
if there is no one out there who is willing to cheat with them, there will be no choice but to remain faithful!
action speaks louder than words
is it only SEX ??
Your lady doesn't put out
Every man has heard that the best way to get a woman to stop having sex with him is by marrying her. Apparently, long-term relationships seem to suck the sex drive out of many women, leaving men gasping for fulfillment. With the need for more sex, some men will start "working late" more often.
Or it could just be that the sex has become boring. She doesn't want to try new things in bed. Some men may cheat because they don't want their girlfriends or wives to perform certain sex acts that would ruin their "good girl" image.
In most cases, they cheat when their physical or emotional needs are not fulfilled by their partner!
Excuses are made to cover up..
There is no justifiable reason for cheating.
"Jack Frost VS Jack Cool"
it's good to try vegetable in some days! lol!!!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
I guess men cheat when they dont recieve as much love as they are expexted from women and as a result they find it else where.
hmmmmm...they can never be contented, i guess :)
Men are born polygamous, that simple.
"Jack Frost VS Jack Cool"
When two mature people are passionately and deeply in love with one another to a high degree and that they respect each other very much, then, it is spiritually and morally acceptable to the society that they both engage themselves in the act of physical sex with one another dosen't matter if they are married or not.....thats how i see it and its does make me feel better everytime i cheat.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
bcz woman cheat man
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
doesn't necessarily mean you are cheated?
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
i agree with you brit, but what bout this thing we call self control? is that hard for a man to have?
action speaks louder than words
They cheat because their wives don't think they're romantic enough ;-)
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Everybody wishes they could go to heaven but no one wants to die.
lollzz brite .... fully agree to tat man ...:)
Men cheat because generally they get away with it cleanly without getting caught or screwed up
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Everybody wishes they could go to heaven but no one wants to die.
hey guys you dont need to stay and hide away your opinion. by posting, doest mean you are a cheater. so dont be afraid.
common....
action speaks louder than words
Its because we feel unloved and lonely and also some ladies of the opposite sex parade their bumpy bits in front of us causing our hormones to override our brains.
The fault is wholy with the women...
Men cheat coz Womens beat them....:)
Now all the men & women will give you all the reasons on earth.
You have really made them BUSY for many days to come.
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