Why are they doing this?
Why do some people borrow money from friends/acquaintance and never think of returning it?
We help people in times of their emergency; professional cheaters must be thinking we are stupid to do so. Its not because we are stupid, we are helping them out of sympathy. They say stories of illness, debt, losing job, going to jail etc. We just empathies with them, they will say that they will return it in two weeks, we wont ask for one month. When we ask after couple of months they will say they will return it tomorrow, then they start ignoring our calls, when we send text messages they start threatening us knowing fully well that there is no proof of such a transaction.
They don’t bother to say sorry or that they don't have any plans to return the money. And they are active on social networking sites looking for new victims.. we can find them every where, even on QL! The funny thing is that they act like saints and such nice people in here.
why are they doing this? Are they mentally unstable? Or are they professional cheaters? Or do they enjoy living in others hard earned money. If they deserve charity most of us will be willing to give, but if they try to cheat what should we do?
May be he is more active in QL with other user name ,,
FS - i thought i was the only victim with that person.. OMG.. this person swindled money with so many people..
then, I agree with BOTH of you :)
:)
Fully agree with you!
"agar thode se paison me kisi ki aukaat pata chal jaye to sauda bura nahi dost.."
For the prince, It means
"It is not a bad deal to understand a person's calibre by spending a small amount" :)
editing above non english post ... done!
walla a2oloko, 7'alleeni as2al wa7ed hendi
(means "tell you what:I will ask an Indian")
bet2olo aih ? (means what are you saying?)
because I didn't understand previous post's "English"
only the prince????
what about wk ??????
only the prince????
what about wk ??????
the_prince, English plz in the main forums.
Exactly ;-)
Vic one of my friends used to tell me everytime we lost money, agar thode se paison me kisi ki aukaat pata chal jaye to sauda bura nahi dost..
Money removes camouflage many a times and show the true color/face of a person.
It also helps to check an individual's integrity, loyalty and honesty.
It is NOT easy, I agree. But then, it's easier than refusing or losing your money
IMHO
Lent to a friend or a relative;
It is NOT easy to ask for a cheque or a promissory note; to embrass the borrower; who is actually describing to pay for Rent, medical bills or lost huge amount in Share market and will return in couple of days.
Costly Lessons learnt in difficult ways.
THEY ARE DOING THIS.....BECAUSE SOME ARE HAVING A GOOD HEART........
O No FS. I feel bad now. I will not feel good until you nice ladies get back what you lent! :(
UK...that was the answer to someone who asked me if I feel better after posting that..
FYI...I didnt get it back..:)
Good to hear FS
hope we hear good news from you too IM..:)
I would feel a lot better if i got my money back. Trying to forget my folly but hard :(
to whom so ever it may concern...
yes I feel a lot better now:)
so its more than one person on the list
borrower - they will kiss ur hand when borrowing then u will have to kiss their A?S to get the money back in some cases u won't get the money at all
To people who think generous means wrong:
1- Generous does not mean incautious !
2- Why don't you simply ask for a guarantee such as a personal check?
Victims: Consult a lawyer, may be u can get your money back through court (specially big amounts)
Rev S give him 2.5 QR.
hhmmmm....yes, this is true.
Welcome,
so you got ur money back ?? :P
Tink,
you got a cute DP
Ghrrr...so if i take that bill..i have to pay ?? is it Kahrama or Q-tel ?? :D :P
Nachu i have only 1 5QR bill
hmmm, what happened here?
Rev. let me take that 5QR ( i dont spare any :P )lolz
Jack right now in my wallet right infront of me I got 5 QR with whole heartly I will lend u this money... if u can return it by 1 week.. lol
Rev.S... can you give me QR 20,000... I know your nice heart will lend me QR10,000....
well, Its happening everywhere around the world ppl take money from their friends-family and never return it back after reading all the comments..
My ADVICE to all- If u really want to help someone in need just help the person with amout u can give and forget about it for example if personal is asking u for 3000 give him/ her 1500 or 1000 and deep inside just think its gone for good... if it suppose to come back then he is true friend, if person doesn't return u the favour then its better not to trust the person ever again,try not to get hurt by your mistakes, trusting some1 and the person lieing to you hurts alot...
and how big is big? Or it is the act itself? Me, it's the act of NO APPRECIATION!
maybe they are just having fun....on doing like this to the money of others.............hehhehe......im the victim too...up to the sept.2010...my money is still on her......God Bless her....for making me suffer.....!
Human if you give him loan will joy and if you aske him will be Outrage
FS, did you try contacting him/her again after posting this thread???
If you want to be my close firend .... pls dont ask me money .
hehe...i didnt pay anything :) ...
was just concerned about people who lost the money.
so FS is not the only one?
Nachu how much did you pay ? :)
so whats new on this thread?? got the money back ?
aha, so this is the controversy that I missed during my holiday...
so did you get the money back?
I was wondering why you were late to post this thread. :)
Trust me, He/She cant just vanish like that from everyone.
Most of the time these fraudsters... borrow a small amount initially, and then return it as promised...only to come back for another request 10 times bigger to disappear with...
Harry - What FS has done is nothing compared to what she could have. The concerned guy should be thankful to FS for her patience.
Don't you think it wrong to "out" these people on a public forum. I think your post was valid, but then it went downhill with accusations and rebuttals.
Most welcome :D
Never mind WK...I'll collect it in India ;)
LOL Khattak.. I am going to keep trusting people with money but Not in Qatar ;)
WK...I knew I can always rely on you :P
Just because one guy didn't return it, it doesn't mean I am gonna stop helping my friends if I can.. We loan out money to friends all the times back home and everytime it is returned.. I myself borrowed heavily during some tough times a few years back and cleared it as soon as I could.. Maybe people are more honest back home.
You will meet alot of people who took advantage of your friendship. One friend advised me "never involve money in a friendship" And I must agree w/ her...sometimes lending money to a friend w/ your intentions to help can be the cause of your misunderstanding when the other party(borrower) got sick of "amnesia" :D
Hi Nomerci, am good sweety and wishes to be at least half pretty as you ;)
well, not only friends/acquiantance but also relatives.
i lend money to my uncle one time. he cannot pay so i just gave it and didnt ask to return back.
For the second time,he wants to borrow money again, with amount higher than the previous one.
i asked him when you will be able to pay/return it back.
guess what... he said i dont know when i can pay you back... coz he said he's struggling financially (hes working in saudi)
what the fake...
i stopped answering his phone calls (which he does only when he needs something like this), in short i ignore... coz its better to be blank/silent than to have a fight again about money that will surely ruin our relationship.
money lend is money lend, money given is money given.
not the other way around.
For a moment there, I thought you had been talked into it too.
Hopefully, you'll all get your money back :-)
Tinkerbell...are you a victim too?
Yes - The way to get your money back is eat,pray and love.
No apple, it is, in both cases "he".
Btw...how are you beautiful?
is SHE? ;)
FU..the lights haven't come on yet...read through again ...SLOWLY
Ok so who is this person?
let it be a lesson for everyone
me, if the ACE see me quiet, then something is fishy! It means, I'm tired, dead tired (as in, coming from a big battle)! Lol! Hehehehehehe! Confession, your call!
and his attitude :)
I commented.....
Like every coin has 2 sides.... ...
similarly Money have both effects on us;
We need not be Greedy but ensure to feel contented at a certain point. We shall NOT compromise our values and self respect to gain monetary benefits!
Peace
Every guilty person is his own hangman....
Flor: you meet that maroon air hostess???
I think it's a sign of mental instability.
Flor I think it’s a defensive mechanism..
is that a confession? let me email this link to the ACE. LOL
to get angry and threaten to hide their guilt. Some even result to yelling. Usually, husbands do it to hide whatever fishy they are doing! Lol!
hmmmm...
so many things happened during my absence I can post the real story... I dont think its appropriate to publish someone's personal life/fake or true story over here...whom I once helped as a friend...
As I said before, I am not here to name and shame anyone...I am only concerned about my money!!
If the person politely told me that he don’t have money now and he will return it as soon as possible I would have not posted this... but acting as if he never owe me anything really made me upset!! asking me to do whatever I want is not the way to reply!! and threatening to file complaint for asking my money is ridiculous!!
April to spetember is not two weeks or two months...
so one qler came out (guilty???),
who's the other one??
you mentioned u did not do it, and will not do it ever? :(
so it's you!? :(
OK..OK..I'll return the money! :P
any whistleblower???
KHATTAK...I am a newbie, I am just a learner boss :)
Lawa- any luck with ur money???
mustangboy...dont be competitor to me :(
but best thing give out the names so that the person(s) is ashamed & either pays back OR never shows up at QL meets and also others are warned about them.
Thankfully I am being warned at the right time...:)
I am JOBLESS everyone...so all I can afford is to give u my will which will let u keep paying my loans for the rest of your life...so BEWARE :P
hmmmmm can u pm me also the name/s of these qlers?:(
What kind of a man who received assistance from a woman and then threaten her with harm? A COWARD.
Don't insult the judicial authorities here in Doha. Or maybe it is your way of escaping from your reponsibilies, by declaring yourself as INSANE.
Edifis...
2 bottle water (2ltr),
a packet or 2 of bbq items you want to eat...
12 No Soft drink cans.
Bring a chair to sit,
1 table if you have,
one cool box if you have. thats it.
Do the buying thing tomorrow itself...
Jack: no worries, fs won't say anything to us... ;)
Dont you guys hijack FS's thread..
drac: this is not right to keep everyone in suspense... :)
Drac, you send me PM too. Why keep me out of the loop?
Got it... You are brilliant!
Edifis: Welcome aboard BBQ trip.... :)))
jack, check PM :p
Vegas, same here.
I never expect it back...
In the few cases I am repaid...
I am shocked and surprised...
What did i miss guys.... :((((
Sure I am coming! ....I will be there. Just tell me what to bring along.
Its simple Edifis ... he needs the carrot 5 times a day...
When he ask for carrot ...you give him stick
When he ask for stick .... you give him carrot
Edifis... are you in Qatar for Eid? You havent confirmed about the BBQ!
But he is very bious. He brays 5 times every day.
Thats why I am afraid to abuse him.
Edifis use him... before you make the salami... he cant tell others you see ;)
Nomerci you will eat him for me?
I hope the MOD's don't warn me for posting personal details and pictures. I didn't take his consent.
Atleast I didn't post his name.
Nomerci you will eat him for me?
I hope the MOD's don't warn me for posting personal details and pictures. I didn't take his consent.
Atleast I didn't post his name.
[Mod's note:It is never acceptable to reveal a members real name or post their picture on Qatar Living unless they have consented.Please ask the mule and post again!]
Mod already warned posting pics of QL persons. but u are posting
Edifis, male salami out of him, sell the salami...you might even make some profit! ;)
edifis...the creature in the picture can sue you in the e-crime department.
And to top it all he makes such a face!
[Photo edited by Mods! :P]
This person borrowed 15QR from me. He promised to return in 1 week. Now it's 6 months and He is not returning the money back. What can I do now?
Oooops..... I missed a lot :(
i saw the whole thread, it is informative for all and we can be more careful in future, really I admire FS for her guts to expose such people openly.
FS I admire your guts to expose these people on QL...
Are you not the guy who keep saying you are from US... and your line was "no more pain"... I did smell a rat a long time back... and I did raise it on QL... ... yeah I do remember you ...
Some of his recent posts:
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/882479
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/882478
I'll take the case.. My law firm , Payne & Fear will win because of the senile judges presiding over cases..
Ok so let me get this straight, a thief is going to file a case in court because someone he stole from called him a thief on the internet?
No names were used either so unless you have the combination of the smartest lawyer in the world and the dumbest judge in the world, drop the issue jon. You will go down.
Hahahahahaha it was fun to read this thread!!!
the 29th day of Ramadan...when the gates open & sins are forgiven.
so tell us your side of the story then Jon A. Did you or did you not borrow any money from any Qler.. I suppose you are Muslim and will not lie in the Holy Month of Ramadan?
Well, DID you or did you NOT borrow money and not pay it back?
jon a we are all in it together now...man you cant ask to stay out of it can you?
If you are annoyed, jon, just pay her back the money your borrowed and call it a day!
jon you never told me your side of the story, am still waiting..
By the way, most of the comments are for someone else on QL, not you.
Mods please remove the name of QLer being refered above!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wouldn't it be quicker to edit your own posts?
MOD alert: please delete personal info being used here :-(
MODS !!!!
Since you've outted yourself, jon, how much did you borrow? And why won't you just pay her back?
Never borrow money to a friend unless you want to lose their friendship..
PLEASE ALL REMEMBER! A true friend in need is a friend indeed. But that is in deed terms not in monetary terms!
MODS????
Brilliant Jon... all of us witness against you... that should be interesting...
"Something is rotten in the state of Denmark."
Act I, Scene 4
William Shakespeare
Yes UK, defending oneself when not even accused is definitely fishy. I don't think there is only one person whose name starts with "j" in QL.
Tinker, we have been warned. Lets not fall in the trap. No trust, no friendship when money is involved it seems.
Don't abuse the friendsheep!
my..isn't someone becoming very prickly...
I smell some thing Fishy here Drmana?
No one was named and still someone comes out crying foul play??? So he knew it is him being discussed?
Well that is true Drac. As this money lending took place in person so first name etc do get exchanged also.
With all my respects, how somebody can fill a charge against a nickname used on QL site?
You'll need full details (name,surname, etc.)
Maybe somebody knows the real identity of Formatted Soul?
peace ;) :P
okeey!!!
hehehe nice to see u again formated soul but why you don't ask him to return back your money instead of posting it in QL
jon is a smart guy...who just accepted what he did...
One down a few more to go!
Flor I guess I know who she is?
FS I shocked to see the name of the Culprit. I am suprised that I was not asked. Coz if he had asked for even a greater amount I would had said yes.
I am so grateful to you FS to bringing this issue into the public domain and warning others. Inshallah you will get you money back from this AR55 hole's..
Sound to me like someone has a guilty conscience. Way to self-identify!
have to lend some space for a while.... thank goodness though you got it back... even though you had to beg for days;-P
Fu: same with me.... :)
No Saad...I escaped narrowly ;)
Fu: looks like you have been a victim too ??
Hello lenders - Since you guys are so generous;can you lend me a million please? I don't mind if you guys want to come together and pool for me.
Iám in need of some cash very badly since I never got paid for last 2 years and my uncle's aunty is unwell and needs to be cremated soon.
I will return your money in 5 days.
Yes Saad, LemonTree too :(
Thanks FS... I would have done anything for you to get it cleared...lol ;)
beside money flood, he's also a poor victim of so called socialize bald master.
Who is Lemon Tree? I'm hearing his name alot lately...
borrowed lie down on ground and said I dont have money to return "kya karte karo" in typical hyderabadi accent.
Jack you name also starts with j...loool but its not you
jack, that man has J's in his name ;O)
it earlier in the thread when she said the person isn't posting here - you have been, almost from the beginning.... so I think that rules you out:-)
FS ... Please clear my name... :(
me the names of the people we are discussing, since I am getting concerned about someone that's trying to become a bit to friendly and mentioning money issues all the time....
Thanks....
Dot.com: Lemon Tree also, omg....
add "LemonTree" to the list of poor victim, couple of days ago he called me, and were asking about his address, after not answering his calls.
My name starts with the letter J.
I owe a lot of Qlers debt of gratitude but never money.
Anyway, I can pay with my heart.
bnb: now i want a treat from you... ;)
Saad- thanks for the PM...otherwise this thread would have gone unnoticed..
oh gosh..i have missed such an important thread....
lawa: wait till the evening other wise, you know what to do...
check your pm
just say the name..
I just called him he told me he will come today eve otherwise he better know me
lawa: you can take out the money from him, in an hour and may be you can help out others too... :)
u seem to have a soft spot for people in need. maybe next time do think twice before lending money. specially people nowadays are quite expert in creating stories.
FS atleast tell them its not moi... :(
make sure you bring LC or something the same so we can ride up and down the dunes, especially the part where i have to write my I Owe You note. :p
yes saad one of them starts with J !
No write it in the sand, let's go to the dunes ;-)
my mind is going to be blowup now bcz as per his promise he need to give me at 1stsep and now how many days ....?
jack: not you at all..... :)
brit..with one I didnt expect that..bcos I knew that he already borrowed from few ppl which he didnt return...
The other I thought yes...bcos he dont have reason not to return..I should have known when his own family refused to give him!!
Lol Colt. Ok, i will make an "I Owe You" note written on the surface of the water. :)
"They use "frienship" as a shield to protect themselves. They know that you will probably value friendship more than the money or the fuss..
In most cases the fault lies with ourselves. We usually know inside that the person will have difficulty paying back, yet we give the money"
People misuse and take undue advantage of our soft-heart and generousity.
Saad you dont suspect me do you...lol
No it starts with the alphabet after "O"
fs: does his name starts with a "J"
lawa: you are also in the same boat...
Quick question. When you lent them the money, did you truly believe that you would get it back within the agreed timeframe ?
Lawa... even you... oh bloody hell...ROFL
Drmana ...my QL secretary does it for me ..lol
Jeez. Enough with the f-ing hijacking already. 12 new comments of nothing but bullshit.
you remind me i have to call that son of .... he took my money and since that day i did'nt see his face
ok why everyone is crying for Peanuts here ? :(
LOL
Mods has nothing to do with this thread...
jack, censor your comments yourself sometimes :-(
FS how much was the amount ?
was it in Qrs, Dhms, Dinars, Dollars, Euro or Rupees ?
bolo bolo
No not FU...
Thx JacknJill !!
i know am a GintleMean....:)
drmana there are more than 1 being talked about here.
jack u mean FU.....lol
Is he a lol-er...on QL? With nothing much to say?
FS, seriously...who is this guy?
I have all the pms he sent me asking for money and the his gf's bank details he gave and his son's phone number he gave to handover the money
and now after seeing this thread he send me a PM saying
" i hope you can get your money back from that person who stole your money ...best wishes nice thread keep on the good job."
and he blocked my pm...
He think I am scared to publish his name?? what an idiot
I can post all the pms ...
They use "frienship" as a shield to protect themselves. They know that you will probably value friendship more than the money or the fuss..
In most cases the fault lies with ourselves. We usually know inside that the person will have difficulty paying back, yet we give the money...
Will you guarantee that with "I Owe You" notes? :-P
Pilgram...agree with whatever you said above...in fact its all that, that saved me from being into the same situation.
Rizks is he a monkey? Your friend?...lol
she or he??
Colt before you leave, can you lend me QR50,000? i just need to buy a car for my mom. :p
i have given one of my priend few weeks back Qrs.1.50Dhs...yesterday he gave me a pack of peanuts...:(
Nice going buddy... pretty soon I bet your inbox will be flooded with requests :-P
saad..i think ur pertaining to the other ruby..
Colty ...yeah... At least I want something in return!!!
from a guy? :-P LOL!!!
If I got good sex in return then I wouldnt mind... lol
You're right on that one!!! I'm not a victim of the guy/ girl, so I wouldn't know!
But I guess you don't need to name anyone for the simple fact that, henceforth if ANYONE from QL asks for money - DON'T GIVE!!!
good thing i am just a simple person living by my means, never beyond it.
i sympathize with you all fellows. may he/she get whatever he/she deserves. :/
Damn you Khattak...Jhale pur namak chidak raha hai...
Trans: Hurting me more are you?
I've learnt my lesson now, after getting badly burnt. I guess this is how life changes us :(
Well Colt, since nobody has decided to name the culprit someone out there might. Better to name and shame the guy.
ruby: you know me now... ;)
ask for life but don't ask MONEY ;-)
saad..do i know u?? just kiddin dear..
Please use English in the main forum!
I don't think anyone is giving him more money. This has just come to light now ;-)
Seriously if the person is so bad with money that they've gotten themselves into financial trouble, WHY OH WHY, would you consider giving them more money? I can't even grasp that level of naivety.
chk PM
I said I have gotten WISE now... too many bad debts :-(
I have a feeling I was being groomed to be the next victim :-(
yes it's true, some people telling some sorts of stories, just to borrowed money.. It's not bad to give some help to others.. but In my opinion once you help them, if they did not pay you don't help them, don't give a 2nd chance for them..
Thanks God...there are still people like Colt, FS & Ice who are willing to lend more. I still have a chance... Sighzzzzz
WK,
mine was 3250 :(
ruby: but you said you trust me... :(((((
Same here. If we are in a position to help, then why not? Guess, I still look at the world through rose tinted lenses :(
some people have the guts to do this,whoever he/she is..shame on them,thats why i never trust anyone when it comes to money(i learned my lesson well from a fellow kabayan).
:(
Lesson learnt hard ways.
Whenever somebody who ask for money and in crisis; the chances of getting money back are least.
I generally check where I stand at that point of time; whether I could assist.
Unfortunately, I lent money to my two friends and they both are just giving me future promises and now I am in a situation that I could not help anybody :(
and reply...
I recovered it in installments...
fs: i think i know that qatari, is he on ql too...
Does QL have a lending business?
Khanan.....now can I borrow some from you? :P
btw...when is the barty?
Khanan that's a miracle!!!!
Is that the day it was raining in Qatar, lol..
nachu did you give 10,000?
Being in a position to help others doesn't mean being an idiot about it. If you want to help people so much, give to charities. Not people you hardly know.
I normally help people in need, but I'm getting very conscious now days with the amount of bad debts I'm running up :-(
FS - I echo the same thoughts, if I can help, why not? But it's people like us who probably encourage it in some sorta twisted way :-(
though I recovered my money..yippeeee
Felt sorry for all all the poor victims...:(
Qlers owe something to this guy? Please clarify?
Its not only expats....one is a Qatari!!
One of my close friend also did the same to me. he didnt answer my calls and sms for last 6 months. recently he answered once and promised that he would be return soon (dont know when :( ) ...
I know FS who you are talking about... Lol
I guess all QLers owe him something...lol
Pilgram it is a very stupid thing to do, I accept..
I have helped many ppl in need with money and other favours ..most of them returned the money ...except few!! If we are in a position to help others why not? but not all the people in this world are frauds..
FS, who is that person ?
drac: you can help Ana get her money back...
@Ana.Ganda...em damn sure its ur bf who owes u money :P hehe
I'm sorry, but why would you ever in a million years lend money to someone from QL? Or anyone that you meet in this country for that matter? How can you trust them? Friends for a couple of months does not make them trustworthy to lend money to. Jeez people, smarten up.
wtf..Ana.G???
..dumped and now without money? :(
i have the same problem like u.. somebody owes me money and now he is ignoring me as if i never exist... he is not answering my calls and my messages
drac: i was thinking of selling nose wheel tyre of the aircraft.... ;)
which is the friendship. In most cases, I lost both. The money and the friend. Now, whenever I lend, I try to forget it.
We should all thank FS for raising this issue :)
I still feel he is genuine and going thru the rough patch of life, despite thousand excuses he has given so far.
sell a plane!
..or rent on daily basis few air hostess (the sexy one only)
a PM? I might have been a victim also!
khattak: i did my eid shopping, bankrupt right now... :(
i am not getting :(
There is a she too??? LOL, this keeps getting interesting..
I am thinking about writing a letter to his boss about it, may not achieve anything but will be fun :P
Generally we dont tell others or gloat that we are helping out someone. This guy used that to his advantage.
Ooops..... I was referring to the 'guy' under discussion :(
if he has played with QL super stars then I must say he is the most influencing person in QL.
Can we hire him as marketting manager ?? :P
He?
...just I want to inform you:
- FS is a gorgeous,smart,sexy "She"! :)
OMG...2nd Page? Damn...so many victims :(
Saadm80.....I was banking on you as well :(
khattak: let wk, go on his vacations, you can borrow it from the bank.... ;)
Drac...he's not reading :P
Happy...means, I can go for a sex change surgery?
but who is the person ?? its better to know so that we all could avoid that person.
atleast someone PM me :(
..just I want to inform you:
- I cant borrow you 15.000QR anymore due to FS's post!
Sorry mate! :P
flor....If it was she I wouldnt mind...:)
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice (SINCE DEC 2009)
3. Victory (over 2 months, at first face to face meeting)
4. WK (Over 6 mths)
5. FU
6. Sonaam
FS....arghhhh, Okie let me borrow QR 20,000 from WK, then will lend you QR 10,000. Done?
mine is a SHE!
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice (SINCE DEC 2009)
3. Victory (over 2 months, first meeting)
4. WK (Over 6 mths)
5. FU
6. Sonaam (Over 5 Months)
Ahhh...that guy has ruined my (vacations) plans. Now, nobody is going to trust me :(
khattak can I borrow 10000 riyals from you..lol
On a serious note...there are other ways also that one may get roped in...when failed on money front I was approached for a different kind of favor subsequently which could have even landed me in some serious trouble later, but as I knew of all this and story of a few affected people I avoided it the second time....just be careful.
I did not do it...
I'll not do it again!
LOL khattak ok ok, removed..
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice (SINCE DEC 2009)
3. Victory (over 2 months)
4. WK (Over 6 mths)
5. FU
6. Sonaam (Over 5 Months)
Abbay...remove my name from the list of the victims.
My response was to WK's comment... "No Ice and me lent it to someone else, FS to someone else. There are more than one.
But, honestly...I pick up everyone's phone & reply their texts without threatening *Miskeen Mode*
waiting mode!
ICE/FS please PM me the name of Culprit so I can advise others and be prepared myself too!
@fs ...why pm only drmana ??? pm me too :P
@drmana...you don't have to worry about it..coz anyways you are goin on vacation soon..so no one is gonna borrow money from you :D infact u borrow some money and don't come back from vacation :P lolzzzzzzzzz
Uk: cc me the pm too... ;)
more hints... flor is waiting.
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice (SINCE DEC 2009)
3. Khattak
4. Victory (over 2 months)
5. WK (Over 6 mths)
6. FU
7. Sonaam (Over 5 Months)
No Nachu I will let you know when he comes and comments here, any of them with any of their ids.
more hints please! But no username!
ice: may be you can pm, his different names on ql, so that newbies don't fall in his trap...
DP
WK, Nepali Babu also victim of him ;) (over 5 months)
The list growing. You people should have warned each other
:-(
He's targeting newbie's now, so they should be made aware. We got duped anyways, so atleast save the others from this.
he must be commenting on this thread itself as you said he has many names in QL.
so u met this person in QL and became friends and lend money ??
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice (SINCE DEC 2009)
3. Khattak
4. Victory (over 2 months)
5. WK (Over 6 mths)
6. FU
When is your sober period coming to an end? There is only one may be two days left before the bars open again.
Shame no one has asked from me? huh..:P
Since I just managed to avoid getting into it, updated list goes like this:
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice
3. Khattak
4. Victory (over 2 months)
5. WK
6. FU
LOL Nepali babu :D
that he/she is one of yours? I mean, you own countryman?
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice (Over 6 mths)
3. Khattak
4. Victory (over 2 months)
5. WK (Over 6 mths)
6. FU
happy didn't victory.. He escaped :P
) Fs
2) Ice
3) Victory
4) Wk
5) Khattak
6) Fu
7)Sonam
a la Elvis!
except Elvis had hair!
lol...
Well, as long as its Non violent, Y not? Forum it is!!
;)
FS will PM you happy..
Uk when drunk I am not nice, in sober situation these mishaps happen.
Where is riskz..most probably he will also make it in the list
1. FS (over 6 mths)
2. Ice
3. Khattak
4. Victory (over 2 months)
5. WK
6. HGL
7. FU
wk: more then 100,000 QR...
updated list so far....
1) Fs
2) Ice
3) Victory
4) Wk
5) Khattak
6) Fu
Who else.... :((((((
WK were yu drunk when you lent the money?
And was it a he or a she?
WK/FS....need name of the other guy....PM pl...:)
Money lenders send Eunuchs at the place of the debtor, so that they can claim the money... even Banks (thru collection agencies i.e.)
victory: you are in the same boat too... :(((
Victory...u can add FU in the list...thats what he told me last...:)
Victory you too???
I bet that person took over 100,000 QR from QLers..
FS is as of now the lone known victim of the other guy..
UK thanks for your kind words. I dont think it will help! Thanks for asking.
1. FS
2. Ice
3. Khattak
4. Victory
5. WK?
Any more victims?
to shout it on board! In PM maybe! Hints can be mentioned but no names, please!
khattak: you must be fooling around. are you serious
ice: now is the high time, it is your hard earn money, we all should take action against him....
lol happy yes you had a close shave :P
I just managed not to get my head into that....lol...a few know that here...:)
I think it is the time to Expose such people in Public; so other should learn a lesson.
khattak you too? Oh God....
Looks like a compulsive money borrower is on the loose.
FS sweetheart...some people are happy to take advantage of kind hearted people like you. I don't know how to handle this, but if you find a way, let me know please, I could buy a house for the money I'm owed.
LOL khattak, you too???
UK that is the sad part.
Now if some asks for money, I will NEVER gave, even if I am sure he will return it, cos this experience burned me.
WK...means, I've got company :P
yes Saad :(
No Ice and me lent it to someone else, FS to someone else. There are more than one.
Sorry to hear that it has happened to such a nice person like you FS. I hope you get your money back soon and hope will think twice now before lending it again!
Do you want me to have a word with him/her?
ice: is it the same person who took money from fs...
Rebel, its not curiosity but wanting to be safe from same situation. Whoever it is, we have got the message. Never lend money to anyone.
Yep, I get the same....next week, next week, now it's been 6 months. There's always an excuse...a cheque the bank wil approve, or some medical emergency.
We help them not because we have too much money to throw around, but out of sympathy, humanity, because we think what if we were in that same difficult situation. Hope they understand's that when he takes someone's hard earned money, it's become his responsibilty to return it....
as you said we give money out of sympathy.... trying to help this person....
but the reality is that they are making a fool of us....
and then comes a time when a real sincere friend comes asking for help and due to previous experiences we deny his or her request....
God forgive us...
He may not be reading this..... I mean, its Eid Vacations & most of people around normally log on to QL only from their offices.
no flor... I was on vacation:)
in your pm to drmana? Lol!
fs: in thinking mode right now...
fs: tomorrow never comes, you are talking about week... :)))
why you're not joining meet-ups lately?
rebel my friends know the name..:) I will pm Drmana..:)
saad he got few names on QL..:)
WK..next week never comes!! lol
fs...tell us the name atleast...drmana is feelin so curious to know the name :P
FS I get next week, he never says no.. LOL..
drmana: No,no,no.. i have learnt it... ;)
fs: don't worry, if he doesn't give your hard earned money back, just put his name on ql.
If i get a valid reason why he is not paying then I can understand!! He wont even respond!
Moral...'.neither a lender nor borrower be'.
will be your worst enemy! That's life. And yes, many are here on board!
FS. hope the message reaches out to that person and make him realise what he owes.
We need to learn to say NO sometimes.
I gave some money to someone on QL for 2 days, been over 6 months now.
fs: this is not the 1st time, this kind of thing has happened before..
now adays you can't trust anyone....
drmana..I am sure I am not alone here...but I dont want to publish the name here.. I have no intention to defame him..I am only concerned about my money!
I did not do it...
I'll not do it again :(
PS: Copy Rights borrowed from Dracula.
As they say, when we lend money to friends we end up either losing that money or that friendship.
Who is it FS? May be you can warn others not to fall in the same trap.