Why Dont Men Talk Like Woman Do?

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Men do talk like woman.....

JUST GIVE THEM A CHANCE TO TALK!!!!!

she didnot post at all in this topic ask why

coz her voice is just like a male the other day she was callin me and i thought some male is callin me and when i turned around to see it was a SHE with a scary heavy voice.

Why so Jauntie???

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I don't want to participate on this tread. I fear for my morals are high standards AND MY comments might offend others. KEEP me OFF THIS TREAD Darude!

i still wander why you talk in a donkey voice dont tell me u are missin him alot jass is having fun with that donkey using him as her transport around the city haaaaaaan hon haaaaan hon :D

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WOMEN & MEN

For every strong woman, tired of faking weakness,

there is a weak man, tired of faking strength.

For every woman, tired of faking “foolishness”,

there is a man tired of having to act as a “model of wisdom”.

For each woman tired of being labeled as an “emotional female”

there is a man who has been denied the right to cry and be sensitive.

For every sportswoman whose femininity is questioned,

there is a man forced to compete in order to give testimony of his virility.

For every woman tired of being considered a sexual object,

there is a man concerned about his sexual performance.

For every woman who has not had access to a dignified salary,

there is a man forced to bear the economic responsibility of another human being.

For every woman who ignores the “secrets of car mechanics”,

there is a man who doesn’t know how to “boil an egg”.

For every woman that steps toward her freedom,

there is a man who rediscovers the road to liberty.

The human race is a two-winged bird:

- one wing is female

- the other is male

Unless both wings are equally developed the human race will not be able to fly.

“Now, more than ever, the cause of women is the cause of mankind.” - B. Boutros Ghali

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“The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear.”

~ love & gratitude ~

because everyone saying that one gender can make another one happy if they do "this, that or another thing"...The only person who can make you happy, is yourself. If you are unhappy with yourself, there is no way you can share happiness with another being. You CAN however share the insecurity and unhappiness..which usually leads to one or the other spilling their feelings(a LOT!) or irritating the other person ASKING about how they are feeling.

I can't stand to talk about my feelings with others. If I'm happy, it shows..sad, I go and be by myself(or drive) so I don't share my bad mood, if possible. Perhaps that's because I was around my dad so much, growing up. I tend to think more like along the male mindset than female. I do think that if you don't keep nagging and asking what's wrong, eventually, men will open up. Just go be with them. It will never be like most women do, tho, so women have to get ready to listen and interpret what is said, and that includes body language. Men, just the opposite..you have to listen but then filter out all the extraneous stuff, then intrepret what is said. Most women are much more emotionally based and react in that manner. Men are taught NOT to react too much and therefore hold it inside.

Men, in general, are happy in their relationships. And yet women -- the very people responsible for making guys so happy -- spend a great deal of time fretting over whether their men want to stay in the relationship or are waiting to catch the next bus out of it. Indeed, women spend so much time fretting that they often ask men to talk more about ... gasp! ... their feelings. And the one thing that can make a contented guy discontented is being asked to talk about his feelings. It's like cooking up a great souffle, and then opening the oven to check on it -- and presto, the souffle goes flat.

It's not that you should never ask a man about his feelings. But it's all about technique: you need to coax him to that place where he can share; pushing him just makes him stubborn.

Sometimes the toughest thing about feelings is sharing them with others. Sharing your feelings helps you when your feelings are good and when they aren't so good. Sharing also helps you to get closer to people you care about and who care about you. When people talk about feelings, they sometimes use the word "emotions

if the man find some body give him his powerful and his happness

that time he will be ur defener and ur secret .

he will give u all the love that u ask for just to prove to him how can u help him and how u will let his day more aggrisve.

when u smile morning in his face and let him know how much u care about him dont think he will forget u all the day .

he will apprecate and will count the time to finish his work to go home and stay with u to be with ur warmhearted.

You want to trust say the truth

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this subject, at least I made you open up your mind ;)

Well it doesn't mean Im facing this problem with my partner, and I dont even have to be a "sexologist" SHAZAM, its a fact of life that maybe somehow we got to encounter this situation in all our relationships. This is what we call the mystery of being a man and a woman...

I had in mind to post this subject because I got curious for those women who happens to transform a less expressive men into a more mature one who can share his inner thoughts without loosing the tag of being a man in nature. They are indeed amazing, and I called them "Cool Girl" and this is my definition:

-Lack of Insecurities

-"Easygoing-ness"

-Humor

-Unpredictability

-Independent

-Emotionally "balanced"

And if you will ask me to share my techniques, here it goes:

Just make the man feel good about himself knowing that you are with him physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Now, again can you add more....

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Women just cant keep things or secrets to them self. they spit it out, failing to which they cry shedding tears...!! we guys keep secrets, emotional feelings, blah blah within ourself, worst of all don't shed tears therefore die of Heart attacks.

It scientifically proven that since women put out their feelings either by speaking out or shedding tears, they tend to avoid the risk of heart attacks, men are the right opposite.

hmmm... strange ah..? may be i too must cry hard shed gallons of tears and avoid the risk of getting a heart attack.

(¯`·._.•~*Ifham*~•._.·´¯)

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He always share me what he thinks and ask for an advice what is the best things to do! although he is a Major Scholar of Oxford University at his time! (so proud of him!)he still needs his wife opinions and advice! hmmm!

Judge not! that you be not judged!

:Angel

Can you share us your techniques on how to let a man share his feelings / inner thoughts willingly with his partner???

Are you a sexologist?

I dont agree with the first bit of this thread. I dont think women are responsible for mens happiness...We r all responsible for our own appiness. I think talking is over rated..sometimes its better to give each other space...especially after a fight....with time you realise what you fought about was meaningless and to stay and discuss things sometimes makes things worse....

Also if you are in a relationship where theres a constant need to have the "we should talk" conversation..then its really time to take that bus...relationships need a lot of work and maintenace but too many issue or "talks" means somethings not right...and its best to quit while your ahead...

if u ask am man about his feeling sure will say it frank spically if he know that person will listen to him .

and no need to wait his reply bocz the smart lady should know the answer by her self .

and never say lady always poor or powerless they know that but there shyness make them not to ask.

the feeling should not to say it but they have to blieve on the sense of the feeling and always keep on mind .

dont wait for that magic word bcoz u will know it by ur self

and bleive on one thing u want to trust say the truth

Those who are single they do! talk who's their collections are and of course! married one, will not as they are afraid of their wife! lol!

Mine? don't ask me! because if you guys know me! my husband will regret messing with me! lol!

Judge not! that you be not judged!

talks a lot more than men especially when they are insecure! and those who are just enough for 1 night stand! talks even more to be protective to themselves and destructive to others! isn't it Mr. Paul? Hmmm!

Judge not! that you be not judged!

and even women is in general like a composition exam. Wonder if one would judge the partner's or potential partner's emotions through words.

In my opinion, it is always the inner feelings which are interpreted to care and respect and desire and commitment. Body language is much more important than vocal language.

to a certain point...

but sometimes a woman's assertiveness is misconstrued as aggressiveness...

In my previous relationships, I let the man speak their minds. That way I would know how to please them. I never ask questions unless I need answers. Sometimes, a woman needs to be more observant...more sensitive to her partner.

believe me, sometimes a simple touch, a gesture speaks a thousand words...

women talk too much.

Darling, if you cannot feel it, believe me, talking doesn't help.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

I agree with Jax, I'm the same way. I say what I want but then if they reciprocate I get all weirded out. I'm happier when they don't share their feelings.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

they are keeping lots of emotions for themselves, that is why they develop sickness (and die eventually..lol) boy, this thread is way too serious.. :P

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why would you want to hear them when you know it's superficial?

When emotions/true feelings really comes from within, men usually finds it hard to express it...

It's like "Say what you mean and Mean what you say"...or something like that.

I know they have lots in their mind, especially when he will stare at you and smile a bit. But when you begin to ask whats the matter with him, he will keep his silence and sometimes open a new topic to avoid questioning his thoughts. That makes us women being offended.

Sometimes we just want to hear the words... and few words means a lot to us...

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Well, I am lucky in this matter, my husband shares his feeling with me, so I don't even have to ask him.

Ladies have experience in quarraling and mens have habbit in fighting.lol

"Drink Beer Save Water"

May be due to throat poblem, a surgery will suffice.

Men have only one pair of lips........lol Actually they think more. Guess why???

i agree azzy...that actions speak louder than words, but sometimes u just need to hear the words for the actions to be reinforced or for absolute confirmation ;-P

"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."

Action speaks louder...

i need to keep my eye on this....im really bad with communicating with men...i become too bold and brazen when i dont get what i want...and i become speechless when they do start opening up ;-P

"...the sh%t you hear about me might be true. but then again it can be as fake as the biatch who told you..."

Here in Qatar its the opposite men talk n gossip mpre then women... may be 1 of the reason as there r more men then women.

There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side

this is the biggest difference between men and women...that men cant talk much like women...lolz

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well. i dont hide my feelings. i was often angry to my ex bec she was like a box..

just be sincere and nice.. i ll open myself to u:p