Why So Alone ?!

r7
By r7

Has anyone ever felt like they could'nt possibly have more in life in materialistic stuff and others... like u could have the perfect car, the clothes, friends, family, Girlfriend / Boyfriend ... Yet something seems to be missing deep down inside ur not satisfied with life... Its like the more we have or the better things get in general something always seems to go wrong or get u down.... And u end up talking about it to a bunch of people on a website :)

By King Edshel• 9 May 2008 14:49
King Edshel

you? Sorry ... but forget about me posting under those threads ...

Peace ... 

 

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By lazydude• 9 May 2008 14:26
lazydude

hi Edshell..how come you pick a topic from a year bk ..!!!!

By thexonic• 9 May 2008 14:23
thexonic

Try remembering god or praying, u will see the difference. 

 

IF EVERYONE WAS TO TAKE AN EYE FOR AN EYE, THE WHOLE WORLD WOULD'VE BEEN BLIND TODAY - MAHATMA GANDHI

By King Edshel• 9 May 2008 14:18
King Edshel

What you would be missing is the real happiness ... need to have a break and a talk with yourself and ask why? I'm having everything but still feel that something is missing ...

 

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By r7• 29 May 2007 13:27
r7

We just had a big ass mix grill from turkey central at work ..... wohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Im stuffed... !!!!!!

By lyf• 29 May 2007 13:01
lyf

when people from Qtel turn up on the appointed date to fix TV and internet connection for my apartment! They have postponed it twice!!!

By mufy• 29 May 2007 12:58
mufy

coz in front.. there are things to be achieved...

more than materialistic things.. wat make u happy the most is wen u give happiness to someone.. isn't it..?

wen u see a family with two kids at the game center, and u see the dad giving them one coin each.. and they taking a tough decision which game to play.. and u walk upto their dad and place four more coins in his hand.. have anythign happened to u like that..? walk in to any of doha's malls wer thay have this games and do like the above said.. u 'll realize that there are more things to achieve...

wen any of my friends feel that they have achieved everything and life stands at a full stop, asking wat next... choose to give happiness to some one who couldn't afford to make their kids happy.. their prayers will be there with you always

By starlight888• 29 May 2007 12:44
starlight888

I guess it is normal to feel bored because of everyday routine, it not because of too much or not having whatever material things but it is just a moment of emptiness which we can not really pin point the cause.

The best solution that I have tried... and it is effective btw, is when I developed a good relationship with the ONE up there.

But still my quiet-friendly-weird personality, mixed with some attitude and hormonal imbalance make me bored. Now I answered my own question. Gotta go change my mood and have my lunch.

Masalam!

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By anonymous• 29 May 2007 11:33
anonymous

Once in awhile I feel it, that no material things could give me contentment specially if I couldn't share or experience it with my significant others. Yes, the more money we've got, the more problems we got to face (ironic isn't?). My rants, my rages, my hate, my astonishments, my concerns, etc... I prefer to blog it out, just an outlet, I am much braver to talk it out with a faceless conversation and indulge myself with the curiosity whose on the other end facing the same thing rather than to talk about it in front my significant others and make them worry!"

Cheers!

"Life can only be understood looking behind but can only be lived looking ahead"

By anonymous• 29 May 2007 11:26
anonymous

Why your employers pay you salary to spend time here Hah? I don't understand :)

By butterfly• 29 May 2007 11:21
butterfly

I guess I am happy with whatever I have. Even when I´m not happy I´m still "happy". And I´m not on drugs. I guess, I´m just weird...

By anonymous• 29 May 2007 11:17
anonymous

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By Cornellian• 29 May 2007 11:13
Cornellian

Hmmm...I'm tempted, meet u at Pamola's at 11.30 ? lol

By anonymous• 29 May 2007 11:03
anonymous

What will fill life really or make you have hope for everyday passes is to be near to your God, whatever your religion is…no matter.. But if you put faith in God you will not feel lonely, becasue your God will be with you every way you go.

& also other thing…try to help others & make a smile on their face,try to visit a hospital & see how your health is a big gift that you have to be happy everyday for having it & this also will be very helpful, believe me try this…

Yasmona

By carmina burana• 29 May 2007 10:52
carmina burana

what do you have there Gypsy. lol

can't wait for thursday night.

By Gypsy• 29 May 2007 10:49
Gypsy

I have a surefire cure for boredom. Let's go get drunk. Right now. We'll all leave work.

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By Cornellian• 29 May 2007 10:47
Cornellian

Oh ok, seemed from ur thread that u were cause u were saying how u weren't satisfied with ur life and feel like u were missing something. As for boredom, I think it's a psychological plague that's infecting everyone, whether it was here in Qatar or Australia or Switzerland, everyone seems bored! So it's what u make of it, instead of investing energy in complaining of how boring it is, we should enjoy what we got. Hmmm....and a subway sandwich sounds really good right now...

By r7• 29 May 2007 10:36
r7

HEYYYYYYYYYYYYY I'm not depressed... I just get really bored at times makes me wonder where im headed n stuff.. but far from depression !!! Im soooooooooooooooooooooooooo bored at work ... fell like running out to subway for a nice yummy sandwhich !!!!!!!!! hUNgreeeeee

By Cornellian• 29 May 2007 10:31
Cornellian

I think everyone goes through this "depression" state. Go do something u enjoy, have some "me" time and I'm sure u'll be back on ur feet in no time.

By adey• 29 May 2007 10:20
adey

why should the rich and famous have all the fun. You can indulge in all three on quite a tight budget you know! :D

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.

-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.

By charmed• 29 May 2007 10:14
charmed

thats sad to be feeling that way! It just sounds like you havent found your path in life! You know sometimes those that have the least in the world are the happist!!!

Materlialstic things will never make you happy in life, there not pernament, if you rely on material things to make you happy you will always be left wanting!

You need to get happy its simple! stop expecting the big things in life sit back relax and take in the beauty of the world around you! theres so much happyness to be found out there!! Then think about how lucky you are to have your health, wealth! Think about all those poor construction workers in the heat i bet they are really miserable and they have very hard lives! be grateful for what you have!

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By carmina burana• 29 May 2007 10:09
carmina burana

Everything is perfect, except the monotony we are all in.

work, no work.

drinks, same pub.

desert, corniche.

Need to do something peculiar.

Do they have institution for mentally incapacitated here? I think if I go there, I can pass as one.

By Gypsy• 29 May 2007 10:03
Gypsy

You guys are bored, I'm in the office and everyone else is running around but noone wants to give me work cause they are afraid I will get sick again, so here I am talking on QL. :P

Oh well, maybe I will make 2000 posts today. :D

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By starlight888• 29 May 2007 09:57
starlight888

R7 QL addiction of bored people??? tell me about it, im in the office for almost 2 hours now... dont know what job i will do first or really if there's job to do... but instead I check QL topics every 5 minutes...GOD HELP ME! im bored! Again "What the heck! Today is another day anyway" :))

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By lomaree• 29 May 2007 09:45
lomaree

hi ppl,

tell you what! to be honest i do at times get this creepy thought never actually wondered what and why? but i do have it and when i do i usually end up eating and playing network games with friends online.

By r7• 29 May 2007 09:24
r7

Hopefully today will be better for u starlight !!! I go out of my mind at times just sitting around at home !!!! Hence the QL addiction i guess !!

By starlight888• 29 May 2007 09:20
starlight888

yesterday was one of my boring days for I dont know why reason. Went out trying to get some air but instead i got heat that will blow my brain out. I stayed in the house, hope to get some nice conversation with my partner but ends up staring at topics in QL.

In the stillness of the night I thought...."what the heck! get some sleep and tomorrow's another day"

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By r7• 29 May 2007 09:00
r7

Darude U sound like my Mom :)

By r7• 29 May 2007 08:57
r7

Being broke comes automatically after the first week of the month after im done splurging on myself n ive taken care of the bills n stuff :P I just cant stop shopping i think at times im worse than a female when it comes to shopping :(

By Gypsy• 29 May 2007 08:48
Gypsy

I think this is why many rich and famous people turn to drugs and alcohol, or weird sexual fetishes, they are trying to fill that void.

In order to avoid this state I try to constantly be either broke or single. That way I'm always missing something that I can find easily. :D

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By anonymous• 29 May 2007 08:20
anonymous

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If u r a good friend of or ownself...then u dont need any good friend..and u will not feel alone....

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By anonymous• 29 May 2007 08:20
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If u r a good friend of or owm...then u dont need any good friend..and u will not feel alone....

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By DaRuDe• 29 May 2007 08:00
DaRuDe

You Are 1 Hopeless child :D

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By ksarat16• 29 May 2007 07:47
ksarat16

Guys,

come on ppl...dont sound so low up in the morning...its all about how u see things...everything and everyone around has a problem look around...its just that problems are a part of life...and trust me...the moment u have void times...call me and we can have a drink down the last sip and forget about other things...

Jus kiddin...but seriously...life is just a game and a compromise...so try to take it easy and have fun...we always crave for more in life...we just want more and more and more...

Wel feel that that the Grass is greener on the other side...come on ppl...see how much greenery ur standing in...

Have fun and take care...

Life is fun...find a couple of good freinds....(which i m finding for at this point of time)...and u shud be absolutely fine...

Cheers...

By hamlet• 29 May 2007 07:41
hamlet

I feel that way all the time....there is always this big hole, a huge void that nothing can fill, not all the material things and even the spiritual things in the world....I think that some people are just destined for that feeling.....any way try to enjoy the ride till you make to the other side, I heard that itis much better than this one :)

By lomaree• 29 May 2007 01:42
lomaree

you know r7 at times this thought does cross onces mind, well atleast it does to me... but very often..

By lomaree• 29 May 2007 01:42
lomaree

you know r7 at times this thought does cross onces mind, well atleast it does to me... but very often..

By owen• 28 May 2007 23:58
owen

its alright r7, just feeling a different loneliness here..while im here away from my family couldn't share with them what im having here (literally)..anyways, goodnight fellas..im off to bed..see ya all tomorrow..

By r7• 28 May 2007 23:53
r7

Hey im not trying to make any 1 feel low or anything .... So sorry owen if ive got u down !!! N darude ull say anything possible to make a POINT Literally !!! SIlly A$$

By owen• 28 May 2007 23:18
owen

haayyyyy...i am feeling that way r7, just now after reading your topic..

By Majh• 28 May 2007 23:08
Majh

i don't feel that way coz i don't have what you have .....but i HAVE ENOUGH OF EVERYTHING AND NOT TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING...and when i'm alone i FEEL CONTENTED simple life, thoughts, and things....

By DaRuDe• 28 May 2007 22:32
DaRuDe

For Me Doesnot Matter At All Not A bit Never A second I would Have Felt That Way At All. :)

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