Would you rent a friend?

strawberry_shisha
By strawberry_shisha

I meet my friend Andy in a cafe. Over a coffee we chat about music, current events and the ups and downs of our working lives. We don’t spend a lot of time talking about our feelings or our relationship, or rehashing the past. It’s just not that kind of friendship. I prefer it that way, and I know Andy feels the same, because I’m paying him to feel the same. In fact, I’m paying him £40 an hour to feel the same.

Not so long ago, friendship belonged to a dwindling list of desirable outcomes – including happiness, wisdom and good weather – that money couldn’t buy. In a cold and indifferent world full of cold and indifferent strangers, a friend was something you had to make yourself. But no more: now you can purchase friendship at your convenience, by the hour. For a certain consideration, you can hire someone to go to a museum with you, or hang out at the gym, or keep you company while you shop. A stranger, you might say, is just a friend who hasn’t invoiced you yet.

This disturbing development has its origins in Japan, but it has also become big in the US. The website “rentafriend.com”maintains a database with 218,000 names on it, chums-for-hire from all over the US and Canada. Apparently, 2,000 people pay to subscribe in order to find friends to take to dinner or to invite round for some scrapbooking. (For reasons that elude me, scrapbooking is huge in the US. You’d certainly have to pay me to do it with you.) It may all sound a bit suspicious, but Rentafriend founder Scott Rosenbaum insists that the service furnishes platonic friendship only. Those seeking or offering more are struck off.

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By FathimaH• 3 Sep 2012 13:43
FathimaH

but hey..to each their own. And should it actually help make them better and saner people then more power to em!

By ydlov12• 3 Sep 2012 12:43
ydlov12

Getting warmer.

By Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte• 3 Sep 2012 12:39
Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte

then u need to search for special offers or discounts ;)

By ydlov12• 3 Sep 2012 12:36
ydlov12

Don't think I'd like to apply it though.

By Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte• 3 Sep 2012 12:33
Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte

ydlov12 have u heard of cost cutting

By ydlov12• 3 Sep 2012 12:32
ydlov12

The ones I have are costing me too much already.

By Colt45• 3 Sep 2012 12:05
Colt45

I prefer adult friend finder now :o)

By britexpat• 3 Sep 2012 11:56
britexpat

It could start off as a business arrangement , but develop into a real friendship..

By ingeniero• 3 Sep 2012 11:46
ingeniero

Well an year old story.. now I stopped renting friends! :)

By anonymous• 3 Sep 2012 11:45
anonymous

its that type of world we now live in folks. Things moving faster, life whizzing by, longer working hours and more people on drugs, everyone wants a quick fix for everything including relationships and now society is about chasing money. These are key factors in why more and more of these websites keep coming up. It is a sad inditement on whats happening in peoples lives. No one has got time to make friends are to say hi to someone they may like. As society becomes more violent we become more insular and less friendly. Paying to have a friend hmm surely they are not really a friend. Paying to have relationships read above society governed by money!

By Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte• 3 Sep 2012 11:30
Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte

colt rent's hi 5 friends from international market

By Rizks• 3 Sep 2012 11:30
Rizks

Lols inge, now when did tat happen ?

By ingeniero• 3 Sep 2012 11:28
ingeniero

Many of our female friends are almost similar to rented friends, You don't pay bills, they won't show up for meet up...!

Where is the difference? Just changed names? Description is still same!

By Rizks• 3 Sep 2012 11:25
Rizks

indeed dudboyseller, see Colt how is he rolling these days after i rented him for 1Hr....:)

By Totaleclipse• 3 Sep 2012 11:24
Totaleclipse

ok now that's shocking!! friends are not just found like that :( they cant be called friends

By Colt45• 3 Sep 2012 11:17
Colt45

In this part of the world, you may be right about women expecting a lot, but try hanging out with Rizks instead. He prefers chilling and doing stuff with with the likes of you and that is exactly how he rolls :o)

By Molten Metal• 3 Sep 2012 11:12
Molten Metal

But if 'a girl' earns she should share the bill ..

yes, they expect a lot & later become 'expectant' ..

By dudboyseller• 3 Sep 2012 10:26
dudboyseller

for people like me, making friends is simply unaffordable. Being an extrovert and not being able to spend on outings makes every day of my life pathetic.

Thinking about going out with a girl is like a fear since the impression is that they expect a lot.

Why cant it be like two guys just chilling out and doing stuff and money is of no importance .....but that is not how it rolls!!!

LIFE IS STRANGE!!!

By Captain_Lost• 3 Sep 2012 10:01
Captain_Lost

Yeah i have stopped buying newspaper, coz i read news online these days .. :P

By Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte• 3 Sep 2012 09:55
Baburao-Ganpatrao-Apte

CL u must have stopped buying newspapers i know how u feel mate ;o)

By Captain_Lost• 3 Sep 2012 09:38
Captain_Lost

Amazing business idea for me...

I got lots of useless friends that i didn't what to do with ... Now, i can start renting them and earn big money... Thank you QL !!!

By Colt45• 3 Sep 2012 09:37
Colt45

my good friend Rizks Takloowala rents dogs and takes them for walks on the corniche just to impress women and make priendsheep :o(

By britexpat• 3 Sep 2012 09:30
britexpat

Each time Rizks and I go out for a Karak Chai and Onion / Garlic papadoms with mint and chilli sauce - he makes me pay the bill. Does this mean that he is not a true friend and only a "rent boy" ? :O(

By chameleon• 3 Sep 2012 09:24
chameleon

Pathetic! You can't rent "friends"...either you have them or you don't:)

By shafy88• 3 Sep 2012 09:19
shafy88

Yup it's crap!

By britexpat• 3 Sep 2012 09:18
Rating: 2/5
britexpat

Actually it in't , since we often hear of people on QL complaining of lack of friends.. :O)

By Strom• 3 Sep 2012 09:11
Strom

these days ppl are becoming anti social and still urge for a compnay...... and reason why we have 245 FB freinds but wen we wanna hangout hardly anyone showsup..... its just because we r more pretenious than being normal

By britexpat• 3 Sep 2012 09:08
Rating: 5/5
britexpat

This is an interesting one.. Firstly because it's not from Doha News :O)

My initial thought was "Another north American fad and making money scheme"..

But then i started thinking about all the postings on QL "requesting friendship" or "someone to hang out with"

Firstly, not ALL people charge. Some just do it to meet people, but will let the "invitee" pay for drinks and dinner.

Secondly, it allows you to meet new people that you otherwise probably wouldn't.

So, if both parties are happy, then why not !

By Molten Metal• 3 Sep 2012 08:50
Molten Metal

is being commercialised !

By osamabawab• 3 Sep 2012 08:49
osamabawab

this is ridiculous self cheating

By shafy88• 3 Sep 2012 08:47
shafy88

My god! it's crazy man! we are waiting without friends and the other hand you paying money for them it's total crazy man!!!

By Eagley• 3 Sep 2012 08:42
Rating: 4/5
Eagley

Darn it! I could have made millions by now! :-0

Instead of which, there are no strings attached ...

/Well, ok, I'm poor but happy.

By flor1212• 3 Sep 2012 08:01
flor1212

in US and Canada now?

Should we suspect friends with benefits? Lol!

And how are you, beautifull SS? Am I missing you?

By strawberry_shisha• 3 Sep 2012 07:38
strawberry_shisha

http://www.thepeninsulaqatar.com/culture-&-art/121200-would-you-rent-a-friend.html

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