25+ SINGLE LADIES "NOT TOO HARSH PLS...."
"NOT TOO HARSH PLS...."
May I speak on behalf of women on their 25+ unattach
Yep, I didn't deny my age. No regret why I am still not attach up to now
I think we have lots of plus points than those who already tie the knOT
No need to enumerate it one by one though
Sometimes or rather most of the time
We are the 'best buddy' to those who are in-need of listening ears
That is, everytime they are not okay with their partners
Willlingly spend time with them with no demands in return
But sadly say, forgotten in times they are having fun
We are not 'rent buddy' either
Women at my age will discover that there are ignorant friends, relatives & family, even strangers who think that being single means you are desperate
They make us think we are less of a woman
Worst comment is 'you are nOT attractive enough' (one eyebrow UP!)
My short reply would be 'hindi lng kami mabilis bumigay' (ehem... toinK!)
Here's some more harsh comments:
'Will you ever got the chance to get married?'
As if you are lacking of something
Or 'napag iiwan ka na kase... blah blah blah'
Should we deserve these, definitely nOT.
At times we are fed up with going solo, yes we do.
I know deep within there is someOne who is willing to take the challenge
Lastly, we are wOrth a loT.
"The BEST has not come yet for HE will make it happen in HIS time. "
FOR SURE GOD IS BUSY MAKING THE BEST LOVE STORY FOR ME.
better stay single and enjoy life..
being in a commitment doesnt really make you...wat really makes me was my soon to be "true happiness" my daughter...im just so lucky to finally found the "hopefully" right guy for me,i never thought life would be this much of a happiness...im 28yrs old got sooooooooooo brocken hearted at 25 and year after year...then i finally met my husband...ive been thru hell and back still i never give up...hope for those who weep....u are never less of a person if ur single or unattached but ur even better with someone who will complete ur world....just my POV!
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..bRe@k d' rUlE$,fInD uR fReEd0m,LiVe Ur LiFe..
from where you copy this article?
till you suceed or bleed...lol
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Women's Rights Are Human Rights
Famous Speech by Hillary Clinton
just wait and wait..
W T F....
Already number of guyz compared to number of gals is very very high ratio...
on top of it if females decide to be single and not ready to mingle..... This is a Crime....
Go out n live... there are n number of every type of guys who are single and available.....
If you are Heart broken and inert Woman... cause of some previous relation or something - even God's can't help you
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Men will wrangle for religion, write for it, fight for it, die for it, anything but live for it
"I know deep within there is someOne who is willing to take the challenge"
OK, I'll take the challenge - meet me in a bar
"2. Do not pick a guy from a Bar"
..... Doh!
LOL what on earth is this thread about??!
--------Do I look like Bambi's sister???-------
its ur life. live it as u like!!!!!
Pay peanuts & you get Monkeys
advise:
Before Getting a guy
1. Go out there... meet real friends...
2. Do not pick a guy from a Bar
3. Do not be easy to get (to bed I mean)
After getting a guy
4. Be a good listener
5. Do NO Be Arrogant.
6. Absorb a guys anger
7. Do Not Call him every 3 seconds.. (Give the guy some space)
Maybe one should practice what the preach. How many years did it take you of being rejected to come up with this advice???? How can you say….. many people go to bars to get you know what... what a loser you are.. again how many times have you been knocked back loser
Power to the Israel and the brave men and women
there is nothing wrong to live as single.. actually its the culture and practices that we build up over the years that makes it looks strange .. after all the people who lived before the "civilized world" had pretty much the same lifestyle I believe .. and I dont its anyones fault that we now questions the beliefs and practices.. One thing I have observed is that there is pattern of cycle to every thing ..be that economics, wars,civilization.. and currenltly all the signs points to D-day when things has to start all over again.. and there is nothing we can do about it.. so get on the dancing shoes and paint the town red !!
Ochiha, I am sure your gal is the rarest, no normal woman will stick to such crazy rules. Congratulations!
Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!
ochicha,call me only if ur dying or something.:)
Qatarsun,
well what you wrote is correct but the cases you mentioned are not the norm they are the rare... many people go to bars to get you know what... and mostly guys (not all) who go to bars they still want to have fun... they don’t want to settle down "that includes people over 60" ;)
I am not saying this is the rule... but this is an advise, if you combined all these advises together, you will get one perfect rule...
No probs, meet a guy at a bar, but don’t do a 1 night stand, wait analyse him, is he trust worthy! might he be the one? because not everyone that walks the through the door is the one, you know!
in regards to calling... all guys like some space in the beginning of every relationship, they still want to feel that they are free. But after 6 months to 1 year they start clearing their doubt sand filtering their likes and dislikes, and might start thinking of becoming serious; during this period, women should
1. Not sleep with the guy for the first 2 months at least.
2. Stop the god damn second to second calling ;)
3. and those corny SMS (unless he had a girl personality and likes to SMS) always wait for him and what he does, Do not be the initiative
Let me tell you something... Guys do not say to the girl not to call, they just leave.
the only reason that my relationship worked out with my girl, its because I told her straight forward.
1. Stop calling me at 11:00PM working days just to say I love you... call me only if you are dying or something
2. She Listened: because some girls just don’t listen
3. She is not Jealous.
A person who does not speak out against the wrong is a mute devil.
ochiha, and why is that not to pick up the guy in the bar? I know at least 2 couples who met in the bar and happy together for many years..
..and advice No.3 is also useless. i know a couple when she "was not easy to get", but finally "got got", and now is waiting for the proposal for almost 7 years.. Another one was quite "easy to get", and now is married to the same guy since looong time ago.. :):)
NO rules for it...
agree with No.7.. for some reason guys HATE it... the less you call them, the more they r worried: what's wrong, why you don't call?? ..:):)
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
being single at 25+ isn't the end of the world, but I guess this is a culture difference...in the UK people don't think twice about it.
Have fun, and someone will pop along.
there r many guys and girls are single and they have good heart to love and charming beauty to adore and inspite of this they r single
love comes free and usaly it comes with special one who knock urs heart door sudenly so who knows ,evry one his chance wil come but no one know when..
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
Hiya U all......
Im 12 days in Doha.......for the first time and understand there r very few places to socialize unlike Dubai where i was......anyone wanna help me out.......Thanks cheers.....
all the words create an impact on me.though were in different side of the world all the comment is higly appreciated!some agree,some dont..im very much thankful for the blessings im receiving and happy for who and what i have now.
good day!!
Don't worry about it, just enjoy being single. Time will come you find the right guy for you.
"Humans can withstand a week without water, two weeks without food, many years of homelessness, but not loneliness. It is the worst of all tortures, the worst of all sufferings." - Anon
Can't say I am religious and the bible is just a book to me, so spitting proverbs at me falls on deaf ears.
I do know my English Language though, and that prudent means excercising good judgement and using common sense; which waiting for God to 'gift' you a husband and not being pro-active in searching for someone is definitely NOT.
SPANISH
Pro 19:14 La casa y las riquezas herencia son de los padres; mas del SEÑOR la mujer prudente.
SPANISH
Pro 19:14 La casa y las riquezas herencia son de los padres; mas del SEÑOR la mujer prudente.
Proverbs 19:14
House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: AND A PRUDENT WIFE IS FROM THE LORD.
Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
Para sayo Kabayan: Tagalog Version
KAWIKAAN 19:14 Bahay at mga kayamanan ay minamana sa mga magulang: NGUNI'T ANG MABAIT NA ASAWA AY GALING SA PANGINOON.
Also, if you let stupid men know that you are not happy about your single status, all the idiots will get together and start advising you,'Do this for men.........learn to absorb men's anger'
Take one more advice from me. If you ever meet such kind of man who has negative character and when you reject him, tries to tell you that this is the reason why you are single: kick his ass so hard that he will never be in a position to take advantage of any other woman.
Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!
you know why you are single!!
its because you are sitting here posting crap on QL and not having a REAL life.
Sorry to be harsh... But some people need to wake up
I have a filipina Friend who is 33 Now, and she always say, "God is preparing the Best Romance for Me"
bullshit.
advise:
Before Getting a guy
1. Go out there... meet real friends...
2. Do not pick a guy from a Bar
3. Do not be easy to get (to bed I mean)
After getting a guy
4. Be a good listener
5. Do NO Be Arrogant.
6. Absorb a guys anger
7. Do Not Call him every 3 seconds.. (Give the guy some space)
I wish you best luck
A person who does not speak out against the wrong is a mute devil.
....exactly couldn't agree more!
what next?
"I am not getting dressed or eating yet, God is preparing the best socks and the best breakfast for me"
You have to take the initiative.
relax babez, dont let people let u down, they will say shit to hurt u even if u do have a partner. theirz definatly sumone sumwhere out their for u..just wait n c.ignore da harsh comments x
’Idolized Or Despized’ Either Way I Get Recognized.
guess mi brain still sleeping..lol....PEACE...
but still not everytime though....depends still.... Realtionship works only if both are working hard for it not only one way....
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Jaryz...
What I mean is that relationships should be flixable... somedays people lose their temper... which causes them to say some bullshit things... these little incedents are the reason of 50% of divorces...
that is what I mean
A person who does not speak out against the wrong is a mute devil.
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u are compleatly correct.
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Every individual is different. If single women were so selfish and cursed by God, why would there be people like Mother Terressa. Neither men nor the marriage is a trophy which every woman has to win. Maybe they are not priorities, and so maybe you never tried hard enough.Why live a comparative life? I have heard many women talking about a married woman that she doesn't deserve him or a particular man doesn't deserve his wife or any such kind of nonsense. The point is those who talk nonsense are not at fault. They might be trying to simply feel better at others expense. Those people who pay attention to such nonsense comments are stupid. If you listen to people, you will never live your life happily, married or unmarried. Just ignore rubbish. Maybe you are a good painter, writer, cook or anything. If you are happy with your life, why complaint? I know many women who cook & clean, earn for their husbands, tolerate infidelities and bring up unhealthy or criminal children. These are the same women who will raise a brow when they see a single overaged woman. Aren't you luckier?
Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!
"A good husband does not come from God! You have to work hard at relationships, you have to fight and survive and love and care"
"all the effort has to come from within you" ...but here i disagree ALL THE EFFORT IS FOR ONE SIDE ONLY??? IT always takes TWO to TANGO QHRIS ;)
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
it does not mean if we dont have boyfriend we are lesbian or selfish... we stay like this becoz of men who thinks LIKE YOU...LOL..peace man.. ;)
I'm sorry to say this...maybe you are a Broken hearted, selfish or lesbian i'ts nice to be loved and be in love or you dont feel the same. It is normal to a ladies to be submissive to a man.
Vipemann
It's better to be single than to be attached 4ever with someone who is just wasting your time,giving you headaches,blocking your opportunities,etc..
'Music'.........A good husband does not come from God!
Gosh, what a thing to say. You have to work hard at relationships, you have to fight and survive and love and care, all the effort has to come from within you, and the emotion you share is between two people, god has nothing to do with it.
Would you say 'God is the reason you are single, because he made you ugly inside and outside, and you do not deserve to have anyone to love'?
No!
Of course you wouldn't! So stop using god as propoganda and realise that all the passion and devotion you need to start a relationsip comes from within YOU.
A good husband or wife is a mirror; you get the person that you are in return to them
A good husband came from GOD. HE he knows what is better for you. Being single doesnt mean "you re less as a woman. Some married person are unhappy. If its ment for you it will happen. Stay happy.
You need to know that staying single, even forever, is far far better than devouting yourself to someone who is not worth it so do not be attached to someone just because of comments you hear or b'coz you are fed up!