being single or married?
hi all,
i'm new here in QL, i've been here in qatar for about 2.5 years.
i work in one of the biggest companies in qatar and in a very good position where i don't have to go back to a manager, sure we all know what that means.
i'm single and i'm 26 years old.
i never felt of home sickness and don't want to loose the pleasure being single.
what do u suggest from an experience?
How Are you my Didi(sister)? .
"Drink Beer Save Water"
quoted:
"No college, know knowledge
No wife, No life
single life is damage life"
------> loooooooooooooolllllllllll......! :) i love your skill...! you often use 'KISS' principle in your postings-Keep It Short but Sweet! hehehhe... POWER! (Thumbs up)
---------------where there is friendship, there is NO 'hurt feelings':)--------------------
thats a good idea jannatul_houri
by giving this good idea..u r near to my buddies list... :)
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"dont marry a prson who you can live with, but marry a person who you cannot live without."
---------------where there is friendship, there is no 'hurt feelings':)------------------
Spectra,
I have always heard there is a thin line between love and hate. Both take a lot of passion.
Don't get married until you are ready, its not fair to you, or the girl you are with.
usually most relations start from two people who used to hate each other or dislike each other and by time they fall in love and many got married, we have a say that says; after every big fight there is a strong friendship.
do u agree me?
why do u think so?
I know - been married 29 years now, but I laugh at the way it came about because I felt a bit like the Canadian Mountie who, according to Urban Myth, 'always got his man' (in the end). But I'm so glad I did :D
Marrige is a wonderful thing but only if you're with the person you want to be with, That person has to be someone you trust,some one you love & of course that person has to be your friend. Im very luck in that respect the person i trusted was my best friend who then became my lover & is now my husband 10yrs on & 3kids later i don't think i would have had it any other way.
I know it is not easy to go against the family if they are pushing you for a marriage.But it is your life and your desicion.So,do what your heart is telling you and it will be the right thing.
Good luck to you.
:-D
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spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
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My first marriage wasn't my choice and I wasn't ready for it, despite being very fond of (loving?) the chap I married. I should really have followed my basic instinct because I knew I felt more for someone else (even though the 'someone else' didn't seem to feel the same way back) and that meant my heart wasn't fully in tune with what I was about to do, but I went along with it and left after only 3 years of marriage.
The only good thing which came of that sorry situation is that I WAS happy for those 3 years, my ex-husband and I are still 'fond' of each other, and the one I felt more for eventually came back to me and I'm now married to him.
But for heavens sake! What a long and winding path to achieve happiness, with family upsets along the way which wouldn't have occurred had I NOT given in to my family in the first place!
Stick to your guns, spectra, do your own thing until you and your heart are ready for more.
Ah yes society and family pressure. Gotta love it!
Ask urself do u want to live the life u want or the life ur parents want? Some people choose careers their parents want, or get married to people their parents choose. And sometimes it works out, other times it doesn't. What do u want? It's a risk either way, but make sure that u will not be regretting ur decision 10 years later. Think about it.
We have a saying "Marry in haste and repent at leasure", enjoy your life and do the ehings you want to do for yourself first. When you think you have done all of those things then think about getting married otherwise you will have itchy feet all your life.
Ohh fiddledeedee.....
"No college, know knowledge
No wife, No life
single life is damage life"
"Drink Beer Save Water"
dont even dare to date any one or make friendships with female.
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then don't get married if u don't want to.
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
Don't marry if you don't want to. That's my suggestion.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
party like a rock star and take no prisoners.....
if you marry before you are ready and don't love someone, then don't. Do what is right for you.
dear QL,
the subject is not i have a home sickness its about stay single or not?
i'm in a stage where my family is poshing me to marry.
and i'm afraid of commitment.
so what do u recomend from an experience u have or heared of?
and thanx for your sopport and sure i'll stay here with u and for u.
Stay in touch with QL, and you'll find lots of things to do and lots of friendly people to meet. Ciao!
This world has no place for homesickness...only good homes...and other sicknesses...so take it easy...
Stay with the group...the group will surely take care of u...take it easy buddy...
Well enjoy urself...hang out a little...meet a few ppl...come to the gatherings...(if possible)...and u shud be fine...dude...
lucky lucky you spectra to never experience ever (?) homesickness...yup, mom scarlett here is right..stay with QL..the more you will gain friends (and antagonizers..:P )
just get to know the QL group and you'll find people you can talk to, get together with socially but with no pressure about anything. Keep posting and you'll find the homesickness gets better or at least lessens over time. Keep yourself busy doing whatever you enjoy and keep posting!!