Ebony and Ivory: Interracial Relationships

simeitsa
By simeitsa

So, I really don't participate much in these forums. A post once in a blue moon. A love note here and there. :P But anyway... I went down with family to be with them on the Orthodox Easter. And I brought up the conversation about Interracial Relationships asking my Uncle how he felt about black and white or asian and hispanic. Well, he told me flat out "God didn't want it that way!"

And I am curious to know how others feel regarding interracial relationships. Do you think we really were not meant to mix? Should we all keep to our own culture and race? What about religion? Do you think people should only be with someone based on the same beliefs they carry? Is this phrase, "Because society looks down upon it" a good enough reason to reject it (interracial relationships)?

By snessy• 18 Apr 2012 09:35
snessy

LOL Brit, I think all men should ;-)

By simeitsa• 18 Apr 2012 02:45
simeitsa

I don't worry. ;)

Thank you ^^

By MarcoNandoz-01• 17 Apr 2012 21:31
MarcoNandoz-01

Simmie It's gonna be alright (:

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By britexpat• 17 Apr 2012 20:44
britexpat

This is exactly why I learned Braille 0:)

By nomerci• 17 Apr 2012 19:00
nomerci

I glow!

By snessy• 17 Apr 2012 18:58
snessy

LOL MN, and I thought that was the fireworks :-)

By jimctu• 17 Apr 2012 18:42
jimctu

agree with @snessy and @marcoNandoz-01, lol!

By MarcoNandoz-01• 17 Apr 2012 17:44
MarcoNandoz-01

snessy: Yes yall do. But i'm diferent! I glitter ^^

By snessy• 17 Apr 2012 15:39
snessy

We all look the same in the dark :-P

By MarcoNandoz-01• 17 Apr 2012 07:53
MarcoNandoz-01

Stand up for yourself, show them how much he means to you.

if you think he is your true prince then tell him to take you with him and run far far away over the rainbow so high ^^! Ok I better stop now LOL :D

By GodFather.• 17 Apr 2012 07:49
GodFather.

No one relation is perfect because of the colour or inter racial or same race marriages. It depends on the individual and the character of those individuals who are in it to make it easy or hard.

By MarcoNandoz-01• 17 Apr 2012 07:44
MarcoNandoz-01

^^! Amen!

By simeitsa• 17 Apr 2012 03:21
simeitsa

My family is taboo with everything! I was told most of my childhood "YOU MUST MARRY A NICE GREEK BOY EH." Yet, my grandfather didn't marry Greek he married an American Serbian. So, I think with them it is not so much culture than it is race. And the whole conversation started because my uncle was being a racist asshole. If God didn't want it that way then we all be the same. But instead we are put on this earth to coexist.

My personal feelings are...that it don't matter. As long as he has a good heart, is a good person inside and we make music together then what does it matter what is outside? I am all for interracial relationships ^^. It's better for the gene pool that's what I say!! Family can get over it not as if they are the ones marrying them. When the time comes he knows I will being holding his hand through it all ^^. What's the worst that will happen!?

Thanks for comments.

By asterix---• 17 Apr 2012 02:06
asterix---

Nonsense.... Love is Blind, it can happen to Any One, from Any Religion, Caste, Color, Nationality... :)))

I do believe in Interracial Relationship!!!

By anonymous• 16 Apr 2012 22:05
anonymous

Get down with brown, or in bed with the red

By britexpat• 16 Apr 2012 22:03
britexpat

Brown is the real crown and yellow is just mellow :O)

As to the topic - hogwash, poppycock and humbug.. Just look around you and see the number of inter-racial relationships going on..

By nomerci• 16 Apr 2012 22:00
nomerci

And just cause u black , you not the star in the sack. :P

By MarcoNandoz-01• 16 Apr 2012 21:53
MarcoNandoz-01

and just coz u white ain't mean you always rite :D

By Pink hippo17• 16 Apr 2012 18:31
Pink hippo17

Lol @ snessy..Never heard that one before..Made me chuckle! :)

By snessy• 16 Apr 2012 17:10
snessy

Once you've had white, you know it's right!

By TripoliAli• 16 Apr 2012 17:06
TripoliAli

Once you've had black you never go back!

By nomerci• 16 Apr 2012 14:04
nomerci

Who cares? It's about people, not colour or faith or race.

Problem is, some people seem to think differently...and therefore the questions arise.

If these people would mind their own business, we would have far fewer problems in this world.

By Lucky_gal• 16 Apr 2012 13:45
Lucky_gal

Mixed babies are gorgeous

By snessy• 16 Apr 2012 12:28
snessy

Yeah, it works...and yeah my son is absolutely gorgeous...and yeah I'm probably biased :-)

By Missteacher• 16 Apr 2012 11:11
Missteacher

MM...I have had no 'challenges' in life so far. Please explain what you mean when you say many questions will be posed to them?

By anonymous• 16 Apr 2012 10:44
anonymous

I guess the answer is what color was Adam? Or was Adam black and Eve white? Where did all the difference races come from?

By FathimaH• 16 Apr 2012 10:34
Rating: 4/5
FathimaH

Well thankfully the God I worship states in His books via his messenger that he created all of mankind to not be superior over another except by good deeds and piety.

Our Prophet stated: "An Arab is no better than a non-Arab. In return, a non-Arab is no better than an Arab. A red raced man is no better than a black one except in piety. Mankind are all Adam's children and

Adam was created out of clay" [Al-Bukhari and Muslim, on the authority of Abu Musa].

Many of my friends are married to men of different races and nationalities and each of them have very blessed good marriages. My own hubby is of dutch origin, hence white skinned, and Al Hamdullilah our marriage is doing just fine.

And on a side note kids from white and black parents have gorgeous complexions, Masha Allah, hence the combo of ebony and ivory rocks!

By Pink hippo17• 16 Apr 2012 10:21
Pink hippo17

We are all the same under the skin..What does it matter?..You can't help who you fall in love with, all the other factors don't come in to it..Love conquers all

By Highlander88• 16 Apr 2012 10:16
Highlander88

Inter racial relationships produces offsprings so handsome and beautiful.... and that's when Ebony and Ivory mixes, truly it brings a perfect harmony. :o)

Also it makes life more interesting to know and share each others' culture, tradition and beliefs.

@ Suhail... Well said Brother. ALHAMDULLILA!

By Pacificline• 16 Apr 2012 09:56
Rating: 3/5
Pacificline

All is fair in love. Color, breed, etc. aren't an issue. But it's important that you marry someone of your own beliefs in order for your relationship to thrive. Your faith in God is of foremost importance, and it'll bring you together for better or worst.

"Ebony & Ivory live together in perfect harmony..." so sweet to my ears.

By Miss Mimi• 16 Apr 2012 09:09
Miss Mimi

I honestly don't think it matters much in this day and age. I feel like the odd one out for being married to someone who's the same skin colour and religious background as me!

By Molten Metal• 16 Apr 2012 09:06
Rating: 4/5
Molten Metal

There will be challenges cropping up later, when you socialise & off spring will grow up , many questions will be posed to them , you know.

We need few more centuries, time is not ripe yet, I believe.

By Missteacher• 16 Apr 2012 09:02
Missteacher

:D

By anonymous• 16 Apr 2012 09:01
anonymous

So if that is his answer what color is God?

By damselindistress• 16 Apr 2012 08:58
damselindistress

MT- you know very well how Scots are ;) Yes, he is! and his family are awesome :)

By Missteacher• 16 Apr 2012 08:50
Missteacher

@ D.I.D....must be a cracking guy!!! :)

By damselindistress• 16 Apr 2012 08:36
damselindistress

♫ ♫ Ebony & Ivory live together in perfect harmony.. ♫ ♫

(Love that song)

I thought inter racial relationship is no longer a taboo? Heck with what society think, just follow your heart!

One of my sister is married to a Scot, they got a kid and is happily married, we love him and his family and vice versa.

God is not judgemental you know ;) :P

By Missteacher• 16 Apr 2012 07:49
Missteacher

My parents are inter-racial and I am in an inter-racial relationship. If 'God' didn't want it then why did he create so many different human beings.

By jubilantks• 16 Apr 2012 07:48
jubilantks

well written brother.....

and about ur experience, "keep it up"

By anonymous• 16 Apr 2012 07:46
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

"God didn't want it that way!"

Then God should not have given us legs, so we were forced to stay in our place. And then there would be no problem of inter-racial relationship.

But, he gave us legs, and cars, and airplanes, and ships, so that we can contact each other miles, and miles away.

By Suhail Shaker• 16 Apr 2012 07:46
Rating: 5/5
Suhail Shaker

There is a verse in Qura'n that encourages people of different races and cultures to get to know each other and get acquainted.

Also, there are several Hadeeths that encourage people to marry from different tribes and nations.

Sahih International: O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.

Pickthall: O mankind! Lo! We have created you male and female, and have made you nations and tribes that ye may know one another. Lo! the noblest of you, in the sight of Allah, is the best in conduct. Lo! Allah is Knower, Aware.

Yusuf Ali: O mankind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise (each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And Allah has full knowledge and is well acquainted (with all things).

Shakir: O you men! surely We have created you of a male and a female, and made you tribes and families that you may know each other; surely the most honorable of you with Allah is the one among you most careful (of his duty); surely Allah is Knowing, Aware.

Muhammad Sarwar: People, We have created you all male and female and have made you nations and tribes so that you would recognize each other. The most honorable among you in the sight of God is the most pious of you. God is All-knowing and All-aware.

Mohsin Khan: O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa [i.e. one of the Muttaqun (pious - see V.2:2). Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.

Arberry: O mankind, We have created you male and female, and appointed you races and tribes, that you may know one another. Surely the noblest among you in the sight of God is the most godfearing of you. God is All-knowing, All-aware.

By MarcoNandoz-01• 16 Apr 2012 07:43
Rating: 5/5
MarcoNandoz-01

My family has every race/ethnic background. So i was raised with all different cultures etc. The marriages/relationships with mixed couples actually have lasted longer than the same race marriages (in my family) I think mixing the races is great if you both love each other race isnt an issue. We all learn from each other if we were all the same we would be bored out of our minds.... ^_^

Cheero!

By jubilantks• 16 Apr 2012 07:36
Rating: 5/5
jubilantks

relationship, its can never can be limited, within the races as well as not just to one facet only,,,,

it can be friendship, love, brotherhood, believes, customs, culture and to a little extent business matters also.

ideally the relations should benefit the society and humanity, it should be exemplary for the races (i mean it should not be vulgar or opportunist)

it should not be time bound, like it should a legacy that generations to come should follow it as modest & best social practice....

please say;

By Prism• 16 Apr 2012 07:00
Prism

"Because society looks down upon it"...who is society? Never bothered, never will bother for 'society', its my life and I am of the opinion that mostly it doesnt exist (read in context) other than in our imaginations based on our own guilt feeling that we did something wrong.

Anyways, interracial relationships would not matter so far both individuals are mature enough to understand each other in and out and do not impose their beliefs etc etc onto the other.

By GodFather.• 16 Apr 2012 06:59
GodFather.

Absolutely Nonsense. Which God are you talking about The Father the Son or the Holy Goat I am mean Ghost?

The Holy men will always play with peoples weaknesses and fears!

By timebandit• 16 Apr 2012 06:34
Rating: 2/5
timebandit

Love has no boundaries

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