hey guys and gals, how do deal/overcome a person whose anger is on the tip of his nose?? gets angry on every question and answers the question just on the opposite and rude way... always on mood off.. any tips to get him relaxed and relief???
better to stay away or leave him/her for a while, then come back after everything is cool and you can both talk it out civilly whatever is the reason for that anger.... ;)
I believe that you should listen to the person fully what he or she has to say, even if the person is screaming or shouting.... You have to be in control and be a good listener and observer. Once he/she has done with it.... if possible ask the person to relax and make them sit confortably. Your role starts now...Revisit what has been told and analyse the actual issue. Probably you may require a paradigm shift to fully understand the problem and come up with a resolution which is benificial for that person. There is no point yelling or shouting at an angry person. In other words, do not hit your head against the hard rock... stay cool :)
a wide smile and a simple shrug off...let him burst in anger, it's his blood pressure that would rise up, not yours...life is too short to get angry...lol..
That person should join QL so he can express his anger in this website at least no harm done physically. BTW,QL is the best anger management workshop... =)
as it is not usually directed at you personally. Remember that there is a whole life behind all that anger and just be patient. You don't have to like them or go out of your way to kowtow, just deal with what you can and leave the anger with the person, don't bring it along with you.
If you can find a way to make the situation more positive, that's great, but don't think you can make an angry person happy-sometimes the fire just needs to burn out-don't be tinder.
An angry person is deaf, and will not listen to anything or to anyone but to himself. Stop, and listen, let it pass, and when she/he is done shouting or screaming, then ask a permission to talk and explain...if you want to get nice then make the most win- win explaination, but if you dont want to be nice, just turn your back and go...
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it.
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live him alone for sure..he'll be relief.
Brit that was too much i guess:P
Now for the massage he will keep on doing the same:P
You could offer a massage to ease the "tension"
throw him in the pool
better to stay away or leave him/her for a while, then come back after everything is cool and you can both talk it out civilly whatever is the reason for that anger.... ;)
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I believe that you should listen to the person fully what he or she has to say, even if the person is screaming or shouting.... You have to be in control and be a good listener and observer. Once he/she has done with it.... if possible ask the person to relax and make them sit confortably. Your role starts now...Revisit what has been told and analyse the actual issue. Probably you may require a paradigm shift to fully understand the problem and come up with a resolution which is benificial for that person. There is no point yelling or shouting at an angry person. In other words, do not hit your head against the hard rock... stay cool :)
recommemd him to laughter therapy
a wide smile and a simple shrug off...let him burst in anger, it's his blood pressure that would rise up, not yours...life is too short to get angry...lol..
Cogito...ergo, sum.....
That person should join QL so he can express his anger in this website at least no harm done physically. BTW,QL is the best anger management workshop... =)
as it is not usually directed at you personally. Remember that there is a whole life behind all that anger and just be patient. You don't have to like them or go out of your way to kowtow, just deal with what you can and leave the anger with the person, don't bring it along with you.
If you can find a way to make the situation more positive, that's great, but don't think you can make an angry person happy-sometimes the fire just needs to burn out-don't be tinder.
An angry person is deaf, and will not listen to anything or to anyone but to himself. Stop, and listen, let it pass, and when she/he is done shouting or screaming, then ask a permission to talk and explain...if you want to get nice then make the most win- win explaination, but if you dont want to be nice, just turn your back and go...
"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches you a lesson profit from it then, forget it.
There is no use of crying over spelt milk"
he iz writing from mental hospital
That person is crazy, take him to a mental hospital.
thatz a gud idea
maybe he is possessed, take him to an exorcist.
dat wud be too much flanostu
good do remind me next time i see you wearing that orange tshirt with gandw on it.
shoot him.
thatz wat i m sayin
if you have a horrible face...then you have a valid reason to say that people dont get angry with you...lol
i hv an horrible face.. ppl get scared...
you must have a smiling face then
no one can get angry wid me
Dry you really do dat with kinda situation ????????
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hit hard on hiz head
Totally agree with whatever Samia said, has worked for me.
" Pele good, Maradona better, George BEST"
get double angry on him
first ,let them sound off and calm down before you try to deal with the situation
2.In the face of anger, your "fight or flight" so dont Try to shout back or to burst into tears.
3.Stay calm, count to 10 (or 20) take deep breaths and stay in control
4.Listen carefully and try to really understand what's causing the problem
dont let angry ppl get the best of you
a smile would cost u nothing...and may be calm him down
Sorry double post. I think Qatarliving is having one of its moments with me.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
Ignore that person :D
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~