is this JUST ANOTHER LOVE STORY????
It is another love story happens here in QL, amazing how you can see the man's eye when we talked about the love of his life, on the love he feels for the girl when he told me how it happened,where and for how many months... while writing this, i can not help but wonder in amazement asking myself still, is it really love?I just met him and saw in his eyes how he really felt, a man of 62 years who fell in love with a 26 years old girl. Can we really say it is stupidity?Can we really judge him that he really is insane,stupid and out of his mind giving up what he has now, a wife and kids whose been with him thru thick and thin,a wife who grows old with him?a wonderful family? Can we judge the girl that all she is after is what that man could give? Can we really say "come on it is just lust in the part of the man and financial stability/security on the part of the girl"...
For now I could only say these to the following person involve in this amazing story....
TO the man--- I hope you really found what you are looking for (finally), i guess this is your second life and age doesn't really matter as long as you are really happy and contented with the girl.
TO the girl--- I hope you realized how important and very much in love the man with you and what he give up in his life just to be with you and finally marry you, i hope you really give him what he deserves in life for what he gave up on you is a family, a wife who doesn't have a choice but to give in with his husband's wishes..
TO the wife--- I once have been a wife left by a husband with another girl, I know it will take time, to heal the wounds, to recover from the pain, the loneliness at nights, those never ending questions inside your mind each night after you give all your life,your youth to one man, the question what went wrong, what happened, why?an endless question that no answer and an endless pain that nobody can heal now except you alone and time.
TO the best friend--- you have done your part, been a very good friend with him, talked him out of it but to no avail. Let it be, for we are just friends,who only wants the best for our best friend. You can not question it anymore, only time will tell ..and all of us will only hope that everything will be fine in the end.
All i can say is LOVE really knows no boundaries, not even nationality nor age for sometimes LOVE comes from the most unexpected places...
I am sharing you with this song Qlers...and finally ask yourself...CAN WE REALLY QUESTION LOVE..WHY???
it is sad...very very sad indeed... it is even so unfair... but as i always say...its part of life... the unfairness and its complications...
GOODNITE to you all who share their feelings about the story...
We should not forget...in everything we do...GOD IS WATCHING US.
in posting this issue..am i condoning the relationship???
is this another lunatic story..love or not??? sometimes we are being judgemental without knowin it...for some it may be realistic for others, they have their own definition of it...
1. yup, surely 100% may-december affair like one of the movie i've watched before...
2. as i said it...the lucky?gurl is sure because the man is 100% willing to marry the girl anytime soon. FOREVER?? i dont think there is FOREVER girl..its only a word ;)
3. is the girl sane or not??? wish i could meet her one day and ask her myself..actually am waitin for that day...
4. HOW??? make me crazy askin myself...this is the reason why i posted this story in the first place... and it is not about WASHING DIRTY LINENS IN PUBLIC...forum or not ;)
WE,ALL have our own definition of LOVE...it happens yours is different from mine...but then again I do respect each others points of view....this is what QL is all about in the first place...sharing knowledge, stories, and so on...
At the end of the day...it their life...mine is just part of the so called....sharing of sad, lunatic, crazy, stupid,amazing,unbelievable but it is happening TRUE life story...
SWEET DREAMS my dear azi :)
so what is so great about it?.. another adultery.. another left aside wife.. sad, man...
Old fool digging his grave? There are plenty of 'em.
This fella got rich - might have conveniently forgot that his wife helped raise the family while he focused more on work and being successful. Now that he's rich, he's leaving his wife? What crap!
This story is no love story. This is the story of an old fool digging his grave.
looks like another turn!!! or is it a twist?
Never knew we are so much in demand:-)
but i just adore female doctors...:)
rishimba, I don't remember that movie...so no comments:-P
Are there male doctors??
I have been attended by only females till date :D
wk, you didnt say, male or female..
or the 4th?
I don't wanna sound self-righteous..but phuleeeezzzz!!!
Enough of "washing dirty linens in public (forums)"!!!
drmana, i saw a movie ' endless love' where brook shield was looking great..
are you talking about such never ending love..
rishimba I like nurses but I love doctors ;)
wk, ..and i thought you didnt like doctors...but were fond of nurses..
WK, our story can never be summarized as it will go on for ever without any conclusion :-P
drmana this doesn't summarise our love story :P
This feels like the summary of so many "what should I/He/She do?" stories posted in QL earlier......
And you posting this make it sounds like you're condoning this relationship.
Am I being judgemental? No...being realistic?..yes
How can these two lovers be happy???
(1) It's a MAY-DECEMBER affais, the guy b eing 62 and the girl being 24y/o.
(2) The guy is MARRIED with a wife and kids. If the guy is leaving his family for this 24 year old girl(old enough to be his daughter)...how can this 24y/o girl be sure that the guy will stay with him FOREVER???
(3) If this girl is SANE, why would she go for a married guy and not find someone who's within her age range and single?
(4) How could these two love-stricken couple be happy and have a serene relationship when they are hurting people just to be together?
if this is how you define love having no boundaries?
OMG...I hope all those involved in this DRAMA won't get kicked in the but by "KARMA"
WK: I respectfully disagree. Only Rishi can be counted on.
yea yea right.
you are
I am the only reliable person on QL :)
It's ok. I'll survive. At least Rishi is realiable. :o)
sigh i never knew that.
I still don't know what the Monday plans are, precisely. And I had to hear about Monday from Rishi. In fact, I even had to hear from Rishi that you wouldn't be coming on Thursday. So, perhaps you are not the most reliable source here...
that was a close call thats why didnt make it.
but lets see if you can make it on Monday night or else no more Thursday nights for you :D
DaRuDe: I would believe you, if only you had shown up the other night...
no worries my eyes are only for you :D
yes..told ya..WK is the best;p
Khawaga the smile is for everyone but eyes are still searching for only you ;)
Jaryz: chups is a troll. Best to leave him alone.
WK: Very diplomatic. How quickly we move from "I only have eyes for you" to "it was for all the lovely ladies"
love makes a life worth....
d great WK..nice safe answer indeed;p
be careful WK..be very very careful in answering..hahahaha
It was for all the lovely ladies :P
really????? WOW ;p
WK: is that smile for me?
:)
Sometimes crying is a good thing. I cry at weddings. And romantic movies...
am speechless (-_-) ;p
isn't sometimes crying is also happiness??? well, most of the times for us women we cried when we are sad..we do cry also when we are happy...
yup, as i said..just a point of view...
thanks :)
I believe in you Jaryz ;) :P
so what you believe in then??????????? :)
if life is nice ..
we wouldnt been crying the first moment we are born ..
at the end its their life .. and we are just saying our own point of view for the story ..
well..thought I 'm the only crazy person alive...LOLss
anyway,since we are not involve in here, isn't it so easy to say things because it is not us..
wonder why i post the subject..well can't help myself being crazy..sometimes :( ;)
love or not..there is nothing to say sorry for...
when i post this subject I know there will be lots of negative comments left and right. Each of us has its points of views be it positive or negative...
Jaryz I don't believe in love
one crazy story.
as WK said, I believe it looks like some active QL'er/s is involved in it.
To the girl, tomorrow it could be someone else.
To the soon to be ex-wife, he doesnt have much more to live anyway. so why bother??
i didnt find it a nice story ...
and i dont beleive in such kind of love ... and that s not love ...
the love should be for his wife that gave him all her life and kids and home and care all these years ..
him .. he s just attached to his needs to feel alive and to get always the good thing in this life .
for the lady that accept to destroy a family and as u say she s n love with all my respect .. what she find more then what she need from this life like money stabilty etc ...
people we are changing life to the norms we like and we start to beleive them ..
NO LOVE EXIST HERE >>> ONLY A BAD SCENE FROM OUR DAILY LIFE .
sorry for my comment but since u posted here . its only the way i see things
how about you..will you do everything in the name of LOVE???
i thought so too...wishing it was just another on showing movie, love,nightmares and all that stuff in it...got mixed emotions to all involved, felt awed,sad,happy,until i can not help my feelings anymore but to write it here in QL..where it all started...
I am my usual quirky self Jaryz, how are you?
Nice story. But that can only happen in movies.
don't get the feeling...please...
how r u?????
Why do I get the feeling that I know these people.