the mark of malicious friendship
i really find it offensive that some people use QL as their platform for malicious intent.
for one,the pc behind them keeps them sheltered and secure.but for how long?
if someone befriends you here,do you accept?in my case i did,because there was no malice involved.
however,the friend added had some agenda in mind,like spreading unfounded rumors about me,or asking other people thru pm about my personal life,in which case,the person asking could have pm'd me instead.
QL is such a small place.youll never know,the person youve offended maybe sitting right next to you.so take heed.
no worries though,to the person who offended me,,,youve made a mark...
and youve been deleted off my friends list...
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expect nothing,do more,lovelots,smile often,cry sometimes but continue living....
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Hello shoeaddict
I love gay people, that’s why I took interest in you, and if you are not gay as I assumed, again I am sorry.
There’s no malicious intent because i pm only one person , which I also assumed is also gay like you, because I like fashion and I love shopping, if there was rumor going around ql , definitely its not coming from me, even mod can attest that, because I stopped sending pm to xxxx there and then. (i sent my pm apologies to the 2 others)
If I want to meet somebody from ql definitely its you and xxxxx that’s why I made the initial step of sending pm, though I have no intention of joining any group, I didn’t expect that one innocent inquiry about another person will cost me these much.
One way or another we share our intimate parts of our life and let other qlers have a glimpse of our past. Imagined or facts. Even if we are hiding and remain anonymous
I have read that if you could turn back time, “you wish you could see your mother again”
For that reason alone I choose not to fight this battle.
We are not even virtual friends much less buddy, I don’t know where the pain is coming from.
Thanks for removing me from your list.
expect nothing, do more, love lots, smile often, cry sometimes but continue living....
Thanks mate... But I am not into shopping much.....
I buy only necessities..... Shoes.. till this one doesn retire.... is fine foe me...
Addicted to sleep... nothing else... n Beer...
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visit the exhibition tom,,,plenty of things to buy....:)
lol... thks for liking it..
But not for long... off to bed.. before I start the crap again..... :) Good Night....
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sswheeeettttttt!!!!my falsies fell off errrr......kidding....
yes will do....
lucid's up!!!!!!!!!:)
But Shoe - On serious Note - Stones RIGHT...
Some times.. you need to give it back.. the way they understand..
And if you seen the Last Rocky Movie...
Were Sylvester Stallone says to his Son
I Quote
"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now if you know what you're worth then go out and get what you're worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain't you! You're better than that! I'm always gonna love you no matter what. No matter what happens. You're my son and you're my blood. You're the best thing in my life. But until you start believing in yourself, ya ain't gonna have a life. Don't forget to visit your mother. "
I Unquote
This is one of the reasons why Rocky is one of my fav movie series....
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uhmmmmmmmmmmmm,,,youve probably sneaked in my cabinet coz you know my sneaker size....
will do alexa....lol
ash still lucid?:)
Thts awesome...
Knight in the shinning Armour becomes.. Knight with Shinning shoes... and tht to heavy ones...
And is potent enough to fire shoes like SpiderMan throws his Web....
You are still not a Fighter... You s SuperHero then....
ShoeMan.... with Nike Sponsorship... :)
And the MOVIE it ll be - SHOEMAN - Revenge of the Nike Size 009 ...
I don know I am good with Bad jokes or Bad with Bad jokes...
But thank God I say them.. n don have to listen to them.....lol
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you know me....lol....snickering.......lol
a sword,or pack a punch.how about throwing a pair of heavy boots,or seven pairs of nikes all at once?
??? You assumed it so easily.....
How could you be a fighter ??????
And neither you carry a Sword.. a Armor... a shinning one.. and a Stallone to show off....
How the F a fighter....
of 12 17????? Good night.... :) Anything more n goes lucid......
If treated like a Hijack.... I ll consider my self lucky... :)
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assuming that im not a fighter?hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....what made you think that?
Shoe - I could not let your words go in for a toss...
I did sleep at 12... :)
But hey... thts the only talent I have discovered in myself till now...
Anybody who can sleep around 15 hrs at a stretch ??????
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I don't see you as a fighter. In this tough world sometimes you don't expect mercy too much. Same goes in QL. Its a forum comprising the Good, The Bad & The Ugly, from all corners of the earth. You may encounter samaritans and nemesis. For malicious kind of things being thrown around, just ride the tide .. professionally
alright, I will send PM's to ALL of you now!
get ready
not really... we didn't sleep at all :P
"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."
you people get up so early?
You can't teach experience...
wanna bet???i bet youll sleep off right before 12.lol:)
Shoe - Lol... na tonight m very much ok.... till 12 for sure... :)
Yesterday was fooling around till 4 30 in the night/morning... Got up at 2 30 afternoon... so no signs of sleepiness tonight...lol...
Ya.. focus..... thts my target of the week... typing correctly...... :)
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focus!focus!focus!are you up and about or are you sleepy again.....or not?
Shoe - I don know wht was tht she did .. n wht all happened..
But I am glad the issue is solved.. or at least.. you got wht you where looking for.... and the case is closed... it is rt????
I m purposely writing before 1130... as afterwards.. I my self don know who types what on Keyboard....lol...
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uhhh,,, i do define myself esoteric.lol:)
Perhaps my ignorance...but really I dont get you...
ahh never mind..:)
ultra-long story....anyways,,,im glad that youre highly thought of...(pm alexa)lol
ahhh I'm lost here! :0
waiting....shall i send her a rusty spiked mat in case she falls?
actually,,,yes...
but i want to HEX her... lol
come to think of it,the trauma of having a friend maliciously backstabbing me has helped me learn a valuable lesson.which is....
I can smell her presence from here, geeez ;)
You're absolutely right, sooo easy to recognize...
and the funny part, she maybe in my friendslist now with different username....LOL
glad you're smiling:) that's how it should be!!!
hehe..
n
Birds of a feather flock together…:)
God bless..
Salam
no worries...for now....lol
oh gosh I PM you first before I ran through your thread, guess this virtual community is too close to reality, that's why things like that happen..
You can judge the writer by his writings...
"clarifications can go a long way"
is their main source of livelihood and inspiration.....spot on jut.
some people just love causing drama I guess
you made me smile.how come there are some ql'ers are easier to relate with?
awwwsssssss,,,sweet!i was expecting poetry from you.anyways,i assume you are of good nature and i dnt want to plant seeds of evil inside your head,but the less you know of some ql members,the better.
so as far as im concerned,,i have to say,if i sing the lyrics of that song,,,youll have to duck and cover.nyahahahah
How do rumors get started, they’re started by the jealous people and They get mad seein’ somethin’ they had and sombody else is holdin’
They tell me that temptation is very hard to resist
These wicked women, ooh, they just persist
Maybe you think it’s cute, but girl, I’m not impressed
I tell you one time only with my business please don’t mess
Look at all these rumors surroundin’ me every day
I just need some time, some time to get away from
From all these rumors, I can’t take it no more
My best friend said there’s one out now about me and the girl next door
Hear the one about Tina, some say she’s much too loose
That came straight from a guy who claims he’s tastin’ her juice
Hear the one about Michael, some say he must be gay
I try to argue, but they said if he was straight he wouldn’t move that way
Hear the one about Susan, some say she’s just a tease
In a camisole she’s six feet tall, she’ll knock you to your knees
Look at all these rumors surroundin’ me every day
I just need some time, some time to get away from
From all these rumors, I can’t take it no more
My best friend said there’s one out now about me and the girl next door
I can’t go no place without somebody pointin’ a finger
I can’t show my face ‘cause when it comes to rumors I’m a dead ringer
It seems from rumors I just can’t get away
I bet there’ll even be rumors floatin’ around on Judgment Day
I’ll think I’ll write my congressman and tell him to pass a bill
For the next time they catch somebody startin’ rumors, shoot to kill
Look at all these rumors surroundin’ me every day
I just need some time, some time to get away from
From all these rumors, I can’t take it no more
My best friend said there’s one out now about me and the girl next door
What’s mine is mine, I ain’t got time for rumors in my life
I’m a man who thinks, not a man who drinks, so please let me live my life
What’s mine is mine, I ain’t got time for rumors in my life
I’m a man who thinks, not a man who drinks, so please let me live my life
What’s mine is mine, I ain’t got time for rumors in my life
I’m a man who thinks, not a man who drinks, so please let me live my life
Look at all these rumors surroundin’ me every day
I just need some time, some time to get away from
From all these rumors, I can’t take it no more
My best friend said there’s one out now about me and the girl next door
Look at all these rumors surroundin’ me every day
I just need some time, some time to get away from
From all these rumors, I can’t take it no more
My best friend said there’s one out now about me and the girl next door
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ those rumors around
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ the lies
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ those rumors around
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ the lies
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ those rumors around
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ the lies
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ those rumors around
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ the lies
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ those rumors around
Stop (Stop) spreadin’ the lies
BEST SONG!!WOOHOO im listenin to it....
Grow up people...
You can't teach experience...
if these ppl are spreading rumors about you, then u should make their names known to us...so we can get out our pitchforks !!...hehehe....jk, but seriously...
mj, okay, i wont be afraid to meet up for sports..lol
shoeaddict - if rumours are flying around between people you've never met and who don't know who you are, what's the problem? They're just making stuff up about on online persona. It's never going to affect your real life.
And haven't ALL been stung once or twice? Not nice!!
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
I'm terribly sorry to have been through this unpleasant experience. Nothing is more hurtful than a friend’s sting. It’s very deadly to me.
Salam
Ash....Night night sweetie! So glad u enjoyed! They good hey?
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
if only i can hand you a xanax so you could go to sleep....
Ya... LBP - I better Do...
Actually was watching all the Britains Got talent participants on youtube... thks to your forum got hooked up to tht too........ :) Susan Boyle was really good....
Good Night LBP..... n others....
Damn didn even have dinner.... W T F....
Shoe - Read your recent posts.... :).
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ASH!! go to bed!! :-)
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
me flirting?with whom?
Shoe - Lol... Jus coz of err in spacing... "females have" became "Female shave"...
n MAN... stop flirting.... you are here to report Abuse...Don commit the crime...at least here.... lol...
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good riddance,,,er good night.........
Shoe - Ya man I ve written crap there.... now I saw tht......
damn sleepy... I ll write again.. try to rather - lol
Even Guyz face this issue...
I thought only Gals had such problems... you know.... Strangers trying to know more n trying to be frens.. etc etc...
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if you can be accepting to someone with flaws then consider me as a friend.
AAAAHHHHHH Shoe :-( Its NOT ME??????
DAMN! I'm going to eat some worms!!
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
if you dnt want people to know me blah blah,,,havent offered any details,but unfounded rumors are flying everywhere.havent even met the person spreading it.hello???
It's simple. If you don't want people on QL to know who you are or know anything about your personal life then don't give out any personal details.
Personally I don't mind if people know who I am in real life, and I make no attempt to hide it. Everything I say on QL I'd say in person. But that's my choice. If I wanted to remain anonymous, it wouldn't be hard.
If people find things out about you then there's only yourself to blame.
or you just like playing with your keyboard?
I thought only female shave this issue....
Even bothered about guyz???thts so Gay....
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nemesis...so delightfully wicked.........
how are the voodoo dolls coming along shoe?
now nadine, don't let this stop you from meeting me ok? it's ok to meet-up for sports/event... ;)
i mean personally,did you think it was you?lol
AHHHHHHH......thanks shoe!!! Didnt you expect to make it public!!! - *****Blushing**********
:-P
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
dnt be afraid to mingle and socialise.i found a true friend here in ql and she knows me well.you know who you are,right:)
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sss...shhhh...shooooo :)
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You can't have a light without a dark to stick it in!
hi drac, i know what you did last night:)
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hi shoe, well just hi for u:)
man this is scary...so how about meeting ppl up for sports/events to see who's who!? have you guys met any of these ppl who then started saying malicious things or did it just start off the wrong way through pms?? i would just report them to mod......
it probably taste sour..lemon merengue Humble pie?
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i didn't do it!
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so true and then we have seen those that have been made to and accept 'Humble Pie'.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
shall i HEX her?lol
alexa,sooo true...
ok ok alexa, no more death wishes :(
shoe, start practicing voodoo then.
sooo extreme,yet sooo right.youre setting a"TONE",,,and soo loving it.
sometimes wishing death on people helps me sleep :)
the person i deleted is PATHOLOGICAL,,,and im not scared to deal with these types...you see,,,i dnt ignore people who like to play games,,,i game IN on them,,,
thats not a threat,its a promise.
shoe, the best way is to ignore and if that can't be done then consider vengeance.
i've been asked numerous times to withdraw comments but never do. the mod usually deletes my best material :(
you wont get offended if you get crucified in front of our eyes?hmmm do you want an affirmation for that?
My German ooopss *Pinay* troll? naaaaa
I really believe she is still wandering in QL using different names. :D
won't name them.
Like most new ones I watched and observed for a while before joining in.
Won't say more than that.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
I had enough of these kind of people....worst than u can imagine, hmmm kinda psychotic, lol :D
ah queen alexa, i think you were one of my first buddy requests!
It is funny, there are people on QL that I know in person and some of them arent even aware of it. I am sure the same goes for many of us.
Sorry you had a bad experience shoe, but alas if you find one decent person anywhere there will be 15 twits behind them.
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hiding behind our stage name is great!
just ignore the twats that request you as a buddy. never trust a stranger ladies!
All off us are behind screens. If you tell people your 'real life stuff', more fool you. This is the internet. Nobody can be trusted.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
and i mean it.
=yeah,you cannot avoid this kind of people.. next time, be very extra careful on adding QL buddys or even on other sites..
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Such behavior of a few, which puts everyone under scanner, the opportunity to associate with some good people to the extent it can be, is lost.
However this is not only in case of net based freindship (which is much more riskier as one does not know who is who) but also real life friends with whom you grew, lived and shared for a long time, but then u get stabbed at the back...
Be careful and discrete...is the watchword...
Will never understand the mentality of such people anyway...
One Life to Live...Live It To The Fullest
This issues not only applies in QL, actually all net based friendships are all same, YM, IM, FS, etc. . . so be extra careful.
"Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies."
Yea very true...better be careful than feel sorry later....
This is a danger that we all face. It is up to all of us NOT to indulge in such gossip behind a person's back.
Another aspect of participating in sites such as QL is that people are quick to make assumptions regarding your character or demeanour based on heresay or responses.
Think twice before adding some one and think 10 times before giving out information specially on net
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something I didn't say...
And I have been an azz a few times since because of it...
But I'm doing better now...except for the ocasional blurb...Be careful thinking out lound on QL...
You can't teach experience...