Married expat bachelors and their lovechilds
Ahh! What married men will keep it secret to their families back home when they become single in the farther countries they work in...
Let's just say that several of the men who asked loans on me plenty of times wasn't really for their own personal means of survival in this place...but rather it's money to send for their lovechilds from either one or several of their mistresses they kept their loneliness about in several of the countries they jumped in to work in a different 'bachelor' contract.
Dunno how they want to work all their expenses out of the true family and the illegitimate ones, but what brings such men to continue 'sponsoring' the love child and keep it in denial to their true families that it only takes a guy like me who can give them a loan to trust me and suddenly tell me their own feeble little secrets? (And how come they're many of them?)
Well, ok, so let's just say a married man tends to make it obvious to the wife the amount of salary he gets in the contract, which brings the other allowances to be spent for their own 5-year old kid his true family never knows about that was 'born out of love' from some mistress in another GCC country (or any part of the world...like some of the Army/Navy ;-P). It makes me wonder...
...is it love that married men continues to give the illegitimate child the, err, proper education, food, toys or other stuff (well that's the usual reason they tell me) for them to remember when they grow up? Or is it because such married men are afraid that the other child or the mistress may 'retaliate' for leaving them without the proper communication and history of how life has been so cruel to them or such? And how long will they keep up with this secret from his true family? Like, forever? Like, when the love child grows up and looks for the real dad?
And why do they always continue that habit thataway that it has to come up that they need to ask a favor on someone like me to help them sustain their own dysfunctional way of living? Talk about them being wealthy and earning more of an income than me...
heero!!
i left one love child back there, can you take care of him and the mother for me??
PM me for detail... LOL
i would not say helping coz he profits from it
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You do realise that by helping them, you are condoning their lifestyle..
sounds familiar..LOL!
simple, if you don't want them to use you to pay for their transgressions, just say no...
so how many countries u visit to see ur dad ???
supporting a love child is a noble act...however, making an illegitimate love child is not...there is a difference.
almost all such cases occure due to accidents and then inability to abort due to some reasons..
look at the child..who is also a human being and has the right to be brought up by his biological parents..as it was not his fault in the first place..
honestly heero, supporting the "love child" as you call it, is a very responsible thing to do...
the reason behind the loan is no business of yours already (peace bro). granting it is, though.
...listen to the sound of silence....
... if you don't want to lend the money just say NO. Unless you are making profit in interest I can't see why you can't just say NO.
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good morning!!!!
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Thats all about building your own generations. How nice it would be that a child call you dad from all over the countries of the world.
It's just...why can't they just handle the budget with what they have themselves whilst I'm helping them but I didn't thought they're using me to help them pay for what britexpat calls it 'their transgressions'?
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
So what is STD ask all the pinos..STD.. Sexually Transmitted Diseases, Aids, Herpes, I’m a cona here ,,,
Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.
use condoms, save money!
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Black mail them all.. you could get heaps from them,, more then the interest you charge them for the loan..
Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.
... They come to you for money and it looks you are gonna betray and blackmail them??? Shame on you! At least they care to provide for those children. Unlike you who sounds like you want to expose them. Start watching your back, that's the advise I give you. Oh - and mind your own business!!!!
When did Tiger Woods visit Qatar???
or line of questioning! It will not do you any good and definitely not these persons you are referring to!!!!!
But on the side, do you still have some to lend me? Don't tell Mrs DMS, I am buying her another diamond (a surprise).
BTW, I know what's on your mind, don't even think of verifiying Mrs DMS! Hehehehehe!!!!
"I'm back, simple as that"
you get the monkeys if you pay peanuts
Regards!!
Sadly, we almost always end up paying for our transgressions ...