PRETENDING

Do you also dress up when pretending ???

That's fun too...

Bojo, its fine , pretending is good on professional and social level also at times. I would love to learn to pretend like u say u do. But do have ur own circle where u can be yourself without any mask. It can be lover/ friend/ relative or can b a forum like QL where u don't have to pretend. Just make sure u get some place to be urself, otherwise ...believe me...pretending can b really useful n fun at times :-)

Dear BOJO,

I hear you. I was in the same situation once. I thought

it is the end of world. Not knowing how to cope up with the situation, one good friend suggested me to take long walks, socializing with friends and family. I was in turmoil for like a year. Then, a beautiful thing happened.

I was very lucky and married a beautiful, innocent girl who just took so much care that old one was out of my mind like a flash. Sometimes, I feel scared to think how my life would be if i married that old one.

Now, i am happily married with with 2 kids. A wife who takes great care and satiesfies my every need with great LOVE. U know, u have to love/marry somebody who loves you

rather than marrying somebody who does not love you.

its ok paagal, when i was a kid, i didnt wear either..

i don't wear trousers i mean chaddi :P

rishi, real men at least don't wear them over their trousers

:-P

WK Goin to ? :P am sure that not QL Gatherin :)

drmana, so you want to say real men dont were shorts..

lol drmana .. gudone :)

Haha There is always a thread every night.. Ok gonna log out for a bit now.. In Colt's words- BEHAVE!!!!!

i dont mind how our cupid looks like...as long as he gets the job done for me..

so today this thread :P last nite was welcomin thread .. u guys r really bad :)

Will you also dance like that Indian Superman on the other thread Colt posted?

All those chaddi men look yuck too....real men are better :-)

drmana when I will be wearing those dresses, I will look super cute and super hot and superman and he-man :(

ewwww.....both pic are yuck :-S

lol brit but its looks Rizks :)

LOL brit, I am more like this...

You will ofcourse have to dress the part at gatherings ..

rishi I forecast a long career ahead of you :P

drmana , really i dunno u , am new to QL !!

snessy i dunno Punjabi :) WK plzz :P

Paagal sounds familiar......Do I know you?

wk, if you say you are retired, i dont feel very good about myself either..:)

As QL's official cougar, I have no choice but to vote for you. I will NEED you!

Since when has the flirties been old?

Paagal what does your name mean?

rishi I retired already ;o)

Snessy I will have a weekly update specially for cougars as well. You still not going to vote for me?? :P

wk, there will be a problem then...being the manager of the team , you wont be allowed to play yourself..:)

lol Snessy , be care , he will be the Manager of Love forum :P

WK, now u remind me the politicians exactly before election. lol

snessy see you are really getting old, even your hearing is gone :P

LOL ! Let him get going first please... :O)

britexpat I humbly accept and will strive to prove myself worthy of this responsibility :)

Did you say cupid or stupid Brit?

So , It's agreed then..

There will be a new QLLG (QL Lovers Group) and you will be the Cupid in Charge...

NGTD dunt vote for him . if u vote ur PM will be blocked :P and his PM will flood :))

We can always add them as a member but their names will not be added in love analysis :P

lol WK old is Gold u know :P wait for their comments , better ur wear ur bum pad now :)

LOL WK,. Sure, I will vote for u :)

I ll become mad to see those topics/comments in read only mode then :(

They are old greedy men who will never be satisfied. Like I said, only the needy and not the greedy ;o)

well said WK , but u will accept Colt Rizk Pajju Request ? :P

NGTD we will serve the needy and not the greedy..

It will be a platform where we will analyse the heart broken girls and the lonely guys and we will get involved in match making based on the statistical analysis using whyteknight's formula of love quotient...

We will provide shoulders to cry on and even Ice creams and chocolates to get over your ex..

Please vote using you brain and in the next election please elect me as your manager for love forum..

Thank you!!

lol NGTD he wont accept our Request to join the Group :P

WK, what will u do as a manager of love forum? :)

the SOP n vacation , he will back after EID :P

I volunteered to be the manager of that group weeks ago but who cares :(

wk they open a poll forum now for Love Manager Group :)

yes Brit Love hurts :((

I have been requesting for a love forum forever now but who listens to me around here :(

except i don't wish that cr*p on my worst enemy;-P

Xena Love Forum is onthe way . and the Manager is Wolfy :)

If you only knew the pain of a broken heart... A love unrequited. Your intestines twisted in pain and your stomach churning at the mere thought of the hurt... :O(

If only !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

could we get a love forum already.... there are clearly far to many love stuck people around...

have urself occupied wt something else (I mean friends/work)...that may help u.

this is the beauty of life, ups and downs.... be positive and enjoy life you never know what is installed for you tomorrow

knock! knock!

another broken hearted!!!

I just have to smile and be happy even if the worLd is slowly killinG me!!......hmmmmmmmm, sounds familiar :-S

Bojo keep in mind that there are things worth fighting for.

But there are also things worth letting go.

The only things you should keep are the LESSONS you've learned.

And the MEMORIES that made you happy.

Always remember there is always a bright side to everything.

My boyfriend broke up with me, he was dramatically sad and all the sorry.. And I am hearing nothing but the party of freedom!! hahaha

"Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have."

Hogwash..... I still feel the pain of seeing my Cuban Shotputter leaving on that Douglas DC3 :O(

life, from birth to death, is a chain of events and experiences...the 'later' can't come if the 'former' doesn't pass-out.

if something bad has happened to you earlier, it was to bring something good in the future. as they say, every dark cloud has a silver lining..

learn from your past, take on the present and welcome the future with open arms and a smile on your face.

when i lie on my death bed, i dont wanna look back and say i didnt have much fun in life..

Bojo, time heals as they say... know you probably dont think so but it will get better...nothing anyone can say or do will make it easier....Broken heart is a terrible thing and we all been there....

Easy for people to say move on ... look to the future...enjoy life... but no use when all you want is that person back !!!

MyHotComments Okay...

you are right - we have all been there.

At the end of the day you shouldn't let your core happiness be regulated by someone else.

Also you just have to look forward to the future and choose not to be miserable.

if as per Wk request Love forum is started it will be flooded with new members and new threads......

bojo stop acting like a bozo !:(

try read success stories

These people started in much worse situations than yours.

Bojo, think positive in the life...

your past mistakes, then you're surely a loser!

it is to say "be positive" becuase ur not in the situation...

adjust the present and plan for the future. Don't let the past rule your life. You'll live miserably!

like TB said: "Positive Mental Attitude"

... while keeping ur smile

fixing someone's BROKEN HEART is much more like treating a sickness.. no matter how hard you try, if you're NOT the RIGHT MEDICINE, you can NEVER cure the PAIN.

sometimes pretending is the only way to get through the day until it gets better :(

they say PAST is PAST we need to MOVE ON to see the future. but how can we move on when our PAST is the only thing we ever wanted in the FUTURE

Actually i've been thinking to ask this on QL since long that who is JIMIMADI?? I have been here on QL for 2yrs but never had any conversation with this QLer?? who is he/she?? can someone pls answer me? thanks

Bojo, stop PRETENDING then....lol

Live in reality and don't waste our time...

ohh is it!! gud 4 u

Sometimes in life you wish for everything then there comes a moment when you stop wishing. It's not because you got what you wanted, but because you finally accepted that not all wishes come true..

to attract opposite sex? It's not effective anymore!

"i just have to smile and be happy even if the worLd is slowly killinG me!!" and then go and put a sad face on the end!!?? anyway cheer up lad your a long time dead ya know.

Move on...nothing here

that's life.

more like cross-eyed lover to me

Jimimadi again. Get over it!