Top Secret

C'est bon ca bennis...

It's true that it's quite funny to see how far can women support one female among a bunch of men, even she seems unreal... QL is definitely a place where people help each other... And it sounds great to me.

U can reach me if u need any help despo

Yeah I agree she looks sweet, I would have loved to hang around with her if I was looking for a date

Ppl Either can't c to well or u need to get a new screen for ur pc coz i think she looks sweet the smile n the hair n all ....

I feel Cherie is a bit overwhelmed with all the responses/opinions/views/believes/attitudes/advice/etc... (different ones as well) this thread has generated, what's funny is that there was more men than women in the beginning of the thread and now it's the opposite, which can show you a bit the nature behind all these natural differences.

Anyhow, we are all here in this forum to help each other and share other's joys and challenges.

Hope you get your ideas straight in your head and act accordingly.

Enjoy the weekend ;)

H. Bennis

thats why i choose european guy :p

my advise to get a rich man

get some plastic surgery i swear ,dress like lebaneese

jeans nice accessories ,learn some arabic tradition and language

be smart and dont let anyboy get anything anless they o what u want

be always sexy an childish ,,and dont play the smart girl

u have to pay me so get this ))))

then try to join some places where do arabians hang out

31 is still very very young in europeen countries but in arab countries is very old aspecially rich people.

and for marriage most rich marry babe girls that can make them feel young as a child

i meant by young 16 till 23 maximum

even famous arabian singers are 40 and say they are 20 just to make arabians want them more

its our real life and to come into it ,u have to play the game.

about millionaire they are just unusual people that cant be with usual ones ..excuse my english i know is not good one

but i just want u to understand that arab worl is cruel ,,the most famous u r the most money u get ,,the most young and beauty u r the most attention and previlege u get

you sounds so gave up already just because people giving u comments....i like the way you defend your self..just sounds fun!

If that what u wanted then try to get it..be ambitious..go on girl! Just dont forget us QL people..hehehe at least if u rich after marrying someone here.

to feel always young and energetic :]

I am still young sweety!

People from my hometown who are actually senior citizens still consider themselves young. Does youth expire that fast in the ME ?? I feel I am only 31 and still looking young, feeling energetic, etc.... As far as the picture goes, It's old first, and you don't get a good shot of me, maybe I am too naive to just show any pic of me, but I can't be justifying myself for every actions I do in my life.

Cherie,

Agree with you Lina. I think the rich arab man don't have time to search a woman in internet for date. They can just call donald trump for the beauty queen contestant. I heard from my sourceful friend that, they spend a weekend on the yard and invited this beauty queens and pay them a million dollar just for company over the weekend. And long time ago I saw on tv about former beauty queen admited this issue. Can't remember her name.

So Cherie, please well groomed yourself, try to be in the circle/network of this rich arab men and I am sure without a doubt you can get one too. Maybe even become the 4th wife. I am sorry if I offended you but you posted this thread in open forum and its only fair if we all give you negative or positive respond. Good luck anyway with your life.

cherie

why y got angry when people tell u to change ur look

ther is many persom who avised u to make ur self look better why not cz rich guys will give th best to the best

example a rich arab will spend money on a young beauty queen rather than a normal smart women with great ideas unless she's famous

im arab and i know how it goes with arabs wallah

and i dont think rich arabs will take time to surf on the net to find the one

ill give u some informations about them

rich men bring a private jet full of young beauty girl just to entertain them for a day it may cost them million but as they have money they can buy evrything

well for u ,i think sombody said that u can go gyms maybe u find good people but not millionaire but i think they can assure u where to live a nice cars .

______________________

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There you go, wanted your line (Even dropped you 2)

Cherie,

Please drop me a line in private sometime - would be nice to chat without you attracting all the ignorant cynicism from those around us.

Common ,I m still waitin, this is the third page ,no harsh comments nothin,simply waitin

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

You gals and guys just stay the way you are, our breed is in extinction!!!!

Cherie,

I've offered you nothing but support......

Don't give up on the dream.

For those of you who think you can get me down with your harsh stupid comments, let me assure you I am confident in my physic and state of mind. I can't believe people over here try always to judge you, everyone just want to put a tag on you, I think that it makes it easier for them to classify you, by default people just find it much easier to judge/bias/hdkjaskjdsl you than just try to understand who you really are.

FCUK, I am not looking for anyone anymore, I'll just live alone for the rest of my life. Thanks for THE help.

Cherie,

In a way it feels good to see im not the only 1 who's bored out of my mind... Whats happening over the weekend ??!!

Coz of a few weirdo's, sweet ppl like me dont stand a chance :P

this is so entertaining..i'm so excited at the office now!

Seems like the force is strong on this side... The only thing tht used to tear me away from work was my sandwich :) now its QL and these entertaining posts...

I didnt say all d men though..

Welcome to the Dark Side of the force r7. :P

Tht does not go for all d men here in doha... some ppl actually appreciate beauty and a nice smile... im supposed to b workng n i'm sittn n posting u guys.. this is addictive

Sometime i feel like i have pussy face..cause i just feel they looking at me like am naked. Not only once i look at them back too even closer to their face..sure they freak out after.

So in other words Ram you are confirming that all men in Doha just want to get laid?

she won't find that easy .. u know why? cuz most of the man just wanna jump .. they don't want to handle any responsibilties at least in that age .. or bcuz they alreayd have their wives .. so i know from the begining the she won't find him that easy...

you know wut?? if she didn't mention any marriage and just said i wanna date with some body cuz nights r so lonely and boring here .. every day she will be laying over with 10 at elast .. she might make a schedule for them too.. Men r seeking for the easy way to their desire now .. and I am one of them..

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

After reading bout u meeting those guys.. who just wanted to u know what... Now u should know wht im talkn about ... watch ur'self when ur out mettn these ppl....

Looking for the man of ur dreams on any website does'nt look like its going to work to well, especially in Doha u'll have every psycho in town hitting on u ... But if u wanna get into tht and try ur luck.. U better b prepared to meet some real characters.... Good luck to Ya !!!

You certainly have kicked up plenty of controversy by starting this thread. Its an entertaining read, thats for sure.

I see no reason why you won't find what you are looking for here in Qatar. You are a forthright lady who has clearly stated what she seeks. I think there will be plenty of potential suitors - you just need to be patient.

You have the wealthiest population on the planet here, with a male/female ratio skewed hugely your favour.

By definition this is mainly an expat forum, with few locals on here. I have no doubt you will chat with plenty of affluent foreigners here. If you only want to meet Qataris though could be a bit of a challenge. Best way to network that way might be to join a gym, get to know the local ladies and get leads/intoductions to their guys through them?

Just a thought. Alternatively if you want to be secure and spoilt with a successful Brit then email me, NOW!

I dunno if this the proper site/place to find a rich husband material. Why not try dating or even intimate site and post your profile there. I am sure you will get more better respond then here in QL. And I have to agree with honey, maybe change your photos. That will attract more men to contact you. I didn't say is bad or good. For me as a woman I didn't find appealing at all. And I do love to see beautiful woman. Just to admire it.

And one question for you, so what happen if you find this rich man who willing to marry you and give all you want. What can you give in return???? your love? I don't think you have one.

I totally understand u..hey nothing personal there at my post! sorry to hurt u though! i dont mean anything like that..I'm just a person who talk like that! all my friends understand that :}

If so many people against u..i'm there gave an advice..maybe just the way i say it not correct..too direct!

well picture are not always the same like reality..u might be look prettier in real. But even better if you are good hearted.

Email me!

How dare you!

I hate you.

Cherie,

im just being honest...your picture dont look that attractive!

Haircut, change colour of it..and nice dress..that will do for promotion! hehehehe sorry dont mean to be rude.

But i dont hink this is the place to promote your self...or maybe in classified section!

I dont know you..but im sure you are unique..everyone does! thats quiet brave of you to post your thread like that. I'm sure there is lots of men will love you when they know you better. Just find another way to find them

Socialized in good places...or meeting them at coffee shop (5 star kind of place) flirt with your best smile but not cheap.. yes you will catch one!

ahhhhhhh well just sugestion..i'm not that good person too..but i understand u about the financial things..i'm asian..and i know how it feel!

Goodluck girl!

Hey gal, I m still waitin, what do u think?

what about ur too dates ?

why is so ificcult to find rich man for u ?

i think they are a lot in the street ..

NO POINT GOING FOR A BEERM IVE NO ONE TO GO WITH AND YOU LOOK LIKE A BILLY NO MATES WHEN YOU STAND ON YOUR OWN. I SENT YOU AN EMAIL AT DINNER TIME,DONT KNOW WHY COS I DIDNT HAVE MUCH TO SAY IN IT!

OKay!

Enjoy your beer...

;)

- just teasing, lol

Cherie,

NOWT WRONG WITH THE SMILEY!!!!!!

Have you forgot about your gender??!

I need secuuurityyy.....

Cherie,

SORRY, I COLLECT ALL THINGS SMILEY SO YOU CANT HAVE IT.IM GONNA RUN OUT OF TIME SO I WILL WISH YOU GOODBYE FOR NOW.HOPE TO CHAT TO YOU SOON.

Now you admit huh!?

Gimme back my smiley too! GRRR

Cherie,

WELL,IT GETS BORING JUST GOING HOME FROM WORK AND FLOPPING IN FRONT OF THE TV.I NEED SOME ADVENTURE IN MY LIFE!

Hold on!

From your profile:

"NEW TO QATAR,LOOKING FOR FEMALE COMPANY TO PASS AWAY THOSE BORING NITES AND WEEKENDS COS IT SEEMS THERES NOT A LOT TO DO AFTER WORK APART FROM BEER TASTING!!

"

Gimme back my "Sorry"

!!!

Cherie,

ITS OK. IM AN EASY GOING BRIT.YOU CANT OFFEND ME EASY.

Sorry,

I'm like on the attack mode.

;)

Cherie,

HEY, I WAS ONLY STICKING UP FOR YOU!

Nice try! ...

But no misters allowed in my life anymore...

Cherie,

Sorry oliv, but if i was a girl i would date Cherie!

Come on Cherie... You may be too difficult...

And do you really think that a normal girl here in Doha would date with you ?

I have nothing against you but be realistic !! Please!

Well the weekend over, back to work. I have met some of you guys from QL (2 of which I won't say the names).

Let me just say that all what you guys want is to jump on the first thing that moves. These guys pretended to be gentle on their emails,... I can't believe I bought into their bullshit again, actually both tried to get touchy etc...

I think I'll let down on guys, I am seriously thinking about changing my sexual orientation. Really!

Girls who's with me ?? ;]

Cherie,

You should try emailing the guy who started a thread for "rich men only" - you will find it in QL or maybe Qatari removed it ?

Instead of being villified for being open and honest about what she wants she should be applauded for being so forthright.

Cherie - I for one hope you find what you are seeking.

Take it easy......

hi There

U already have fund a date. Perhaps we can meet I have been searching for the perfect one since a year now. Hopng to hear from u soon.

U have struck jackpot gal. I am also a soul seeker finding someone for a date for the past year. Keen on meeting u ....

Which co do u wrk for?

Having money makes life easier Ram but it doesn't have anything to do with love. My parents have been together 30 years, my grandparents almost 60. They've been threw poor times and wealthy times and have stuck together. Money has never really played a huge part in their relationship. I was with someone for 6 years and we were dirt poor the whole time, when we did break up it had nothing at all to do with money.

You are too young to dismiss love like this. You'll fall in and out of love many times. Don't give up on love.

Some people would trade everything they have for love. Money cannot fill the void in our hearts.

you got it

may be u r right .. i dunno .. it's just my point of view from which i experienced in life ... that's how we make our points.. am i right?

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

I understand what you feel. Unfortunately, you can't generalize what you've experienced.

The LOVE I was talking about is a mutual feeling, as someone just said before. Unless you lose everything a girl who loves you will not let you down just because of money. And i'm convinced that even in tough times ties in a couple strenghten instead of breaking.

a very good question that i'm not sure of the answer .. but no happy marriage now a days neither for poor nor for rich ..

Beside there is another variable factor which is different from one to another.. Satisfaction .. and that is another topic .. but in short, may be u get married to a lady who r satisfied with wut in hand .. and that became a rare case .. like in fancy world.. but not any more in economical world controlled by Money..

check any poor family and see their arguments .. u will find 90% of their arguments is about money .. i've seen that experience many times with my own eyes..

Guys/Gals u r all invited to the world of reality .. fantasy doesn't exist any more...

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

Ram: Does your logic mean that the only people who have happy marriages are rich people and that it is not possible for poor people to have happy relationships?

I didn't mean that i'm lazy.. but just suppose that i can't find a job ..or wut i earn from my job is not enough for living at all .. like u r earning about 20 or 30 thousands bucks and i'm earning about 3000 bucks.. ur love won't last forever .. beleive me ..

anyway I've said enough and u r not yet convinced .. i respect ur point of view too which me either strongly disagree with u ..and thanks for being a good listener..

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

In this case i will not break up with you because you don't have money or you are poor , but because you are lazy and you don't want to work :D .

Anyway Ram it's your point of view and i respect it even if i strongly desagree .

God, if I can't have what I want, let me want what I have.

"And remember by working hard and using our mind we can earn money , so we make money and not money make us."

lol.. I remember a phrase says:

Who work too much makes too much mistakes

who work less makes less mistakes

who don't work never makes mistakes

and those who r promoted are those who don't make mistakes...

This is very true here in Qatar especially in my company..

Some people work hard and they don't take wut they deserve and other do not work and take much more than they deserve....

Let's talk some serious.. If i wanna marry u .. and suppose u r inlove with me .. i'm very poor that i don't have money even to live will accept this marriage cuz u love me???

Let me answer u (as some gals will answer): Yes i'll do

now let's analyze this .. r u gonna spend money on me and pay the bills and taxes and every thing cuz u love me ... u might do that for some time but i bet u it won't be forever as i beleive that love is forever but then u will have to broke up with me saying: I love him but i can't live my life spending my money on him ...

U know why .. Love will not last forever as u think .. it will start to vanish and disappear ... u will need a better life (ofcourse financial side)

So Money VS Love .. who wins .. Without thinking it's Money ... Many marriage successed cuz it's financial base was very strong although they don't love each other .. but she forgot that by money having all wut she want or even imagine ...

Love is a Dream But Money is Reality ... That doesn't means that i'm a man without feelings or emotions .. i'm a musician and i have a lot of feelings and emotions ..and that wut makes me talk about love this way ... I hope u understand wut i exactly mean..

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

is there any bar at intercontinental/ is there any rich guys

four season is it nice to stay in or boring ?

what the best hotel where rich people go??

I know that money ca open many doors , but love still the food of soul , and everyone without love have a big space in life .

And remember by working hard and using our mind we can earn money , so we make money and not money make us .

God, if I can't have what I want, let me want what I have.

"(beside the part with asking a girl's hand from her parents)"

I'm telling this regarding our culture in egypt or most arab countries... u can ignore it .. but for getting married .. ok let's talk about eurpoean or american.. we just need 2 rings to get married .. that's fine .. and then where we gonna live how we gonna live .. even if they love each other they cannot count on love .. it will dissappear with the hard times and poorness and suffering from financial problems .. there won't be time then for love ..

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

I am with you on 90% of what you said !! (beside the part off asking a girl's hand from her parents)

Money talks not Love ;(

It's sad but this ain't gonna change anytime soon ...

Cherie,

Love has no more existance in this world ... and if i'm in love .. i'm in love with MONEY... which makes me live.. and even u everybody is living with money not love ..

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

is there any bar at intercontinental/ is there any rich guys

four season is it nice to stay in or boring ?

what the best hotel where rich people go??

I was dumped once because I wasn't tall enough.

Ergo, height is the only thing that matters.

ii think she should go out to find people but where ?/

where does wealthy men hang out ??wheeeeeere

is four season a place for rich guys ???

just remember that LOVE involves a mutual feeling ,love needs a return emotion you can be obsessed with money, but that's not really love, because the money can't love you back. love really signifies a return in emotion, and therefore an inanimate object, like money, can't return it. thus, love is superior.

God, if I can't have what I want, let me want what I have.

i'm fine .. how is ur husband and kid ??? say hi to them plz.. i like the colors of the butterfly... good choice gal

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

I lost my G.F bcuz of money .. cuz i wasn't having the enough money to get a home to spend on her to take care of her (from the financial side)

WUT DID LOVE DO FOR ME? nothing and it won't do anything ..

i didn't say that we can live with money only .. But see the difference .. i can live with money AND without love.. But i can never live with love AND with no money ..

My life will be hard without feelings and emotions .. but still i can live enjoy my time and hang out and date and many many ands ... but if i have love with no money .. i won't be surviving to enjoy the love feelings and emotion ..

Does it make any sense to u now?

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

Hiya RAM.. am good ..how about you bro? Thanks..Just like that… I like butterflies.

I think Neil Diamond said it best when he sang:

Money talks

But it don't sing and dance

And it don't walk

As long as i can have you here with me

I'd much rather be

Forever in blue jeans

hopefully, everybody doesn't think the same... Life wouldn't be worth to live.

Haven't you ever feeled love ? You can't just basically consider love as money, even if you're right on some points.

Wow, life should be hard for you if you only see money everywhere, no feelings.

Money talks

Put it to work

Watch your world spin & rock

Money talks

But when it fucks with you

Money sucks

Without money, we are in poverty

With money, you are my property

If you are very ugly, don’t worry

There is expensive plastic surgery

If you are one who is totally boring

Spend, spend, spend and stop worrying

Who says money can't buy you love

Who says money can't buy you friends

Who says money can't buy you fame

We all live and die the money game

Money talks

Hit the jackpot

Watch the media flock

Paparazzis, children, grown-ups

Chasing you from block to block

The previous known vagabond

People now no longer mock

You ceased being a laughing stock

Now they want a share of your buck

Ignoring money talk, is not that simple

Many have thrown away their principles

Listening to money talk

It is the master of love & hate

It is the master of a smile & a frown

It is the master of respect & disrespect

It’s the difference between a good & a bad friend

Money talks

If you listen to it

You become its slave

The only path it paves

Waits silently to crush you

With an evil gigantic wave

I understand that culture dictates parental permission for marriage in some parts of the world. That is also an old (but dying) tradition in North America.

My wife makes more money than I do, so she wasn't really concerned about my financial status.

Crazy people that we are, we married for love. We didn't hire a financial consultant to see if this was the wisest long-term investment strategy, and we didn't set the wedding date to take best advantage of tax law.

My point is really this: For me, your view of relationships reaches beyond the mercenarily practical to the cynical. But people can want what they want, who am I to say? If money is the most important thing to you, then I hope you find it. If love is the most important thing to someone else, then good luck to them.

(oh, and I had Weetabix for breakfast, not money -- I find the metallic inks in the bills make better dinners)

how r u gal??? nice avatar ... now nobody will get confused .. but y u choosed the butterfly..

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

Some part of the world, we need permission and blessing from our parents to get married.

Your wife was not concerned about job your financial status etc..??

Moral - You cannot buy love with money....you cannot live with Love only... you need Money to live

When I asked for my wife's hand, I asked HER, not her father.

Welcome in the real life.. u really took the shortest way to the real life .. people r u still dreaming with emotions and feelings and LOVE.. Love is a big lie ..

u can't eat love, u can't spend love ... why r u blaming on cherie? we r really in econmic life ... wut u r wearing it costs money not love .. ur car?? did u buy it with money or love? wut did u have for ur breakfast? was it love?? ofcourse money.. each second of our life became into money money money .. so don't feel it's strange to find people became money oriented ... That's the real life .. she needs a good life with a decent man BUT that decent man will be spending money to take care of her .. his love won't feed her or cover her ...

BUT Money will do .. u r now reading my post with money .. if it's only love then u wouldn't have a computer at all..

do u blame on Cherie cuz she said that sooooo frankly ...

in my opinion it's better than a lady deceive u with a fake love to take wut in ur wallet .. at least she is not straping u with a steaaly knife from ur back .. she is saying from da begining i want wut in ur wallet .. and if u have enough money and loved her ...then u should take care of her by spending wut u got in ur wallet...

Men .. when u go to ask for a girl's hand ... wut is the first question from her father to u?

It's always like

Do u have a home? = Money

What do u do for living = Money

How Much u earn per month = Money

where r u going to make the wedding celebrate = Money

Each question of these are asking u how much u got in ur wallet which is equal to money ... Isn't Life became all Money

anyway sorry for this long post .. i'm not defending her to show up like a hero .. i'm 24 yrs old .. not suitable age and not suitable financial status .. i'm out of the run anyway from da begining.. but it's my point of view as my signature says

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

I am very busy with business at the moment. how's life? and how's charmed? I saw you guys are arguing with sexydoctor. he! he! he! It happens sometimes people do get into each others nerve but at least you don't know each other, so it's not really likely that it will end up serious fight. you two have a nice day!!!

"Granny" (Lola in tagalog! this is our expressions nowadays calling each other for Filipino girlfriends) I'm out with girlfriends today so catch you later!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!

This thread just keeps getting better and better. Hey Cherie if your interested I can give you the details of a wealthy investment banker, He's been bothering me but I'm not imterested, so I will happily hand him over to you.

Love the fairy!!

We came we saw we were Qatarized

You say

"coz I beleive "man loves woman for sex & woman do sex for love" I think u cant find a man perfect man coz there is no social life in Qatar."

You can't say that man loves woman for sex only! My husband and I are married for almost 12 years and he had proved enough that he loves me because he fight for me against his horrible mother and brother, They are always against me from the beginning and see? we're married for almost reach 12 years now!

And another no! you say "women do sex for love"

What about those prostitutes or they called whore? do they love all their clients?

And there are social life here in Qatar go out, explore and see for your self Dear! I hope you'll have fun soon!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!

I bet you all that this will definitely be the most popular post on this site ever. !!!!

If I am wrong I shall reveal my alter ego and leave the country.

De_Mar

many ppl at ql were telling that there is no social life in doha...

social life ..u make ur own..if not then it`s ur proplem.. you don`t know how to socialize with ppl..be ur self and never under istemate others then u will have alot of friends.. which later you can choose some as FRIENDS and most as companians.

even if cherie sent me an email treating me the stinky french hoe ... i forgive her ,,, at least she ha time to write an email to a stranger women just to tell me this

thanks for thinking about me u r so desperate ))))

no joke enought good luck with rich guys .

I can surely help u out in ur search for the rite one .

I am here!!

i have just noticed cheries comment snooch pounding. sorry

Someone opens up and all have you say is "pound your snooch". Thats pathetic. Grow Up.

Back to the situation doha, this place is funny in sense that i have noticed alot of women look at men with distain until they share a mutual friend. For example, the environment is not friendly enough to just walk up to someone to strike up a conversation.

All the women i have spoken to about this issue have all said the same thing "guys in doha are only after sex".

I have news, all guys are after it at one point or another. Its usually whilst 'chasing' when the opportunity to know a woman arises and a relationship forms.

However, it is possible for a guy want to talk you without wanting to take 'advantage' of you.

Cherie, good luck i hope you find what you're looking for.

Someone opens up and all have you say is "pound your snooch". Thats pathetic. Grow Up.

Back to the situation doha, this place is funny in sense that i have noticed alot of women look at men with distain until they share a mutual friend. For example, the environment is not friendly enough to just walk up to someone to strike up a conversation.

All the women i have spoken to about this issue have all said the same thing "guys in doha are only after sex".

I have news, all guys are after it at one point or another. Its usually whilst 'chasing' when the opportunity to know a woman arises and a relationship forms.

However, it is possible for a guy want to talk you without wanting to take 'advantage' of you.

Cherie, good luck i hope you find what you're looking for.

Someone opens up and all have you say is "pound your snooch". Thats pathetic. Grow Up.

Back to the situation doha, this place is funny in sense that i have noticed alot of women look at men with distain until they share a mutual friend. For example, the environment is not friendly enough to just walk up to someone to strike up a conversation.

All the women i have spoken to about this issue have all said the same thing "guys in doha are only after sex".

I have news, all guys are after it at one point or another. Its usually whilst 'chasing' when the opportunity to know a woman arises and a relationship forms.

However, it is possible for a guy want to talk you without wanting to take 'advantage' of you.

Cherie, good luck i hope you find what you're looking for.

Cherie

You are having a laugh and with your previous post- by posting "intimate" details of your "prospects" you have alienated lots of the filty rich suiters who would have pounded your snooch...

LOL..

Quiet lurker. Poor Contributer

I would love to meet new men until I find the perfect one.

Cherie,

Can you Please describe your "THE PERFECT ONE"

What excatly do you look for in "MAN"

Let's just have a laugh QLers ;)

This is what some guy sent me:

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On 3/6/07, XX < [email protected]> wrote:

Hi there

how about a friday morning day out will go to farm house and from there to dukhan beach and than after that to zubara beach and drive back in end at umsaeed?

what do u think??will be alot of fun

do reply waiting

Your New Friend

On 3/7/07, Me < [email protected]> replied:

You just want to fcuk right ?

Sorry boy, I want a filthy rich man for a long relationship, or if you can buy me a landrover, then yes I'll come with you ;)

On 3/7/07, XX replied:

whaaaaaaaaat fcuk??? no wayyyy\

landrover yea model 1999 :)

On 3/7/07, Me replied:

Nonono! I don't do past 2006 models :/

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Cherie,

This has really been an amusing thread to read through -- sex, violence, money, betrayal. It's like an old episode of Dynasty!

Post under "services wanted / offered" in the classifieds of the gulf times? :P

LLOOOOOLLLLLLLLLL

"unreal post", "This lady sounds unreal", "Someone looking for new love will NEVER start by saying she loves gifts" ???

Give me a break!

Who are you actually to know exactly what I want and what I don't ?

What if I told you that I just wanted getting my snooch pounded by a freaking filthy rich arab on friday nights?

Jeeeez!

Cherie,

I am surprized that people take these unreal posts so seriously that they actually start seriously debating about them. This lady sounds unreal and seems to be just having a laugh. Cool it guys. Someone looking for "new love" will NEVER start by saying she loves "gifts".

Yeah I too win the billion dollar lotto almost daily(for which I never buy tickets !!) and the late King of Sierra Leone left his wealth for me and I receive mails about it almost daily.

Quiet lurker. Poor Contributer

a hurt woman looking for ONLY security is not very attractive if u ask my openion..

in the same way women have expectations from their men, its the other way round...

Being so focused on getting a husband that meets a certain criteria of wealth blurs ur eyes from seeing what u r OBVIOUSLLY LOOKING FOR, which is security...

You are simply acting out of hurt ( which isnt the best idea in the world)...

The financial security that u think is what u need might come at the expense of the emotional security ( which is truely what u need and want)...

I dont mean to be intruding on ur feelings or in any way presumptious, but i think what u need to do is to focus on urself first...

when u feel secure enoght, look for someone to share that security with ...

dont look for someone to MAKE U FEEL SECURE...

security comes from withIN not WITHOUT..

i gurantee u , all men are going 2 dissapoint a woman who is looking NOT TO GET HURT..

we are all jurks like that:) we dont know how 2 be around a woman without doing things that would hurt her..

only a woman who is secure inside can get past that, non secure women will be 2 hurtto let it go , and it will never work out...

Again, u r a smart, brave and bueatifull woman, u dont NEED a man to make u feel secure..

find ur own security 1st and that man u seek will come to u on bended knees...

cheers

http://hasous.spaces.live.com

"missiles, warships and nuclear weapons cannot establish security. Instead they destroy what peace and security build." Anwar Sadat

You lost your soul cherie... If I were a man, I would be afraid of meeting you...

Or maybe you're just stupid!

I absolutely agree with you, only problem is I once believed and put trust in love to realize afterwards that we live in a world of economics.

Cherie,

what is going through your head? I understand the desire to have financial security but to blatently advertise the fact you are essentially interested in the wallet is a little disturbing.

What ever happened to good old fashioned love and respect etc etc. The old addage that money can not buy you love is true. Personally I would rather be with a poor man I love than a rich man I did not.

You never know what is round the corner, start to stabalise yourself without relying on another person. You can only benefit from the strength it takes and I suspect that a man would find that qaulity far more alluring than the approach you have taken so far.

As people have said this forum is for all sort but you are unlikely to find what you are looking for here.

Good luck with finding you feet and your inner strength!

That's all women ask for... but you have different ways of obtaining it... Begging for it like you did is just disgusting!

For sure you won't find YOUR man acting this way!

I m here Cherie.

Anyways ,

great goin Goin Cherie,

Intresting thread.

Sweet words + understanding husband + ++++

Gosh, where are the REAL men ?

My braveheart where art thou ?

Cherie,

I am not begging for men's money. It is so wrong to ask for a generous husband ? I don't want expensive jewelry, or cars, just a decent house + decent living + traveling from time to time + experiencing new things,...etc

Cherie,

You're a stinky hoe, just shut your mouth please!

All your comments have been hostile to me so far, not that I take it personally, but it just doesn't help me you jamming this thread.

Thanks

Cherie,

Cherie,

Best of luck to you in your quest have fun, enjoy and remember "What happens in Doha Stays in Doha..." OOps guess I am missing my city too much. Anyway best wishes and I hope you find what you are looking for

I totally agree with you. Cherie looks so desperate when she talks about what she's looking for. Try at least to seduce men, instead of begging for their money.

You behave in a stupid way cherie!

*goes to get popcorn* lol

Yea i do agree with that gypsy, i've lived in Asia for the past 10 years so i know what you mean

Sort of agree with Tyler, go out to the clubs and make FRIENDS. The most worthwhile men I have met have been through friends.

BURN!!

well lets see,, cherie is an american poor women who lost evrything in usa and is derperetly looking for an arabian to get rich fast ...1st u should think of having a plastic surgery to ur old grand ma face then look after ur kids then change ur hair color then ddont smile a lot it look cheap

arabian man has a test n wont spend a penny on an a b...ttch

This may sound absurd but unlike the states the bars/clubs are not just for drinking here. The clubs are especially good for social and business networking. Come to one of the little get togethers you see posted on here, usually a Thursday night, you may be suprised to find that you have fun as well as realizing that the only way you will meet anyone in Doha is to get out and mingle. Forget the solicitations and proposals online and try good old fashioned face to face meetings. In fact you could even try Rugby Club this Thursday night as I know a group of at least 10 guys who will be hanging about and unbeleivably NOT looking to get in bed but just have fun and see who me meet when we get out of work and the house.

Give life a try and get out from behind your keyboard as it is quite scary you would even consider any of these solicitations.

Hmmm- which personality is coming out today?

That's great Templar, but you have to admit it does start to rub off on some, whether it's how they view Western women or how they treat customer service people.

And Gypsy isnt being cynical either, its practical advice. i would advise you to take it, although i have to disagree (at least personally) with the part about the local attitudes rubbing off on the expats! No one is gonna change me!

Honestly (and a lot of people are going to disagree with me and jump down my back about this) Ladies in general are not appreciated here. You're coming to a place that views dating, love, sex and women very very different than the West, and not just the local men either. The attitudes of the locals (By that I mean Arabs) tends to rub off on the western men pretty quickly, and if you come here and post yourself on a website and through yourself out there you are going to get used and hurt. THese guys will say and do anything to get into your pants and be gone the moment they finish.

Don't date here till you get the lay of the land or until you develop a good mistrust of men.

Are american ladies usually appreciated in Doha (knowing all what is happening in the world?, yeah I hate bush too)

Cherie,

Cherie, a muslim man can marry a christian woman, that being said, Qataris rarely marry anyone other than another Qatari and I've never met one who married a non-Muslim. If you are looking for a husband don't look at the locals.

Okay fine fine fine!

Sugar Daddy!

But I want it forever (and you can't guarantee that unless you're actually married to the guy)

Cherie,

yeah they call that a sugar daddy

Well said!

Just don't call me Hun please ;)

Also, I am just going to admit that I have been thru very difficult times (financial as well) in my life because of the divorce etc.. And so I am looking more for a financial situation with a kind husband rather than just a husband.

I need someone who can protect me and can guarantee me a stable situation.

ONE QUESTION:

Do you actually have to be a muslam lady to marry a qatari guy ?

Cherie,

Bi..bi..bi..biaaaaatch

Cherie,

Hun,

The right man for you will be looking out for u , u CERTAINLY shouldnt be looking around for him..

in doing so, u rip him off th epleeasure he gets from pursuing u and accordingly u diminsih ur chances of establishing a relationship with the right person...

U r bueatifull, u r succesfull, and u r ambitious...

Focus on urself, and keep urself happy and satisfied with friends and invest in all ur other current relationsips with ur parents for example, and when u r peacfull and content and happy inside of u , ur mr . righ will come knowcking on ur door without u ever having 2 look :)

Good luck any ways..

Take care of urself

Cheers

http://hasous.spaces.live.com

"missiles, warships and nuclear weapons cannot establish security. Instead they destroy what peace and security build." Anwar Sadat

how hilarious you think my life is so sad i made up the stalker story???? well you are entitled to your own opinion about me and my husband.

You think im lying and making things up because my life is so sad i have to do that! Thats fine too.

i dont lie sexydoctor im a buddhist and i believe in karma.

i dont care what you think of me or my husband

What i said was the truth and was actually happening to me ( thankfully it has stopped now truth walks with me and the dogs each moring now for those who are interested)

You are a very sad person who feels better about himself by putting people down, i feel sorry for you and i also thank you for teaching me patience and understanding about people like you

this is the last if it sexy doctor carry on saying things about me and my husband if thats what you have to do to feel good about yourself then im happy that we are making you feel good about yourself

Hi cherrie how are u. I 100% agreed with gypsy. you just have to concentrate on your careers. if you try to find a perfect man u loose your time. coz I beleive "man loves woman for sex & woman do sex for love" I think u cant find a man perfect man coz there is no social life in Qatar.

bye take care

So funny... I seem to come back to Junior High School when I read your posts sexydoctor. "Come here if you dare" - "I'm waiting for you man, I'm not afraid" ...

You try to switch the discussion to something else but you just renew it. It's so pathetic. You're 30 dude, grow up, be mature !!

sexydoctor, sorry dude but your posts arent making sense....go cry some more please, just not on here

ooooooooo clownie....... im real scared now..........

grow up jokers.... everyone knew it was a fake story posted by you and ur wifey who were starved dry in ur clown business... who wud stalk jokers like u.... may be you shud book ur tickets to siberia or where you come from and meet a shrink... he might help you out of ur delusions....

as far as your threats go... they are as funny as your wifeys desperate cry games on this forum....

and now can we discuss sense and ignore the delsuions of this couple whom seem to have a problem in everything they do....

As long as you are trying hard, you are never failing....

The only failure is failing to try harder.....

After school, behind the gymnasium.

bothered with your childish baiting, however for those that know both myself and Charmed know that it was not a cry for help more a warning to other women!!! hence why a description and a number plate was put on QL.

As for you sexydoctor suggest you go back to India and buy some more fake qualifications then perhaps I may believe some of the dribble you spout!!!

Oh and as for me being macho, how about you and me meet up and I shall show !!!

We came we saw we were Qatarized

how can dating like this work out ?

Don't you prefer a more natural way ?? Meeting guys according to your feelings ? Instead of advertising like you do... For sure you'll get tons of mails, but you'll never be able to say who's worth it or not.

Amazing american girl !!!!

its really funny... the rantings of truth 321 and his so called wife charmed.... the charm ends when she opens her mouth...

this is totally unrelated to the topic and im not the one to stoop to ur levels im not a clown instructor like u charmed and i can understand ur first student must have been ur deranged husband... no wonder he makes a clown of himself here....

u come here crying on the forum saying some stalker chases you with his diamonds and his private plates... if you wanted remedy you wud never post such personal rantings here... or did you post it cos you felt he reads your comments here everyday and that you wud reach him here... grow up kids...

you are nothing but a sad charcter who needs publicity... and becos i dont publicise my personal life like how u and ur macho husband cry on the forum about stalkers doesnt mean i am not a doctor... agreed im not a clown instructor like u or a clown like ur hubby but i am what i am and who cares a rats ass about you giving me a conduct certificate...

you started it off by assuming theres no one genuine here and i gave you a piece of ur bitter medicine... now are you gonna start a new thread crying about internet ettiquette...

and who wants a war with clowns like u... i dont even think u guys are worth the salt anyways....

As long as you are trying hard, you are never failing....

The only failure is failing to try harder.....

for the compliment its nice to know you have been thinking about me and my husband thats very sweet of you! I wonder thou, i mean your spending your time thinking about us, have you nothing better to do - but i do take it as a huge compliment that you spend your time thiking about us - nice to know we have touched your life in that way!

and no me and hubby didnt meet on here - we have known each other a very long time and have just celebrated our two year marriage anniversay!

I am right in sayin " hard to meet genuine guys out here" read the other threads from ladies who are single, do your reaserch.

Oh and a word of warning - no one ever puts my husband down or says a negative word about him - without me getting into the fray, so please dont start a war which you wont win!

Thanks sexydoctor I'll take that as a compliment.

Cherie, u look like Super ex-girlfriend :-) yest saw de movie and found it very funny.

Good luck for ur search!!

sexydoctor your the one afraid of putting your qualifications etc on here!!

If you were a doctor you would be proud or are you another one that bought his qualifications??

We came we saw we were Qatarized

I was willing to live and let live with you, however as you seem to think you can cast aspertions about myself and my wife then let the war begin....

We came we saw we were Qatarized

Sounds more like a guy speaking.......

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

am gud hows u?

not bad for a change sumone actually likes my nic...

keep it coming...

As long as you are trying hard, you are never failing....

The only failure is failing to try harder.....

Hi sexy Doc,

How do ya do man. I liked U r nic.

Manu

Gypsy,

Its a sweeping statement to say that you wudnt find genuine people out here... We all are genuine in some way or the other.... The fact that she openly advertises for a sex partner/ life partner on a site like this means shes ready to try several rich men till she finds her so called ideal mate.... yawnnnnnnnnnnn

But for charmed to make a sweeping statement like that made me wonder....if she was referring to herself and her husband....

On a totally unrelated topic.... I shud confess I have become a sort of a fan of your wild comments gypsy.... You have a rollicking sense of humor and a bit acidic at that... but your comments (however controversial) are real interesting... keep up the gud work....

As long as you are trying hard, you are never failing....

The only failure is failing to try harder.....

I don't think charmed and her husband met here sexydoctor. She's right it's impossible to meet genuine guys here in Qatar.

Charmed, in your advice to this desperate woman looking for a rich husband... you mention and i quote - " you wont really find anyone genuine out here" ....

r u talking about you and your husband....?

As long as you are trying hard, you are never failing....

The only failure is failing to try harder.....

that Cherie may just be a female TROLL.

I cannot think why a self respecting woman would advertise herself to be such (in my eyes) a slapper!!

Seriously though I would suggest doing what Charmed said, put yourself on Hi5 or similar website and you will have what you are looking for.

We came we saw we were Qatarized

Ya I m disgusting,

just give me a try n u ll not regret.

I bet.

be bi..tch

Take a Hike, i know your intelligent enough to know these things.....be real.....be sensible

Except you will be part of many wives. But hey, is the man you're interested in meeting someone to keep travelling with after Qatar? If so, you don't want an arab anyway.

And what's wrong with that ??

As long as I am 1st, only and last wife,... Why not a rich Arab as you said.

Cherie,

If you think other people's lives and issues are jokes, then I am joking.

Cherie,

"The older you get, the better you get"

...unless you're a banana

Looking for someone that fits the right age, height, ethnicity etc but most important of all with the right bank balance as hey after all you do like gifts!!!

Interesting thread though, why dont you just come out and admit your just looking for a wealthy arab?

We came we saw we were Qatarized

I have to say that this is by far the most amusing thread i have read in Qatar Living....Cherie, you are just jocking right?

It was curiosity, thats all.

You scare me with your psychoanalysis theories...

PLEASE don't mention this subject again.

Thank you!

Cherie,

My plane landed in Doha Jan 29th.

Cherie,

It interested me to read your profile of love. Is Doha 'the move' to get away from 'him'?

Forget about it...

Cherie, out of curiosity how long have you been in Doha?

I think you don't love man ,

I am ready for you ,just give me an appointment

Then why did you say "I guess there aren't bars and clubs?" If you were being sarcastic I guess I just didn't pick up on it.

There are many places to meet men

I have not tried those matrimonial sites yet.

Actually a colleague recommended me to register at Qatarliving.com to look for a man, that's why.

Cherie,

I know there's bars and clubs

Wich bar you prefer?

Yet there are Bars, and they are full of men.

"just email to know me"

Well at least you are gentle (sarcasm)

Cherie,

why dont you try other web sites like hi5 or my space or something like that - bit better option than posting on here - people will make fun of you and you wont really find anyone genuine on here - the approach you have taken is a bit forward ( please no offence given!) i imagine it must be hard to date out here but try other sites thats my advise! Oh also my hubby has a single male frends! hmmm maybe?

love life!

There are bars you can count on your finger tips reserved for the drunken population...

Cherie,

I am serious ,I am ready for you ,just email to know me

There are bars and clubs.

You can't judge the book by its cover

what happen in south park was a different kind,

and if you say life has come to an end, well welcome to doha.

At first I found this rather amusing - a dating offer. Have you tried ebay?? But seriously, I then began to wonder what options there are in Doha for people to meet and hang out. I guess there aren't bars and clubs... right??

Cherie,

Scorpio27, gently NO!

Asians have no soul (I saw it on South Park)

As for Manu you're just disgusting...

My God !!! Life has come to an end as I know it, no more REAL men ;(

Cherie,

U are taller than me

I do like giving gifts

Financial Status maybe 5 years from now but i can buy u lunch or dinner

I'm caring, loving and great in bed maybe

Description about my self: i'm the opposite side of a coin, asian

coz

s/he who hesitates masturbates

s/he who dares celebrates

and u r the daring one.

U are cool gal, real cool.

Sorry,

Short answer: No

Don't take it personal ;)

Cherie,

Well I say, we are all different people for different people if you get what I mean,...thanks god BTW, otherwise we'd be all the same.

Cherie,

HI Cherie,

U are taller than me

I dont like giving gifts

Financial Status not that good

I dont mind if U are perfect or not coz

Nobody is perfect and I am nobody.

Hobbies : bird watching animal viewing

Description about my self: Disgusting and spend most of my day in Industrial area

Finally U ll be the lucky one if you get me.

Wat do you say gal.

Manu

I think you just made the worst mistake of your life.

Have fun!

Then focus on your career and forget about finding the man of your dreams, he doesn't live in Qatar.

I didn't come specifically to Doha to find a man.

I got a generous job offer I could not turn down.

Cherie,

I may understand your message in a wrong way but when you say :

"I would love to meet new men until I find the perfect one."

For me it's quite explicit...

Anyway, I hope you to find what you want!

LOOOOOOOOOOL. :D

Is it this hard to find an honest, loving, generous man who can protect me and love me for the rest of my life ?

BTW, I take care of my MAN too, it's give a take relationship ;)

Cherie,

If you're looking for the "man of your life" you came to the wrong country.

You don't understand. I don't want just to date. OKay?

I am looking for the man of my life!

Plus I am new in this country, so I don't have that many friends.

Cherie,

Stop dreaming guys... What happens these days ?? So many girls who just want to date in Doha... Considering the ratio men / women, they would normally just need to go out to find someone to have a date with...

What do you mean if I have been to the industrial area ?

Cherie,

Have you been to the industrial area? I think all of your dreams will come true there.

Welcome to Qatar And Qatar living.

Hmmmm you r so great looking, loving & beautifull. I think I am not a right person for you. as ur profile is telling about u. I just want a good friend like u. If u accept it would be pleasure for me..........

i wll be happy to hear soon from u or by email

thanks in advance

ur friend