what is true love?how we would know

chingkay
By chingkay

 what is true love?how we would thats its true?

 its one girl confession///any reaction??????????

 

   “I learned”

There is a time in our lives that our emotions are being tested. On how strong and firm we are with temptations, if we know the consequences, if we can realize what we can lose and for us to know how much a person is really worth to us. There will be surely a time that we will have to be in two different paths at a time. Especially in a love life…trials and confusion will surely come. There is a certain feeling that you will doubt on how you feel and same doubt to what your partner feels for you…especially if they are not provocative enough to their feelings. This is the perfect spot for the trial to occur. Have you ever tried that?? Or have you ever tried to find someone who scores more than he is? You get along with this person and you feel fine and comfortable with each other? You were so compatible that you can’t explain, and he can give the attention that you were craving to have from your loved one?? And after that you are totally dazzled… infatuated… that situation came to me first, and I really had to think about it in every second of my life. But you know what happened?? I can say that you can never teach your heart on who to love, no matter on how much have you been hurted and ignored before. And I can say that a person who loves truly can stay emotionally stable with the one she loves. It’s true that I enjoyed faking with that guy but deep inside me was that I am still imprisoned with my feelings for my loved one. And finally, I end up realizing that in my relationship, it’s not my happiness I am searching for, it’s the satisfaction that you can give, it’s never for yourself but it’s on what you can offer. It’s not the distance between you but it’s the care and attention that matters most. You should not count on how much he hurts you but on what good he has done in your life. It’s not how many times he had kissed and hugged you but the affection and sincerity counts most. And it’s not being someone just to please them, but it’s how strong you are to show who you really are. It’s not about entertaining others, but it’s how much you trust them. And in a relationship you should never fear reality. It’s how honest and sincere you are and understanding is a must. Put always in mind that it’s only trials, you can get over it as I did. I realized that I can only be happy to the person I really loves. Also include that trials measures your personality and how genuine your love was. It wasn’t meant for destroying but meant for learning. Just be firm and always listen to you heart, be honest and be yourself and you will found out in the end that you will be happy. Think not for yourself only, but think of how you can enhance each other’s lives. Keep on loving

By OrangKedah• 3 May 2008 21:29
Rating: 5/5
OrangKedah

For me, the test of true love is NOT whether a couple can live with each other for the rest of their lives, but rather can they live without each other for the rest of their lives?

By swissgirl39• 3 May 2008 19:11
Rating: 4/5
swissgirl39

....without words

when you both can talk with your hearts.

;-)

 

*WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNEW YOU COULD NOT FAIL?*

http://www.myswitzerland.com/en.cfm/home

By chingkay• 22 Apr 2008 14:54
Rating: 5/5
chingkay

 

   even me in my own experience i always love in a wrong as my mom said but i never saw it....i felt i was a great love already

 

 

 

 

try and try until you succeed

By lipstick• 22 Apr 2008 14:54
lipstick

hi ksarat16.

i mean it, tell him that...

By ksarat16• 22 Apr 2008 14:52
Rating: 4/5
ksarat16

That was an impressive line I must say about not being able to teach the heart on whom to love...

 

Absolutely fantastic line...hats off to you girl...

By anonymous• 22 Apr 2008 14:48
anonymous

What is True Love? B.S.

By lipstick• 22 Apr 2008 14:47
lipstick

you can never really teach your heart on who to love.

By dragonfly212• 22 Apr 2008 14:42
Rating: 5/5
dragonfly212

true love is only from parent to their children. that bound also can break someday due to some silly arguement and both side cannot realized that blood is thicker then water.

Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.

By Oryx• 22 Apr 2008 14:40
Rating: 3/5
Oryx

'You should not count on how much he hurts you but on what good he has done in your life.'

 

Strongly disagree.... u should check when someone hurts you and why it does.

Otherwise you make excuses for another person's unacceptable behaviour.

 

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