what you will do if you love a wrong guy

are you really evil?

oh!i like evil minded...

shera said "...if a man loves you enough he will cross the pacific ocean just to have you."

Wish that were true but it's not really. Many variables - including family responsibilities, lack of self-esteem, etc. Well, if the intention is true, then it's just a matter of timing.

I know one couple - the guy faced the girl's parental objections and worked at improving himself and eventually wore down the parental objections (took him 7 years) and managed to get married. They are very happy together. it depends on the individuals and only those directly involved will ever really know for sure.

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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beerholder.

I'm getting too old for this! I actually flipped thru the entire thread. *rolls eyes*

Maybe he does love you and knows the choice that he will make if he's faced with an ultimatum from his family. Plus, as you say, his father is ill - family comes first and if they are that against the relationship, then although very difficult, but he may know himself well enough to know what his choice will be.

(Assuming, of course, that you are right about him. Oryx, etc are most probably more right about him than you are but ...)

FYI, David Hodges lyrics -

I will only break your heart

Better days

have come and gone away

please hear me now

to never wait

for what we've lost will not be found

And time uncovers

that it is me pulling you under

so I will let this go

I will only break your heart

I will only let you down

I've been tearing up my world, dear

I will burn it to the ground

I will only break your heart

What remains

is that I love you more

than I know how

but what it takes

I never had to give

And time uncovers

that it was me pulling you under

so I will let this go

I will only break your heart

I will only let you down

I've been tearing up my world, dear

I will burn it to the ground

And in the end

white bleeds to red

you grab your coat and go

what's left is done

what's said is gone

and you will never know

I will only break your heart (and in the end)

I will only let you down (white bleeds to red)

I've been tearing up world here (you grab your coat)

I will burn it to the ground (and go)

I will only break your heart (what's left is done)

I will only let you down (what's said is gone)

see these walls are caving in, love (and you will)

you've got to find your own way out (never know)

And in the end

white bleeds to red

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yah ryt .. but therss some good advices that i need to think bout it .. ... and wallah the hell i care .. in such a nonsense comment ..and .. also i know ... theres a lot of people here is ahmmm just damn rude ... haizzzz .. soo rude .... ...

evil girl, yes, ignore all the advices follow your heart's desire and wait for the result. anyway, you will be the one to suffer consequences not them....

hopefully not too soon, as this is entertaining. (yes, sometimes I like to indulge in other's stupidity)

What comes around, goes around....

I wonder when will her Vodka bottle finish ?

Funny, like a really stupid comedy. lol

I suppose some people are born dumb.

What comes around, goes around....

hey red, dam_n! stop being immature.. no need to post a topic if u yourself dont want some bad criticism as well.. i hope your brain will digest every word of advices here.. ciao

salamat kabayan :)

salamat kabayan :)

the hell you care about my nickname?? and the hell u care if everyone is making an argue in this kind of conversation?.. and please .. if u dont want this kind of conversation .. no need ur damn opinion ... hope u know the motto ((dont judge the book by its cover)) .. haizzz .. F.O (=____=)

such a disgrace....

1st of all your nick name is red evil Which shows how you are sick in representing yourself, I don`t think any of the above notice, second why everyone trying to make an argument between Q.L members by posting stupid staff like you & try to figure how some simple minds will act thinking he is great, go find yourself a life cause we all here fed up.

I learned long ago never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it.

hi red, so many reactions and advices, it got my attention, i am also trying to understand your feelings, not just all the words written but your deep emotions..first of all, i want to share one good principle...-we choose every actions we make, all things are created twice, so we design our actions..in short we make our own destiny... for you maybe he is the right person that you want to spend the rest of your life, but it needs interdependence, it takes 2 to tango, the other action is indirect which is about his decisions..if he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you, he will sacrifice for you, he will not be acted upon other people or circumstances...this is our freedom, a freedom to choose what we determine to be the best alternative, consciously & knowledgeably.....

thanks ur right ... i will not die if we wait 2 months 1 year or 2 years sah??? and i really love him ... he is my everything :) .... and im sure of it ... im really sure ... how i wish everything will be ok soooooonnnnnn ... :)

ignore all the advices here. Proceed your life happily and wait for the right time. No matter you will become 30 or 40 as far as you had a great, beautiful and happy time. You might get married to him,or might not. What makes a difference as far as you both had a great time and were always happy?

People are different and they have different experiance, some envy you and some are jelous, some of them are kind, and some are not, some are open minded and some are conservative. Listen to your heart as far as you are happy. If you feel that you are getting old and you must get married, then use your mind and consult your family as well but not Qlers:)

tatess-- well i think she's still sleeping & dreaming for a happy ending till now!

But as u said she doesn't need any of our advices.

IS LOVE REALLY BLIND???=D

"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."

red_evil..

observe your self first..

if your love is real also..2 that wrong guy u said

or maybe your afraid to face the reality even u cant answer the question in your mind.In every decision making make sure 100% or 99.9% sure,coz 4 every decision we make were the one who suffer.

The better u do is talk seriously both about the problem encountered then solve it,

because LOVE = PAIN..THAT`S IT!

what a question even u can answer that..

It`s not too late to go away from that guy! but...

why u said wrong guy if both of u love each other..

nationality or religion is not big deal if u love each other..

if the true love is there, so why u afraid of that..

In every relationship we face make sure your aware for every trials or problems come and be ready to face that both..understanding,respect and trust to each other is important.

It is natural to both parents to disagreed what u have relationship now..

If your boyfriend love u with all his heart,mind and soul whatever happen he face everything even if fire in hell is there..okies

"he did a lot of things to make his mom accept ... :) and just we wish .... the time will come they will accept me ..."

>uhumm, wishfull ang hopefull thinkin'.

>red evil doesn't need your advices people ,so come on stop it.all she wanted is for you to hear their so called ROMEO AND JULIET love affair and how his man continue fighting for her no matter what.remember ,his dad is sick and mom dont like her.

>leave this kind hearted and very understanding lady alone.

>Good luck!

>one thing is for sure .. you are not a Filipina and the story is fake.

... i will still hold on .. until i die???? wehehehhe joke ... ahmmmmm ... haizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz .... too much hard to control my heart yani wat to do ?? hehehehe ... haizz im still young maybe 2 years 3 years waiting it would be enough.. i i will stay with him until i love him ... but if the time comes that we both are so tired ... i will cut the rope ... waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh thanks for all the advice . thanks .. this forum is kalas

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in our own language it's proper to call a person Pilipina/Pilipino coz the term Filipino is our national language. But we are talking English that's why word Filipino/Filipina is use.. hope it make sense.. :)

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"I'm going to work.. Big hug to Ate na." :)

i am getting very much annoyed on how our little red riding hood dealing with this whole thing.. i can sense the immaturity lingered on every words she replied..

Just give up on him.... I've known so many people with the same story, unfortunately it's not a happy ending...Actually, most of it.... Friendly advise, you have to consider that culturally and religiously you have different world...However, it you are thinking of practically due to some financial needs or supports, it perhaps helps. but as i have mentioned earlier, rarely happened to be a happy ending....

"no pain....no gain"

this is the most common story i get to hear around here...

Author: TO Cherokee

Promises aren't made easily.

At least that's what I say

but in my heart I promise

to love you until my dying day.

Promises are made for keeping

that's why I've made so few

but in my heart I promise

that forever I will love you.

I promise I will be there

when you need a hand to hold

& on this you can depend

should your nights grow long & cold.

I promise I will hold you

forever close at heart.

Should you ever need me-

I'll be there cross my heart!

I make this promise to you

if only in my mind.

I promise you can count on me

until the end of time.

Author: Sponge Bob

I promise to be your warm spot to cuddle up to when you feel cold

I promise to be your soft place to land if you should fall

I promise to be the first one to say I am sorry (even if I was right)

I promise to be there for you in all of your times of joy and sorrow

I promise to support you no matter what your decision (even if I don't agree )

I promise to make a new memory with you each and every day

I promise to love you without change.

I promise to make you laugh

I promise to make you cry

I promise to give you strength when you are weak

I promise to cherish you and your love

I promise to compromise with you

I promise to make you and our children my first priority

I promise to never take your love for granted

I promise to never lose faith in you

I promise to never give you a reason to distrust me

I promise to always trust you

I promise to work with you to resolve our conflicts

I promise to always be proud of you

I promise to never let you feel alone in this world

I promise to find new ways everyday to keep the fires of passion burning

I promise to always keep you as an equal partner

I promise to never say things to you in anger

I promise to be your partner for life

I promise to be your shelter from the storm

I promise you a love everlasting.

You must promise me that you'll survive, that you won't give up, no matter what happens, no matter how hopeless. Promise me now, Rose, and never let go of that promise.

- Jack Dawson (TITANIC MOVIE)

"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."

some just think that love is like a fairy tale where the prince charming and the princess will live happily ever after.

don't dare to give advices and it will jus t fall to deaf ears.

she is very much awake and keeps moving.

IMHO... Better wake up and move on!

"Wag magbubuhat ng sariling bangko..."

go and enjoy.....

im not generelizing my words.and im not saying that you need a money to your guy.not mention in my post.read first not so defensive.enjoy and feel the happines,and hope not bitter later...

no not yet...and they are not forcing me..they believe i am not yet ready and it should come from my heart if i want to be converted not because im being pressured..

i think they have a soft heart but they just have different view regarding marriages..my husband is from turkey and his parents are devout muslims but they understand us..we are just so lucky

listen to the sound advices above... dont wait long to let go..., if you're meant to be, love will find a way to get you back together... dont allow yourself to be dragged deeper, unless you're ready for the consequences... suffice to say he really loved you, but you have to understand their culture is different, he may really really loved you, but family comes first eventually... some can sacrifice their own happiness just to keep his family, esp. his mom, happy... think about this too... do you think you'll be happy with him if he choose to marry you but his parents will not accept you? it will take it's toll on your marriage definitely... so wake up girl and listen to your mind too before it's too late...

* take my advise, im not using it * ---> :)

If I fall in love with the wrong guy, I would kill him!

:P

This is how evil I am.

A women rules, men rubbs it all.

he did a lot of things to make his mom accept ... :) and just we wish .... the time will come they will accept me ...

++++ and its not easy for an arab guy to fight with thre parents .. ..but still he is doin it ..

not all is the same shit ur thinking about how bout the same ... why all people in ur place are the same??? same in everything????? yah we live in a poor country ... but not all living just for money .... my bf is not rich ... he doesnt even have own country ... yani how u will say that i just need a money from him??? please dont judge us ... u dont know the real pilipina ...

He became the wrong guy because of religion? Then why did you love him in the first place? Give up.... He might just be fooling around... most men do, anyway.

Doc jay, it's very much unfair to voice out your opinion in that way!

=@-=* Burdens are hard to carry =@-=*

The issue of moslems and christians loving each other is starting to bug me nowadays!!! :(

I think the first rule is, find out his religion first. If he is moslem, then run as fast as you can,away from him... otherwise, convert :(

...listen to the sound of silence....

lot of the pinay here in qatar is disgrace in our country.so dont be amaze dear friends if you see one of them coz they need money for their love ones at philippines.sorry to say this but true...

what you will do if you love a wrong guy..

so who is the wrong guy in your story ?

When a MAN loves a woman, he does NOT ask his mother or his father. He will not listen to ANYBODY.

lola red_evil, ganito na lang. okay, i will not bash you or make fun of your feelings and everything else already made fun of on your thread. i will give you the benefit of the doubt and believe/assume that the guy loves you too. i may or may not be in the situation you are in (i may even be in a worse case than yours, hehe) but i will try to understand you for all it's worth.

the thing is, your love isn't the only thing that matters. his love for his family is very important too, and is also worth fighting and living for. they are a major part of who he is as a person and it will never be wrong for him to choose them eventually. for now, do not expect too much even if he constantly tries to reassure you of his feelings for you. think of it as an experience to cherish and make the most out of it while it lasts. the probability that this part of your life is fleeting would make it all the more special. great loves don't really need happy endings and eventually ending up together will just be the icing on the cake.

of course, do not waste your entire life waiting for something that will never come. yes, there are success stories like those several posts earlier but we all know they don't always happen. decide on how long you should wait and put an end to this if nothing happens so you can move on and meet other people maybe. if he really loved you, just think that you'll be the girl he will always regret losing and can't help but think about whenever he gets frustrated in his marriage or whatever it is he ends up doing.

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mr old man ... ur such an arrogant bastard ... and so rude ... haizzzzzzzzz .. bhutan its the first time .. waaaahhhhh thats the attitude of a people in bhutan???? is it?? or only u???? weeehhh heekkkkk

this song is for that guy nyahahaha

(( I LOVE THIS SONG SO MUCH

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I was not so happy being lonely

Living without you

So I prayed so hard for your love

In my heart I needed you

Then I looked up in the sky

And I'm thinking why oh why

These are all the many changes in my life

After all the caring and the laughter

No one else like you

I am not a preacher with a sermon

I'm so in love with you

'Cause to live without your love

Like the sun that shines above

Is the magic of the changes in my life

And I'll never forget your love

You and I

We were meant to be

Sweet as rain falling from the sky

You and I

These are all the many changes in my life

Listen to these words I want to give you

On our love so true

Don't forget I love you and I need you

I'll always be with you

So just look up in the sky

And you'll find out why oh why

These are all the many changes in my life

And I'll never forget your love

You and I

We were meant to be

Sweet as rain falling from the sky

You and I

These are all the many changes, these are all the many changes,

These are all the many changes in my life

And I'll never forget your love

You and I

We were meant to be

Sweet as rain falling from the sky

You and I

These are all the may changes

These are all the many changes

These are all the many changes in my life

And I'll never forget your love

You and I,

We were meant to be

Sweet as rain

Falling from the sky

You and I

These are all the many changes, these are all the many changes,

These are all the many changes in my life (3x)

CAN U SING FOR ME PLEASEEEE HEHEHEEH WAHAHAAHHAHAHAHA LOL

confirmed! the way you write your english, means a lot...

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such a nonsense ha .. so no need to comment ok :) peace out man

wow ... if i wer in her position wallah i will fight for u .. fipilipo parents they are not get angry to much unlike arab ... wen they get angry it will not take time ... its easy for them to forgive..... and they want wer der daughter can be happy they will support it ... our parents are understandable .. :) .... thats y see my bf at first they dont like him .. but he not stop and he showed to them that he is good person .. now my family like him ... only hard is the arab parents .. its really hard to convinced them

shera, u'r a christian? then now, i bet you've converted....

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wallah u make me laugh weehehehehehehhehe ... no no no i dont want hehehehehe ....

WTF! You are right, you are such a stupid girl red_evil, if your mind is working, you should think first before posting such a non-sense.

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its not that so easy ok ...

hey..!! ive gone thru this prob recently n still in it.

in my story im a muslim guy n shes christian.

our story is juzz opposite of urs...she doesnt want to keep this relation any more becoz her mother doesnt want it to happen.

for the last time i asked her.

do u want this relationship??

her answer:- i dont know.

do u love me?

her answer:- no now i dont feel like before.

becoz she sacrificed my love for her mother.

so i wud say...b brave n dont run after him u wont get anythin except insult n humiliation. everytime u ask him to come back he wont come n u'll feel urself very small...u know it is really terrible time..try to keep urself busy n set him free.

if u need more moral help thn PM me. mayb i can make u feel better by tht mistake which i made to love a different cast girl.

take care.....

Jap Katjai Nak toh Phir Danth ki kya aukat.....

chain kulii ki main kulii......

when it's wrong the only thing you can do is to make it right.don't make your life complicated.

you can never be both happy when he has to turn his back against his family. a good family man never leaves his family.

the measurement of a good husband is if he has become a good son. if he can turn his back to his mother then he can as well turn his back to you after some time.

your love will not be enough to keep him away from them. why suffer?

And if he bids goodbye to you, go to his home to give his father a final big heart attack....hehehe

Everything's gonna be alright!!!

thanks :)

red evel.. it doesn't mean anything. From my own, and my friends' experience: the bottom line is if he had strong intention to marry you, he WOULD.

I know one couple where he is lebanese and she is italian..9 years (NINE!) he was with this girl, "trying" to find the "right time" to convince his mom to agree to their marriage. During this time his mom tried to get him other lebanese girls.. once even he broke up with the italian, went to lebanon and got engaged his mom friend's daughter, but then he broke up with her, got back to the italian..but he never took her to Lebanon, when he was going there for vacation or some family events.. she used to come to his Mom's house but just as a friend.. shortly.. 9 years he was dragging her here and there, in and out.. eventually, he got married lebanese one.. and she is 33 now..was hoping 9 years and eventually alone with the literally broken heart..imagine!

.. and hey, excuse me, it was in CANADA, not in QATAR!..

At the same time i know many mixed couples in toronto..just a lot...

so what i am saying is: it's NOT impossible.. it's just, if he WANTED he WOULD!

but if for over a year he cannot make decision, what can guarantee that he will do it in another year, and another year, and another year..

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

yes ... haizzzzz some good advices really come inside my mind .. ahmmm thanks a lot

haizzzzzzzzzzzzz yes ryt .. better to u to keep quiet hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

how i wish his Palestinian family have a soft heart like our family .. than wen dey get angry it will not take time .. but some arab like them they can forget der son or even think that der son is died already ... wen they not fallow them

"whatever our advices here,you are the one who knews him not us...its still your decision to follow...we are just enlightening your mind,hoping it will helps...as of now,know him more and everyday you will find many things about him same as him to you...marrying to other nationalities have many things to consider and think and adjust,,,so enjoy as of this time of having in love...one day one of our advices will hit your mind...

And this was told to you by his mother right? Oh wait, probably not. It was told to you by him . But, why oh why would he lie about such a thing?

Meh, no more comments from me on this thread.

i am a christian and my husband is a muslim but he insist on marrying me..yes at first they we're quite angry but later on they understand and they just love my husband so much that they don't want him to feel sad..now we have a baby and everything just fall into place..i think im just so lucky my inlaws are very nice to me..

if a man loves you enough he will cross the pacific ocean just to have you..

his mom ask him a lot of times i will find u a girl .. but he just answered no i dont want ... :)

you ask, if he doesn't love you, why he still holds you and why he doesn't leave you...

simple. he WILL leave you one day, as soon as his mom will find for him his future wife.. till then, WHAT does he loose having you? NOTHING... he is having a good time with loving nice girl.. why he would leave you NOW?. but when time comes, he will marry other girl, not you.

leave him..

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

Find another right person.

a kind of clever person.

thats what i want to say also, he will do that when he will feel that u can stand by ur own or when he will get someone else, as another guys are doing. its not only guys there are girls also doing these thing. i had experienced with these things... thats y i dont trust any girls now.... but i know boys also they do these things as well.... GOD is great and may GOD protect us always from these issues bcos some time it make life so complicated and giving hard time to give up..........

Meh, meeting your parents does not mean he is serious. If both your parents met each other, then I would consider it serious. Anyway, if you don't want to take the advice, time will tell.

how i wish he did it ...... in just one month 3 months?? that wer together ... and if he just playing he will not meet my family .. waaaaaaaaaaaaaahh , or confront my family even also my family dont like arab :O but still .. :)

thanks a lot :) thanks for understanding me :) and giving me such a very nice advice thank u so much really :) smileeeeeeeeeeeee :) ^_________^

From his point of view, he is getting what he needs from her. When and if she ever decides to stand up to him, he will dump her in an instant.

21??? weherehehehehe

i am just suggesting u, i am not asking u to give up. i have friends and i see them doing these things thats y i am only advicing u so u can keep urself save from these issues. u r woman and woman are acting as wife, sister and mother also... so with these parts i am respecting u and advicing u to have serious talk to him and if he can not marry u then better give ur time to GOD and one day u will find right person for u and he will hold u forever and ever.... just keep this advice with u and can treat me as ur brother or friend or good wisher for u or all the ladies........

No I was talking to red evil. She said her friends sister married a Palestinian and that it took 3 years for the family to accept her, but my guess is that he introduced her to them long before the end of that 3 years (if they weren't already married).

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

may i know your real age?and how long your relatinoship now with your so called LOve one...bcos it really matters,based on your way of answering here some of it shows immaturity...sorry to say...anyway its your choice which ideas or advices from QL members you will take and you think will help...just small words,,,when a man really do love his woman,against all odds he will do everything just to be with her for life...

to his sister brother and even to his brother in law and also to his uncle .. but to his mom and dad not yet .. wer not yet ready and wer waiting for the ryt time (((( and he is not qatari .. he is pal.

U talking to me? - yep in the living room chomping cake - stuffing her face with chocs with bf's family.

yah ryt .. haizzzzzz... wen i will give up .. dont know ... dont wori i will really think about all the advice i have read thanks

Did he actually introduce her to the family? I'm thinking probably, and that he stood up for their relationship. You're guys not willing to do that, instead he's making excuses so he can keep getting his milk for free as they say.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

one year is nothing, i know one person they were togather for 5 years but nothing happened and then in the end they need to say good bye. u need to understand and he need to understand. if he can not marry u he should set u free and go to his family... he can not hold u for his satisfaction. i dont know about ur age but its better to constrate with ur work and ur life... dont waste time for someone that can not marry u.... i am with olive and oryx also, y always u girls putting these questions?????????????? its better to go to church and meet some nice peoples and give ur time to god so u will realize about ur life...........

They wrote a book for people like you its called,

'He is just not that in to you'

Its good it saves you a lot of time and energy and heartbreak if you can realise - ahh they just don't feel the same way.

coz it happen all the time to a filipina ... i didnt lost hope :) y ??? my friend sister marry a palestinian .. the family of the guy also dont like her .. but after 3 years they accept her :( is it so hard to try and to give hope????

feel free to get angry.... But there just seems to be a LOT of drama around Filipinas.

Maybe they don't think before they act and get in a pickle. Then they don't reflect on their mistakes and then get in the same pickle again.

Maybe drama is cool in their culture to have loads of drama.

Maybe they read loads of trashy romance books and use this as a role model

Maybe its the Catholic religion breeding martyrdom and suffering.

No idea...

It's always the Filipina's who ask these questions because they are the majority when it comes to young single women in Doha.

This thread has made my appetite bigger.. I'm off to lunch, talk to you folks in a bit ;-)

You didn't read it properly

The point is - the girl didn't allow any relationship to happen until she met the family. She met them two weeks after meeting him.

You allowed this to happen and you won't wake up to the fact that you are a play thing and nothing more because that is how you behaved.

Yeh.. lol I never thought of that angle :-P

Good point Oryx, why is it always the Filipina's who ask these questions?

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

the qatari boy, english girl story - that is the way! Kudos to the girl and guy... now only if our friend here had some sense or her bf grew some balls... lol!

first of all i am not qatari boy, second thing i am taking her side. if that person really love her he will talk to his family and he will get marry her. i am in qatar for 30 years but i am not qatari. i have seen these things in my life so thats why i am suggesting her to look for her future. even i have some friends they promise to their girl friends and then bye bye. she need to understand for what she came to doha..... this is the time that she can run her life bcos later on she will put on her profile single mom or it`s complicated.... think again girl.

Take a look in a mirror and ask yourself, I knew he was muslim when we met and he could never marry me, but i still convinced myself that he was different, Why? Here's your delima..... I saw the fire burning But I touched it any way just to see if it would burn me. Well, now that your Burned, what are you going to do, keep holding on to the fire, or let it go and heal your wounds, with a lesson learned.

Of course there is forbidden love - incest

but point taken I think this girl has been reading very cheap romances and is a sponge for sucking up all this claptrap

YES ITS TRUE AND IM ONE OF THEM HAIZZZZZZZZZZZ

BUT ABOUT US WER JUST MORE THAN ONE YEAR :(

Put it another way YOU are his play thing because YOU allowed it!

I don't think love made you stupid it may have been congenital

I fell in love and out of love a lot more times than you can imagine and that is why i say what i say... it's more like been there, done that... and I'm talking from a guy's perspective, if you know what i mean... and BTW there is nothing such as "forbidden" love.

hahahahha .... the love make me stupid wat can i do?? wahahahahha my eyes get blind coz of that love .. did u fall in love ??? did u fall in love and its forbidden???? have u feel it before??? yes . ((( TO ALL )) thanks for the advices and really it goes directly to my mind and trying to think about it :) YES IM SO STUPID AND ((( I ADMIT IT))))

I've heard Love makes people blind, but clearly it makes people stupid also.

You wanna spend your money to advertise for her... lmao!!!

Sorry but WHY is it always the Filipinas that write these posts????

Wake up and listen. HE IS PLAYING WITH YOU!...Sweet talking Qatari boy - and some of them are the world's number one charmers.

True Scenario: Qatari Boy meets English Girl.... they really like each other but she refuses to be more than friends until she meets the family. Couple of days later she is in the majlis and meeting the family. Obviously she isn't the family's number one choice but boy just told them that is how it would be. Oh and BTW over 6 years later they are still together.

Guess you have a lot of growing up to do than red evil.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

everyone is giving u advice but u r keep on replying same answer that he love u, i think u r stupid,,, if he love u and u love him but u both can not get married so keep urself on hold and wait but dont waste time for peoples here on QL. may be u just want to advertise urself like celebrities are doing. if u want give me details for both of u i will put in the newspaper or on the advertising board... thats what i can do on my own cost..... think properly and then come back... u r here to prepare ur future not to destroy ur future.... better u wokeup before it will be late.............

And because you have a young mind, listen to what the "wise" old people here tell you and quit sticking to your guns... GROW UP!

If he loves you like you say, then why is he putting you through so much pain. Why are you tormenting yourself with false hope. Its obvious that this relationship will never have the blessing of his family and you will always be a mistress. You are not the love of his life. Thats not judgement, Thats a fact.

yah .... but i still or we still hoping .. haizzzzzz ... i will wait wen a hammer can hit me to make my mind open nyahahahha

She's either born stupid or just acts stupid... either way, she IS stupid ;-)

to help me ... or give me some of ur sh** words ... if u dont want it u can ignore it .. im sorry im not old like u .. i just a young girl who have also a young mind :) peace out man nyahahahahha

Invite us "as and when" you decide on a wedding date... GOOD LUCK!

There's no such thing as a "right time" to get married and anybody who uses the excuse "It's not the right time" is just saying that he has no intention of marrying you.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

u can ignore it ok ...

Our advice is to ditch him. Take that advice or leave it.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

we want it specially him ... but maybe this is not yet the ryt time .. haizzzzzzzz so much hard to decide and scared to face that after all it will just goes to nothing

lol olive, I was about to say the same thing. Looks like she came looking for sympathy and someone who agrees with her.

If you're happy with him, why the f*#$ you posting on here for and wasting peoples time and effort into drilling some sense into you bird-brain?

but i dont need someone who will just judge us .. and judge about our feelings

falling in love for a wrong person is crazy....

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so it is your choice to stay and be crazy

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or leave.......and be 'not-crazy'

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Bottom line-try not to worry so much and buy what u LvOE.

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if he really love u he will get married with u. that is love. if he can not marry u and making excuse that his father is sick or u r christian and he is muslim. islam even did not said that muslim man can not marry with christian woman. i feel he is not honest with u. love is everything. if he really love u he will not think of anything. he will marry u and then he will face everything. i was in love with one girl and she was christian and i had faced everything even my parents for her. but she ????????????????. just forget it but for me love is everything. he should get marry with u and explain to his family that they both are important in his life.....

but im happy being love by him.... love can make the possible impossible and impossible to possible :)

Did you come on here looking for advice or just to find someone who's going to tell you you're doing the right thing?

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

yah ryt ... wer waiting for the ryt time .. :)

its the love great :) lmao

He's Human, you're just plain stupid!

inshallah hehehe .... haizzzzzzzzzzzzzz ..... yah ryt .... but wer just from diff. place ... and wer both human hehehe

Nothing new, it's a regular excuse used by the guys to string around naive girls like you. Probably his parent's have no clue you even exist.

D Bo Ice...lol

red_evil....Looks like a troll or else how can someone be so stupid...:)

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One life to live, live it to the fullest.

WTF is "haizzzzzz"???

i hope you get enlightened.

the way i see it, the only way for you to have a happy ending is IF (emphasis on the if) he grows a backbone and choose you over his family... if you're willing to wait for that time to come, suit yourself...

If you don't see a future, wtf are you holding on for? is the sex great?

he is not ... even his family dont like our relation he still holding me .. and he dont want to go :)

You say he loves you??? And at a time like this he's too much of a chicken to stand up for what he loves? Get real woman, he's playing you for a fool and you're blinded by it... did you fall out the stupid tree and hit your head all the way down?

I really wish you all the best, But this is why birds and fish don't breed with each other, two different worlds.

but he is not like u.. brave enough and independent but him no .. his family or his mom and dad need him so much .. and he scared to hurt him yes how many times we try to meet his mom .. but his mom dont want and how many times he tell to his mom . he want to marry me but they just answer if u will marry that girl go out in this house and dont come back anymore . he cant leave his family .. specially now... u know arab .. its hard for dem to disobey der famly

If your convinced this is no game, Then show up at his home and confront the family. Fight for what you "think" you have. There is no harm in hearing their side, That is, if he's not lying to you. If I was that serious in love, I would confront the family. Really, what do you have to lose at this point. It's your life, your choice.

The guy took you for a ride. Now making excuses to get away from you. WAKE UPPPPP

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for a girl to go in the guy home specially for a muslim like him??? waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah .. dont want his dad get sick again .. and will be the reason is MEH :( huhuhuhu :(

wahahaha ... he is not playing .. he is not like u hehehe .. he just scared and also coz his father is sick ... as of now we cant do anything but to understand and love each other ... wahahahaha .. not all guys is same sh** like u

i didn't mean to say bad words :( sorry :)

What bull. Wake up and smell the roses. IF he isn't willing to introduce you to his family he doesn't love you.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

red_evil...have you been to your BF's home.

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One life to live, live it to the fullest.

if he's the wrong guy then maybe it's a wrong love to begin with..

What else can you say about a MAN?, that will not fight for his love. There is no love, only game for him. I'm sure he's playing you and the family knows nothing about you. It has happened a million times and it just keeps on happening. Wake up and smell the coffee.

many lover's, many proposal... Its being some kind of Dating site Day by Day!!!

...Life would become Dull if there were no such Difficulties...

"The best way to predict the future is to create it".

wat if ur heart beat in a wrong person????

dont wori its the same ... nyahahahahha which place u reach .. hehehehe

IMO, if a guy doesn't want me, then i don't want him either..

If he isn't willing to go against his family and fight for your "love" than there is no love to fight for.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me

out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco

i will then love a right person.....:)

Shouldn't a Filipina know that it's Filipina and not pilipina :-/

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