My GF

shamshersinghrajput
By shamshersinghrajput

My GF is blackmailing and threatening me to marry her.I cant do it as we are from different country and I always saw her as a friend not life partner.I have no clue why she is behaving so crazily and in fact I am so scared of her now.She terrorises me by calling up in my office and asking to speak to my Director.What can I do?She appears at my friends door at odd times or calls everyone when I avoid her...I cant bear it any more...

By anonymous• 28 Oct 2010 03:09
anonymous

or fcuk with her head. Tell her that you will marry her but a day after show up to her house waisted with 2 skanks ( part of an act or real ones if you are as Gigolo as you make yourself sound ) and i guarantee she will give you the finger herself.

note: if that self marketing plan does not work on QL, you might try the "oh my god, my c*ck size is too big and creating me problems to date chicks" trick..

duchess everywhere!

By anonymous• 28 Oct 2010 00:03
anonymous

hahahahahaha Rajput what is this man... Ok I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you are telling the truth.. man up and tell her to fcuk off....

By t_coffee_or_me• 27 Oct 2010 20:07
t_coffee_or_me

TROLL ALERT

By Xena• 27 Oct 2010 19:43
Xena

or 20/20... remember those users... isn't the English similar?

By Gabbar Singh• 27 Oct 2010 18:34
Gabbar Singh

My league is Ivy League.

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 18:24
snessy

Gabbar...I am out of your league...

By Gabbar Singh• 27 Oct 2010 18:17
Gabbar Singh

Snessy, I am strong built, dark and tall. How are you?

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 18:12
snessy

I'm good Gabbar, how are you?

By pranzer• 27 Oct 2010 18:09
pranzer

I think this is the end...

Nice post "qwehwqj" you really rocks..... XD

By Gabbar Singh• 27 Oct 2010 18:05
Gabbar Singh

snessy, how are you doing today?

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 17:59
snessy

This hasn't been a waste of time Tinker, it's been very amusing :-)

By Gabbar Singh• 27 Oct 2010 17:48
Gabbar Singh

soniya, let's be friends. no more fights. ok?

By soniya• 27 Oct 2010 17:47
soniya

Gabbar, get lost..

I can understand that you are really SICK and your days are almost over and thus giving all odd comments..

By Gabbar Singh• 27 Oct 2010 17:42
Gabbar Singh

Rajput, soniya did this to me and I got over it.

By ruby29• 27 Oct 2010 17:06
ruby29

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned lol

By soniya• 27 Oct 2010 16:48
soniya

Most of the QLers have already advised you..So i would better talk something else now...:D

We know the attitudes of RAJPUT back to our home country..I am just wondering why are you acting like a coward then? :))

By Gabbar Singh• 27 Oct 2010 16:46
Gabbar Singh

Only one man can help you takhur. guess who?

By ShabzA• 27 Oct 2010 16:46
ShabzA

in his dreams he most probably did

By LongTimeResident• 27 Oct 2010 16:38
LongTimeResident

I feel you are lier.. you just needed to create a story here.. Since there is nothing true in your story..

However, if you still insist that you are true and genuine and you need help, just pm me and talk to me. I am assuring you that she will not call you and do anything to trouble you... she will just forget your name .. and it will happen in one day.

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 16:30
anonymous

the girl is................imaginary GIRL friend..nyahahahaha

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 16:30
anonymous

Why r afraid?if u haven't done anything wrong? U should have had talk to her the 1st time she bcame possessive and told her what's d real score between u.When she started doing things that she's not supposed to do as your FRIEND then u should have stopped her. She doesn't have the right to do that unless you are doing things beyond what a friend should also. I'm pretty sure you like her also,coz u r taking her to movies,dine outside,and hang out with her but u r not willing to commit. The main mistake u committed is that u never clarified things to her.& why u r so afraid she'll tell your boss?is she your boss'wife? Be man enough to fix this out on your own..we r just here to give u opinions.

if i were in your shoes i won't ever let any girl do that to me especially if she's just a friend..you let her invade your life,she'll never have the guts to invade if you didn't let her in the first place..

Be a man,be frank,be serious,be firm, be honest to what you really feel for her,be brave enough to broke your silence even if it means it would hurt her, & have the courage to do something to set yourself free..

If she really love u,she can't do anything that would totally ruin u,.she's just there trying to frighten u because maybe that's her only choice to have u. but still the decision is yours.

Don't be crippled.It's a matter of lifetime commitment. You r not adopting a wife here and return her in her family when u don't want her anymore..

SPEAK OUT MAN.

BE A MAN FOR YOURSELF..

(HTH.goodluck to u)

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:30
hms

he might have slept as sisterly way, LOL

By Oryx• 27 Oct 2010 16:29
Oryx

Did you sleep with her?

Yes or No?

By azilana7037• 27 Oct 2010 16:28
azilana7037

Girlfriend is a ladyfriend...ok.

What do you call your lady sweetheart then?

This story is screwed...lol

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:27
hms

at this thread hit second page too, wasting of time.

By ShabzA• 27 Oct 2010 16:25
ShabzA

maybe he licks the wrong side of the stamp snessy

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:25
shamshersinghrajput

I know I cannt write english...so u are making fun of me...I am ITI pass and not Big engineer...like QP or other.A small electrical engineer...Ok sorry if you think like that...I will never come to QL again.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:25
hms

osama we are wasting our time, here, it is all cooked up story,

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 16:24
anonymous

there is more deeper reason behind it, might he got the girl pregnant for just having a fun affair..and now the girl is hunting him..oh poor little fella...hide ur face in the skirt..:P

By osamabawab• 27 Oct 2010 16:23
osamabawab

initially i thought that it is a real story but after all this replys i think that we have wasted our times.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:23
hms

shamsher singh, now go and enjoy the rainy evening in Doha,

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 16:22
snessy

Well, if you think all women are like sisters or mothers, you are gonna have a pretty rubbish sex life.

By Sweetbabe544• 27 Oct 2010 16:22
Rating: 2/5
Sweetbabe544

I stay here in Qatar more then 5 year until now nobody stop me in Any Mall Or Beaches, What the Hell you are talking about. There is Some Special Occasion On that day you cannot Go because its family day otherwise you are Most welcome to Everyplace in qatar.

The Reason Behind it Is Some thing different Not the One you are Saying.

Be Frank with Us here If you are Trying to ask for Solution then you have to tell the Truth Otherwise you will suffer at the End.

“Trouble brings experience, and experience brings wisdom.”

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:21
shamshersinghrajput

I have stayed and liked my job but little help from a girl and she not leaving me.I am not feeling good.Every 1 tell me u post in QL for good advise but I get no help.I am sorry if any one think I am just wasting time.I am sorry for wasting yuo time.

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 16:20
mjamille28

well tinks, what's new.. :P

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 16:18
mjamille28

tinks, something amiss? the boys! :P

By ShabzA• 27 Oct 2010 16:17
ShabzA

with tinky and snessy

By osamabawab• 27 Oct 2010 16:17
osamabawab

i agree with hms

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:17
shamshersinghrajput

I have nver seen any bad feel for any woman.All like my mother and sister.But maybe I m wrong for this place.I will go back.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:16
hms

the OP is just enjoying and making fun with all our comments, he just wanted to pass his time with this, no boys can behave like this,

By ShabzA• 27 Oct 2010 16:14
ShabzA

sure this is not an escort which you have payed for and things have gone wrong?

hence the blackmailing hmmmm?

I still think you are lying

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 16:13
snessy

Ha ha! I didn't believe a single word, that's why I'm taking the piss. I'm not this heartless if someone is really suffering.

In fact, the OP shouldn't make a joke of domestic violence, because it does happen to both men and women and it most certainly isn't a laughing matter :-(

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:13
hms

he is from India and she is from Phillipines, i guess,

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:13
shamshersinghrajput

beaches and malls because only families and no boys allowed.I go to souk and cornice alone and police say go go only family here.She help me and now holding in my neck.

By abdelhakim• 27 Oct 2010 16:12
abdelhakim

Where're u from?, and where's she from?

By Sweetbabe544• 27 Oct 2010 16:11
Rating: 2/5
Sweetbabe544

no need To go Men Its not Good to Leave the Country from a lady. Its not good For men Try to Solve Out Where is She From you are Not Mentioning her Nationality.

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:11
shamshersinghrajput

I go with boys to malls becauce no body letting us in MAlls without girls..She only go with us like a family in front of thr guards.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:11
hms

he went to beaches and also movies.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:10
hms

go back, as u are not fit to face the situation, u are fit to stay in your village with that kind of courage, when u are so scared why the hell u went with her ??

By osamabawab• 27 Oct 2010 16:09
osamabawab

you love the girl and you don't want to marry her

you want to enjoy only

being from different country is not an excuse.

you can't enjoy only without holding responsibility of what u r doing

girls are not a toy which we can play with and then throw away

and if you have not messed up with the girl (u know what i mean) but you don't want to marry her for some other reason then there is nothing to worry about so don't quit your job & don't run away just face the situation with more responsibility and things will be fine.

This is your life in the end

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:09
shamshersinghrajput

I will try Tinker but she is like angry always.From the shop she make calls to iffice.I m so terrifed.O I think I go back too india from her.She ruin my life.I am innocent but noone lesten to boy.I go back.

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 16:06
mjamille28

only your boys are good for you??? does that mean you're bent?

By pranzer• 27 Oct 2010 16:06
pranzer

She's really into you... discard your sim card and look for another accommodation if she follows report for harassment...btw you can use text message as your evidence for harassment.. don't know if it works in here...

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 16:06
hms

he doesnt enjoy girls company, then why he went for cinema, beaches and all, something fishy, isnt it.

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 16:05
shamshersinghrajput

No only my boys are good for me.Girls for respect in my village.I want to hide for her beatings on me.How I take her to my village

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 16:03
mjamille28

lol sness.. :P

By ShabzA• 27 Oct 2010 16:03
ShabzA

you must be a pu$$y

I dont believe your story freshie bull chit

minger=ugly

By Mr M.• 27 Oct 2010 16:02
Mr M.

Sneesy did that comment surprise you? :)

By Mr M.• 27 Oct 2010 16:01
Mr M.

You need to solve all your problems like a real man.

By bubblymom• 27 Oct 2010 16:01
bubblymom

snessy, let's get out of here! :))

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 16:00
snessy

LOL, you "don't like enjoyment wit girls"?

By bubblymom• 27 Oct 2010 15:58
bubblymom

lol on "are she is"... sorry, can't help it! :p

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 15:55
shamshersinghrajput

No no I dont like enjoyment wit girls...I am from a poor family and work is 1st thing for my parents and me...She know me only from 1 friend of me and we go to mall and beach because otherwise No enrty in malls and get out bachelors.I help her thinking she helpn me to go in mall.

By Sweetbabe544• 27 Oct 2010 15:55
Sweetbabe544

Are she is Philipina???? Or Other Nationality???

She belong to Which Country.

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 15:53
snessy

LOL Baldrick, I hope you managed to move your coffee out of the way in time.

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 15:52
anonymous

no problems aren't solved, running away is not a solution either.. face it and talk to her politely and peacefully, explain ur concern why its not possible to marry her.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:50
hms

behave like a rajput

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 15:50
mjamille28

bubbly, the guru is so fickle minded most times.. so he's cancelling all his appointments for today and so all the patients will have to come back tomorrow.. :P

By drmana• 27 Oct 2010 15:50
drmana

If you haven't done anything hanky panky with her...why are you scared? Go and report her for harassing you.

If you are just trying to get rid of her now after you got what you want, then well you deserve it.

By Sweetbabe544• 27 Oct 2010 15:50
Sweetbabe544

Its Because You Done Something wrong & now she is going to become the Mother of your Child,be ready men. GOOD Luck & Congratulation.

By Hawk10• 27 Oct 2010 15:49
Hawk10

I think you have done a wrong choice for enjoying your time here. Or you might have promise her for life partner. Most of the people do all these things here but they dont look for a long relations.

At your situation, if she is not pregnant, don't worry nothing will happen. Just tell her, you don't like her anymore and not interested. No need to be afraid, if you are afraid, she will push you more harder.

By bubblymom• 27 Oct 2010 15:49
bubblymom

isn't the guru following my recommendation about his costume?? silly guru! he'll definitely look good on that! :p

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:49
hms

the way in which u are behaving, u have done something to her, otherwise she would have not so strong.

By gudone• 27 Oct 2010 15:48
gudone

Grow up ... b brave... just say GET LOST..

if u r rite and hasnt done any wrong thn only u an say ths..

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:47
hms

live like a lion and not like mice, face the problem and tell her clearly your stand

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 15:46
shamshersinghrajput

her face is good but not my country...I dont know minger

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 15:46
mjamille28

ssssshhh bubbly, the guru is busy looking around shops for a costume.. :P

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:46
hms

behave like a man, she is slapping u ?? how u are tolerating so far ?? and now u are complaining

By baldrick2dogs• 27 Oct 2010 15:45
baldrick2dogs

Snessy! I just snorted a bogie out my nose when I read that!

By bubblymom• 27 Oct 2010 15:45
bubblymom

the love guru is indeed needed here!

WK? WK? WK? show up man! :p

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 15:45
shamshersinghrajput

No no I dod not do any bad thing to her.But very oppresive...like slap me in front of my friend if I m late in coming...

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:45
hms

what do mean ?? her face is so scary ?? or what then how did u manage to go to movie, cofee shop and so on...

By moonblues67• 27 Oct 2010 15:44
moonblues67

Rajput scared.

Introduce her to Rizks & Pherget.

By mjamille28• 27 Oct 2010 15:44
mjamille28

catching your neck? :/

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 15:43
snessy

Why? Is she a minger?

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 15:43
shamshersinghrajput

But my all friends have girl friends but she is catching my neck and calls me every 10 mins to check me...2-3 oclock night also call me to marry...but my parents will die shock to see her face.

By snessy• 27 Oct 2010 15:42
snessy

You really need to man up, if you've done nothing wrong, you've got nothing to be scared of! Why would she want to marry such a wuss anyway?

By drmana• 27 Oct 2010 15:41
drmana

Looks like the male version of the story of one of the many sob/love threads posted here in QL.

By riaz_ak• 27 Oct 2010 15:41
riaz_ak

its ur life T20 match.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:40
hms

if u are not wrong then no need to worry, always face the problem as a rajput, dont run away if u are not at fault.

By bubblymom• 27 Oct 2010 15:40
bubblymom

is she pregnant? and your the father?

By baldrick2dogs• 27 Oct 2010 15:40
baldrick2dogs

... and this is posted in "sightseeing and tourist attractions" because ... ?

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 15:39
shamshersinghrajput

Female friend so I calling her GF and blackmailing me like I will make stories and tell ur boss and parents...We go to movies together,meals in resturant and so now you marry me and keep me in with you.

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:38
hms

how u have decided that, the girl is at fault ?? on what basis ??

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 15:38
anonymous

friend of sakti kapoor did u preggy her ?

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 15:38
anonymous

Next that b!tch

By britexpat• 27 Oct 2010 15:37
britexpat

Develop a backbone and tell her that you're sorry , but it's over.

If she harrasses you, then the option is to report her - but that could lead to more trouble :O(

By drmana• 27 Oct 2010 15:36
drmana

If she is just your friend, why are you calling her your GF? And if you have done nothing wrong, blackmailing with what?

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:35
hms

leave the job, but why are getting scared ?? if u are not at wrong end why ??

By wyldchyld• 27 Oct 2010 15:35
wyldchyld

my, my, my, this is one problem only YOU and YOU alone can resolve.

By shamshersinghrajput• 27 Oct 2010 15:33
shamshersinghrajput

My job is contractual...can I leave it?

By kanmano• 27 Oct 2010 15:32
kanmano

Ok. Is this for our info??

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2010 15:31
anonymous

HA HA! Douche!

By hms• 27 Oct 2010 15:30
hms

is your personal problem and you should sort this out, so what we can do ??

By britexpat• 27 Oct 2010 15:30
britexpat

Did you engage in Carnal acts ?

If so, then you were looking for more than friendship..

Anyway, just tell her it's over...

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