Mcknight,

You will not see much military and unless you are stationed at the base, you will not be on it. There is nothing scary about Doha except it is not USA, but it is a very normal life.

You need to search this forum for past scared people, been lots of posts on coming to Qatar and the answer never changes, come on in, the water is fine.

Also look at
http://www.expatmum.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=16

Do a search on moving and see the answers.

The only thing we have missed in a year is our family and friends form the states, but that would be no different than if we moved from one coast to the other in USA.