I am glad that you know my thoughts and you think my thoughts are from outer space, the fact that most men won't sex is not the issue. The fact is I don't want my sister to get hurt dating some man that will give her a bunch of lies and to scared to take her to mama. I been down this road before in America with a Turk who loved me but could not take me home to his family because they wanted a nice sweet Turkish girl for him. So we both married other people and each time he emails me he wants God and humanity to forgive him for falling in love with me. This is something I don't want anyone to go through so I told Sunny, leave the Qatari men along and let them marry their Qatari woman and live a great Qatari life. But Sunny does not always listen. I trying to save her from a broken heart and advise her to date American.