I'm not saying that you shouldn't have a fling if you want to DG, but what fish is saying is true men wouldn't dare behave this way with women back home, they have a double standard- they don't have as much regard for women in Doha as the ones back in their home countries, that is my impression anyway. This is of course entirely off the mark, in fact we are better than their girls back home, we have a sense of adventure for coming here in the first place!