a man should be faithfull no matter what... even if the wife went to her home country for a vacation that is not a reason to cheat and it doesnt matter with what nationality Cheating is cheating and humiliating, i mean how can u look at ur womans eyes when she comes back?? and besides marriage is not only love ITS CARING SHARING RESPECT LOVE, AND TRUST. ( i dont know if i forgot to mention something .. but for now these are the things on my mind ).