Sat in a bar a couple of weeks ago, getting relatively late into the evening and I am chatting to a female friend of mine. Some middle aged American comes over and introduces himself, so I figure he wants to chat up the girl i'm with. Instead he ignores her and talks to me for five or ten minutes and leaves. Then a few minutes later he comes back and asks me to dance. I'm thinking to myself ... you what? I politely declined and watched my back every time I went to the toilet after that.

Makes you feel uneasy. I couldnt believe it. Been here a long time and nothing like that has happened before.