You sounded like a wife alright and also the types who wanna wear the pants in the family... my wife is kewl she don't nag me, but the occassional whimpering is always on the charts... touching on the beer topic read this...

A husband comes home from work sits himself in front of the TV and shouts out to his wife, "Honey can you get me a beer before it starts?"
His wife who is cooking in the kitchen gets him one and go back in to continue her cooking.
After a while the husband call again, "Honey can you get me another beer before it starts?"
The wife, who is now kinda annoyed hands him another beer, but not before giving him a dirty stare.
Sometime later again, "Honey can you get me another beer quick, it's about to start?"
His wife who is now fuming, comes out of the kitchen and yells, "you b#%$*#d, I clean all day, do the laundry for you, ensure the kids go to school, cook meals and you strut rite in, sit your lazy ass in front of the TV and demand beers?"
To that the husband replies... "There, it started!!!".