I couldnt put it in any better way. thats what goes thru my mind, whenever Im in a simliar situation, mine would be superficial may be, like going to a traffic dept. or any other public servie office and sometimes getting not so nice teatment, i always say to myself, the guy is stuck at that office all day long, probably miserable at his job, cant get a chance for a promotion, but then again...you cant always convince yourself this way, no one has to go thru any sort of miss treatment because of somebody else's misfortune. God gave them brains so they use it and better they lives. thats not an excuse to mis treat people. I might go into a cafe, wearing baggy shorts and an old T shirt, and not give the best impression to the cafe manager, but I can sure Damn buy the whole place by my own money. the point is, be tolerant to each other, you never know who's who, who knows who....