But there are people wh believe in that. and that's the main point! Both sides 'believers' (i hate this word and the thought of separation) and others need to accept other opinions. What I meant earlier was, that its everyones choice, but I don't want to be the reason why somebody is hindered in adapting religion for him/herself foregoing the descision because the person didn't have the chance to think about and decide properly, because i scared him!