I feel you gypsy. I dont think is fair for western men patronizing western woman and start comparing every details with asian woman. We come from two different culture, history, country and value of living. Thus all bring up to different attitude, behavier and personality. Its all about personal taste I think. Nothing more.

But life is never fair. I will get up set if people start expect me to become more more western woman. It just not me.

Some people have own opinion then the other and thats they way it is. I will do my own thing as asian woman and you will do your own thing as western woman and in the end of the day, its all make life colourful and interesting place to life.

different people have different opinion, taste, needs. respect that.