hi Gia
han 19 is always so helpful....since i m from pakistan, so ud advise you that you must also see what are you getting from your job in pakistan. not a bad offer but you seemed quite stranded in your responsibilities so i believe you must account for that as well. I dont think you can call your neice....yes your mother can keep visiting you on visit visa...are you from islamabad if so you can contact me right now i m in pakistan....and ul love to get your queries done in a more detailed manner