You could be angry that I assumed you were something you're not?
Maaaaan, you really need to take a look at what you originally wrote.
You wrote:
"Here's what i'd like to do:
Have only me working (ie not my wife)"
No where did you explain that it was your wife's choice. I didn't assume. I simply took at face value what you said about it being you who'd like for you only to work and not your wife.
If I misunderstood that, then it's your fault for not explaining it clearly in the first place. If you won't want people to misunderstand then maybe you should express yourself more clearly.
You could be angry that I assumed you were something you're not?
Maaaaan, you really need to take a look at what you originally wrote.
You wrote:
"Here's what i'd like to do:
Have only me working (ie not my wife)"
No where did you explain that it was your wife's choice. I didn't assume. I simply took at face value what you said about it being you who'd like for you only to work and not your wife.
If I misunderstood that, then it's your fault for not explaining it clearly in the first place. If you won't want people to misunderstand then maybe you should express yourself more clearly.