part about having to have someone on your buddy list in order to PM someone. I had to PM someone the first day I was on to ask a question that I didn't want to put out on public display. That person was kind enough to help me out and there was no fighting going on because of it being out in the open forum. She had no idea who I was or if I was legit but was kind enough to answer me and give me the information I was requesting. So..that's kind of a catch 22 issue.