Redtulip, you seem to be complaining that the women here are taking your "friendly" messages the wrong way.
Redtulip said: "why all think that : if there is a friendship relation between a male and female it always eluded with some sort of desires.. can not u think it in a simple way. that its same friendship like you all have with you other friends. ??
You're blaming the women here, but can you not see at all that you should bear the responsibility for the way your message is interpreted?
It has been noted that you have sent PMs to several women.
In order to clarify any potential misunderstandings about your motivations, you have been asked a direct question about the number of men you have also sent your unsolicited messages to. The answer, apparently, is none.
So, you've sent messages to several women, and none whatsover to men.
If you are genuinely seeking friendship, then you would ask people generally, male and female. And also, if you were genuinely trying to meet friends, why didn't you start an open, public thread saying that you're interested in meeting friends.
Why sneak around contacting women in private if your intentions are honourable and decent? Protesting that your intentions have been misinterpreted is a bit feeble really, considering that you are contacting several women, in private, when the PM facility exists equally for you to contact men and make friends and expand your social circle, or alternatively you could make an open, public appeal for people to join you in social activities.
Redtulip, you seem to be complaining that the women here are taking your "friendly" messages the wrong way.
Redtulip said: "why all think that : if there is a friendship relation between a male and female it always eluded with some sort of desires.. can not u think it in a simple way. that its same friendship like you all have with you other friends. ??
You're blaming the women here, but can you not see at all that you should bear the responsibility for the way your message is interpreted?
It has been noted that you have sent PMs to several women.
In order to clarify any potential misunderstandings about your motivations, you have been asked a direct question about the number of men you have also sent your unsolicited messages to. The answer, apparently, is none.
So, you've sent messages to several women, and none whatsover to men.
If you are genuinely seeking friendship, then you would ask people generally, male and female. And also, if you were genuinely trying to meet friends, why didn't you start an open, public thread saying that you're interested in meeting friends.
Why sneak around contacting women in private if your intentions are honourable and decent? Protesting that your intentions have been misinterpreted is a bit feeble really, considering that you are contacting several women, in private, when the PM facility exists equally for you to contact men and make friends and expand your social circle, or alternatively you could make an open, public appeal for people to join you in social activities.