figure you know me better than that....mosts guys look deeper than the outside..or least I like to think they do..and yes, I noticed you look much deeper into a person than just the outer covering...you actually TALK...lol Just been on the receiving end of a lot of those that don't...ok, so WAY back in the Stone Age, I was...Sometimes it tough to get past that mindset when hit with it from all directions growing up. Again, though, that was America..and lots of men there are surface only, very shallow due to the influence of the media and advertisement. Stay like you are ram...you're a doll!