You are right of course and I don't know the answer why. I think men like to have to really work for their women in every sense of the word. What I mean is that if a woman is too compliant, too easy going, too docile the man will take her for granted and lose interest.

Speaking for myself, I like "difficult" women who are smarter than me (that part is easy to find), who have opinions and interests of their own, who are wilful and unpredictable and who choose to spend time with me because they want to, not because they need to or because they can't find anyone else.

Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary. Mahatma Gandhi