I think what Cornellian will say is,for new members on QL is better to post some messages in the forums here so we all have the chance to know them and after some time it is ok to ask for an add on the buddy list or for a friendship.But it is not ok to send those pms to most of the females here because it is not a dating site.
And believe me we have so many charming,nice and goodhearted female members here and they always try to help if you have a problem or if you want to have a joke.
Especially
Azilana
Apple
Owen
Cornellian
jauntie
gypsy
novita
orix
scarlett
thanks to you all for keeping QL alive.
:-D

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