Working visa turned into LOVE. Gosh!! don't we all want to breathe love for life...

Zero_cool, we are so sorry!!

Knox... I know and understand what you are talking about. Love makes you feel weaker and less secure because you feel your mood, life and feeling are dependent on someone else.

You feel less powerful because you are sharing with another.
You feel insecure waiting for the bad to happen. Whatever that might be.

So, you end up covering up your heart and molding it into steel, making sure you keep it intact to your self under your chest.

Is that it?